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"I mean if they are a long term partner of some kind surely just asking them is the answer" Yes agree,but is social or one to one introduction best.we have discused finding new people. | |||
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"Wondering how to introduce long time partner (f) gently to lifestyle without causing ofence.enjoys a good bottle of wine and wild chat.ladies comments gratly acceped." Just ask her how she would feel about opening up the relationship? Reassure her that she is your main love and priority. Ask her does she feel it may enhance what you have. Just be open and honest about what you'd like and listen to what she says. Does she know you are on Fab ? Is it a couples profile you'd want with her here. Does she know you're bisexual ? There is a lot for her to take in if she isn't aware of this. Also you might find that she may agree to the idea Join and then when she gets more attention than how will that make you feel. | |||
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"Wondering how to introduce long time partner (f) gently to lifestyle without causing ofence.enjoys a good bottle of wine and wild chat.ladies comments gratly acceped. Just ask her how she would feel about opening up the relationship? Reassure her that she is your main love and priority. Ask her does she feel it may enhance what you have. Just be open and honest about what you'd like and listen to what she says. Does she know you are on Fab ? Is it a couples profile you'd want with her here. Does she know you're bisexual ? There is a lot for her to take in if she isn't aware of this. Also you might find that she may agree to the idea Join and then when she gets more attention than how will that make you feel. " These are all very good points. It's a huuuge leap from having horny wine chats with you, to the reality of Fab. | |||
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"Wondering how to introduce long time partner (f) gently to lifestyle without causing ofence.enjoys a good bottle of wine and wild chat.ladies comments gratly acceped. Just ask her how she would feel about opening up the relationship? Reassure her that she is your main love and priority. Ask her does she feel it may enhance what you have. Just be open and honest about what you'd like and listen to what she says. Does she know you are on Fab ? Is it a couples profile you'd want with her here. Does she know you're bisexual ? There is a lot for her to take in if she isn't aware of this. Also you might find that she may agree to the idea Join and then when she gets more attention than how will that make you feel. These are all very good points. It's a huuuge leap from having horny wine chats with you, to the reality of Fab. " Yes agree,thats why i was thinking of finding somewhare or someone to have horney wine chats with.she has wild girl friends and i have my fun.trying to join both worlds. | |||
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"Wondering how to introduce long time partner (f) gently to lifestyle without causing ofence.enjoys a good bottle of wine and wild chat.ladies comments gratly acceped. Just ask her how she would feel about opening up the relationship? Reassure her that she is your main love and priority. Ask her does she feel it may enhance what you have. Just be open and honest about what you'd like and listen to what she says. Does she know you are on Fab ? Is it a couples profile you'd want with her here. Does she know you're bisexual ? There is a lot for her to take in if she isn't aware of this. Also you might find that she may agree to the idea Join and then when she gets more attention than how will that make you feel. " Agree with all of this. Fab certainly isnt for all couples. | |||
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"Wondering how to introduce long time partner (f) gently to lifestyle without causing ofence.enjoys a good bottle of wine and wild chat.ladies comments gratly acceped. Just ask her how she would feel about opening up the relationship? Reassure her that she is your main love and priority. Ask her does she feel it may enhance what you have. Just be open and honest about what you'd like and listen to what she says. Does she know you are on Fab ? Is it a couples profile you'd want with her here. Does she know you're bisexual ? There is a lot for her to take in if she isn't aware of this. Also you might find that she may agree to the idea Join and then when she gets more attention than how will that make you feel. These are all very good points. It's a huuuge leap from having horny wine chats with you, to the reality of Fab. Yes agree,thats why i was thinking of finding somewhare or someone to have horney wine chats with.she has wild girl friends and i have my fun.trying to join both worlds." I don't think you are listening to any advice offered. Try dropping " The horny wine chats" and speak to her like a real man would. | |||
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"Wondering how to introduce long time partner (f) gently to lifestyle without causing ofence.enjoys a good bottle of wine and wild chat.ladies comments gratly acceped." well the person wanting to introduce her to this lifestyle might be in a whole pile of trouble for being on here behind her back. | |||
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"Wondering how to introduce long time partner (f) gently to lifestyle without causing ofence.enjoys a good bottle of wine and wild chat.ladies comments gratly acceped. Just ask her how she would feel about opening up the relationship? Reassure her that she is your main love and priority. Ask her does she feel it may enhance what you have. Just be open and honest about what you'd like and listen to what she says. Does she know you are on Fab ? Is it a couples profile you'd want with her here. Does she know you're bisexual ? There is a lot for her to take in if she isn't aware of this. Also you might find that she may agree to the idea Join and then when she gets more attention than how will that make you feel. These are all very good points. It's a huuuge leap from having horny wine chats with you, to the reality of Fab. Yes agree,thats why i was thinking of finding somewhare or someone to have horney wine chats with.she has wild girl friends and i have my fun.trying to join both worlds." It’s probably too early in the morning for me after a long ass night shift but what’s horny wine chats and her having wild friends got to do with any of this? Are you getting carried away a bit Walter and do you think her mates and going to be game too? That’s going to be a conversation about swinging with your lady friend and then a conversation with her ‘wild girl friends’. Perhaps buy several bottles of wine. Or maybe I'm just dreaming and none of this shit is happening! 🤷♂️ | |||
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"Thanks for all the advice and genuine answers its what i was thinking just needed advice from people who have lived it.was givn a free pass to explore and would never use drink to coerse either sex.fab may not be the happy place i thaught for a newbe." People take a hard line when it comes up informed consent and rightly so. You mentioned alcohol a couple of times. Can you imagine if people had answered the other way and suggested you get her d*unk and see what she agrees to? Do you see the problem now? | |||
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"Thanks for all the advice and genuine answers its what i was thinking just needed advice from people who have lived it.was givn a free pass to explore and would never use drink to coerse either sex.fab may not be the happy place i thaught for a newbe. People take a hard line when it comes up informed consent and rightly so. You mentioned alcohol a couple of times. Can you imagine if people had answered the other way and suggested you get her d*unk and see what she agrees to? Do you see the problem now?" 100% strangly i dont drink due to medication and she enjoys an iced coffee just as much.been on and off fab guys for goeing 18 years or so,first time here and do find it more engaging.thanks everyone. Now to do some work  | |||
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"Thanks for all the advice and genuine answers its what i was thinking just needed advice from people who have lived it.was givn a free pass to explore and would never use drink to coerse either sex.fab may not be the happy place i thaught for a newbe." I do tend to wonder why do people who always ask questions like you did op,try and play the poor me when they don't get the answers they want. It would not matter if you are new here or not. You are the one who mentioned alcohol and getting others to chat to her to persuade her. Hence the cohesion comments. The only way to see if your partner wants to join here is to talk to her. YOU talk to her not try and get others to do it as that is just setting her up unknown to her. If you have been on fab guys for that long you're not a newbie to all of this. You are the only one who knows your partner and how she will react. And if cannot have a conversation about her joining here then you already know how she will most likely react. And respect her decision whatever it may be, if you do actually do the adult thing and have a conversation. | |||
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Do you mean introduce her to the concept of the lifestyle or, she’s contemplating the idea and you want to know how to get her started? | |||
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