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"Its a shame more people don't join this group and open their thoughts and feelings, there are so many that need hugs,kisses and to feel needed, and to be wanted,as so many are in boring, loveless relationships and marriages.i find once we reach a certain age,on this app ,(i am 60.) 99% of replies are deleted.its like a best before date has been reached, regardless of a person's age they need intimacy and human contact, Report report " Try not send any messages for a while to see if that makes you feel better Nobody owes anybody a reply no matter what age they are and people of all ages need intimacy. Try to get to socials as they really do work to widen your circle of friends and get meets from people that are looking for the things you are also looking for Im 60 and I dont send messages looking for meets to be honest and don't feel like Ive reached a best before date Good luck | |||
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"Its a shame more people don't join this group and open their thoughts and feelings, there are so many that need hugs,kisses and to feel needed, and to be wanted,as so many are in boring, loveless relationships and marriages.i find once we reach a certain age,on this app ,(i am 60.) 99% of replies are deleted.its like a best before date has been reached, regardless of a person's age they need intimacy and human contact, Report report " ..... Definitely not my personal experience on the site. I wear my age badge with pride and I am happy to be excluded by those who do not wish to engage with those of my vintage. I am seriously considering carrying a walking stick to help fend off all the unsolicited attention I am getting from ladies of all ages on here. Vive la preference...... | |||
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"At the tender age of 48, I’m not interested in meeting men over that. Having said that, I’ve chatted on and off (on fab) with men I’d not be interested in meeting as I understand we all need people to interact with. I agree that the best approach is to go to socials and such. Good luck with your journey here. " So you do 'charity' chats?? How lovely  | |||
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"Its a shame more people don't join this group and open their thoughts and feelings, there are so many that need hugs,kisses and to feel needed, and to be wanted,as so many are in boring, loveless relationships and marriages.i find once we reach a certain age,on this app ,(i am 60.) 99% of replies are deleted.its like a best before date has been reached, regardless of a person's age they need intimacy and human contact, Report report " Lying about your age isn't going to help your case... | |||
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"I understand older people need intimacy too, but nobody here owes anyone else anything. A person's sexual needs isn't anyone else's responsibility. Id suggest trying out events. Ages aren't so noticeable once the person is standing chatting to you" This. Also I don't understand the "report report" bit | |||
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"At the tender age of 48, I’m not interested in meeting men over that. Having said that, I’ve chatted on and off (on fab) with men I’d not be interested in meeting as I understand we all need people to interact with. I agree that the best approach is to go to socials and such. Good luck with your journey here. So you do 'charity' chats?? How lovely "When I’m in the mood why not? No one has complained and I’m not hurting anyone 🤷🏽♀️ | |||
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"At the tender age of 48, I’m not interested in meeting men over that. Having said that, I’ve chatted on and off (on fab) with men I’d not be interested in meeting as I understand we all need people to interact with. I agree that the best approach is to go to socials and such. Good luck with your journey here. So you do 'charity' chats?? How lovely
When I’m in the mood why not? No one has complained and I’m not hurting anyone 🤷🏽♀️"Charity boobs are good too, just sayin…..🤷♂️😬 | |||
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"At the tender age of 48, I’m not interested in meeting men over that. Having said that, I’ve chatted on and off (on fab) with men I’d not be interested in meeting as I understand we all need people to interact with. I agree that the best approach is to go to socials and such. Good luck with your journey here. So you do 'charity' chats?? How lovely
When I’m in the mood why not? No one has complained and I’m not hurting anyone 🤷🏽♀️
Charity boobs are good too, just sayin…..🤷♂️😬"🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"At the tender age of 48, I’m not interested in meeting men over that. Having said that, I’ve chatted on and off (on fab) with men I’d not be interested in meeting as I understand we all need people to interact with. Haha your hot as fuck if you did hurt someone they may ask for more I agree that the best approach is to go to socials and such. Good luck with your journey here. So you do 'charity' chats?? How lovely
When I’m in the mood why not? No one has complained and I’m not hurting anyone 🤷🏽♀️" | |||
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"Its a shame more people don't join this group and open their thoughts and feelings, there are so many that need hugs,kisses and to feel needed, and to be wanted,as so many are in boring, loveless relationships and marriages.i find once we reach a certain age,on this app ,(i am 60.) 99% of replies are deleted.its like a best before date has been reached, regardless of a person's age they need intimacy and human contact, Report report " Everyone here are here for their own reasons & if anyone here feels that their mental health , wether he or she , is being affected by the actions or non actions of others well then , in my opinion , it's not the place to be , at no stage should an internet stranger have a detrimental affect on a person's well being , if no meet , if no reply etc etc ..so what ?? let it slide .. nobody is everybody's type , this joint should be FUN for everyone, people should be looking forward & enjoying logging on , not feeling bad in anyway about themselves, l've had meets where l knew within 10 seconds that it wasn't gonna go any further ..no spark...no chemistry ..on one or on both sides... whatever ..so what ? ..so a person that you've never met before is responsible for you not being happy or anything in that regard ?? Sorry..life's too short for that Craic..if they don't reply , if they' re not your type ..so what ...do not let anything that happens here affect your well being , hope everyone has a nice day .👍 | |||
