FabSwingers.com forum: Profile feedback

By (user no longer on site) OP
44 weeks ago

I would love feedback on my profile. Im genuine, I certainly do not harass or give anyone on here the kind of abuse that some "men" do, however, I find it very difficult to A) get noticed and B) actually strike up conversation with anyone.

I try to be as respectful as possible. I will send a brief message with a face pic attached to a lady or couple profile that catches my attention and Im usually ignored.

It is actually quite nice when you receive a "no thanks you" reply.

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By *affa31Woman
44 weeks ago

Galway

The pic of the bed is weird. The pics of your hand on the massage table, also a bit weird.

Surely you’re advertising yourself, not a massage bed.

Your profile is heavily focused on squirting. That’s likely to make women think that that’s all you care about when the majority couldn’t give a shite if they squirt or not.

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By *osyRedLipsWoman
44 weeks ago

KILDARE

My feed back would be you need more pictures of you the massage table features more than you do.

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By *ustBoWoman
44 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Pretty much what Jaffa said ,plus the whole massage thing so many say that on here I'm sure most women have heard that countless times.

But if you think the profile reflects you and what you want it is perfect. Don't change a thing because it won't appeal to some and will appeal to others. There's no point in pretending to be something your are not.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

I'd remove all the photos but your first one and take a few new ones with you in them.

The dick beside an object photo is a running joke on Fab.

The massage thing is, unfortunately for you in this case, a very common USP for guys on Fab hoping to get their leg over.

I honestly think you have a better chance of getting laid based on your personality than you do by offering a massage.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

You need to learn to dress a bed.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
44 weeks ago

Newry

Yeah like already said, it's heavily focused on squirting and that would be enough to put me off

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
44 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

" I will wink of your profile"

..that needs fixing.

Also be cautious about guaranteeing women orgasms, for quite a few women they can't even do that on their own and it comes across as overconfident. Keep it believable or a reader might not believe the rest of what you say either.

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By *og-ManMan
44 weeks ago

somewhere

"You need to learn to dress a bed. "

I think its a bed that needs to dry out first

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
44 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

The part about wanting to meet women that haven't squirted and the drenched bed just turn me off immediately...but its the same with verifications saying "sorry about the bed/sofa/stairs etc, who the fuck wants to be lying there again when someone else's piss is sunk into it

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
44 weeks ago

ireland

"Yeah like already said, it's heavily focused on squirting and that would be enough to put me off"

And me !

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By *adhatter and coCouple
44 weeks ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

"Yeah like already said, it's heavily focused on squirting and that would be enough to put me off

And me !"

Add me as well

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By *ofusplusCouple
44 weeks ago

Limerick

"I would love feedback on my profile. Im genuine, I certainly do not harass or give anyone on here the kind of abuse that some "men" do, however, I find it very difficult to A) get noticed and B) actually strike up conversation with anyone.

I try to be as respectful as possible. I will send a brief message with a face pic attached to a lady or couple profile that catches my attention and Im usually ignored.

It is actually quite nice when you receive a "no thanks you" reply. "

You not acknowledging the feedback after specifically asking for it is a big turn-off for me.

Also the squirting promises, why would you think women want to be 'taught how to squirt? If I could go back to the wonderful time when I couldn't squirt, I would gladly. But unfortunately, it is seen as a target by guys on Fab so once the floodgates are opened, there's no going back.

Bet you're sorry you asked now

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By *ugoBallsMan
44 weeks ago

Ratoath

I would have made the bed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
44 weeks ago

Thank you all for the feedback. I asked you to be brutal and you absolutely were 🤣 It is appreciated though, sincerely.

I have updated my profile, and taken on the advice given.

I expect I'll have completed Fab in a few weeks 🤷‍♂️ (Inbetweeners reference for anyone who took that seriously)

Happy Fabbing everyone!

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By *ofusplusCouple
44 weeks ago

Limerick

Ah fair play, you have a good attitude to brutality

Most guys ignore advice, or get the hump, or both.

Good luck with the site!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
44 weeks ago

"Ah fair play, you have a good attitude to brutality

Most guys ignore advice, or get the hump, or both.

Good luck with the site!"

🫶

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I'd love a feedback on my profile. I'm a shy guy and is very respectful to the women here.

I also send a simple introduction message like "Hey I'm xx , I saw your profile and it looked really interesting, I'd love to chat with you and get to know you better".

