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By *ashea OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Killarney

Is it me but I am getting alot of anti single men vibe of some of the profiles on fab both old and new. Granted its personally choice but it's very disheartening to see.

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By *iCuri0Man
2 weeks ago

Shannon

I mean if the members of the site are majority men wouldn't it be reasonable for people to want to be picky?

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By *ashea OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Killarney


"I mean if the members of the site are majority men wouldn't it be reasonable for people to want to be picky? "
true but to completely remove men altogether and on most profiles. Are we that bad ?

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By *affa31Woman
2 weeks ago

Galway

People have preferences.

Instead of focusing on the people who aren’t looking for you, focus on the people who are.

If your perception is that most people aren’t looking for single guys, you’re focusing on the wrong profiles.

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By *xcited And CuriousCouple
2 weeks ago

Dublin

Mr here.

Why would a single man be contacting any profile that states not being interested in single men?

Pretty simple, no?

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple
2 weeks ago

Louth


"Is it me but I am getting alot of anti single men vibe of some of the profiles on fab both old and new. Granted its personally choice but it's very disheartening to see. "

No we just choose who we know turns up, plays correctly, respect! And is safe. Hence large majority get discarded, make no apoligises about that. Also if needed we can nick a guy from a couple or send mine to them. Works easier that way.

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By *ubadubdubWoman
2 weeks ago

Hereabouts

I hope it's not anti-men. In a lot of cases men are blocked from direct messaging just to control the inbox. Account holders can then browse and message the profiles that take their fancy.

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By *electableicecreamMan
2 weeks ago

The West

Ah yeah but sure lookit the people who are giving you that vibe aren't your people. Best just block the account and curate the experience you want.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
2 weeks ago

kinkytown


"Is it me but I am getting alot of anti single men vibe of some of the profiles on fab both old and new. Granted its personally choice but it's very disheartening to see. "

In what way are they anti men?

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"Is it me but I am getting alot of anti single men vibe of some of the profiles on fab both old and new. Granted its personally choice but it's very disheartening to see. "

I have to agree with you. But it’s for the same rinse and repeat reason of- it’s a numbers game here. So many men, so few women. But sometimes when I read some of the single ladies bios I am completely turned off by the list of demands and negativity dripping from them- if I was a dude I would be terrified messaging some of them! The single men here should go on Strike for three months, no meets, no socials, let the couples go back to sex with just each other and us single women back to trawling T1nder and the pubs at weekends- see how we get on😂😂😂

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"Is it me but I am getting alot of anti single men vibe of some of the profiles on fab both old and new. Granted its personally choice but it's very disheartening to see. "

It is a tough gig as a single man on Fab, and its entirely because of the profiles on here who spam other's inbox and then become nasty when their messages are ignored or missed..

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
2 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Fab isn't anti-man in general. It's the significant proportion who don't read profiles, are pushy, turn nasty when they hear "no", and only think about themselves. These ruin it for the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Gentlemen, thank you for your input- but maybe the ladies of Fab could give you the reason why they block the men….and maybe y’all could listen, instead of answering for us? Just a thought …..

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By *exyScientistsCouple
2 weeks ago

Castlebar


"Is it me but I am getting alot of anti single men vibe of some of the profiles on fab both old and new. Granted its personally choice but it's very disheartening to see.

I have to agree with you. But it’s for the same rinse and repeat reason of- it’s a numbers game here. So many men, so few women. But sometimes when I read some of the single ladies bios I am completely turned off by the list of demands and negativity dripping from them- if I was a dude I would be terrified messaging some of them! The single men here should go on Strike for three months, no meets, no socials, let the couples go back to sex with just each other and us single women back to trawling T1nder and the pubs at weekends- see how we get on😂😂😂"

Ah now. That's a bit extreme 😳

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By *adger BrocMan
2 weeks ago

Co. Cork


"Fab isn't anti-man in general. It's the significant proportion who don't read profiles, are pushy, turn nasty when they hear "no", and only think about themselves. These ruin it for the rest "

.....

I believe the guys who misbehave dont ruin it for anyone but themselves. They actually do the more normal guys a favour by taking themselves out of the running. Less competition means more likelihood of success.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"I mean if the members of the site are majority men wouldn't it be reasonable for people to want to be picky? true but to completely remove men altogether and on most profiles. Are we that bad ?"

