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By *xhibitA OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Dublin

what do you scrutinise first on a profile. I’ve found myself being more and more turned off by usernames lately.

For example, I looked at the profile pic (a male that seemed nice) they sent further pics that were ok. So far so good, but the username put me right off. I won’t out them but it wasn’t far off ‘the anal ripper’ - and that was it. I was out!

What do you scrutinise?

More interested to hear other women and couples views on this. What’s in a username? There are some god awful ones around the place

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By *estmeathKinkyCoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Westmeath

I never pay much attention to the username, but I won’t even look at a profile with a dick pic as a profile picture

First thing I check is height, cause I don’t want to be the elephant in the room 😅

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By *xhibitA OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Dublin


"I never pay much attention to the username, but I won’t even look at a profile with a dick pic as a profile picture

First thing I check is height, cause I don’t want to be the elephant in the room 😅

"

🤣🤣

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By *ealitybitesMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

Names don't bother me. It's more about attitude and nobody becomes a potential meet until we've chatted for quite a while and then met socially.

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By *iscuits8Man
2 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Sorry my default smartarse answer to this will always be...

diddies

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By *he KakapoMan
2 weeks ago

A nice rock


"Sorry my default smartarse answer to this will always be...

diddies "

Now I feel bad for this being my genuine answer

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By *eturning MGMan
2 weeks ago

mayo galway roscommon sligo....West Of Ireland

Obviously pictures will draw you in but personality will keep you chatting. A combination of both needed is needed before a meet is likely. Well a reply is needed first🤣🤣🤣

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By *rystalsswingCouple
2 weeks ago

Galway/ Midlands/The West

I have a profound dislike for dick pics! Don't mind them in person 😜

We don't really have to scrutinise anything because we don't do much fab related 😇

But when we do, we'll do it good 😁

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
2 weeks ago

The West

Be great to get the opportunity to assess a meet.

But ya, profile names and pictures can tell a tale but also give an idea of what people are into. Which is fine.

But those that are a bit crass can be a turn-off!

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By *oveat1stfeelMan
2 weeks ago

around here somewhere


"what do you scrutinise first on a profile. I’ve found myself being more and more turned off by usernames lately.

For example, I looked at the profile pic (a male that seemed nice) they sent further pics that were ok. So far so good, but the username put me right off. I won’t out them but it wasn’t far off ‘the anal ripper’ - and that was it. I was out!

What do you scrutinise?

More interested to hear other women and couples views on this. What’s in a username? There are some god awful ones around the place

"

Some are very very good , ones that a bit of thinking was put in, others not so much , basic tbh BUT a persons username would never decide anything for me , it's what they put on their updated status.. profiles, forums are the deciding factor for me.

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By *xhibitA OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Dublin


"Be great to get the opportunity to assess a meet.

But ya, profile names and pictures can tell a tale but also give an idea of what people are into. Which is fine.

But those that are a bit crass can be a turn-off!"

Glad I’m not the only one to think that!

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By *xhibitA OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Dublin


"what do you scrutinise first on a profile. I’ve found myself being more and more turned off by usernames lately.

For example, I looked at the profile pic (a male that seemed nice) they sent further pics that were ok. So far so good, but the username put me right off. I won’t out them but it wasn’t far off ‘the anal ripper’ - and that was it. I was out!

What do you scrutinise?

More interested to hear other women and couples views on this. What’s in a username? There are some god awful ones around the place

Some are very very good , ones that a bit of thinking was put in, others not so much , basic tbh BUT a persons username would never decide anything for me , it's what they put on their updated status.. profiles, forums are the deciding factor for me."

That’s fair. I’m more likely to ignore the likes of “daveybigdick” and “Ifancymysister” type profiles

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By *astelloWoman
2 weeks ago

Far far away

A few things are red markers for me.

User names

Lack of imagination in their profile

Dick pics

Messages with one liners or copy and paste ones.

Spelling mistakes

No verifications

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By *izzKathrynWoman
2 weeks ago

Drogheda

Profiles that say safe sex and every picture is unprotected sexual contact.

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By *ikedee1982Man
2 weeks ago

Im mobile

Relieved to not be the only one to be put off by stupid user names. Thankfully it’s mostly men (not on my radar) but I’d be put off if a woman degraded herself within her name!

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By *ikedee1982Man
2 weeks ago

Im mobile

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By *ikedee1982Man
2 weeks ago

Im mobile


"Profiles that say safe sex and every picture is unprotected sexual contact."

🤣

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By *he gentleman 1000Man
2 weeks ago

santry


"what do you scrutinise first on a profile. I’ve found myself being more and more turned off by usernames lately.

