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By *r.mr. OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Dublin 18

Hey I am on off with my girlfriend looks like we might be friends again but this time I would love her too join fab with me how did you get ask to join fab by your boyfriend I would like to know not a problem asking just like to ask in the nicest way possible

She knows about fab and that I was on it I was going too say I would like to go to events and party's I'll probably get a slap but might not if i ask in a good way.? Ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Is her arse already on Fab?

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By *oveat1stfeelMan
4 weeks ago

around here somewhere


"Hey I am on off with my girlfriend looks like we might be friends again but this time I would love her too join fab with me how did you get ask to join fab by your boyfriend I would like to know not a problem asking just like to ask in the nicest way possible

She knows about fab and that I was on it I was going too say I would like to go to events and party's I'll probably get a slap but might not if i ask in a good way.? Ideas"

Well , my tuppence worth is that if she already knows about it & isn't here or brought up the subject of joining to you ,well then she's not interested, but as l said it's my tuppence worth & if you do bring up the subject she may think that she's not enough for you , you're not happy with just her & ask you why you want her to join .. either way ..it's a very touchy subject.

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By *he gentleman 1000Man
4 weeks ago

santry


"Hey I am on off with my girlfriend looks like we might be friends again but this time I would love her too join fab with me how did you get ask to join fab by your boyfriend I would like to know not a problem asking just like to ask in the nicest way possible

She knows about fab and that I was on it I was going too say I would like to go to events and party's I'll probably get a slap but might not if i ask in a good way.? Ideas"
wouldn't be brave enough being it up just hope she does lol

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 weeks ago

Castlebar

Does she know you are still here?

Is she happy with that?

Has she expressed an interest in it?

How will you feel if she joins and loads of guys want to fuck her and ignore you?

Will you be jealous if she's with other men?

If you aren't in a stable relationship why would you introduce extra pressure on it?

Do you even want to be in a relationship with her or want company on here?

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By *om TangoMan
4 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

In your in a on off relationship with your girlfriend then I wouldn’t recommend a swingers relationship. Or do you want her on here with you to increase your chances of meeting others

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By *eturning MGMan
4 weeks ago

mayo galway roscommon sligo....West Of Ireland


"Does she know you are still here?

Is she happy with that?

Has she expressed an interest in it?

How will you feel if she joins and loads of guys want to fuck her and ignore you?

Will you be jealous if she's with other men?

If you aren't in a stable relationship why would you introduce extra pressure on it?

Do you even want to be in a relationship with her or want company on here?

"

Scientist or relationship counsellor👌👌

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By *ealcoupleCouple
4 weeks ago


"Is her arse already on Fab? "

🙈🙈🙈🙈

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By *ealDea1Man
4 weeks ago

Louth - M1

Are you wanting a relationship that involves you being a swinger cpl...

If so explain that is what you want, if she says no, she was the wrong one, if yes your sorted!

So many hide the desire, even in new relationships having broke from one that wouldn't swing either!

Why spend life living a lie and hiding... Get it out there and move on if needed...

We can all knock a wank out hoping!

Stop hiding and deal with it...

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By *oprano100Man
4 weeks ago

Dublin

Sounds like you have a fwb or situationship and not a relationship.

My guess is she is already seeing someone else part time, and probably the idea of multiple partners probably appeals to her, but perhaps not in a swinger environment, that is unless she has ever raised the subject.

Before suggesting anything to her, you should try to find her deepest and darkest fantasies, the clues may be in there.

If thats a non-runner I suggest you would move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

She’s not for you. If she was it would not be on and off. If you dont feel comfortable enough to even bring this up for the fear of her response- she’s not for you. I see all the married men on this site and I feel for them having to hide their urges- I don’t believe they are with the right person either. But it’s easier to hide true urges. If you are not married then get out now and live the life you want. I can say all this as someone who lived the lie and is now divorced

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago


"She’s not for you. If she was it would not be on and off. If you dont feel comfortable enough to even bring this up for the fear of her response- she’s not for you. I see all the married men on this site and I feel for them having to hide their urges- I don’t believe they are with the right person either. But it’s easier to hide true urges. If you are not married then get out now and live the life you want. I can say all this as someone who lived the lie and is now divorced "

This!! It’s also not a relationship if you can’t even find a way to approach the subject to her

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By *inkyDragonMan
4 weeks ago

Dublin

If you’re friends now and she knows that you were on Fab, just straight out ask would she like to join in a couples page with you for meeting together or as single meets sometimes. Just straight out ask her and see what she says. Then you’ll know. No one else knows what she’ll say unfortunately. If it’s a yes, it might be the tonic you both need, if it’s a no, you’ll be on the dating market and you don’t need to go back to her. Harsh as it may sound.

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By *oprano100Man
4 weeks ago

Dublin


"If you’re friends now and she knows that you were on Fab, just straight out ask would she like to join in a couples page with you for meeting together or as single meets sometimes. Just straight out ask her and see what she says. Then you’ll know. No one else knows what she’ll say unfortunately. If it’s a yes, it might be the tonic you both need, if it’s a no, you’ll be on the dating market and you don’t need to go back to her. Harsh as it may sound. "

I would be inclined to disagree with this, if she said no, you've just told her exactly where you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago


"If you’re friends now and she knows that you were on Fab, just straight out ask would she like to join in a couples page with you for meeting together or as single meets sometimes. Just straight out ask her and see what she says. Then you’ll know. No one else knows what she’ll say unfortunately. If it’s a yes, it might be the tonic you both need, if it’s a no, you’ll be on the dating market and you don’t need to go back to her. Harsh as it may sound. "

Agreed

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By *inkyDragonMan
4 weeks ago

Dublin


"If you’re friends now and she knows that you were on Fab, just straight out ask would she like to join in a couples page with you for meeting together or as single meets sometimes. Just straight out ask her and see what she says. Then you’ll know. No one else knows what she’ll say unfortunately. If it’s a yes, it might be the tonic you both need, if it’s a no, you’ll be on the dating market and you don’t need to go back to her. Harsh as it may sound.

Agreed"

Thanks for the endorsement

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
4 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

If that's her ass in your photos and she doesn't know you have it as a public photo, then that's all kinds of wrong.

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By *lasticpaddy1Man
4 weeks ago

Athlone


"If that's her ass in your photos and she doesn't know you have it as a public photo, then that's all kinds of wrong.

"
100% agree with thus. Lots of single guys have pics of ladies sucking their cock or more intimate parts and always wondered do they have permission of the lady

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By *oveat1stfeelMan
4 weeks ago

around here somewhere


"Does she know you are still here?

Is she happy with that?

Has she expressed an interest in it?

How will you feel if she joins and loads of guys want to fuck her and ignore you?

Will you be jealous if she's with other men?

If you aren't in a stable relationship why would you introduce extra pressure on it?

Do you even want to be in a relationship with her or want company on here?

"

Those my friends are a load of brilliant questions 👍

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By *ewcorkcpl23Couple
4 weeks ago

Cork

My suggestion is you should figure out what you want yourself from the relationship before suggesting fab, id you want a steady relationship then maybe build on that as a relationship for a while make it strong and steady, then if in a time period you still want her to join fab then bring it up. If you just want her as fwb on fab after already having a relationship with her bringing her on your fab journey is only destined for disaster as let's face there clearly a reason or multiple reasons why it didn't work for ye as a cpl here isn't the place when there's a past aswell will only push ye further apart. In a nutshell you would have alot to this subject.

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By *J coupleCouple
4 weeks ago

stone

On/off relationship and you think swinging is a good idea?

You need to be in a very strong, loving and trustworthy relationship to be a swinger that stays with your partner.

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