FabSwingers.com forum: When viewings profiles

By *hrekandFiona2 OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Naas

What do you look at first?

Ours is :

1) age

2) location

3) number of verifications

4) read their profile

5) look at their photos

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By *tudentForFunMan
3 weeks ago

Craigavon

Videos/Pics, veris, location

Age isn’t an issue

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By *iscuits8Man
3 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Diddies

sorry...

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By *milie30Woman
3 weeks ago

cork

"Diddies

sorry..."
🤣🤣🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

What they are looking for, location, pics, profile bio and then age.

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By *rystalsswingCouple
3 weeks ago

Up the Road / Galway/ Midlands

"Diddies

sorry..."

Oh you crack me up 😅

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By *rystalsswingCouple
3 weeks ago

Up the Road / Galway/ Midlands

For me, it's profile pic, then verifications, then the rest of the pics if the varis are to be believed!

For Mr....it's just pics 😁

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By *exyScientistsCouple
3 weeks ago

Castlebar

Pictures

Location

Profile blurb

Age

Interests

Verifications

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By *hantomfemmeWoman
3 weeks ago

Sligo/Galway depends on the day

Profile pics, verifications, location

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
3 weeks ago

Portstewart

For us it's what there looking for followed by their bio and only if it's a decent read do we move onto pics and veris and the veris shouldn't have too much detail in them as we don't really mind what people do with others it's more to see if we can see if they will vibe with us

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By *asheaMan
3 weeks ago

Killarney

"What do you look at first?

Ours is :

1) age

2) location

3) number of verifications

4) read their profile

5) look at their photos

For ladies it's age location, what they are looking for and pictures of they have them. For couples kinda all the same just the guy has to be straight.

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By *leanman01Man
3 weeks ago

Dundalk

As a single man weather they are interested in single men

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By *imerick ladyWoman
3 weeks ago

suburbs

"Diddies

sorry..."

Love this word 🤣🤣🤣

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By *ackandsashaCouple
2 weeks ago

West Dublin

Age, location, pics. But there's no wrong age, no wrong location, but must be an attraction.

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By *ink-panth3rMan
2 weeks ago

kilkenny

I try to read it first then nose around lol

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By *ewcorkcpl23Couple
2 weeks ago

Cork

Hmm good question ours is probably

1) age

2)location

3) bio length & vibe

4) public pics

5) veris (although don't really bother us as all the same generally)

6) bi female or not.

If the profile ticks the vast majority of our boxes we message generally.

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By *elfastblondMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

Sex

Age range

Location

Profile

Pics

Veris

Interests

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By *licat.2Woman
2 weeks ago

Not Belfast but NI

Age & Location first

Profile

Veris

Pics

Interests

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By *eturning MGMan
2 weeks ago

mayo galway roscommon sligo....West Of Ireland

Pictures i think is a given. Then location and verifications. Age is no issue. Seems to be an issue for a lot even though the age filter on most profiles is very wide.🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
2 weeks ago

kinkytown

Height, bio, pics and veris

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple
2 weeks ago

Louth

Straight to the female part! If she is bi, then read on!

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By *uddermeIspinMan
2 weeks ago

city centre

Profile pic

Bio

Location

Age

Number of veris

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Pics

Tits

Ass

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By *oveat1stfeelMan
2 weeks ago

around here somewhere

"What do you look at first?

Ours is :

1) age

2) location

3) number of verifications

4) read their profile

5) look at their photos "

Everything , in no particular order tbh , l read the profile , sometimes there are things that don't allow me message, could be only looking for ladies or couples, distance , etc etc, everyone is different so it all depends tbh but the whole profile is read .

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
2 weeks ago

Home

First thing I see is no single fellas. So that's me out.

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By *ub with a ChubbMan
2 weeks ago

Southwest & Cork City

"What do you look at first?

Ours is :

1) age

2) location

3) number of verifications

4) read their profile

5) look at their photos "

Usually profile and photos.

Age and location will be taken care of by selection choice.

Verifications are only views of the person who leaves it .. I'd rather find out for myself.

I'm a very select choice so haven't have the opportunity as yet.

Time-wasters have been my main issue sadly.

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By *atonaWoman
2 weeks ago

Meh

All of the info in the order that’s displayed. When I get to the verifications I also look at the profiles of the people who left the verifications. Get a sense on whether they’d fuck anything that moves.

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By *hrekandFiona2 OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Naas

Yes, absolutely right, I would for the same, we know this is a swinging site, but our preference is Quality over Quantity, what we really would like is to meet a couple/ lady for regular social and fun times, not many here seems to meet anyone more than once, and that's their choice and we respect that, just not for us

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By *hrekandFiona2 OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Naas

It's good that you actually read the profile, I'm suspicious that not everyone will read them, and of course you have the picture collectors

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By *hrekandFiona2 OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Naas

"Straight to the female part! If she is bi, then read on! "

I guess that saves time, however i thing a lot of women are bi curious and too shy to say it

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By *hrekandFiona2 OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Naas

"Age & Location first

Profile

Veris

Pics

Interests"

Yes , would be similar 😊

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By *ACOLCouple
2 weeks ago

Limerick

"Hmm good question ours is probably

1) age

2)location

3) bio length & vibe

4) public pics

5) veris (although don't really bother us as all the same generally)

6) bi female or not.

If the profile ticks the vast majority of our boxes we message generally. "

Very similar here!

Lina.