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"At the tender age of 48, I’m not interested in meeting men over that. Having said that, I’ve chatted on and off (on fab) with men I’d not be interested in meeting as I understand we all need people to interact with. I agree that the best approach is to go to socials and such. Good luck with your journey here. So you do 'charity' chats?? How lovely
When I’m in the mood why not? No one has complained and I’m not hurting anyone 🤷🏽♀️"As long as you can have that chat without raising false hope and leading the other person(s) on, yeah, I can kind of respect that. However, again, speaking from personal experience, an attention starved, frustrated person will consider an occasional 'hi' as an invitation to dive straight in. Yeah, yeah, (mimics) 'Nobody owes anything to anyone', an easy cop out, but if you poked a starving bear in the wild with a stick, I am pretty sure they will carefully consider your emotions and personal rights... Look, in my personal opinion, people frequent these places either because they are lonely, and need companionship that will accept them as they are for what they are. Or, sex is a game for them, something fun to do, like play cards, or tennis, or whatever, and enjoy it with other people/players. Not that I ma gonna sit here and point fingers and accuse or anything, but ya know... 'be kind, rewind', be considerate, don't poke bears and then cry foul... I guess thats my morning rant done... -D | |||
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"At the tender age of 48, I’m not interested in meeting men over that. Having said that, I’ve chatted on and off (on fab) with men I’d not be interested in meeting as I understand we all need people to interact with. I agree that the best approach is to go to socials and such. Good luck with your journey here. So you do 'charity' chats?? How lovely
When I’m in the mood why not? No one has complained and I’m not hurting anyone 🤷🏽♀️
As long as you can have that chat without raising false hope and leading the other person(s) on, yeah, I can kind of respect that.
However, again, speaking from personal experience, an attention starved, frustrated person will consider an occasional 'hi' as an invitation to dive straight in.
Yeah, yeah, (mimics) 'Nobody owes anything to anyone', an easy cop out, but if you poked a starving bear in the wild with a stick, I am pretty sure they will carefully consider your emotions and personal rights...
Look, in my personal opinion, people frequent these places either because they are lonely, and need companionship that will accept them as they are for what they are.
Or, sex is a game for them, something fun to do, like play cards, or tennis, or whatever, and enjoy it with other people/players.
Not that I ma gonna sit here and point fingers and accuse or anything, but ya know... 'be kind, rewind', be considerate, don't poke bears and then cry foul...
I guess thats my morning rant done...
-D"That’s a good point. No more chats for the sake of chatting so 😉 | |||
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"At the tender age of 48, I’m not interested in meeting men over that. Having said that, I’ve chatted on and off (on fab) with men I’d not be interested in meeting as I understand we all need people to interact with. I agree that the best approach is to go to socials and such. Good luck with your journey here. So you do 'charity' chats?? How lovely
When I’m in the mood why not? No one has complained and I’m not hurting anyone 🤷🏽♀️
As long as you can have that chat without raising false hope and leading the other person(s) on, yeah, I can kind of respect that.
However, again, speaking from personal experience, an attention starved, frustrated person will consider an occasional 'hi' as an invitation to dive straight in.
Yeah, yeah, (mimics) 'Nobody owes anything to anyone', an easy cop out, but if you poked a starving bear in the wild with a stick, I am pretty sure they will carefully consider your emotions and personal rights...
Look, in my personal opinion, people frequent these places either because they are lonely, and need companionship that will accept them as they are for what they are.
Or, sex is a game for them, something fun to do, like play cards, or tennis, or whatever, and enjoy it with other people/players.
Not that I ma gonna sit here and point fingers and accuse or anything, but ya know... 'be kind, rewind', be considerate, don't poke bears and then cry foul...
I guess thats my morning rant done...
-D
That’s a good point. No more chats for the sake of chatting so 😉"So we can't speak to anyone unless we want to have sex with them. So how are we supposed to find out about them as a person without speaking to them, to decide if we would like to take it farther | |||
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"At the tender age of 48, I’m not interested in meeting men over that. Having said that, I’ve chatted on and off (on fab) with men I’d not be interested in meeting as I understand we all need people to interact with. I agree that the best approach is to go to socials and such. Good luck with your journey here. So you do 'charity' chats?? How lovely
When I’m in the mood why not? No one has complained and I’m not hurting anyone 🤷🏽♀️
As long as you can have that chat without raising false hope and leading the other person(s) on, yeah, I can kind of respect that.
