FabSwingers.com forum: Looks or personality

By *milie30 OP Woman
3 weeks ago

cork

Just wondering from a girls and guys perspective do men always go for looks more or personality or what matters more just curious xx

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By *laveishMan
3 weeks ago

kildare

Definitely a mix. It’s nice to be nice. Looks catch the eye but a smile does it all

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By *oradMan
3 weeks ago

Dublin Kildare

Always personality. The look (style and how they carry themselves over 'stereotypical good looks') defines if I approach a person but everything hamgs on how charismatic they are.

Some very classically hot women have ugly charismas - all the wrong attitude (to.my personal tastes) where as some very 'plain' wokem are oozing sexiness and would be far sexier in my eyes.

But beauty in the eye of the beholder, but charm, manners, warmth and humour far more critical for me.

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By *lasticpaddy1Man
3 weeks ago

Athlone

Personality all the way

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By *milie30 OP Woman
3 weeks ago

cork

"Always personality. The look (style and how they carry themselves over 'stereotypical good looks') defines if I approach a person but everything hamgs on how charismatic they are.

Some very classically hot women have ugly charismas - all the wrong attitude (to.my personal tastes) where as some very 'plain' wokem are oozing sexiness and would be far sexier in my eyes.

But beauty in the eye of the beholder, but charm, manners, warmth and humour far more critical for me."
I like that thank you

I’m not the best looking but it’s nice to know what you think

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By *milie30 OP Woman
3 weeks ago

cork

"Personality all the way"
thank you so much it’s nice to know what you think ❤️

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By *milie30 OP Woman
3 weeks ago

cork

"Definitely a mix. It’s nice to be nice. Looks catch the eye but a smile does it all"
thanks so much it’s nice to have your opinion I’m not the best looking girl on here

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

The hell with personality!!

I don’t fuck ugly!!! 🤣🤣🤣

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By *eys00Man
3 weeks ago

have boots will travel

"The hell with personality!!

I don’t fuck ugly!!! 🤣🤣🤣"

Absolutely love the honesty 😂😂😂 It’s not Hinge after all!

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
3 weeks ago

Newry

It has to be both for me. Either thing in isolation is not enough - looks and personality carry equal weight with me when it comes to attraction

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By *ubadubdubWoman
3 weeks ago

Hereabouts

I've found amazing chemistry since I became open to men outside of my go-to 'type' so I would say personality, it's all about the vibes for me

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By *ionycusMan
3 weeks ago

Babylon

Initially the appearance of someone is what attracts me, in saying that it has happened that someone that isn't immediately attractive to me has become so once I got to know them.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

"The hell with personality!!

I don’t fuck ugly!!! 🤣🤣🤣

Absolutely love the honesty 😂😂😂 It’s not Hinge after all!"

I was being intentionally facetious 😁

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By *lasticpaddy1Man
3 weeks ago

Athlone

"Definitely a mix. It’s nice to be nice. Looks catch the eye but a smile does it all thanks so much it’s nice to have your opinion I’m not the best looking girl on here "

you seem beautiful

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By *heGeneral24Man
3 weeks ago

Limerick City

"The hell with personality!!

I don’t fuck ugly!!! 🤣🤣🤣"

🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 Legit 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 lol.

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By *eys00Man
3 weeks ago

have boots will travel

"The hell with personality!!

I don’t fuck ugly!!! 🤣🤣🤣

Absolutely love the honesty 😂😂😂 It’s not Hinge after all!

I was being intentionally facetious 😁"

We don’t sit on the fence here 😂

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By *ealcoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

There has to be some attraction in fairness but definitely personality would seal it. A gorgeous face can instantly turn if the personality is ugly.

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

"The hell with personality!!

I don’t fuck ugly!!! 🤣🤣🤣

Absolutely love the honesty 😂😂😂 It’s not Hinge after all!

I was being intentionally facetious 😁

We don’t sit on the fence here 😂"

Sitting on the fence allows you the best view 😜

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

"Definitely a mix. It’s nice to be nice. Looks catch the eye but a smile does it all thanks so much it’s nice to have your opinion I’m not the best looking girl on here "

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We’re all beautiful in our own way ❤️

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By *ryagainsoCouple
3 weeks ago

mot sayton

"The hell with personality!!

I don’t fuck ugly!!! 🤣🤣🤣

Absolutely love the honesty 😂😂😂 It’s not Hinge after all!