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By *hrekandFiona2 OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Naas

"Hmm good question ours is probably

1) age

2)location

3) bio length & vibe

4) public pics

5) veris (although don't really bother us as all the same generally)

6) bi female or not.

If the profile ticks the vast majority of our boxes we message generally. "

We think its important to go through everything as you have listed above, before messaging, at least you can see if you both are both a potential match

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By *hrekandFiona2 OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Naas

"Age, location, pics. But there's no wrong age, no wrong location, but must be an attraction."

Absolutely, there has to be a attraction, but we like to meet people + or - 10 years of our own age

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By *hrekandFiona2 OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Naas

"Diddies

sorry...

Love this word 🤣🤣🤣"

Great choice 😋

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By *P_80Man
2 weeks ago

Waterford

Location

Pics

Read the part that says I'm not what they're looking for

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By * DareCouple
2 weeks ago

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Pics and bio I guess most. Also helps if they are on the forums as you can get a little better idea of them then too

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By *og-ManMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere

I view profiles because I've seen them on the forums

So the first thing I notice is their sense of humour followed by their profile picture

I usually send a message if filters allow just to say I like their profile and that they look great

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
2 weeks ago

Belfast and Tyrone

Profile pic (there's plenty that don't even do this)

Location, no point strinking up a conversation with anyone more than an hours drive away.

Are they actually single (if a solo person), at best they are up front, at worst we have to go by crumbs in a profile and err on the side of caution.

Age, our range is quite broad but there is a too young and a too old for us

What are they looking for in us?

Is there a good bio with a bit of thought put into it.

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By *ingerOnTheLooseWoman
2 weeks ago

Dublin

For me it’s Profile picture first…hopefully with no toilets in view or close up of a d*

Smoking status and age

Then if I’ve managed to get that far it’s bio and other pics

Occasionally I’ll check veri’s but…are they really truthful? 🥴 Having them is definitely a bonus though

Bit cheeky as I say this all with a hidden profile but 🤷‍♀️🤭

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
2 weeks ago

Belfast and Tyrone

"For me it’s Profile picture first…hopefully with no toilets in view or close up of a d*

Smoking status and age

Then if I’ve managed to get that far it’s bio and other pics

Occasionally I’ll check veri’s but…are they really truthful? 🥴 Having them is definitely a bonus though

Bit cheeky as I say this all with a hidden profile but 🤷‍♀️🤭"

The only thing about veris, especially social ones, is that they will actually meet and aren't a fantasist hitting people up for wank chat and pic hunting with no intention of meeting.

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By *s LollyWoman
2 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Age

Bio

Pics

Don't bother with verifications never read a bad one yet

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By *he gentleman 1000Man
2 weeks ago

santry

"What do you look at first?

Ours is :

1) age

2) location

3) number of verifications

4) read their profile

5) look at their photos "
pictures lol

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By *ornywife20Couple
2 weeks ago

North Cork

We would look at

Interests

Age

Photos

Location

Verifications

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By *om TangoMan
2 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

First thing

Have they made an effort of getting picture verified, if not have they any verification, if no I’m gone, if yes who from, is any verifications from single males and is any from going to socials.Next is age. read their bio. Check a few pictures. Had she any tattoos. Age and location. Do they accommodate or can they travel.

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By *onderingpurposeMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

Spelling

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By *ingerOnTheLooseWoman
2 weeks ago

Dublin

"For me it’s Profile picture first…hopefully with no toilets in view or close up of a d*

Smoking status and age

Then if I’ve managed to get that far it’s bio and other pics

Occasionally I’ll check veri’s but…are they really truthful? 🥴 Having them is definitely a bonus though

Bit cheeky as I say this all with a hidden profile but 🤷‍♀️🤭

The only thing about veris, especially social ones, is that they will actually meet and aren't a fantasist hitting people up for wank chat and pic hunting with no intention of meeting. "

Yes and no…I’ve experienced flaky guys with verifications…but supposedly that’s quite normal for fab guys? Not as reliable as for example couples, supposedly

But yes, they’re handy for the fantasist that you mention for sure!

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By *ingerOnTheLooseWoman
2 weeks ago

Dublin

"First thing

I’m intrigued by the “verifications from single males or going to socials”? Are those a good or bad thing in your opinion?

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By *agneyandhutchCouple
2 weeks ago

lucan

If age and location work, I'll check out the pics first. Hoping not to be turned off by filthy background mess and seeing people who make an effort with their pics (no old grey badly fitting bra), I'll move on to the bio and personal details. Like to delve into the veris, read who gave them and what was said. And I read the reciprocal verification. A lot is read between the lines.

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By *agneyandhutchCouple
2 weeks ago

lucan

"First thing

I want to ask, are you looking for tattoos on the lady and if not is that a no from you?

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By *ealitybitesMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

If I was meeting and looking at profiles it's always age first and if they are outside my preferences I click out of that profile without looking at anything else.

Number of verifications is irrelevant as long as they have some but I'm more interested in who they have been verified by than what is written in the verification.

After that it's all down to the bio because if that doesn't tick my boxes we aren't compatible and it's pointless continuing.

If the bio is acceptable I'll look at their pics then but I've never once made a decision to chat to someone based on their pics.

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By *om TangoMan
2 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

First thing

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By *overs65Couple
2 weeks ago

mullingar

For us ,photo verification then age,would then look at interests ,we prefer to meet long term couples so that's also high up,we also look at veries and of course pics love to see nice tastefull sexy pics

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
2 weeks ago

ireland

Pics ,bio and verifications!

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