Yes you are. It starts with messages like “you’re super hot, your body is amazing.” And ends with “stop being so up your ass at your age when you’re flat as a plank.” in the span of 3 messages. All I said was “I’m not interested. Take care.”

Men suck 😏

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By *eturning MGMan
2 weeks ago

mayo galway roscommon sligo....West Of Ireland

Let be honest a lot of men on here dont help our cause.

First message is "Hi" with 12 dick pics.

So cant blame women and couples for filtering out single guys.

unfortunately🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️😪😪

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"Gentlemen, thank you for your input- but maybe the ladies of Fab could give you the reason why they block the men….and maybe y’all could listen, instead of answering for us? Just a thought ….."

I don't feel anybody has to give an explanation as to why they bock somebody. Different profiles will have an array of different reasons and each and every one of those reasons is valid amd without need for an explanation.

If profiles state that they are not interested in single men then they are quite simply not interested in single men. It is a lot easier to just accept that and understand that this is their preference. They (and every profile on Fab including single men) are entitled to exclude whatever it is they wish without having to explain themselves.

There is no point knocking on a door that you know will not be answered. All you do is frustrate yourself.

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By *lameclubnightsWoman
2 weeks ago

ireland

I’m anti cheating men if that counts and in my experience as a single female on here a huge number of “single male profiles” are not in fact “single males” .

Us women have very little free/spare time and it’s why majority of women only arrange meets with men after meeting at socials or events. Most women are here for actual meets , most men r here for distraction from their boring sexless relationships… allegedly !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"I’m anti cheating men if that counts and in my experience as a single female on here a huge number of “single male profiles” are not in fact “single males” .

Us women have very little free/spare time and it’s why majority of women only arrange meets with men after meeting at socials or events. Most women are here for actual meets , most men r here for distraction from their boring sexless relationships… allegedly !!!!"

Agreed 100%. I always think lots of “single”men are here for sex chats, to fill their wank banks, before they get up on their wives. I dont waste my time on that shite.

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By *lameclubnightsWoman
2 weeks ago

ireland


"I’m anti cheating men if that counts and in my experience as a single female on here a huge number of “single male profiles” are not in fact “single males” .

Us women have very little free/spare time and it’s why majority of women only arrange meets with men after meeting at socials or events. Most women are here for actual meets , most men r here for distraction from their boring sexless relationships… allegedly !!!!

Agreed 100%. I always think lots of “single”men are here for sex chats, to fill their wank banks, before they get up on their wives. I dont waste my time on that shite."

Agreed luv!!!! Sex chats 😂😂 nah mate I want an actual penis .

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By *ewcorkcpl23Couple
2 weeks ago

Cork

I think the profiles that don't look for single men are ones that have experienced the negative side of them or have been told the negatives around them, I know that's not all single me but sometimes it can be easier just to assume it is then move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"Fab isn't anti-man in general. It's the significant proportion who don't read profiles, are pushy, turn nasty when they hear "no", and only think about themselves. These ruin it for the rest

.....

I believe the guys who misbehave dont ruin it for anyone but themselves. They actually do the more normal guys a favour by taking themselves out of the running. Less competition means more likelihood of success. "

You would think that, but I've found it makes women skeptical about all single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"I’m anti cheating men if that counts and in my experience as a single female on here a huge number of “single male profiles” are not in fact “single males” .

Us women have very little free/spare time and it’s why majority of women only arrange meets with men after meeting at socials or events. Most women are here for actual meets , most men r here for distraction from their boring sexless relationships… allegedly !!!!

Agreed 100%. I always think lots of “single”men are here for sex chats, to fill their wank banks, before they get up on their wives. I dont waste my time on that shite.

Agreed luv!!!! Sex chats 😂😂 nah mate I want an actual penis . "

So true, if I get asked one more time “Tell me what you’d like to do to me” one more time I’ll implode. Let talk more action. I’d rather read a racy book thank simply chat about sex.

