FabSwingers.com forum: Dating

By *alway girl30 OP Woman
5 weeks ago

Athenry

Ok question and please don't attack me i know this not tinder. but in fairness most of the guys on tinder or on fab .

But would you date someone on fab . I'm sick of being single but I honestly don't think I could go back to a vanilla relationship . i just enjoy fab way to much i love the social aspect just as much as the play . And in every vanilla relationship I was in the guy always complained that I liked sex to much 🙄 as I have such a high sex drive. A guy once broke up with me just because he could not make me climax.

And I know there will be good points and bad points to dating a fellow fabber . But I just think it would suit me better

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By *elfastDMan
5 weeks ago

belfast

It’s the ideal scenario surely

Completely honest upfront

Same interest

Same attitude

Hopefully same sex drive

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By *irty DiamondsCouple
5 weeks ago

Heathrow & Dartford

My partner and I met on a Fab social. Dating someone on the same wavelength is so freeing. Neither of us were looking for love, but we found it and it's amazing. And we have the most joyously kinky, but fun, sex life.

Rachel x

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By *elixMan
5 weeks ago

tralee

Of course I'd date someone from here. I prefer a connection before a meet anyway and if that became more how amazing would that be

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By *llllie_xWoman
5 weeks ago

Town

I would love to meet someone here.

I’ve no interest in traditional dating apps or something vanilla but it’s easier said than done 😅

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Of course, I would love to meet someone with similar kinks as me. I’m open to vanilla too I think, but ENM. It’s not that I would need someone else every week or month, but it’s hard to eat the same sandwich everyday!! Most of the time I like a white bread ham and cheese, but sometime, just sometimes I need a seeded roll with turkey!

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By *electableicecreamMan
5 weeks ago

The West

I really enjoy dating. Even when I wasnt open to a relationship I still enjoyed all the nice things that come with going on a date.

I think I've tried everything I need to try over the last years and reckon I'm open to an enm relationship now.

I've dated women on fab. Sure why wouldnt I. Fab is full of sex positive hotties and its soooo nice to have those cards on the table up front.

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By *orth and south69Couple
5 weeks ago

clonmel

We meet on fab and now are engaged to be married. You can be lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"We meet on fab and now are engaged to be married. You can be lucky "

Love that for you guys. Congratulations x

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By *og-ManMan
5 weeks ago

somewhere

I met someone off here 3 1/2 years ago

We're dating since then

Its a bit difficult as its long distance but its fantasic

Best of luck OP

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By *ozzlesMan
5 weeks ago

galway

I don't think it matters where you find the right person, fab, tinder or walking the streets. If it works it works then enjoy it.

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By *j69funCouple
5 weeks ago

kildare

I Mr was on here as a single and then left to get back out dating and I found miss j on pof. Shortly into the relationship we were talking about kinks and things we have tried in the past and I told her about fab. She taught it sounded interesting and said I'd try that and here we are 6 years later and we have a strong relationship , amazing sex life and fab is a bonus naughtiness when we want it.

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By *om TangoMan
5 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

I think the only happy relationship I can get into is a lifestyle one. I love the social side of the lifestyle and I can’t see me giving that up anytime soon. My kinks wouldn’t be filled in a vanilla relationship.

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By *ezoMan
5 weeks ago

The Kingdom

I just say, why not?

After all you'll have something in common.

It does not matter where you meet as long as your honest, open and willing to try I would say go for it.

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By *alway girl30 OP Woman
5 weeks ago

Athenry

I 💯 agree with you .but it's hard to find someone you click with 😅

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By *alway girl30 OP Woman
5 weeks ago

Athenry

"I Mr was on here as a single and then left to get back out dating and I found miss j on pof. Shortly into the relationship we were talking about kinks and things we have tried in the past and I told her about fab. She taught it sounded interesting and said I'd try that and here we are 6 years later and we have a strong relationship , amazing sex life and fab is a bonus naughtiness when we want it.

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that's brilliant I'm delighted for you x

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By *alway girl30 OP Woman
5 weeks ago

Athenry

"I don't think it matters where you find the right person, fab, tinder or walking the streets. If it works it works then enjoy it.

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so true

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By *alway girl30 OP Woman
5 weeks ago

Athenry

"I met someone off here 3 1/2 years ago

We're dating since then

Its a bit difficult as its long distance but its fantasic

Best of luck OP "

Thank you x

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By *rit-gentMan
5 weeks ago

cannock

I definitely would anyone on fab you know is a least being honest that they love sex and probably would like to play as well

On tinder they just do it behind your back

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By *rit-gentMan
5 weeks ago

cannock

I would probably find it better at a social mind

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

A fab speed dating night for singles is in order!!

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By *heGeneral24Man
5 weeks ago

Limerick City

"I would love to meet someone here.

I’ve no interest in traditional dating apps or something vanilla but it’s easier said than done 😅"

They do a very nice lunch in the lady Gregory 🥣🍽 hotel in Gort..FYI

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By *quish and KellyCouple
5 weeks ago

"Ok question and please don't attack me i know this not tinder. but in fairness most of the guys on tinder or on fab .

