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By *nglish.Guy OP   Man
2 weeks ago

D15

Growing up men would always boast about their body count, whereas women where more discreet and a little less honest, not something we really discuss as you get older no one gives a shit. But just curious for the women without feeling shamed what’s your body counts?

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
2 weeks ago

Newry

Absolutely no idea. I've never counted

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By *nglish.Guy OP   Man
2 weeks ago

D15

Yeah I don’t know my exact number either stopping counting in my 20s. I was over 100 lol

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By *affa31Woman
2 weeks ago

Galway

I genuinely haven’t a clue.

Nor do I care.

And if a guy cares, he can jog on.

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By *hePixieAndTheBearCouple
2 weeks ago

Galway

Fuck that. I'm not digging them up to count.

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By *ubadubdubWoman
2 weeks ago

Hereabouts


"Fuck that. I'm not digging them up to count."

🤣🤣

Some are better left in an unmarked grave 😅

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By *enerationfornicationMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere in...

"body count" - two words with multiple meanings depending on the person.

Having a body count = the implementation of promiscuous behaviour and shame.

My opinion, there's no “normal” body count, and if there was, does it matter because it's an arbitrary metric - consider this,

do you count the number of time you gave or received oral?

was it covered or uncovered? - do you count the same person as 1 or the encounters as separate?

The reality is, it a tangible impact which should not reflect on the person you are or how you operate in a relationship.

Society likes to shame and it's because of that shame that the vast majority of people are here - another reason is, it can be hard for people to meet up with other like minded people to talk stuff out. We all know a disapproving "Aisling" who likes meddl in the affairs of others, with "concern" that is weaponised to do damage ....

Apologies to any person called Aisling here, it was the first name to pop into my head

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By *he gentleman 1000Man
2 weeks ago

santry


"Growing up men would always boast about their body count, whereas women where more discreet and a little less honest, not something we really discuss as you get older no one gives a shit. But just curious for the women without feeling shamed what’s your body counts? "
yeah it's double standards but always easy for women to get sex then man that's why some guys boast tho I thought guys stop doing that older they got lol .

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By *exyScientistsCouple
2 weeks ago

Castlebar

Probably high enough to put some off and not high enough for others 🤣

I've never asked someone and I've never been asked.

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By *P_80Man
2 weeks ago

Waterford

When it comes to body counts, I neither care nor have any desire to know.

I find it interesting that it seems, for the most part, that the guys who try to shame a woman for her history are usually the ones she won't have sex with.

They call her a slut because she won't ride him, which makes no sense.

Regarding the general societal acceptance of male body counts over female body counts, I put it down to the fact that a man has to work harder than a woman when it comes to having sex.

If a man gets the ride, the chances are he had to put effort in. He had to attract someone who could probably pick 80% of the other men around him. It's like an achievement or something and his buddies understand this.

If a woman gets the ride, she chose the guy. Not so much of an achievement

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By *he gentleman 1000Man
2 weeks ago

santry


"When it comes to body counts, I neither care nor have any desire to know.

I find it interesting that it seems, for the most part, that the guys who try to shame a woman for her history are usually the ones she won't have sex with.

They call her a slut because she won't ride him, which makes no sense.

Regarding the general societal acceptance of male body counts over female body counts, I put it down to the fact that a man has to work harder than a woman when it comes to having sex.

If a man gets the ride, the chances are he had to put effort in. He had to attract someone who could probably pick 80% of the other men around him. It's like an achievement or something and his buddies understand this.

If a woman gets the ride, she chose the guy. Not so much of an achievement "
exactly some women don't seem understand that which I don't get as it's obvious so when there why guys get praised for Bern player and sleeping around and women don't that's usually why women don't have put much effort in at all most men are like dogs on heat lol

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By *obSBMan
2 weeks ago

Clare

Robert Kuklinski doesn't even know his body count. He just knows he enjoyed himself.

Why keep count

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
2 weeks ago

Newry


"When it comes to body counts, I neither care nor have any desire to know.

I find it interesting that it seems, for the most part, that the guys who try to shame a woman for her history are usually the ones she won't have sex with.

They call her a slut because she won't ride him, which makes no sense.

Regarding the general societal acceptance of male body counts over female body counts, I put it down to the fact that a man has to work harder than a woman when it comes to having sex.

If a man gets the ride, the chances are he had to put effort in. He had to attract someone who could probably pick 80% of the other men around him. It's like an achievement or something and his buddies understand this.

