FabSwingers.com forum: Oral....

By *errybhoy67 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Magherafelt

Ladies how long should a man perform oral sex??

10,15,20 minutes or longer.

Until you cum.

Or Until you tell him to stop and put it in and f@#k you hard.

Personally I'd do it all night,I just love the Ladies reaction

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By *eanRMan
2 weeks ago

Dublin 9

As long as they want it

Absolutely love giving oral

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By *ookwhoitishaMan
2 weeks ago

Donegal Border

Do all women like it?

I know a few that don't

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By *ettaManMan
2 weeks ago

Based in Kerry, work in Cork.

"Ladies how long should a man perform oral sex??

10,15,20 minutes or longer.

Until you cum.

Or Until you tell him to stop and put it in and f@#k you hard.

Personally I'd do it all night,I just love the Ladies reaction

Until she's come so much she needs to take a break.

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By *rRiosMan
2 weeks ago

dublin

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I want oral. I ask for it. I get 5 minutes attention and that’s it. I’ve given up at this point. Just fuck me. I’ll look after my orgasm when I get home and get a 1-1 2 minutes with my pink best friend.

I’m married 15 years and monogamous for 13.5 years of those. I’ve read throughout that time about there being a scarcity of women’s orgasms. I thought to myself, that cannot possibly be true. But sadly it is. I’ve been having sex outside of marriage since April 2024 - I’ve given up on actually getting an orgasm when meeting men. And those who state on their profiles that they ensure women cum before they do are the worst offenders.

I’m sure “I’m to blame” for choosing the wrong men. But fuck it - I’ve given up. My life would be so much easier if I liked women 😩

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By *ingetMan
2 weeks ago

West Cork

Love to give Oral and love it when a girl squirts.

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By *uddermeIspinMan
2 weeks ago

city centre

Surely its only good if both parties are enjoying it. I don't see any point in being down there for hours if she is just lying there wondering if the plants at home need watering or if she forgot to turn off the immersion heater. It doesn't matter who's giving or receiving, or how much you love giving, if it's no fun then you may just come up and try a different approach. What works for one doesn't necessarily work for all.

That's just my opinion on the subject.

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By *affa31Woman
2 weeks ago

Galway

"Surely its only good if both parties are enjoying it. I don't see any point in being down there for hours if she is just lying there wondering if the plants at home need watering or if she forgot to turn off the immersion heater. It doesn't matter who's giving or receiving, or how much you love giving, if it's no fun then you may just come up and try a different approach. What works for one doesn't necessarily work for all.

That's just my opinion on the subject. "

This exactly. There’s no prescription

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By *ingerOnTheLooseWoman
2 weeks ago

Dublin

"I want oral. I ask for it. I get 5 minutes attention and that’s it. I’ve given up at this point. Just fuck me. I’ll look after my orgasm when I get home and get a 1-1 2 minutes with my pink best friend.

I’m sure “I’m to blame” for choosing the wrong men. But fuck it - I’ve given up. My life would be so much easier if I liked women 😩"

I say that last line way too often lately! 😂

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By *eanRMan
2 weeks ago

Dublin 9

That's just my opinion on the subject. "

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By *exyScientistsCouple
2 weeks ago

Castlebar

4mins or 4 hours..if my mind isn't in the right place it's not gonna happen anyway.

Women are strange creatures all wanting and liking different things. Guys think that what works on one woman will work on the next and then panicking when nothing works....its tricky ole business 😜

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"4mins or 4 hours..if my mind isn't in the right place it's not gonna happen anyway.

4 hrs...spare a thought for the poor fella with tongue ache

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By *ingerOnTheLooseWoman
2 weeks ago

Dublin

"4mins or 4 hours..if my mind isn't in the right place it's not gonna happen anyway.

Were definitely strange and complex creatures that sometimes (for me, most times) can’t think with just their bean.

Most times I need a guy to fuck my mind first before he fucks my body. Then I’m not thinking about that news article I read about not digging big holes in sandy beaches because my focus is mostly all in.

And if that doesn’t work…well then I need to talk about what happens when you dig big holes and then my brain can refocus 😂

….or maybe that’s just me and my neurospicy brain 🤭

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By *adger BrocMan
2 weeks ago

Co. Cork

As men and women have basically the same anatomical mouth structure, all human lips and tongues are basically the same, is possible that neither can be better at giving oral other than possibly by having developed a better technique.

Does having an intimate understanding of how it feels to be on the receiving end actually equip one better for delivering such delights.

If so a man can never really know what is required to serve up such satisfaction to a lady and can mearly give lips service, with perhaps a bit of tongue-in-cheek to the subject.

And yes tongue-in-cheek is a whole different matter, possibly for a different thread....

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By *electableicecreamMan
2 weeks ago

The West

I love going down on a woman and I've definitely met women who's minds I haven't blown. I feel the women that I've had the best response with are the ones I'm better able to read. We have to speak the same language, as it were.

Otherwise I just end up going round in circles when what I should have been doing is brushing over her clit with a tongue like a butterfly's wing.

I think that takes getting to know someone. I know how I like to receive oral but I don't have a handy presentation to whip out the first time I meet someone.

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By *obshortMan
2 weeks ago

Cork

For me, it all starts in the mind, stimulate the mind, because that's where the trigger is. Next is on the lips, hard not to respond to some sweet kisses. Work on down, down slowly. The neck, ears, shoulders(no rush). When you get to the clit. If its not wet and happy to see you. Either start over. Or check for a pulse. 🤣🤣🤣

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By *electableicecreamMan
2 weeks ago

The West

"For me, it all starts in the mind, stimulate the mind, because that's where the trigger is. Next is on the lips, hard not to respond to some sweet kisses. Work on down, down slowly. The neck, ears, shoulders(no rush). When you get to the clit. If its not wet and happy to see you. Either start over. Or check for a pulse. 🤣🤣🤣"

Do you never want to just lift her dress and eat like it's your last meal though?