And I know there will be good points and bad points to dating a fellow fabber . But I just think it would suit me better

We met on Fab

Neither of us were looking for a relationship at the time but when we realized we had a proper connection ( and both being filthy minded ) probably helped

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By *man1044Man
5 weeks ago

North Galway

Something in the line of open house on Ch4 or Big Brother. Dont like out in the jungle naked….

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By *rit-gentMan
5 weeks ago

cannock

"A fab speed dating night for singles is in order!!"

That would be great I’m in 🤣🤣

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By *uietman19Man
5 weeks ago

carlow

"A fab speed dating night for singles is in order!!"
Now that would be interesting !!!! and yes would have no problem dating someone on here

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By *egsyWoman
5 weeks ago

Meath

Personally...no I would never date a fab man again. Learned my lesson

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By *arl2020Man
5 weeks ago

Newtownbutler

Hey legs,yeah i agree definitely not worth it

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By *ucky.Mr.FMan
5 weeks ago

Right Here

Never say never, nothing stopping you finding the right person wherever you find yourself

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By *AMBOLADMan
5 weeks ago

Dunboyne

I have never been on any dating apps,only on swingers sites,and a big part of the reason i have never is because i wouldn’t know how to approach the conversation with a woman about the lifestyle ,and then say you were getting on and it was a dealbreaker,youd be back to square one.I hope to find someone as filthy as myself oneday🤣 and thats a big part of why im on fab.

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By *ezoMan
5 weeks ago

The Kingdom

"A fab speed dating night for singles is in order!!"

Many have said they were going to organise one, but so far I have not heard anyone following through.

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By *alway girl30 OP Woman
5 weeks ago

Athenry

"A fab speed dating night for singles is in order!!"
that would be brilliant but how would you even go about organising it 😅

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By *alway girl30 OP Woman
5 weeks ago

Athenry

"I would love to meet someone here.

I’ve no interest in traditional dating apps or something vanilla but it’s easier said than done 😅

They do a very nice lunch in the lady Gregory 🥣🍽 hotel in Gort..FYI

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is that you asking me out on a date 🤔😅😂😂

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By *affronGentMan
5 weeks ago

Kilkenny

I would absolutely love to date a fab lady.. like minded people knowing about this lifestyle is a great match I would say.. hope I find someone soon

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By *eus17Man
5 weeks ago

belfast

Just another single guy here,looking the same as all the rest

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By *ohnny25123Man
5 weeks ago

Midlands Ireland

If two people get get on and want a relationship so be it, we only have one life, enjoy, make mistakes, keep moving forward, thats life

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By *avman169Man
5 weeks ago

Bangor

I have recently been chatting with a lady on here and we have met a few times and have decided that we want to be in a proper relationship but with an extra bit of fun in the future on here. She likes the idea of a couple or a single male watching us having fun in the same room and if things are comfortable thing maybe a bit of soft swapping.

We are just taking things easy to start and discussing all our kinks and being honest with each other.

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By *otel CaliforniaCouple
5 weeks ago

Dirty old town

We met on here… took a break got married had kids and now back having fun together!!!

If you don’t want to give up your sexcapades then fab is the best option for dating I reckon

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By *otel CaliforniaCouple
5 weeks ago

Dirty old town

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By *otel CaliforniaCouple
5 weeks ago

Dirty old town

"Personally...no I would never date a fab man again. Learned my lesson

If you met a lovely guy and he asked you to give up the lifestyle… could you 🤔

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By *alway girl30 OP Woman
5 weeks ago

Athenry

"Personally...no I would never date a fab man again. Learned my lesson

If you met a lovely guy and he asked you to give up the lifestyle… could you 🤔"

I personally don't think I could. I have been on fab maybe 8 months now and I have gone on vanilladates while being on fab and tbh I found them boring 🫣

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By *egsyWoman
5 weeks ago

Meath

"Personally...no I would never date a fab man again. Learned my lesson

If you met a lovely guy and he asked you to give up the lifestyle… could you 🤔"

Nah, I'm done with relationships full stop. I choose peace from now on

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By *elvin_MarcusCouple (MM)
5 weeks ago

Dublin

Absolutely, I know I would. For when next I decide to dip my toes back in the dating scene She has to be on fab. It’s a requirement.

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By *ustMe!Woman
5 weeks ago

co.down

"Personally...no I would never date a fab man again. Learned my lesson

If you met a lovely guy and he asked you to give up the lifestyle… could you 🤔

Nah, I'm done with relationships full stop. I choose peace from now on

100%

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By *ngloirishcoupleCouple
5 weeks ago

Dundalk

"Ok question and please don't attack me i know this not tinder. but in fairness most of the guys on tinder or on fab .

And I know there will be good points and bad points to dating a fellow fabber . But I just think it would suit me better

The Hungry Cats socials in Belfast have had four or five relationships come from their events, so it is possible to meet someone in the lifestyle 😁

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By *t777Woman
5 weeks ago

Dublin, Meath

"Ok question and please don't attack me i know this not tinder. but in fairness most of the guys on tinder or on fab .

