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"If its a couple and there playing with their partner then we wouldn't have any issue with it but if it's fwb or fuck buddies or singles either male or female we would be overly cautious and ask them to get tested before meeting them. What about you op what would you do in the situation you suggested " Yeah like me and Liam have been together a long time and play bare together but any meets we have been them solo or otherwise we ALWAYS use condoms. Personally It does put me off meeting someone if I see them playing bare back on meets. I was just thinking to myself was I overreacting. | |||
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"Yep. Oh and I know that it’s probably their partner or someone that is testing clear blah blah blah, but it’s not for me. " Yeah same, they can tell ya they get tested and they are all clear but sure how am I to know that's truth. | |||
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"Does seeing someone posting pics/videos of them playing bare influence your decision on meeting them? " Not at all, usually makes me more tempted | |||
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"If its a couple and there playing with their partner then we wouldn't have any issue with it but if it's fwb or fuck buddies or singles either male or female we would be overly cautious and ask them to get tested before meeting them. What about you op what would you do in the situation you suggested Yeah like me and Liam have been together a long time and play bare together but any meets we have been them solo or otherwise we ALWAYS use condoms. Personally It does put me off meeting someone if I see them playing bare back on meets. I was just thinking to myself was I overreacting. " Wouldn't say you were overreacting but we would probably say no thanks unless they have a current all clear dated after the pic date | |||
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"Does seeing someone posting pics/videos of them playing bare influence your decision on meeting them? Not at all, usually makes me more tempted " Should have said, I understood the question referred to a couple not bare with others , that is a little odd | |||
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"Does seeing someone posting pics/videos of them playing bare influence your decision on meeting them? Not at all, usually makes me more tempted " If it wasnt with their partner abd played bare on all meets? | |||
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"Does seeing someone posting pics/videos of them playing bare influence your decision on meeting them? Not at all, usually makes me more tempted If it wasnt with their partner abd played bare on all meets? " Everything is context, but without knowing yes I would be turned off seeing that.... then again maybe just me and I know couples can trust others so who am I to judge. | |||
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"Does seeing someone posting pics/videos of them playing bare influence your decision on meeting them? " Ok i should probably have given more context. If its a couple profile and they play bare together only but use protexrio for meets? If its a single person who plays bare on meets regardless if its with their FWB or a new meet? | |||
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"Does seeing someone posting pics/videos of them playing bare influence your decision on meeting them? Not at all, usually makes me more tempted If it wasnt with their partner abd played bare on all meets? Everything is context, but without knowing yes I would be turned off seeing that.... then again maybe just me and I know couples can trust others so who am I to judge. " No judgement as such because what they do is their own decision but would you decide not to meet based on that? | |||
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"Does seeing someone posting pics/videos of them playing bare influence your decision on meeting them? Ok i should probably have given more context. If its a couple profile and they play bare together only but use protexrio for meets? If its a single person who plays bare on meets regardless if its with their FWB or a new meet? " Couple together cool, otherwise protection , for my tastes | |||
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"Does seeing someone posting pics/videos of them playing bare influence your decision on meeting them? Ok i should probably have given more context. If its a couple profile and they play bare together only but use protexrio for meets? If its a single person who plays bare on meets regardless if its with their FWB or a new meet? " I have one FWB I don’t use condoms with . We meet very regularly and know each other a long time . We have built mutual trust over the years . We’re both tested regularly as we do have meets outside of each other where we both participate in oral sex . Obviously protection is the best prevention but 99% of ppl on here (including myself ) are having unprotected oral sex . So we are both regularly tested for that reason | |||
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"Does seeing someone posting pics/videos of them playing bare influence your decision on meeting them? " Doesn’t bother us in the slightest, What someone else does is their own business and wouldn’t put us off meeting them.  | |||
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"Does seeing someone posting pics/videos of them playing bare influence your decision on meeting them? " Yeah for me it does. I like giving oral but if I see it going in unwrapped elsewhere it puts me off | |||
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"I don't see why it would. If you're a safe sex person having a safe sex with the other person then why does it make a difference? Also bear in mind that just because someone doesn't have pics on their profile of them being unsafe doesn't mean that they are safe. Look after your own sexual health according to your own acceptable risk comfort levels and let them look after theirs" Exactly! Regardless of seeing pics/vids or not, We always assume other people are just ‘being natural’ and doing their thing. Doesn’t bother us in the slightest. It’s how we ‘operate’ that counts. | |||
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