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"Yes it’s reasonable, just wonder if someone bottles it would €50 be the deciding factor as to whether or not they show up 🤷♂️" Probably not but at least I won’t be out of pocket | |||
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"We would have no problem paying for a party and wouldn’t even want it to be refunded but it’s the problem of having to send the money and the privacy aspect. That would put us off. Hope this helps " I only invite people I’ve already met so there’s some kind of rapport there and some trust which makes that kinda process easier x | |||
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"I presume you mean a “non-refundable deposit”. I would have thought that would be standard anyhow? I had tickets for Vanilla and I couldn’t make it- I never even thought to ask for the money back. " It would only be non-refundable if they don’t show up . If they show up they’d get it back . I can understand big events like vanilla doing it , it expect it , but I’m only having maybe 10 -12 ppl in my home . Nothing big x | |||
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"I presume you mean a “non-refundable deposit”. I would have thought that would be standard anyhow? I had tickets for Vanilla and I couldn’t make it- I never even thought to ask for the money back. It would only be non-refundable if they don’t show up . If they show up they’d get it back . I can understand big events like vanilla doing it , it expect it , but I’m only having maybe 10 -12 ppl in my home . Nothing big x" But would you still not charge them something for the nibbles and cleaning up etc? I would expect a donation to be made TBH. I’ve had some people around and one woman had fake tan- destroyed my white sofa!! | |||
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"So I’m thinking of organising a little play party at my place . I’ve organised a couple before but stopped doing them due to the frustration of ppl cancelling last minute . I was thinking to look for a refundable deposit this time around in an attempt to make spaces secure . I’ve put a lot of time and effort in in the past , getting nibbles and drinks in and having ppl cancel last minute or changing their mind just puts a damper on things. Do ye thinks it’s reasonable to ask for say a 50€ refundable deposit ? If they cancel , they lose their deposit… what’s peoples thoughts on this ?" Sounds fair 👌  . Best of luck with it LL 👍 😀. | |||
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"I presume you mean a “non-refundable deposit”. I would have thought that would be standard anyhow? I had tickets for Vanilla and I couldn’t make it- I never even thought to ask for the money back. It would only be non-refundable if they don’t show up . If they show up they’d get it back . I can understand big events like vanilla doing it , it expect it , but I’m only having maybe 10 -12 ppl in my home . Nothing big x But would you still not charge them something for the nibbles and cleaning up etc? I would expect a donation to be made TBH. I’ve had some people around and one woman had fake tan- destroyed my white sofa!! " I never really thought of it that way tbh 🧐 yeah I guess you’re right | |||
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"You shouldnmake it a non refundable amount. Because people will still take you for a ride (no pun intended). Lina." Yeah I’m only really realising that now going thru some of the comments x | |||
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"Interested in this " If you were invited would you pay the 50euro in advance for a ticket? | |||
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"Interested in this If you were invited would you pay the 50euro in advance for a ticket?" I have this guy blocked so I dunno where’s he’s getting his invite from 🤣🤣 | |||
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"Interested in this If you were invited would you pay the 50euro in advance for a ticket? I have this guy blocked so I dunno where’s he’s getting his invite from 🤣🤣" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"Non refundable deposit is the way to go with balance to be paid a week before the party That way you have some time to organise extra people to attend if you're let down There's always people that dont make it Some because life sometimes just gets in the way and they genuinely can't make it Others because they're acting the bollox " Yeah sounds like a plan going forward I think | |||
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"If your inviting 10+ people to your place there's gonna be some investment of your time and money and I don't think anyone you'd like to have around would mind making a contribution. If it was me I would go non refundable and cover the costs of the laundry, food, a few mixers and a buffer for breakage. You'll have admin, prep and cleanup time too and there's no reason you shouldn't be rewarded for that. " Yeah that’s fair enough | |||
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"Any parties and socials we attend we have always had to pay a fee by revolt before attending....listen everybody an their aunty are having socials an making a nice little earning out of it!! I would definitely charge something, I think €50 is acceptable. You will always have someone say it's too much but from what I've experienced €50 for a play party is very very good. " Looks like I’ve been missing a trick all this time 🤣 | |||
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"Any parties and socials we attend we have always had to pay a fee by revolt before attending....listen everybody an their aunty are having socials an making a nice little earning out of it!! I would definitely charge something, I think €50 is acceptable. You will always have someone say it's too much but from what I've experienced €50 for a play party is very very good. Looks like I’ve been missing a trick all this time 🤣" For sure, get on it like a car bonnet  | |||
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"So I’m thinking of organising a little play party at my place . I’ve organised a couple before but stopped doing them due to the frustration of ppl cancelling last minute . I was thinking to look for a refundable deposit this time around in an attempt to make spaces secure . I’ve put a lot of time and effort in in the past , getting nibbles and drinks in and having ppl cancel last minute or changing their mind just puts a damper on things. Do ye thinks it’s reasonable to ask for say a 50€ refundable deposit ? If they cancel , they lose their deposit… what’s peoples thoughts on this ?" Its your party you are the one who decides. But yes charge a non refundable deposit or fee simple as that. We host small events, but never charged a cent, that was drink and food! But that's our choice! But if you intend to do it regularly then set it up no different to a business, seperate emails, telegram accounts, method for payment etc. Then have your pool of money and budget. If you make something this time you may need it next time! Then you have your own play budget for a trip to PDI
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"So I’m thinking of organising a little play party at my place . I’ve organised a couple before but stopped doing them due to the frustration of ppl cancelling last minute . I was thinking to look for a refundable deposit this time around in an attempt to make spaces secure . I’ve put a lot of time and effort in in the past , getting nibbles and drinks in and having ppl cancel last minute or changing their mind just puts a damper on things. Do ye thinks it’s reasonable to ask for say a 50€ refundable deposit ? If they cancel , they lose their deposit… what’s peoples thoughts on this ? Its your party you are the one who decides. But yes charge a non refundable deposit or fee simple as that. We host small events, but never charged a cent, that was drink and food! But that's our choice! But if you intend to do it regularly then set it up no different to a business, seperate emails, telegram accounts, method for payment etc. Then have your pool of money and budget. If you make something this time you may need it next time! Then you have your own play budget for a trip to PDI
Best of luck with it! Your too far for us "That’s a pity . Very hot profile 😜 | |||
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