However, again, speaking from personal experience, an attention starved, frustrated person will consider an occasional 'hi' as an invitation to dive straight in.
Yeah, yeah, (mimics) 'Nobody owes anything to anyone', an easy cop out, but if you poked a starving bear in the wild with a stick, I am pretty sure they will carefully consider your emotions and personal rights...
Look, in my personal opinion, people frequent these places either because they are lonely, and need companionship that will accept them as they are for what they are.
Or, sex is a game for them, something fun to do, like play cards, or tennis, or whatever, and enjoy it with other people/players.
Not that I ma gonna sit here and point fingers and accuse or anything, but ya know... 'be kind, rewind', be considerate, don't poke bears and then cry foul...
I guess thats my morning rant done...
-D
That’s a good point. No more chats for the sake of chatting so 😉
So we can't speak to anyone unless we want to have sex with them. So how are we supposed to find out about them as a person without speaking to them, to decide if we would like to take it farther"Catch 22 eh? Can't have cake and eat it. Bottom line, in my opinion, everyone needs to cop on a bit and understand the nature of things. That's how mother nature and God the comedian made us, and we have to accept it. -D | |||
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"At the tender age of 48, I’m not interested in meeting men over that. Having said that, I’ve chatted on and off (on fab) with men I’d not be interested in meeting as I understand we all need people to interact with. I agree that the best approach is to go to socials and such. Good luck with your journey here. So you do 'charity' chats?? How lovely
When I’m in the mood why not? No one has complained and I’m not hurting anyone 🤷🏽♀️
As long as you can have that chat without raising false hope and leading the other person(s) on, yeah, I can kind of respect that.
However, again, speaking from personal experience, an attention starved, frustrated person will consider an occasional 'hi' as an invitation to dive straight in.
That’s a good point. No more chats for the sake of chatting so 😉"Well damn I chat to whoever I like here too, sometimes for the sake of chatting and not that it will lead to sex. Kinda like being in the pub 🤷🏻♀️ I don't see any harm in it. Even if the person fancies me I expect us all to be adults at the end of the day, not starving bears, and control our emotions and expectations. | |||
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" Catch 22 eh? Can't have cake and eat it. Bottom line, in my opinion, everyone needs to cop on a bit and understand the nature of things. That's how mother nature and God the comedian made us, and we have to accept it. -D" No actually, it seems like you need to cop on and learn to control yourself if you can’t do so around people you are attracted to but don’t reciprocate  | |||
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" Catch 22 eh? Can't have cake and eat it. Bottom line, in my opinion, everyone needs to cop on a bit and understand the nature of things. That's how mother nature and God the comedian made us, and we have to accept it. -D No actually, it seems like you need to cop on and learn to control yourself if you can’t do so around people you are attracted to but don’t reciprocate "*smiles slowly, and nods respectfully* 😉 | |||
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"From a person who has us blocked 🚫 for no reason Ageist without a doubt 💯 " How can you say its ageist to block someone. I wonder could it be your manner ? | |||
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"Oh and by the way some consider me to be old "Positively an aul dear, dear  | |||
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"Oh and by the way some consider me to be old
Positively an aul dear, dear "See you on the bingo bus tomorrow night | |||
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"Oh and by the way some consider me to be old
Positively an aul dear, dear
See you on the bingo bus tomorrow night "• This "bingo bus" you speak of — does it serve chilled Gin?  | |||
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"From a person who has us blocked 🚫 for no reason Ageist without a doubt 💯 " There's always a reason. You don't want to have sex with people with pubic hair. This is ok. You have your preferences. Some people don't want to have sex with those above or under a certain age. This is also ok. They have their preferences too. Or are only your preferences valid? | |||
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"Oh and by the way some consider me to be old
Positively an aul dear, dear
See you on the bingo bus tomorrow night
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"From a person who has us blocked 🚫 for no reason Ageist without a doubt 💯 " I'm actually impressed that you're able to use emojis correctly at your age  | |||
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"Im still not counting myself as old because I dont feel it I talk to anyone and everyone on the forums and in private messages because why not and especially since Its never gone down the fancy a fuck route no matter how sexy I find people Its not charity chatting ....its just chatting ....I know what its like to be lonely " As do I.. I've been lonely most of my adult life. I'm just aware that there are many people here who won't see a chat as just a chat, that's all. | |||
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"Im still not counting myself as old because I dont feel it I talk to anyone and everyone on the forums and in private messages because why not and especially since Its never gone down the fancy a fuck route no matter how sexy I find people Its not charity chatting ....its just chatting ....I know what its like to be lonely As do I.. I've been lonely most of my adult life. I'm just aware that there are many people here who won't see a chat as just a chat, that's all." I'd imagine so ....I even get some of the dick pic messages myself | |||
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