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By *inger_SterlingCouple
2 weeks ago

Dublin

I absolute love oral.. it is my absolutely favourite way to cum it’s so indulgent. Him there giving you this pleasure.. not rushing it.. reading your body.. watching for signs of build up.. keeping the rhythm going… the fingers finding the pleasure points inside… mmmmm yes please.

Some guys give you a cursory lick.. finger fuck then want you to suck them off.. (I love giving oral too but feel cheated if I’m not given to too)

Ginger

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"I absolute love oral.. it is my absolutely favourite way to cum it’s so indulgent. Him there giving you this pleasure.. not rushing it.. reading your body.. watching for signs of build up.. keeping the rhythm going… the fingers finding the pleasure points inside… mmmmm yes please.

Some guys give you a cursory lick.. finger fuck then want you to suck them off.. (I love giving oral too but feel cheated if I’m not given to too)

Ginger "

My exact thoughts exactly. I absolutely love giving oral. And I spend a long time doing it. But when not being properly reciprocated 🤷🏽‍♀️

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By *om TangoMan
2 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

"4mins or 4 hours..if my mind isn't in the right place it's not gonna happen anyway.

I agree. Most lady’s are different. I enjoy doing Sensation play on the cross. While I haven’t had many on the cross yet I do find what works for one lady doesn’t work for the next lady. Giving oral kinda the same. If I’m not getting a response from the lady fairy soon I’m coming up. If I get a response very early on I’m staying down there until my jaw hurts. But definitely couldn’t do hours. Maybe 15 plus minutes but no where even near an hour. Jaysus I’d lock jaw in the middle of the hold thing. That likely has ruined a few meetings for me now. Hands up. I can’t do hours

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By *og-ManMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere

What about when you get a muscle cramp on your tongue

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By *om TangoMan
2 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

I will add that I think I’m good at giving oral. Maybe I’m not. But I’ve met 2 lady’s before and no matter what I did while down there I got no response whatsoever. Kinda would knock the confidence out of a man but I’m a fair good communicator and when I asked what I wasn’t doing right I simply got told oral does nothing for me.

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By *ettaManMan
2 weeks ago

Based in Kerry, work in Cork.

We need a fab Oral Olympics....

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By *inger_SterlingCouple
2 weeks ago

Dublin

"What about when you get a muscle cramp on your tongue

Or you find your jaw dislocated? 🤣🤣🤣

-D

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By *hantomfemmeWoman
2 weeks ago

Sligo/Galway depends on the day

Until I want him to fuck me hard

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By *canmanMan
2 weeks ago

Galway

I'd do it all night long 🤣🤣...but usually until the woman wants my cock then.

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By *igad999Man
2 weeks ago

wolverhampton

Wife absolutely loves oral. And fingering too

I love giving and prefer to give

It’s a huge part of our foreplay and sex and wow yes I’ll. go for as long as she wants

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By *ettaManMan
2 weeks ago

Based in Kerry, work in Cork.

I’m sure “I’m to blame” for choosing the wrong men. But fuck it - I’ve given up. My life would be so much easier if I liked women 😩"

I'm confident I could change your mind on this.

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By *dfabMan
2 weeks ago

Dunboyne

"4mins or 4 hours..if my mind isn't in the right place it's not gonna happen anyway.

Were definitely strange and complex creatures that sometimes (for me, most times) can’t think with just their bean.

And if that doesn’t work…well then I need to talk about what happens when you dig big holes and then my brain can refocus 😂

….or maybe that’s just me and my neurospicy brain 🤭"

Always curious about this "fuck my mind" bit.

What's meant by that? What's entailed?

As I love giving oral and often vary techniques so it's not always the same, so she's not sure what to expect and excited about it every time.

Only failed about 2% of the time and yes, they said they weren't really fans of oral, though so did some of the 98% who did cum

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By *ucktailMan
2 weeks ago

Dundonald

We all adults. So lads don't be afraid to ask what the lady likes . As mentioned we all different and what 1 likes another wont,.. and the best foreplay is with the mind..

But I must say. The best part of giving oral for me Is that very first taste and smell when its all the lady..Just making the senses explode . Her sweet scent mixed with her juices. Mmm yep that very first moment ur tongue picks up all that flavour. . . So for me it's that first lick and smell

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By *orkman66Man
2 weeks ago

Portlaoise

As mentioned previously, perhaps asking might help ! I would never consider myself an expert in these matters but one would think that if you are in the situation where you are lucky enough to be intimate with a lady, then perhaps you should be able to communicate?

It may also be a case that in the given moment, the lady is just not feeling it (ie as was mentioned before, she may have 101 other things going on...including thoughts such as (and this has been mentioned to me, so Im not second guessing) "Is he getting bored/God will he get fed up ... etc etc "

All I can suggest is perhaps "read the room" .... from my (albeit limited !) understanding of the female psyche, she may need to feel 100% comfortable with the person she is with, so perhaps a one night stand is not the ideal scenario for oral ?

Anyway, just my two cents worth

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By *ooking2099Man
2 weeks ago

city

From my experience the opinion Ive gathered is , if she dont like the way I kiss, im already behind on points before I get the chance to give oral pleasure. Could be just me, but as someome else has said each person reacts differently to different things, and the key is probably been sensitive enough to judge how the other person reacts be kissing or oral

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