And I know there will be good points and bad points to dating a fellow fabber . But I just think it would suit me better

Absolutely, have done and will do if the opportunity arises again.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

"Personally...no I would never date a fab man again. Learned my lesson

If you met a lovely guy and he asked you to give up the lifestyle… could you 🤔

I personally don't think I could. I have been on fab maybe 8 months now and I have gone on vanilladates while being on fab and tbh I found them boring 🫣"

It’s true!! Maybe it’s my age group but on my last vanilla date he asked if I have a pension and if my salary was in 6 figures yet- true story!! Everything gets so serious once you hit your forties. Just because you date in your forties doesn’t mean you want to get married and rush down the aisle. Dating in your forties should be like dating in your 20s, lots of sex, the craic and see where life leads you. There must be men on this site who want the same or am I mad.

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By *ubadubdubWoman
4 weeks ago

Hereabouts

I personally don't think I could. I have been on fab maybe 8 months now and I have gone on vanilladates while being on fab and tbh I found them boring 🫣

I agree with you. I have friends who ask 'will this guy mind me when I'm old' and I'm thinking crikey one step at a time! See where it goes, enjoy the now and cross that bridge when you come to it.

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By *atherjackhackettMan
4 weeks ago

Tipperary

I'm open for dating and a relationship. Why not. Time shared is wonderful with the right person. Even better if they are open to this FAB lifestyle in some shape or form.

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By *iss chleoWoman
4 weeks ago

wicklow

For me personally the single life has more pros than cons yes it gets lonely sometimes but your free to cum and go as you please pardon the pun lol don't have to answer to anyone I'm just a single pringle and happy that way each to there own is what I'm saying

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

What about dating without it leading to a long term relationship. Or is this a case of having your cake and eating it.

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By *iss chleoWoman
4 weeks ago

wicklow

"What about dating without it leading to a long term relationship. Or is this a case of having your cake and eating it. "
I don't think that's called dating because you know it's never going anywhere

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By *electableicecreamMan
4 weeks ago

The West

"What about dating without it leading to a long term relationship. Or is this a case of having your cake and eating it. "

I do this. And there's plenty of people who like to go on dates that are not looking for a relationship or a fuck buddy.

I even had a date buddy (as opposed to a fuck buddy) for a while and it was great.

I know dating means looking for a relationship for a lot of people but there's no reason people can't enjoy all the nice things that go with going on a date too.

Labels are handy for describing things but it's not written down anywhere that we have to be bound by them.

I just look for what I want.

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By *ozzlesMan
4 weeks ago

galway

"What about dating without it leading to a long term relationship. Or is this a case of having your cake and eating it.

I do this. And there's plenty of people who like to go on dates that are not looking for a relationship or a fuck buddy.

I even had a date buddy (as opposed to a fuck buddy) for a while and it was great.

I know dating means looking for a relationship for a lot of people but there's no reason people can't enjoy all the nice things that go with going on a date too.

Labels are handy for describing things but it's not written down anywhere that we have to be bound by them.

I just look for what I want. "

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I met a wonderful woman on Fab last year and we ended up togther for a year. We had a couples profile for a while.

I'm the same, I'm not 100% sure how youd bring up this lifestyle to a potential partner from Tinder or in a pub.

Monogamy is a dated idea, thrust upon us by institutions who jave little regard for your happiness, rather they are more interested in control and making you feel huilty for having urges and taking pleasure from sex.

Monogamy isn't for everyone and so long as you're honest with your partner, it doesn't need to be part of a committed and trust filled relationship.

Personally, I would want to see my partner experience every pleasure that I can give them and that others can offer them too.

I don't like one offs from Fab, I prefer a FWB situation and I would be completely open to a proper friendship and more with someone with whom I shared this Fab world with

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By *ezoMan
4 weeks ago

The Kingdom

Well so long as both parties are clear in what they want out of a relationship it is all good.

Better if you have complimenting interests.

It is disappointing that all the people organinsing speed dating or longer lasting dating never seems to happen.

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By *alway girl30 OP Woman
4 weeks ago

Athenry

"What about dating without it leading to a long term relationship. Or is this a case of having your cake and eating it.

I do this. And there's plenty of people who like to go on dates that are not looking for a relationship or a fuck buddy.

I might actually think.about doing this

Because at the end of the day I never want to get married again. And i don't think I could live with anyone again either 🤔

I even had a date buddy (as opposed to a fuck buddy) for a while and it was great.

I know dating means looking for a relationship for a lot of people but there's no reason people can't enjoy all the nice things that go with going on a date too.

Labels are handy for describing things but it's not written down anywhere that we have to be bound by them.

I just look for what I want. "

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By *yronedevilMan
4 weeks ago

dungannon

Yeah I believe dating someone of fab would genuinely be for me and the way to go forward

Both on the same wavelength both passionate sexual people looking the same and the social aspect together yeah I’d definitely be on for a healthy fab dating experience

Count me in

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By *oveat1stfeelMan
4 weeks ago

around here somewhere

"Ok question and please don't attack me i know this not tinder. but in fairness most of the guys on tinder or on fab .

And I know there will be good points and bad points to dating a fellow fabber . But I just think it would suit me better

It's as good as any place to find your soulmate .

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