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By *lameclubnightsWoman
2 weeks ago

ireland


"Fab isn't anti-man in general. It's the significant proportion who don't read profiles, are pushy, turn nasty when they hear "no", and only think about themselves. These ruin it for the rest

.....

I believe the guys who misbehave dont ruin it for anyone but themselves. They actually do the more normal guys a favour by taking themselves out of the running. Less competition means more likelihood of success.

You would think that, but I've found it makes women skeptical about all single guys "

I think you’re right. I don’t even think it’s sceptical, I just believe women are so bored of the repetitive nature of trying to find genuine singles for meets . Interest is lost .

It’s why I’ve made a singles group where face pics must be displayed to join . It’s pro active for the sexually open folk that want casual sex in a respectful consensual space as opposed to 3 am coming outta coppers , although I’m partial to a bit of that aswell 😂😂😂

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By *lameclubnightsWoman
2 weeks ago

ireland


"I’m anti cheating men if that counts and in my experience as a single female on here a huge number of “single male profiles” are not in fact “single males” .

Us women have very little free/spare time and it’s why majority of women only arrange meets with men after meeting at socials or events. Most women are here for actual meets , most men r here for distraction from their boring sexless relationships… allegedly !!!!

Agreed 100%. I always think lots of “single”men are here for sex chats, to fill their wank banks, before they get up on their wives. I dont waste my time on that shite.

Agreed luv!!!! Sex chats 😂😂 nah mate I want an actual penis .

So true, if I get asked one more time “Tell me what you’d like to do to me” one more time I’ll implode. Let talk more action. I’d rather read a racy book thank simply chat about sex. "

Or “what are you into ? “ - I’m into blokes that don’t ask me what I’m into ?

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"Fab isn't anti-man in general. It's the significant proportion who don't read profiles, are pushy, turn nasty when they hear "no", and only think about themselves. These ruin it for the rest

.....

I believe the guys who misbehave dont ruin it for anyone but themselves. They actually do the more normal guys a favour by taking themselves out of the running. Less competition means more likelihood of success.

You would think that, but I've found it makes women skeptical about all single guys

I think you’re right. I don’t even think it’s sceptical, I just believe women are so bored of the repetitive nature of trying to find genuine singles for meets . Interest is lost .

It’s why I’ve made a singles group where face pics must be displayed to join . It’s pro active for the sexually open folk that want casual sex in a respectful consensual space as opposed to 3 am coming outta coppers , although I’m partial to a bit of that aswell 😂😂😂

"

Interesting, tbh I'm not a fan of group chats but might consider it

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"I’m anti cheating men if that counts and in my experience as a single female on here a huge number of “single male profiles” are not in fact “single males” .

Us women have very little free/spare time and it’s why majority of women only arrange meets with men after meeting at socials or events. Most women are here for actual meets , most men r here for distraction from their boring sexless relationships… allegedly !!!!

Agreed 100%. I always think lots of “single”men are here for sex chats, to fill their wank banks, before they get up on their wives. I dont waste my time on that shite.

Agreed luv!!!! Sex chats 😂😂 nah mate I want an actual penis .

So true, if I get asked one more time “Tell me what you’d like to do to me” one more time I’ll implode. Let talk more action. I’d rather read a racy book thank simply chat about sex.

Or “what are you into ? “ - I’m into blokes that don’t ask me what I’m into ? "

Right?!!! I’ve gone through the trouble of writing a bio and ticking all the boxes available. I’ve already outlined clearly what I’m in to. I usually answer knitting - the double sided stitch is one of my kinkiest moves 🤣

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By *lameclubnightsWoman
2 weeks ago

ireland


"Fab isn't anti-man in general. It's the significant proportion who don't read profiles, are pushy, turn nasty when they hear "no", and only think about themselves. These ruin it for the rest

.....

I believe the guys who misbehave dont ruin it for anyone but themselves. They actually do the more normal guys a favour by taking themselves out of the running. Less competition means more likelihood of success.

You would think that, but I've found it makes women skeptical about all single guys

I think you’re right. I don’t even think it’s sceptical, I just believe women are so bored of the repetitive nature of trying to find genuine singles for meets . Interest is lost .

