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santry

Whats longest you gone without sex mine was close to year I think . Curious as have seen some posts about peopling going 3/4 years must be climbing the walls lol

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By *ilf ShakeWoman
1 week ago

KILDARE

I regularly go six months without meeting. So I go to the dentist more frequently to remember what it's like to gag on something

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By *reamerBMan
1 week ago

Fantasy

Yep, about 4 myself. Prob one of the factors that made me take the leap and join here. And yes pulling my hair out, but I'd say my fantasies just keep getting worse as a result hahahaha

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP Man
1 week ago

santry

"I regularly go six months without meeting. So I go to the dentist more frequently to remember what it's like to gag on something

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lucky dentist lol

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP Man
1 week ago

santry

"Yep, about 4 myself. Prob one of the factors that made me take the leap and join here. And yes pulling my hair out, but I'd say my fantasies just keep getting worse as a result hahahaha "
oh well these things can happen hopefully your drought will end soon lol

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP Man
1 week ago

santry

"Whats longest you gone without sex mine was close to year I think . Curious as have seen some posts about peopling going 3/4 years must be climbing the walls lol "
going off topic but I've noticed for while I don't wank as much as use to not sure it's libido thing as still horny a lot interesting tho don't feel need wank as much as use to lol

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By *adformunchingMan
1 week ago

clare

Love thy self and thy neighbour,i herd somewhare.didnt say how often.

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By *ealitybitesMan
1 week ago

Belfast

10 years. The entirety of my 40s without any contact at all.

At other times 2 or 3 years.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
1 week ago

Lucan

17 years... From birth to 17 was tough.

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP Man
1 week ago

santry

"10 years. The entirety of my 40s without any contact at all.

At other times 2 or 3 years. "
wow 😮

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP Man
1 week ago

santry

"17 years... From birth to 17 was tough.

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tough going that

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By *ealcoupleCouple
1 week ago

I'll be honest, I struggle to go more than a few days 🙈 lucky I'm married and have it on tap.

C x

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By *ewcouplesdCouple
1 week ago

Dublin

"I'll be honest, I struggle to go more than a few days 🙈 lucky I'm married and have it on tap.

C x "

I don't doubt it for a second 🤪

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By *inger_SterlingCouple
1 week ago

Dublin

Went from 2017 to 2023 so 6 years.. went through menopause and the whole pandemic thing etc messed up everything.

Got HRT and sex drive came back with a bang..

Ginger

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP Man
1 week ago

santry

"I'll be honest, I struggle to go more than a few days 🙈 lucky I'm married and have it on tap.

C x "
lucky very lucky

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP Man
1 week ago

santry

"I'll be honest, I struggle to go more than a few days 🙈 lucky I'm married and have it on tap.

C x "
the hubby very lucky man

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP Man
1 week ago

santry

"Went from 2017 to 2023 so 6 years.. went through menopause and the whole pandemic thing etc messed up everything.

Got HRT and sex drive came back with a bang..

Ginger "
6 years wow I couldn't go that long would drive me crazy lol

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By *ustBoWoman
1 week ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I went 9 years without. Mainly because I got fed up of crap sex.

I joined fab then and most experiences I have had on here have been a lot better

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By *ealcoupleCouple
1 week ago

"I'll be honest, I struggle to go more than a few days 🙈 lucky I'm married and have it on tap.

C x

I don't doubt it for a second 🤪"

Hopefully I'll never change 😆

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By *imerick ladyWoman
1 week ago

suburbs

I went 5 years without it . Was going through a really tough time in my life . Suffered so badly with anxiety and depression that I didn’t want to be around people . I couldn’t leave the house most days only to go to work .

But I got myself out of it with a lot of help and here I am making up for those 5 years in spades 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *ealcoupleCouple
1 week ago

"I'll be honest, I struggle to go more than a few days 🙈 lucky I'm married and have it on tap.

C x the hubby very lucky man "

He may disagree at times 😆

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP Man
1 week ago

santry

"I went 9 years without. Mainly because I got fed up of crap sex.

I joined fab then and most experiences I have had on here have been a lot better

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that's good that you experienced better experiences since joining fab must be tough having deal with crap sex

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP Man
1 week ago

santry

"I'll be honest, I struggle to go more than a few days 🙈 lucky I'm married and have it on tap.