I was being intentionally facetious 😁"

I love an intentionally facetious personality!

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

"The hell with personality!!

I don’t fuck ugly!!! 🤣🤣🤣

Absolutely love the honesty 😂😂😂 It’s not Hinge after all!

I was being intentionally facetious 😁

I love an intentionally facetious personality!"

Spice things up 😁

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By *nquisitive LadyWoman
3 weeks ago

Midlands

For me there has to be an attraction. So looks will draw me in but only their personality will keep me interested in more.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

There has to be physical attraction to start. Long term, it’s all about personality.

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By *elfastblondMan
3 weeks ago

Belfast

"For me there has to be an attraction. So looks will draw me in but only their personality will keep me interested in more. "

This here ⬆️

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By *electableicecreamMan
3 weeks ago

The West

I've never thought anyone I was attracted to was anything less than a total hotty.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

What if you lack both?

Not me mind, asking for an unfortunate friend

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By *milie30 OP Woman
3 weeks ago

cork

"For me there has to be an attraction. So looks will draw me in but only their personality will keep me interested in more. "
I totally agree with you girlie x personality is more important for me too x

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By *milie30 OP Woman
3 weeks ago

cork

"There has to be some attraction in fairness but definitely personality would seal it. A gorgeous face can instantly turn if the personality is ugly.

C x "
I agree with you too somebody could be stunning but be horrible to people it’s about how you treat people too x

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By *milie30 OP Woman
3 weeks ago

cork

"The hell with personality!!

I don’t fuck ugly!!! 🤣🤣🤣"
that’s a good one 🤣🤣🤣

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By *milie30 OP Woman
3 weeks ago

cork

"Definitely a mix. It’s nice to be nice. Looks catch the eye but a smile does it all"
I love that aswell you can’t beat a nice smile

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By *exyScientistsCouple
3 weeks ago

Castlebar

Honestly I thought I had a type but I definitely don't. A lovely personality can make someone so attractive and sexy to me but lots of things can make someone unattractive 😌

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By *milie30 OP Woman
3 weeks ago

cork

"For me there has to be an attraction. So looks will draw me in but only their personality will keep me interested in more.

This here ⬆️"
I like that one too

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By *milie30 OP Woman
3 weeks ago

cork

"Honestly I thought I had a type but I definitely don't. A lovely personality can make someone so attractive and sexy to me but lots of things can make someone unattractive 😌 "
thank you so much for your input x

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By *milie30 OP Woman
3 weeks ago

cork

"There has to be physical attraction to start. Long term, it’s all about personality. "
thank you I appreciate your input too I agree with you x

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By *milie30 OP Woman
3 weeks ago

cork

"Honestly I thought I had a type but I definitely don't. A lovely personality can make someone so attractive and sexy to me but lots of things can make someone unattractive 😌 "
I totally agree I thought I had a type aswell but turns out I don’t ! I love somebody that can make me laugh

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By *exyScientistsCouple
3 weeks ago

Castlebar

"Honestly I thought I had a type but I definitely don't. A lovely personality can make someone so attractive and sexy to me but lots of things can make someone unattractive 😌 I totally agree I thought I had a type aswell but turns out I don’t ! I love somebody that can make me laugh "

Yes 💯

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By *asheaMan
3 weeks ago

Killarney

Looks always come first that's a natural way and then it's personality and chemistry

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By *onny1969Man
3 weeks ago

local

Personality is what will keep you interested. Looks fade but the personality of a person once they’re comfortable in your company usually remains .

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By *milie30 OP Woman
3 weeks ago

cork

"Looks always come first that's a natural way and then it's personality and chemistry "
guess I’m out there then on the looks part 🤦‍♀️

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By *ornywife20Couple
3 weeks ago

North Cork

"Always personality. The look (style and how they carry themselves over 'stereotypical good looks') defines if I approach a person but everything hamgs on how charismatic they are.

Some very classically hot women have ugly charismas - all the wrong attitude (to.my personal tastes) where as some very 'plain' wokem are oozing sexiness and would be far sexier in my eyes.

But beauty in the eye of the beholder, but charm, manners, warmth and humour far more critical for me. I like that thank you

I’m not the best looking but it’s nice to know what you think "

We beg to differ. We have met you and know that you are gorgeous with a beautiful face lovely smile and very sexy curvy body .

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By *milie30 OP Woman
3 weeks ago

cork

"Always personality. The look (style and how they carry themselves over 'stereotypical good looks') defines if I approach a person but everything hamgs on how charismatic they are.