It’s why I’ve made a singles group where face pics must be displayed to join . It’s pro active for the sexually open folk that want casual sex in a respectful consensual space as opposed to 3 am coming outta coppers , although I’m partial to a bit of that aswell 😂😂😂

Interesting, tbh I'm not a fan of group chats but might consider it"

Can I ask why ?

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By *lameclubnightsWoman
2 weeks ago

ireland


"I’m anti cheating men if that counts and in my experience as a single female on here a huge number of “single male profiles” are not in fact “single males” .

Us women have very little free/spare time and it’s why majority of women only arrange meets with men after meeting at socials or events. Most women are here for actual meets , most men r here for distraction from their boring sexless relationships… allegedly !!!!

Agreed 100%. I always think lots of “single”men are here for sex chats, to fill their wank banks, before they get up on their wives. I dont waste my time on that shite.

Agreed luv!!!! Sex chats 😂😂 nah mate I want an actual penis .

So true, if I get asked one more time “Tell me what you’d like to do to me” one more time I’ll implode. Let talk more action. I’d rather read a racy book thank simply chat about sex.

Or “what are you into ? “ - I’m into blokes that don’t ask me what I’m into ?

Right?!!! I’ve gone through the trouble of writing a bio and ticking all the boxes available. I’ve already outlined clearly what I’m in to. I usually answer knitting - the double sided stitch is one of my kinkiest moves 🤣"

Sounds kinky as hell 😆

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"Fab isn't anti-man in general. It's the significant proportion who don't read profiles, are pushy, turn nasty when they hear "no", and only think about themselves. These ruin it for the rest

.....

I believe the guys who misbehave dont ruin it for anyone but themselves. They actually do the more normal guys a favour by taking themselves out of the running. Less competition means more likelihood of success.

You would think that, but I've found it makes women skeptical about all single guys

I think you’re right. I don’t even think it’s sceptical, I just believe women are so bored of the repetitive nature of trying to find genuine singles for meets . Interest is lost .

It’s why I’ve made a singles group where face pics must be displayed to join . It’s pro active for the sexually open folk that want casual sex in a respectful consensual space as opposed to 3 am coming outta coppers , although I’m partial to a bit of that aswell 😂😂😂

Interesting, tbh I'm not a fan of group chats but might consider it

Can I ask why ? "

Just not my thing , I'm more comfortable in one on one chatting is all

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By *electableicecreamMan
2 weeks ago

The West

The consistency of the complaints against men is actually stunning. I've been reading threads like this since I joined and it's so consistent.

Like it's totally feasible to get twenty to a hundred messages to a woman'or couple's account and have 95% of them five words or less. Low effort is the common denominator and low effort is the path of least resistance when nothing is on the line. So I agree that largest cohort have the least interest in a meaningful interaction.

I find that accounts that are burned out on single guy accounts on fab best just passed by. They might be nice in person.

But let's be real, there is a not insignificant group of swingers of every age that would prefer if single men as a group, regardless of behaviour, weren't on fab or attending events. It's a vibe and it would be like that even guys behaved.

I'd love if there were more single events that didn't include people in couples so I wouldn't begrudge couples feeling the same

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By *lameclubnightsWoman
2 weeks ago

ireland


"Fab isn't anti-man in general. It's the significant proportion who don't read profiles, are pushy, turn nasty when they hear "no", and only think about themselves. These ruin it for the rest

.....

I believe the guys who misbehave dont ruin it for anyone but themselves. They actually do the more normal guys a favour by taking themselves out of the running. Less competition means more likelihood of success.

You would think that, but I've found it makes women skeptical about all single guys

I think you’re right. I don’t even think it’s sceptical, I just believe women are so bored of the repetitive nature of trying to find genuine singles for meets . Interest is lost .

It’s why I’ve made a singles group where face pics must be displayed to join . It’s pro active for the sexually open folk that want casual sex in a respectful consensual space as opposed to 3 am coming outta coppers , although I’m partial to a bit of that aswell 😂😂😂

Interesting, tbh I'm not a fan of group chats but might consider it

Can I ask why ?

Just not my thing , I'm more comfortable in one on one chatting is all"

Ok one on one it is so 🤭😆😂

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By *lameclubnightsWoman
2 weeks ago

ireland


"The consistency of the complaints against men is actually stunning. I've been reading threads like this since I joined and it's so consistent.

