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By *ilgemesh OP   Man
5 weeks ago

unlisted

Hi so I wanted to ask the ladies and couples out there, how do you pick the guys out of the noise?

What are some good things to do when messaging? And what are some omg don't do that experiences you have had?

What do you wish guys would do before hitting send?

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By *hilaboutMan
5 weeks ago

kilkenny

Replies will be a good read if they materialise.

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By *atty CoramWoman
5 weeks ago

Wimbledon


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What do you wish guys would do before hitting send?

"

Have a wank.

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By *rRiosMan
5 weeks ago

dublin


"

What do you wish guys would do before hitting send?

Have a wank. "

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
5 weeks ago

Newry

Personally, physical attraction plus the vibe of their message and profile would be the key to engagement. If that holds up over a few messages, then a social meet will determine whether we get over the line to something more.

There's nothing definable and no magic formula

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By *uddermeIspinMan
5 weeks ago

city centre


"

What do you wish guys would do before hitting send?

Have a wank. "

Probably the best reply of the week, right there

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By *nquisitive LadyWoman
5 weeks ago

Midlands


"Personally, physical attraction plus the vibe of their message and profile would be the key to engagement. If that holds up over a few messages, then a social meet will determine whether we get over the line to something more.

There's nothing definable and no magic formula "

This x

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By *eturning MGMan
5 weeks ago

mayo galway roscommon sligo....West Of Ireland

Be yourself...if thats not good enough its not worth it. Plenty of fantastic people on fab.

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By *hantomfemmeWoman
5 weeks ago

Sligo/Galway depends on the day

For me it's personality and physical attraction. And the understanding that if I read the message and dont reply straight away im probably busy dealing with reality but will get back to you. Don't need messages saying my attitude sucks

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By *oodOmensfor2Couple
5 weeks ago

Ennis


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What do you wish guys would do before hitting send?

Have a wank. "

Have a wank first, then read our profile and lastly think about what they want to say and formulate a coherent sentence ohhh - And update their profile before messaging us. We really love one liners from black profiles

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple
5 weeks ago

Louth


"Hi so I wanted to ask the ladies and couples out there, how do you pick the guys out of the noise?

What are some good things to do when messaging? And what are some omg don't do that experiences you have had?

What do you wish guys would do before hitting send?

"

Won't matter what you send to a lot of people, we pick from people we meet at parties or socials, you don't need a lot of people, just ones you are compatible with.

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By *ilgemesh OP   Man
5 weeks ago

unlisted


"

What do you wish guys would do before hitting send?

Have a wank. "

love it

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

🤣🤣🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Great point. Need to start attending. Hard to know when very little response on here. I've met a few and it's impossible to stand out when there are 500 messages in a woman's inbox. It's insane.

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By *an from Galway says yesMan
5 weeks ago

somewhere sexy


"Hi so I wanted to ask the ladies and couples out there, how do you pick the guys out of the noise?

What are some good things to do when messaging? And what are some omg don't do that experiences you have had?

This is the route im going to be taking

What do you wish guys would do before hitting send?

Won't matter what you send to a lot of people, we pick from people we meet at parties or socials, you don't need a lot of people, just ones you are compatible with. "

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By *affa31Woman
5 weeks ago

Galway

This whole thing of it’s impossible to stand out when there’s 500 messages in an inbox is nonsense.

Good messages and good profiles stand out no matter how many other unread messages there are.

The only reasons people have that many unread messages is because they have no filters set and they’re terrible at fab admin/they like to take screenshots to show how popular they are.

The way to get attention is to put effort in to your profile and pictures. That’s what people will look at before they consider replying. You could have crafted the most perfect message but if your profile is shit, you’ll be left on read.

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By *electableicecreamMan
5 weeks ago

The West

Also it really doesn't take that long to go through a few hundred messages. Once you've deleted all the silhouettes and one word messages you're probably down to about five or ten coherent ones. Remove the ones that didn't read the profile and maybe you have two out of two hundred.

It's totally worth having a good profile a opening with a coherent friendly message.

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By *agneyandhutchCouple
5 weeks ago

lucan


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It's totally worth having a good profile a opening with a coherent friendly message.

"

Very true.

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By *illdonCouple
5 weeks ago

Everywhere

What makes me laugh is you get sent a message by a couple and you reply.... Never to hear from them again! As said earlier, socials are the way to go you can't beat that in person environment. I only come in here for the forum now to be honest. The other side of it is just a waste of time. C'est la vie!

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By *licat.2Woman
5 weeks ago

Not Belfast but NI


"This whole thing of it’s impossible to stand out when there’s 500 messages in an inbox is nonsense.

Good messages and good profiles stand out no matter how many other unread messages there are.

The only reasons people have that many unread messages is because they have no filters set and they’re terrible at fab admin/they like to take screenshots to show how popular they are.

The way to get attention is to put effort in to your profile and pictures. That’s what people will look at before they consider replying. You could have crafted the most perfect message but if your profile is shit, you’ll be left on read. "

100%

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
5 weeks ago

Limerick

If a guy can make me laugh it's a very good starting point.

Amy

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By *littlebitoffunMan
5 weeks ago

east antrim


"If a guy can make me laugh it's a very good starting point.

Amy "

You havnt heard my jokes yet amy

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
5 weeks ago

Newtownabbey


"This whole thing of it’s impossible to stand out when there’s 500 messages in an inbox is nonsense.

Good messages and good profiles stand out no matter how many other unread messages there are.

The only reasons people have that many unread messages is because they have no filters set and they’re terrible at fab admin/they like to take screenshots to show how popular they are.

The way to get attention is to put effort in to your profile and pictures. That’s what people will look at before they consider replying. You could have crafted the most perfect message but if your profile is shit, you’ll be left on read. "

Exactly this

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
5 weeks ago

Limerick


"If a guy can make me laugh it's a very good starting point.

Amy

You havnt heard my jokes yet amy "

I'm a sucker for bad jokes /dad jokes

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By *ettaManMan
5 weeks ago

Based in Kerry, work in Cork.


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Have a wank. "

A clarity wank, I'm presuming 😁

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By *ettaManMan
5 weeks ago

Based in Kerry, work in Cork.


"If a guy can make me laugh it's a very good starting point.

Amy "

Do tickles count?

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
5 weeks ago

Limerick


"If a guy can make me laugh it's a very good starting point.

Amy

Do tickles count?"

Depends where the tickles are 😈

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
5 weeks ago

ireland

Something a little different from the usual message;a good strong profile with nice pics and a well thought out bio.Some humour also , too serious and we loose interest .

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By *ettaManMan
4 weeks ago

Based in Kerry, work in Cork.


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Depends where the tickles are 😈"

Wherever they illicit the strongest reaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Yeah i get messages from people all the time. I reply and then never hear from them again. Bit strange.

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