Some very classically hot women have ugly charismas - all the wrong attitude (to.my personal tastes) where as some very 'plain' wokem are oozing sexiness and would be far sexier in my eyes.

But beauty in the eye of the beholder, but charm, manners, warmth and humour far more critical for me. I like that thank you

I’m not the best looking but it’s nice to know what you think

We beg to differ. We have met you and know that you are gorgeous with a beautiful face lovely smile and very sexy curvy body . "
Awww thank you so much ❤️❤️🩷

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Personality every time for me

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Looks initially for me but if there is no personality or even worse an unpleasant one that attraction will disappear quicker than the darkness at dawn.

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By *ingetMan
3 weeks ago

West Cork

"Definitely a mix. It’s nice to be nice. Looks catch the eye but a smile does it all thanks so much it’s nice to have your opinion I’m not the best looking girl on here

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We’re all beautiful in

our own way ❤️"

My sentiments exactly,you can have very good looking nasty people,and I am not going to say Ugly because I think that is a very unfair word.but you can have plainer looking people with hearts of gold and fantastic personality .Beauty is definitely in the eye of the beholder.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
3 weeks ago

Portstewart

For us it's probably an 90/10 mix personality to looks as you gotta get into our mindsets before we would invite someone to join us

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By *elfastDMan
3 weeks ago

belfast

It has been said that you can laugh someone into bed

Knock knock

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By *om4527Man
3 weeks ago

Enniskillen

Its more about the way they message if they try no point meeting and they can't chat

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By *milie30 OP Woman
3 weeks ago

cork

"Definitely a mix. It’s nice to be nice. Looks catch the eye but a smile does it all thanks so much it’s nice to have your opinion I’m not the best looking girl on here

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We’re all beautiful in

our own way ❤️I love it

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By *adger BrocMan
3 weeks ago

Co. Cork

Personality is most important..... however multiple personalities can be a bit unsettling, especially if more than one turn up at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

A compliment of both and what I am attracted to in both is unique to me. Obviously looks will draw me in but discovering a knock out personality can lead to an attraction I hadn't realised yet. When I find looks and personality that mirror what I desire as a package...I am the lucky one.

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By *indenMan
3 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

Thank God I’m the full package……🙏😬

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By *obSBMan
3 weeks ago

Clare

Looks usually perk your curiosity and a personality can often kill that curiosity.

So a good blend of both. Having a type is a bad thin(my opinion)

Appreciate many 'types'

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I had the biggest crush on a girl who wasn't "traditionally attractive" when I was in school, and got friend-zoned

As a partner now when you'reolder, does it really matter if they're "pretty", if they make you happy, isn't that what counts?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
3 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

I don't think you can separate it out like that. It's the entirety of the individual in front of you and the overall impression that they leave. Looking purely for a visual that you are told you should find attractive will end in a very empty experience.

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By *hunkyRedPandaMan
3 weeks ago

City

This a dating or fab thing?

Dating wise, never had a type. Tall, skinny, small, large etc. Had to reprogram my mind to stay away from the generally accepted ideas of what I should go for.

For me, eyes, smile(first things I notice in a crowded place) and the personality behind them.

Fabwise, no type either. Attitude matters.

When I'm attracted to that person and their (wicked) mind, I'm attracted to their body.

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By *untimes_83Man
3 weeks ago

Belfast

"The hell with personality!!

I don’t fuck ugly!!! 🤣🤣🤣"

This is true....it's a sex site, not a dating site (if there's actually much of a difference in reality).

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By * BlackMan
3 weeks ago

Laois/ Dublin

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, its all about one's sex appeal, being good looking doesn't automatically mean having sex appeal

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By *supermanMan
3 weeks ago

letterkenny

"Just wondering from a girls and guys perspective do men always go for looks more or personality or what matters more just curious xx "

Looks catch the eye, but personality keeps ya 😉☺️

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By *entleGent13Man
3 weeks ago

Somewhere

It would very personality for any longevity. Looks fade.

Initial attraction can have many facets for me. Style, confidence, smell, a look, or even just a walk.

Personally speaking ive met some really attractive people that wouldn't be considered conventionally good looking. I've also met some conventionally good looking people who have no substance.

Its in the head of the beholder whether or not they are "attractive" for me.

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By *haddyMan
3 weeks ago

Galway

The broad reality is..Men are moved by what they see, women are moved by what they feel.