Like it's totally feasible to get twenty to a hundred messages to a woman'or couple's account and have 95% of them five words or less. Low effort is the common denominator and low effort is the path of least resistance when nothing is on the line. So I agree that largest cohort have the least interest in a meaningful interaction.

I find that accounts that are burned out on single guy accounts on fab best just passed by. They might be nice in person.

But let's be real, there is a not insignificant group of swingers of every age that would prefer if single men as a group, regardless of behaviour, weren't on fab or attending events. It's a vibe and it would be like that even guys behaved.

I'd love if there were more single events that didn't include people in couples so I wouldn't begrudge couples feeling the same

"

Me tooo

Organise one there will ya and I’ll round up a crew

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By *ustBoWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I think fab can come across as anti men at times. Thers plenty of double standards on here.

In saying that there are men who don't help themselves with the attitudes on here towards women. And like said above zero effort on their profiles and yet they are surprised that they aren't getting meets.

I have tight filters and while I am not meeting anyone new at present, when I was and will again I prefer first point of contact myself. The worst that can happen is I get no reply.

And I think quite a few woman prefer to take that approach rather than rely on being messaged.

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By *P_80Man
2 weeks ago

Waterford

You have to ask the question, why is it that most women and couples are wary of single men on here?

They didn't just decide one day that they were going to be cautious of men.

There's a reason for it.

It's not anti-men. It's how far too many men conduct themselves on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"Gentlemen, thank you for your input- but maybe the ladies of Fab could give you the reason why they block the men….and maybe y’all could listen, instead of answering for us? Just a thought ….."

there's you're answer right there OP

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By * DareCouple
2 weeks ago

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Apart from the weird messages and pushy messages …. everyone we have spoken to so far, have been lovely. Some of the guys on fab are very nice tbh.

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
2 weeks ago

Belfast and Tyrone

We aren't anti-men, but we have decided no cheating men. And because there's so many on here it's really hard to tell who's being ethical or not.

If the married ones would do the right thing and say they are playing away without permission, or something of that nature, then we would give more solo men a reply. At the minute we are so afraid of getting caught up with a guy who is only after wank chat and pics that we can't really be arsed any more.

Fab isn't generating any meets for us. Bigger socials (in person) is. Fab is dead, so it would seem to us. The married dudes killed it.

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By *ednuts101Man
2 weeks ago

Finglas


"Apart from the weird messages and pushy messages …. everyone we have spoken to so far, have been lovely. Some of the guys on fab are very nice tbh. "

If i do send a message i give it a day and if unread delete it and if its read and no -reply just forget about it. Some need to accept it and move on rather than spamming and being thick about it

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I have all single men blocked from messaging because at the beginning of my fab journey I hadn’t and it wasn’t fun, disturbing would be a better adjective. Fab is meant to be fun and the moment it isn’t or becomes tedious, I think it’s time to leave 🧐

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By *nd attemptMan
2 weeks ago

dublin

I have to commend the starter of the thread.

God forbid you're a single man.

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By *adger BrocMan
2 weeks ago

Co. Cork


"We aren't anti-men, but we have decided no cheating men. And because there's so many on here it's really hard to tell who's being ethical or not.

If the married ones would do the right thing and say they are playing away without permission, or something of that nature, then we would give more solo men a reply. At the minute we are so afraid of getting caught up with a guy who is only after wank chat and pics that we can't really be arsed any more.

Fab isn't generating any meets for us. Bigger socials (in person) is. Fab is dead, so it would seem to us. The married dudes killed it. "

.....

As a cheater, which I openly acknowledged on my profile, it is interesting to see that described as "doing the right thing" as regards participation on the site. Far more often people in ENM relationships and some singles tend to view cheaters as something to be despised and totally excluded from Fab.

I do think it's a bit ott to suggest that Fab is dead and that it was married dudes who killed it. While I would love to take credit for having that much, if any, influence on here, I think people's Fab experience lives or dies in their own hands and not because of the actions of others.