Any kind of feedback on profile and how to talk to women here would be very helpful. Thanks 😊😊

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By *ofusplusCouple
25 weeks ago

Limerick

"I'd love a feedback on my profile. I'm a shy guy and is very respectful to the women here.

I also send a simple introduction message like "Hey I'm xx , I saw your profile and it looked really interesting, I'd love to chat with you and get to know you better".

Any kind of feedback on profile and how to talk to women here would be very helpful. Thanks 😊😊"

Hey there! You're in Dublin which hosts loads of events so I'd recommend attending socials and getting yourself out there.

As for your profile, your photos are good. I'd remove the virgin bit, that's for a conversation after you've agreed to play with someone. Also I'd remove the teaching reference. Generally older ladies aren't on here to teach younger guys, it's more about building a connection which can be done at socials. Good luck. Mrs

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By *he KakapoMan
25 weeks ago

A nice rock

Im also shy do me!

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By *inkyDragonMan
25 weeks ago

Castleknock

"I'd love a feedback on my profile. I'm a shy guy and is very respectful to the women here.

I also send a simple introduction message like "Hey I'm xx , I saw your profile and it looked really interesting, I'd love to chat with you and get to know you better".

Any kind of feedback on profile and how to talk to women here would be very helpful. Thanks 😊😊"

If you so desire. 29 and still a virgin smacks of bullshit. Need to be discreet equals your with a dolly bird or worse, a wife. It doesn’t seem that appealing to women folk here I’m sure.

There’s no fast way on Fab. I’ve seen absolute pricks with less words than you on Fab and meet between 18 and 99 and verified by 50 women and I’ve seen profiles where they seem like a nice fella with a bit of info on his profile and it’s thin on the ground for him.

I’m not a fan of ‘socials’ and the be all of Fab if you want to get ‘known’. Fuck that but if you want to meet others socially, look out on the forums for dates, there’s usually one or two a month.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Thank you so much

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Haha, maybe i should pretend to be a prick and change my profile? 😉😉

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By *eehornyWoman
25 weeks ago

Mayo

Ok ye wonderful fabbers... have at my profile! I think it needs a refresh

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By *tudentForFunMan
25 weeks ago

Lurgan

"Ok ye wonderful fabbers... have at my profile! I think it needs a refresh"

Great bio but more up to date pics/videos wouldn’t hurt x

(Ignore mine 🤣)

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By *eehornyWoman
25 weeks ago

Mayo

"Ok ye wonderful fabbers... have at my profile! I think it needs a refresh

Great bio but more up to date pics/videos wouldn’t hurt x

(Ignore mine 🤣)"

I agree, just need time to take them. I do have newer ones in my friends only though

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

"Ok ye wonderful fabbers... have at my profile! I think it needs a refresh"

I think your profile looks great ,I like how very detailed it is and doesn't need any changes.

Review mine too?

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Would any of you review my profile.

I've been blocked and ignored by so many women when I've sent nice messages. I've never said anything derogatory or disrespectful.

I think its my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

"Would any of you review my profile.

I've been blocked and ignored by so many women when I've sent nice messages. I've never said anything derogatory or disrespectful.

I think its my profile "

Change your pics it’s all cock no personality

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Thanks for being honest.

Too many cock pics.

I'm a genuine fun fella

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

"Thanks for being honest.

Too many cock pics.

I'm a genuine fun fella"

Ye display more of yourself as someone would meet you

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By *oe872Man
25 weeks ago

Antrim/Belfast

Would love to get on the feedback train 😂 braced for brutality...

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By *eehornyWoman
25 weeks ago

Mayo

"Ok ye wonderful fabbers... have at my profile! I think it needs a refresh

I think your profile looks great ,I like how very detailed it is and doesn't need any changes.

Photos are good, just need to divulge more in your bio like one of your said fantasies maybe? And get a veri from a person you've met, not just cam

Review mine too?"

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

"Would love to get on the feedback train 😂 braced for brutality..."

Pics have some artistic flair and it’s well presented . Maybe a little crude but it works

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By *oe872Man
25 weeks ago

Antrim/Belfast

Thank you!

The shower video is the perfect tease to open things up...

Love the detail and the clear setting out of what you want and don't want!

Also paragraphs 👌 nothing as infuriating as a large block of text, no matter what it says!

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By *oe872Man
25 weeks ago

Antrim/Belfast

Thanks for the feedback

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By *ightsOutCouple
24 weeks ago

It’s a long way

We would also love a review if someone wouldn’t mind 😘

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Definitely need help with mine 🙈

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