C x the hubby very lucky man

He may disagree at times 😆 "
I extremely doubt that unless he's just exhausted when you want more lol

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP Man
1 week ago

santry

"I went 5 years without it . Was going through a really tough time in my life . Suffered so badly with anxiety and depression that I didn’t want to be around people . I couldn’t leave the house most days only to go to work .

But I got myself out of it with a lot of help and here I am making up for those 5 years in spades 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣"
anxiety and depression are worse I suffer with them as well especially anxiety as you think people will think your crazy lol. Well so you should be making up for lost time after quick nose your profile your very sexy lady

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

2 years. I was begging him to fuck me at that point. Then I had an epiphany said fuck it. Gave him an ultimatum and joined fab with his consent last year.

Since joining fab 2 weeks is the max I’ve gone without. Thankfully as the more I get the more I crave 😜

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By *om TangoMan
1 week ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

Over 5 years but personally it wasn’t the sex I missed but more the kisses and cuddles. Loneliness and depression kicked in and nearly destroyed me. I can go months without sex but not without kisses or cuddles these days

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By *AMBOLADMan
1 week ago

Dunboyne

"I regularly go six months without meeting. So I go to the dentist more frequently to remember what it's like to gag on something

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🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP Man
1 week ago

santry

"2 years. I was begging him to fuck me at that point. Then I had an epiphany said fuck it. Gave him an ultimatum and joined fab with his consent last year.

Since joining fab 2 weeks is the max I’ve gone without. Thankfully as the more I get the more I crave 😜"
Damn why he have beg him to fuck you that's crazy wouldn't have beg me lol

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP Man
1 week ago

santry

"Over 5 years but personally it wasn’t the sex I missed but more the kisses and cuddles. Loneliness and depression kicked in and nearly destroyed me. I can go months without sex but not without kisses or cuddles these days"
that's fair enough

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
1 week ago

East / North, Cork

15 long painful years!

Then I lost my virginity and have been having regular sex ever since

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By *tarbuckmanMan
1 week ago

Dublin

"I regularly go six months without meeting. So I go to the dentist more frequently to remember what it's like to gag on something

lucky dentist lol "

😂

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By *inger_SterlingCouple
1 week ago

Dublin

Eight years for me...

-D

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By *estmeathKinkyCoupleCouple
1 week ago

Westmeath

6 months….i was a ball of depression, I don’t know how people go years without

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
1 week ago

Belfast and Tyrone

Not that it's a competition but I went 15 years from being widowed at aged 34 onwards.

It was only as I was coming up to 50, realising I had all of my 40s with no sex or intimacy and most of my thirties as well. I couldn't take another whole decade so I started on Fet and met my partner.

I've a lot of time to make up for

Vics

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By *aughty MilfCouple
1 week ago

Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland

But I got myself out of it with a lot of help and here I am making up for those 5 years in spades 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣"
♥️🥰

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By *ean154Man
1 week ago

Salthill area

"17 years... From birth to 17 was tough.

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP Man
1 week ago

santry

"Not that it's a competition but I went 15 years from being widowed at aged 34 onwards.

I've a lot of time to make up for

Vics"
15 years how hell you go that long without lol

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By *ardyboy54321Man
1 week ago

Fermanagh

A good few years without the aul jump then I got myself a pocket pussy (tictock shop) just wedge her(polly) in the door.give her the shunt tip the load. Run the hose through her fire her on the line and marys your aunt ready for the next adventure.

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By *ealcoupleCouple
1 week ago

"A good few years without the aul jump then I got myself a pocket pussy (tictock shop) just wedge her(polly) in the door.give her the shunt tip the load. Run the hose through her fire her on the line and marys your aunt ready for the next adventure. "

Only you 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *orth and south69Couple
1 week ago

clonmel

7 yrs for me . Widowed at 46 and just fell into a dark hole but got myself out of it now

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By *he English OneMan
1 week ago

west

Currently I'm on year and a half without sex I should be put out to pastor at this stage😅

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By *cottybear74Man
1 week ago

kilkenny

27 months was my longest

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By *otspiceOgWoman
7 days ago

fuck knows

"Whats longest you gone without sex mine was close to year I think . Curious as have seen some posts about peopling going 3/4 years must be climbing the walls lol "

Currently 4 yrs I think, my choice of course just depends on what priorities and circumstances I guess

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By *aybeLadyWoman
7 days ago

West Dublin

3ish years.

A distant memory.