We are all on the same Fab journey but we don't necessarily have to follow the same path or interact with everyone we meet along the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"I have all single men blocked from messaging because at the beginning of my fab journey I hadn’t and it wasn’t fun, disturbing would be a better adjective. Fab is meant to be fun and the moment it isn’t or becomes tedious, I think it’s time to leave 🧐"

Agreed.

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By *om TangoMan
2 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

I can understand why couples have single men filters up. It’s to cut out the messages from single men. I’ve met couples that have single men filtered out and don’t take verifications from single males to try and avoid the unwanted attention. I was part of a couples profile before and we had no choice to put filters up to block unwanted messages even thou we were into mfm.

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By *ensualDivaWoman
2 weeks ago

Galway, Some sensual out West


"Is it me but I am getting alot of anti single men vibe of some of the profiles on fab both old and new. Granted its personally choice but it's very disheartening to see. "

Maybe avoid those ones then 🤣

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By *enerationfornicationMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere in...


"Is it me but I am getting alot of anti single men vibe of some of the profiles on fab both old and new. Granted its personally choice but it's very disheartening to see. "

I wouldn't take it personally, ... cue, Oddball Negative Waves Animated GIF from Kelly's Heroes

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By *easingTimMan
2 weeks ago

Loughlinstown

Perception is projection Op, when you put "Not looking for single guys" on your profile is that not an anti single men vibe right there?

Teasing there but food for thought

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By *hePixieAndTheBearCouple
2 weeks ago

Galway

I can't help but notice that the OP himself is "Not Looking For Single Guys".

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By *ilf ShakeWoman
2 weeks ago

KILDARE

I absolutely love men and have had amazing experiences that I could only ever dream of. But my patience is kinda running out with the randomers off the internet who message thinking I'm desperate for a dicking because I'm on Fab . One guy messages me out of the blue recently to tell me I'm a stupid old cow I can't repeat what else he said or I would have a forum ban. Just a few minutes ago a guy said reckon if you were on dating apps ypu would get zero attention which is funny as few messages previously I had a ass sculpted like a goddess. It's why I have the filters tight as a cavan man's wallet to prevent messages like these

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By *eturning MGMan
2 weeks ago

mayo galway roscommon sligo....West Of Ireland


"I absolutely love men and have had amazing experiences that I could only ever dream of. But my patience is kinda running out with the randomers off the internet who message thinking I'm desperate for a dicking because I'm on Fab . One guy messages me out of the blue recently to tell me I'm a stupid old cow I can't repeat what else he said or I would have a forum ban. Just a few minutes ago a guy said reckon if you were on dating apps ypu would get zero attention which is funny as few messages previously I had a ass sculpted like a goddess. It's why I have the filters tight as a cavan man's wallet to prevent messages like these "

Your messages always give me a laugh🤣🤣

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By *heGeneral24Man
2 weeks ago

Limerick City


"I absolutely love men and have had amazing experiences that I could only ever dream of. But my patience is kinda running out with the randomers off the internet who message thinking I'm desperate for a dicking because I'm on Fab . One guy messages me out of the blue recently to tell me I'm a stupid old cow I can't repeat what else he said or I would have a forum ban. Just a few minutes ago a guy said reckon if you were on dating apps ypu would get zero attention which is funny as few messages previously I had a ass sculpted like a goddess. It's why I have the filters tight as a cavan man's wallet to prevent messages like these "

""Cavan man's wallet"" 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 lol Savage lol

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By *P_80Man
2 weeks ago

Waterford


"I absolutely love men and have had amazing experiences that I could only ever dream of. But my patience is kinda running out with the randomers off the internet who message thinking I'm desperate for a dicking because I'm on Fab . One guy messages me out of the blue recently to tell me I'm a stupid old cow I can't repeat what else he said or I would have a forum ban. Just a few minutes ago a guy said reckon if you were on dating apps ypu would get zero attention which is funny as few messages previously I had a ass sculpted like a goddess. It's why I have the filters tight as a cavan man's wallet to prevent messages like these "

Don't want to send an unwanted message to you, but I feel compelled to say that your 'red dress' pic from 6th of July is majestic. On Fire!!