If a woman gets the ride, she chose the guy. Not so much of an achievement exactly some women don't seem understand that which I don't get as it's obvious so when there why guys get praised for Bern player and sleeping around and women don't that's usually why women don't have put much effort in at all most men are like dogs on heat lol "

I'm just wondering how many more threads I can bear that try to perpetuate the myth that men have no agency over who they have sex with, and that women can have sex with whoever they want with little or no effort

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By *atonaWoman
2 weeks ago

Meh


"When it comes to body counts, I neither care nor have any desire to know.

I find it interesting that it seems, for the most part, that the guys who try to shame a woman for her history are usually the ones she won't have sex with.

They call her a slut because she won't ride him, which makes no sense.

Regarding the general societal acceptance of male body counts over female body counts, I put it down to the fact that a man has to work harder than a woman when it comes to having sex.

If a man gets the ride, the chances are he had to put effort in. He had to attract someone who could probably pick 80% of the other men around him. It's like an achievement or something and his buddies understand this.

If a woman gets the ride, she chose the guy. Not so much of an achievement exactly some women don't seem understand that which I don't get as it's obvious so when there why guys get praised for Bern player and sleeping around and women don't that's usually why women don't have put much effort in at all most men are like dogs on heat lol

I'm just wondering how many more threads I can bear that try to perpetuate the myth that men have no agency over who they have sex with, and that women can have sex with whoever they want with little or no effort

"

Seems to be a trend alright

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By *estmeathKinkyCoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Westmeath

I stopped counting after 30 but I would guess it’s about 36, im not the least bit proud or ashamed, it is what it is

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By *ealitybitesMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast


"Growing up men would always boast about their body count, whereas women where more discreet and a little less honest, not something we really discuss as you get older no one gives a shit. But just curious for the women without feeling shamed what’s your body counts? "

Would they though?

I've never had a discussion with anyone in my life about my sex life and partners or about theirs either.

I know exactly what my "body count" is and I know exactly who and when because it's still in single figures.

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By *ealitybitesMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast


"When it comes to body counts, I neither care nor have any desire to know.

I find it interesting that it seems, for the most part, that the guys who try to shame a woman for her history are usually the ones she won't have sex with.

They call her a slut because she won't ride him, which makes no sense.

Regarding the general societal acceptance of male body counts over female body counts, I put it down to the fact that a man has to work harder than a woman when it comes to having sex.

If a man gets the ride, the chances are he had to put effort in. He had to attract someone who could probably pick 80% of the other men around him. It's like an achievement or something and his buddies understand this.

If a woman gets the ride, she chose the guy. Not so much of an achievement exactly some women don't seem understand that which I don't get as it's obvious so when there why guys get praised for Bern player and sleeping around and women don't that's usually why women don't have put much effort in at all most men are like dogs on heat lol

I'm just wondering how many more threads I can bear that try to perpetuate the myth that men have no agency over who they have sex with, and that women can have sex with whoever they want with little or no effort

"

One of the reasons I've had the level of success I've had on fab is by having complete agency over who I get naked with.

I've said above that I'm still in single figures in regard to sexual partners but in 9 years here I've had sex with 6 women.

I can happily say I have refused offers of sex from 20 plus women in that time and don't have an ounce of regret.

I'm amazed at how many men believe that women control everything on fab. I see that as just another excuse alongside, too old, too young, too fat, too short etc etc....

Have a little self respect and that will attract others much more than a six pack

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By *ustBoWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

My "body count " is my business and no-one else's. I also haven't kept one. Not because the numbers are massive but more that the number of people I have had sex with isn't important to me. The actual people I have had sex with is what matters. I don't understand the need to keep a record of the numbers.

As for that myth that women rule here and only they control who they has sex,ln my opnion is a load of rubbish. As the saying goes it takes two to tango.And while yes some men are desperate enough to get up on a cracked plate given the chance but they are usually the ones I avoid as it is pretty clear they have a low opinion of women they meet especon a site like this. The ones who think all women on here are sex craved and just waiting for them to message they are in the area and will want to fuck them for that reason alone.

I prefer men who don't act like sex crazy horny twats 24/7,with an actual decent attitude who doesn't simp over every woman on here in the hope of getting a ride. And ones who achy realise they have just as much power on here as any other person regardless of gender.

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By *ealitybitesMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast


"My "body count " is my business and no-one else's. I also haven't kept one. Not because the numbers are massive but more that the number of people I have had sex with isn't important to me. The actual people I have had sex with is what matters. I don't understand the need to keep a record of the numbers.

As for that myth that women rule here and only they control who they has sex,ln my opnion is a load of rubbish. As the saying goes it takes two to tango.And while yes some men are desperate enough to get up on a cracked plate given the chance but they are usually the ones I avoid as it is pretty clear they have a low opinion of women they meet especon a site like this. The ones who think all women on here are sex craved and just waiting for them to message they are in the area and will want to fuck them for that reason alone.