Sex & intimacy are such fundamental things, its a wonder we survive without 😔

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP Man
7 days ago

santry

"7 yrs for me . Widowed at 46 and just fell into a dark hole but got myself out of it now "
that's understandable

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP Man
7 days ago

santry

"Whats longest you gone without sex mine was close to year I think . Curious as have seen some posts about peopling going 3/4 years must be climbing the walls lol

Currently 4 yrs I think, my choice of course just depends on what priorities and circumstances I guess "
4 years id be gone crackers by now lol. But once your happy that's all that matters

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By *P_80Man
7 days ago

Waterford

Since I joined Fab

Nah, but probably gone well over a year at times.

I'm grand without it though. I've mastered the art of self love

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By *ano53Man
7 days ago

Wicklow

Never go too long without sex ... A month would probably be the longest ever

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By *orkdevilMan
7 days ago

cork

My bins get put out more often that I get the opportunity to put out

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By *ingerOnTheLooseWoman
6 days ago

Dublin

I can go a few months every once in a while if I’m single. Longest though was 5/6 years. Had other priorities that needed my attention and a really bad experience that swore me off guys for a while

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By *astelloWoman
5 days ago

Far far away

5 years. Though not my decision. Lots of couples have issues with ED so it's either stay together in a sexless life or move apart.

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP Man
5 days ago

santry

"5 years. Though not my decision. Lots of couples have issues with ED so it's either stay together in a sexless life or move apart. "
what's ED ?

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By *eys00Man
5 days ago

have boots will travel

I once went 17 years without sex! 🤠

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By *llthewaysMan
5 days ago

Naas/Dublin

Currently in the months, but coming close to in the years.

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By *astelloWoman
5 days ago

Far far away

"5 years. Though not my decision. Lots of couples have issues with ED so it's either stay together in a sexless life or move apart. what's ED ? "

Erectile dysfunction

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By *ddiesayshello2Man
2 days ago

dundalk , Monaghan,meath

married here so going on to 3-4 years unfortunately,

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By *arajeanCouple
2 days ago

mayo

How can people go so long without sex if not medical or health reasons I would go crazy.😃😃

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By *lim ShaddyMan
2 days ago

City

Well 21 years for me.

Was more interested in Sport growing up...

Then I found out what I was missing.

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By *ddiesayshello2Man
2 days ago

dundalk , Monaghan,meath

lol unfortunately she has lost her libido with what we think is menopause in her early 40's

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By *hantomfemmeWoman
2 days ago

Sligo/Galway depends on the day

Im on month 4 now I think.

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By *rxmrsCouple
2 days ago

in ur bed

6 weeks was my longest 😫

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
2 days ago

just over the way from

16years I knows it's a long Stent but I've an excellent explanation

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By *oungncurious21Man
2 days ago

north dublin

21 years here😁

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By *ettaManMan
2 days ago

Based in Kerry, work in Cork.

A few years back I did a year of full celibacy (nope, none of that either) to see would it make me more open to monogamy.

It did, until the first person I was actually interested in was in an open relationship. I took that as a sign.

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By *avrick180Man
2 days ago

Pontypool

Since iv been on here 7 years

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP Man
17 hours ago

santry

"Since iv been on here 7 years "
damn that'long . But looking other dudes on here it's norm so your in good company lol

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP Man
17 hours ago

santry

"6 weeks was my longest 😫 "
if the missus was my missus I wouldn't let her go 6 mins without it never mind 6 weeks lol I don't think you should have issue getting sex somehow lol

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP Man
17 hours ago

santry

"Im on month 4 now I think."
how come by choice not found anyone you want bump lol or just decided you not interested ATM ??

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP Man
17 hours ago

santry

"How can people go so long without sex if not medical or health reasons I would go crazy.😃😃"
I went year could been little over year and I was going nuts lol

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP Man
17 hours ago

santry

"lol unfortunately she has lost her libido with what we think is menopause in her early 40's"
damn tricky one that hopefully you can both get back on track soon

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP Man
17 hours ago

santry

"5 years. Though not my decision. Lots of couples have issues with ED so it's either stay together in a sexless life or move apart. what's ED ?

Erectile dysfunction "
oh right that makes sense

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP Man
17 hours ago

santry

"I regularly go six months without meeting. So I go to the dentist more frequently to remember what it's like to gag on something

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that new profile picture damn

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