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By *ashea OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Killarney


"I absolutely love men and have had amazing experiences that I could only ever dream of. But my patience is kinda running out with the randomers off the internet who message thinking I'm desperate for a dicking because I'm on Fab . One guy messages me out of the blue recently to tell me I'm a stupid old cow I can't repeat what else he said or I would have a forum ban. Just a few minutes ago a guy said reckon if you were on dating apps ypu would get zero attention which is funny as few messages previously I had a ass sculpted like a goddess. It's why I have the filters tight as a cavan man's wallet to prevent messages like these "
so men are screwing it up for other men. Should there be a 6 month trail period for men like if they get 3 reports in that period. They are banned and their picture is on a ban list

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By *ornywife20Couple
2 weeks ago

North Cork

We occasionally meet single guys but it's guys we have met at events before hand . We would not open our messages to single guys again due to sheer volume of gobshites we would get . There are genuine guys out there that tick the boxes for herself but we will find you . Less hassle for us.

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By *he gentleman 1000Man
2 weeks ago

santry


"Is it me but I am getting alot of anti single men vibe of some of the profiles on fab both old and new. Granted its personally choice but it's very disheartening to see.

I have to agree with you. But it’s for the same rinse and repeat reason of- it’s a numbers game here. So many men, so few women. But sometimes when I read some of the single ladies bios I am completely turned off by the list of demands and negativity dripping from them- if I was a dude I would be terrified messaging some of them! The single men here should go on Strike for three months, no meets, no socials, let the couples go back to sex with just each other and us single women back to trawling T1nder and the pubs at weekends- see how we get on😂😂😂"
yeah some them have big list what they want swear they were Kate Moss or something lol

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By *og-ManMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere


"I absolutely love men and have had amazing experiences that I could only ever dream of. But my patience is kinda running out with the randomers off the internet who message thinking I'm desperate for a dicking because I'm on Fab . One guy messages me out of the blue recently to tell me I'm a stupid old cow I can't repeat what else he said or I would have a forum ban. Just a few minutes ago a guy said reckon if you were on dating apps ypu would get zero attention which is funny as few messages previously I had a ass sculpted like a goddess. It's why I have the filters tight as a cavan man's wallet to prevent messages like these so men are screwing it up for other men. Should there be a 6 month trail period for men like if they get 3 reports in that period. They are banned and their picture is on a ban list"

Why would the site kill off its cash cow

So 3 men dont like some bloke, report him and get him banned because he's got a great cock and they haven't

What could possibly go wrong

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By *eano44Man
2 weeks ago

Dublin


"I absolutely love men and have had amazing experiences that I could only ever dream of. But my patience is kinda running out with the randomers off the internet who message thinking I'm desperate for a dicking because I'm on Fab . One guy messages me out of the blue recently to tell me I'm a stupid old cow I can't repeat what else he said or I would have a forum ban. Just a few minutes ago a guy said reckon if you were on dating apps ypu would get zero attention which is funny as few messages previously I had a ass sculpted like a goddess. It's why I have the filters tight as a cavan man's wallet to prevent messages like these so men are screwing it up for other men. Should there be a 6 month trail period for men like if they get 3 reports in that period. They are banned and their picture is on a ban list

Why would the site kill off its cash cow

So 3 men dont like some bloke, report him and get him banned because he's got a great cock and they haven't

What could possibly go wrong "
Brilliant

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By *electableicecreamMan
2 weeks ago

The West


"

So 3 men dont like some bloke, report him and get him banned because he's got a great cock and they haven't

What could possibly go wrong "

This is why I won't display photos of my cock.

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By *og-ManMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere


"

So 3 men dont like some bloke, report him and get him banned because he's got a great cock and they haven't

What could possibly go wrong

This is why I won't display photos of my cock."

We appreciate it

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By *oveat1stfeelMan
2 weeks ago

around here somewhere


"Is it me but I am getting alot of anti single men vibe of some of the profiles on fab both old and new. Granted its personally choice but it's very disheartening to see. "

Everyone , not only here but in real life , have their own preference's & they have written on their profile their type , if a person meets that criteria , great , if not , move on , let it slide,don't be a pain to them.

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By *ogladyWoman
2 weeks ago

The bog


"We aren't anti-men, but we have decided no cheating men. And because there's so many on here it's really hard to tell who's being ethical or not.