I prefer men who don't act like sex crazy horny twats 24/7,with an actual decent attitude who doesn't simp over every woman on here in the hope of getting a ride. And ones who achy realise they have just as much power on here as any other person regardless of gender. "

Faf?😎

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Talk shit, get shot it's a classic!

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By *ustBoWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"My "body count " is my business and no-one else's. I also haven't kept one. Not because the numbers are massive but more that the number of people I have had sex with isn't important to me. The actual people I have had sex with is what matters. I don't understand the need to keep a record of the numbers.

As for that myth that women rule here and only they control who they has sex,ln my opnion is a load of rubbish. As the saying goes it takes two to tango.And while yes some men are desperate enough to get up on a cracked plate given the chance but they are usually the ones I avoid as it is pretty clear they have a low opinion of women they meet especon a site like this. The ones who think all women on here are sex craved and just waiting for them to message they are in the area and will want to fuck them for that reason alone.

I prefer men who don't act like sex crazy horny twats 24/7,with an actual decent attitude who doesn't simp over every woman on here in the hope of getting a ride. And ones who achy realise they have just as much power on here as any other person regardless of gender.

Faf?😎"

Dick 😀 😀

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By *licat.2Woman
2 weeks ago

Not Belfast but NI

I know how many men I have had sex with and that's just because the figure is low due to work and family and also as I tend to have fbs or fwb long term so dont meet many.

Had to laugh when I read Bo's comment

'sex crazy horny twats 24/7,with an actual decent attitude who doesn't simp over every woman on here in the hope of getting a ride'

It reminds me of the Ireland chat room when I joined over 10 years ago. If a hottie came on cam the men would start to praise and flatter her. Tell her she was stunning, beautiful, and how they would love to meet her.

Used to amuse me because when she went of cam, the guys would about face and try to get a meet of some other female in the room

Course by this time no woman would want them and most blocked them.

🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣

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By *he gentleman 1000Man
2 weeks ago

santry


"I know how many men I have had sex with and that's just because the figure is low due to work and family and also as I tend to have fbs or fwb long term so dont meet many.

Had to laugh when I read Bo's comment

'sex crazy horny twats 24/7,with an actual decent attitude who doesn't simp over every woman on here in the hope of getting a ride'

It reminds me of the Ireland chat room when I joined over 10 years ago. If a hottie came on cam the men would start to praise and flatter her. Tell her she was stunning, beautiful, and how they would love to meet her.

Used to amuse me because when she went of cam, the guys would about face and try to get a meet of some other female in the room

Course by this time no woman would want them and most blocked them.

🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣"
lol cant blame them they all wanted get with the hottie .

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By *electableicecreamMan
2 weeks ago

The West


"

I'm just wondering how many more threads I can bear that try to perpetuate the myth that men have no agency over who they have sex with, and that women can have sex with whoever they want with little or no effort

"

Honestly like.

I turn down far more connections than I agree to.

Not only do men have agency, they also have taste and some self respect. Well some men anyway.

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By *earuisceMan
2 weeks ago

south sligo

Lots of room on my bedpost ! Quality over quantity for me

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
2 weeks ago

Newtownabbey


"My "body count " is my business and no-one else's. I also haven't kept one. Not because the numbers are massive but more that the number of people I have had sex with isn't important to me. The actual people I have had sex with is what matters. I don't understand the need to keep a record of the numbers.

As for that myth that women rule here and only they control who they has sex,ln my opnion is a load of rubbish. As the saying goes it takes two to tango.And while yes some men are desperate enough to get up on a cracked plate given the chance but they are usually the ones I avoid as it is pretty clear they have a low opinion of women they meet especon a site like this. The ones who think all women on here are sex craved and just waiting for them to message they are in the area and will want to fuck them for that reason alone.

I prefer men who don't act like sex crazy horny twats 24/7,with an actual decent attitude who doesn't simp over every woman on here in the hope of getting a ride. And ones who achy realise they have just as much power on here as any other person regardless of gender. "

👏👏

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By *he KakapoMan
2 weeks ago

A nice rock

 something we really discuss as you get older no one gives a shit

Also

What's your body count

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By *oprano100Man
2 weeks ago

Dublin

Hold on whilst i gather my noteboooks...

When a Man says 10, it means 5.

When a Woman says 5 it means 55

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By *iscuits8Man
2 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


"I prefer men who don't act like sex crazy horny twats"

Sake 😔

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By *antra MassageMan
2 weeks ago

Galway

I've a vague idea of the amount of women I've been sexual with.

I remember precisely every woman I fell in love with.

I know I'm in some women's body count.

I hope they remember me with fondness.

I don't know who, or how many, but I'd love to know... the women who fell in love with me.

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