For example, I looked at the profile pic (a male that seemed nice) they sent further pics that were ok. So far so good, but the username put me right off. I won’t out them but it wasn’t far off ‘the anal ripper’ - and that was it. I was out!

What do you scrutinise?

More interested to hear other women and couples views on this. What’s in a username? There are some god awful ones around the place

"
if they have long list of wants on there profile or they just waffle on lol

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By *llthewaysMan
2 weeks ago

Naas/Dublin

Personally if they only have a one line profile it can be quite odd putting. Put some effort in.

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By *rish_guy81Man
2 weeks ago

DunLaoghaire

Thanks for posting this topic, just had a review of my profile keeping in mind the feedback from all. Thanks again, hopefully I might get the chance of a meet

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By *P_80Man
2 weeks ago

Waterford

Location and distance.

Cork or Dublin and anywhere in between is about as far as I'm willing to travel.

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By *ilf ShakeWoman
2 weeks ago

KILDARE

Soundness and saneness sadly lacking around these parts!

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By *ogandbone1Couple
2 weeks ago

Cork

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I hear ya

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By *P_80Man
2 weeks ago

Waterford


"Soundness and saneness sadly lacking around these parts! "

There's still a bit of it floating around here in Waterford

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By *parkie2Man
1 week ago

Ratoath

Oh I scrutinise everything. I’m basically like CSI crossed with the Revenue Commissioners

First, I zoom in on their profile pics like I’m analysing satellite imagery. If I can spot dirt under nails or if they have shit under the bed it throws me off

Typos? One or two, fine. But if you write ‘your sexy’ instead of ‘you’re sexy' I'm on the back foot

And don’t get me started on the bed. If your sheets look like they’ve survived a catfight or your pillows are shaped like pancakes…or if you leave your clothes on the floor, sorry, I just remembered I left my oven on.

Do I even need to mention Toilets, why on earth do people take pictures with a toilet in the background.

Also if you write “we’re drama-free” — you're 100% not. That's swinger code for “we once had a screaming match in the corridor of The Aspect after Vanilla and someone threw a flip-flop or a Croc.”

If your profile pic is just the guy with his shirt off and the caption “she’s camera shy,” I already know she doesn’t exist… or she’s tied up in the basement. Or if your pics are all her, but every message is from him, she’s not the hotwife, you’re the star of the show, and I didn’t buy tickets

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By *amelaPamCDTV/TS
1 week ago

Bitchville


"Oh I scrutinise everything. I’m basically like CSI crossed with the Revenue Commissioners

First, I zoom in on their profile pics like I’m analysing satellite imagery. If I can spot dirt under nails or if they have shit under the bed it throws me off

Typos? One or two, fine. But if you write ‘your sexy’ instead of ‘you’re sexy' I'm on the back foot

And don’t get me started on the bed. If your sheets look like they’ve survived a catfight or your pillows are shaped like pancakes…or if you leave your clothes on the floor, sorry, I just remembered I left my oven on.

Do I even need to mention Toilets, why on earth do people take pictures with a toilet in the background.

Also if you write “we’re drama-free” — you're 100% not. That's swinger code for “we once had a screaming match in the corridor of The Aspect after Vanilla and someone threw a flip-flop or a Croc.”

If your profile pic is just the guy with his shirt off and the caption “she’s camera shy,” I already know she doesn’t exist… or she’s tied up in the basement. Or if your pics are all her, but every message is from him, she’s not the hotwife, you’re the star of the show, and I didn’t buy tickets

"

BRILLIANT x

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By *hristianGray2005Man
1 week ago

Galway

Gynaecological pics are a bit if a turn off, to be honest.

I like to give people benefit of the doubt when it comes to typos in the profiles, autocorrect can torpedo a good piece of text. But I do find a general unawareness of the difference between there/their/they’re is something I can’t overlook.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
1 week ago

A town near you

To us usernames are irrelevant, but we do like profiles with a bit of thought rather than 2 sentences.

If we see multiple verifications of social meets that are over the top flattering but no follow up play date verifications it seems odd. Probably irrelevant but a red flag to us.

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By *hantomfemmeWoman
1 week ago

Sligo/Galway depends on the day

Usernames can be a turn off. I wont even reply if there is no profile pic, the min I get a dick pic im gone. And if profile pic is a cock or balls pic it would definitely put me off meeting.... seen the goods so why bother with the fun of a chase

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
1 week ago

Portstewart

Usernames can be a big difference maker anything that would lead to thinking of someone who overly enjoys something that we aren't looking for example (no idea if this is a real screenname) bully bull toxic would really turn us off

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