If the married ones would do the right thing and say they are playing away without permission, or something of that nature, then we would give more solo men a reply. At the minute we are so afraid of getting caught up with a guy who is only after wank chat and pics that we can't really be arsed any more.

Fab isn't generating any meets for us. Bigger socials (in person) is. Fab is dead, so it would seem to us. The married dudes killed it. "

A genuine question what about the married or attached women on here that there partners don't know.. I know for a fact are a good few of them..

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By *oveat1stfeelMan
2 weeks ago

around here somewhere


"We occasionally meet single guys but it's guys we have met at events before hand . We would not open our messages to single guys again due to sheer volume of gobshites we would get . There are genuine guys out there that tick the boxes for herself but we will find you . Less hassle for us. "

It's the only way tbh , why should ye leave yourselves open to stuff ye don't want to read or get, makes complete sense tbh

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By *obSBMan
2 weeks ago

Clare


"We aren't anti-men, but we have decided no cheating men. And because there's so many on here it's really hard to tell who's being ethical or not.

If the married ones would do the right thing and say they are playing away without permission, or something of that nature, then we would give more solo men a reply. At the minute we are so afraid of getting caught up with a guy who is only after wank chat and pics that we can't really be arsed any more.

Fab isn't generating any meets for us. Bigger socials (in person) is. Fab is dead, so it would seem to us. The married dudes killed it.

A genuine question what about the married or attached women on here that there partners don't know.. I know for a fact are a good few of them.. "

Great question, bring them out from behind the woodwork. I've had the hidden female account message me.

Lots of hidden active profiles here also

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By *nquisitive LadyWoman
2 weeks ago

Midlands


"Is it me but I am getting alot of anti single men vibe of some of the profiles on fab both old and new. Granted its personally choice but it's very disheartening to see. "

Ah here there are some that are just anti everything

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By *ashea OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Killarney


"Is it me but I am getting alot of anti single men vibe of some of the profiles on fab both old and new. Granted its personally choice but it's very disheartening to see.

Ah here there are some that are just anti everything "

As in women ??

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By *ashea OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Killarney


"We aren't anti-men, but we have decided no cheating men. And because there's so many on here it's really hard to tell who's being ethical or not.

If the married ones would do the right thing and say they are playing away without permission,

or something of that nature, then we would give more solo men a reply. At the minute we are so afraid of getting caught up with a guy who is only after wank chat and pics that we can't really be arsed any more.

Fab isn't generating any meets for us. Bigger socials (in person) is. Fab is dead, so it would seem to us. The married dudes killed it.

A genuine question what about the married or attached women on here that there partners don't know.. I know for a fact are a good few of them.. "

Good point. Lots of married women here openly confess they are doing behind their husbands back

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
2 weeks ago

Belfast and Tyrone

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
2 weeks ago

Belfast and Tyrone


"We aren't anti-men, but we have decided no cheating men. And because there's so many on here it's really hard to tell who's being ethical or not.

If the married ones would do the right thing and say they are playing away without permission, or something of that nature, then we would give more solo men a reply. At the minute we are so afraid of getting caught up with a guy who is only after wank chat and pics that we can't really be arsed any more.

Fab isn't generating any meets for us. Bigger socials (in person) is. Fab is dead, so it would seem to us. The married dudes killed it.

A genuine question what about the married or attached women on here that there partners don't know.. I know for a fact are a good few of them.. "

We haven't encountered women masquerading as single, but have encountered loads of men. I don't deny that there aren't women on here doing that as well.

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By *enerationfornicationMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere in...

There are plenty of reasons as to why someoneay may or may not be playing away.

I know of both women and men doing it for their own reasons. Trying to avoid the drama (and keeping what's private) is the biggest problem.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
2 weeks ago

Tipperary

I was away for the weekend up north direction. I’m not big headed in any way shape or form, I’m actually ugly but it was as easy as pie to get chatting to women and get what you want. There wasn’t any of the “ah sure you were all pissed d*unk”. It’s way easier gain a rapport with somebody face to face rather then try second guess a lot of stuff through a profile or hearsay. Problem is a lot of women have kids and can’t do what they want or get out when they want so rely on websites like this for fun etc.

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