That said, on average most will be moved by a mix of the two.There isn't really no one size fits all answer to that question.

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By *offeeaddictMan
3 weeks ago

Bandon

Personality all day. I still remember years ago hearing a laugh and voice and feeling I'd just been run over by a truck. Hadnt seen the lady, didnt matter, was hooked.

Made me realise and has been true ever since, looks are just looks.

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By *onnachakeaneMan
3 weeks ago

Dundrum

I genuinely think attraction is the full package not just “good looks” it’s confidence, how people carry themselves, presence, personality even status/profile people have… you’d get bored of a Ken or Barbie fairly quickly if they didn’t have any of the above traits….

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By *antra MassageMan
3 weeks ago

Galway

Beauty attracts me,

Personality keeps me.

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
3 weeks ago

Casa Del Fun

Personality 100%,

But looks would be an added bonus too.

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By *he gentleman 1000Man
3 weeks ago

santry

Personality as looks can fade if that makes sense. Can't be in relationship with someone that's good looking but boring

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By *he gentleman 1000Man
3 weeks ago

santry

"The hell with personality!!

I don’t fuck ugly!!! 🤣🤣🤣"
ooh lol

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By *elfastDMan
3 weeks ago

belfast

A lot of people are saying about looks catching the eye but personality keeps you interested.

I’m actually the opposite on fab.

The personality catches my eye in the forum discussions, that’s when I know I’d want to meet a person. It would be rare that looks would override that lust.

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By *uddermeIspinMan
3 weeks ago

city centre

You're always going to want to be attracted to someone but for me personality is more important than looks or body shape for that matter.

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By *electableicecreamMan
3 weeks ago

The West

I don't know if I was this cynical before Fab but this thread has me thinking

Woman who says personality first - values connection

Man who says personality first - will bang anyone.

What have I become?

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By *eturning MGMan
3 weeks ago

mayo galway roscommon sligo....West Of Ireland

Looks will attract you and personality will keep you interest. No matter how attractive a person is if their an asshole is it really worth it for the sake of a ride???

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By *upermanslovechildMan
3 weeks ago

Kiliney

"The hell with personality!!

I don’t fuck ugly!!! 🤣🤣🤣"

That pretty much sums it up for every profile, those that say personality are lying or else they'd be replying to every profile's message

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By *uddermeIspinMan
3 weeks ago

city centre

"Looks will attract you and personality will keep you interest. No matter how attractive a person is if their an asshole is it really worth it for the sake of a ride???"

This right here

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By *ublinstud_MisstattooCouple
3 weeks ago

Dublin City

Looks and personality

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple
3 weeks ago

Louth

"Looks and personality "

Exactly this why compromise

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By *enerationfornicationMan
3 weeks ago

somewhere in...

"Just wondering from a girls and guys perspective do men always go for looks more or personality or what matters more just curious xx "

Beauty/looks can be subjective, what one person likes can be the complete opposite of someone else. It's only when you talk to someone, you can hopfully see their warmth/humour. I've meet and know a lot of "charming" people, sometimes you can spot the fakeness.

I think a personality tells you a lot more about the person, the problem on fab, it's a constant contest and if you don't like playing that game, you just pack it in.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

It's the ass,men notice the ass first...so looks

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By *itnready36Man
3 weeks ago

South

It has to be a mix

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

"The hell with personality!!

I don’t fuck ugly!!! 🤣🤣🤣

That pretty much sums it up for every profile, those that say personality are lying or else they'd be replying to every profile's message"

Thanks for speaking on behalf of everybody.

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By *ettaManMan
3 weeks ago

Based in Kerry, work in Cork.

Always looks but sometimes either,

it all depends,

but never neither.

Preferably both.

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By *axyzWoman
3 weeks ago

Dublin

"The hell with personality!!

I don’t fuck ugly!!! 🤣🤣🤣"

Well said 🤓

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By *milie30 OP Woman
3 weeks ago

cork

"The hell with personality!!

I don’t fuck ugly!!! 🤣🤣🤣

That pretty much sums it up for every profile, those that say personality are lying or else they'd be replying to every profile's message"
it’s not all about looks

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By *rbubbleMan
3 weeks ago

Connacht

Have to have that connection of looks initially then personality mix of both is super important

Could be hottest girl but personality of a tea bag instant turn off

In turn could have a lovely personality but not attracted to the person so doesn’t work as you need that connection

So has to be a mix of both

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