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By *he gentleman 1000 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

santry

Must be great be women on fab spoiled for choice and get 100s messages id imagine . So ladies how many messages would you get on average during a week

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Is that a bit of a sneer???🤔🤔

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

santry


"Is that a bit of a sneer???🤔🤔"
no genuinely curious how many messages they get

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By *atonaWoman
4 weeks ago

Meh

I get maybe 30 messages a week. I’ve a lot of filters, so that definitely helps with reducing the volume.

And trust me, ~30 a week is far more than enough for me 😁

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By *asheaMan
4 weeks ago

Killarney

I have a female friend on here. Her inbox gets up to 1500 msgs. It's great to think that attention is fun but it's not as safe for women online as it is for us as men.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
4 weeks ago

Newry

Probably about 20 per week.

As for spoilt for choice? Definitely not. There are very few that are compatible and to whom I'm attracted.

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By *og-ManMan
4 weeks ago

somewhere


"I have a female friend on here. Her inbox gets up to 1500 msgs. It's great to think that attention is fun but it's not as safe for women online as it is for us as men."

She either loves the attention or doesn't use filters to be honest

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
4 weeks ago

Galway, Clare


"I have a female friend on here. Her inbox gets up to 1500 msgs. It's great to think that attention is fun but it's not as safe for women online as it is for us as men.

She either loves the attention or doesn't use filters to be honest

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This!!

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
4 weeks ago

Newtownabbey


"Probably about 20 per week.

As for spoilt for choice? Definitely not. There are very few that are compatible and to whom I'm attracted. "

Same!

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago


"I have a female friend on here. Her inbox gets up to 1500 msgs. It's great to think that attention is fun but it's not as safe for women online as it is for us as men."

She needs a secretary

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By *eroLondonMan
4 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Must be great be women on fab..."

The flipside to this is the insurmountable unsolicited abuse and toxic messages that they receive. I don't envy them of that. I admire their strong constitution in dealing with it.

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

santry


"I get maybe 30 messages a week. I’ve a lot of filters, so that definitely helps with reducing the volume.

And trust me, ~30 a week is far more than enough for me 😁"

I forgot about the filters that defo helps lol guys like dogs on heat on here I'd imagine lol

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

santry


"Probably about 20 per week.

As for spoilt for choice? Definitely not. There are very few that are compatible and to whom I'm attracted. "

thats true I forgot about filters so helps bring down volume of messages

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

santry


"I have a female friend on here. Her inbox gets up to 1500 msgs. It's great to think that attention is fun but it's not as safe for women online as it is for us as men."
1500 messages is mental . That's trust women have be more careful unfortunately there some bad eggs id imagine on here like most places

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

santry


"Must be great be women on fab...

The flipside to this is the insurmountable unsolicited abuse and toxic messages that they receive. I don't envy them of that. I admire their strong constitution in dealing with it."

that's true some guys will get abusive if rejected or not replied to id imagine .

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By *llthewaysMan
4 weeks ago

Kildare/Dublin

With that volume of messages some people must need a PA to deal with them.

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By *licat.2Woman
4 weeks ago

Not Belfast but NI


"Probably about 20 per week.

As for spoilt for choice? Definitely not. There are very few that are compatible and to whom I'm attracted.

Same!"

Same!

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By *ingerrrrWoman
4 weeks ago

Meath

Depending on how much I’m online I get between 50-100 messages a week.

If I put up a racy pic then that goes way up..

I do have filters in place but still get some strange messages.

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By *assySirenWoman
4 weeks ago

near you

I have mine heavily filtered now so I get about 20-25 a day, more on the weekends. Before that I was getting a ridiculous amount that I couldn't possibly get through.

I've genuinely become dick blind at this stage with the amount of them I see in my inbox 😂

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By *s LollyWoman
4 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

My filters are set as tight as a ducks ass so it keeps the volume wayyyyy down so depending on what i post the messages vary, i don't open many messages anyway so couldn't give an exact amount....

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

santry


"Depending on how much I’m online I get between 50-100 messages a week.

If I put up a racy pic then that goes way up..

I do have filters in place but still get some strange messages. "

damn lot messages . Yeah racey pics get the guys going lol

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

santry


"I have mine heavily filtered now so I get about 20-25 a day, more on the weekends. Before that I was getting a ridiculous amount that I couldn't possibly get through.

I've genuinely become dick blind at this stage with the amount of them I see in my inbox 😂"

damn can imagine there must be lots dick pics then lol defo need filters as women and men I was getting gay guys messaging me asking to meet up TBF there only ones that message me first and fab my pic lol

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

santry


"My filters are set as tight as a ducks ass so it keeps the volume wayyyyy down so depending on what i post the messages vary, i don't open many messages anyway so couldn't give an exact amount...."
yeah as women I say you have to be filtered very heavy so not get mad about messages

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By *uddermeIspinMan
4 weeks ago

city centre


"Depending on how much I’m online I get between 50-100 messages a week.

If I put up a racy pic then that goes way up..

I do have filters in place but still get some strange messages. "

Love an aul racy pic with a few go faster stripes shoo get in there

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By *ustBoWoman
4 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

About two a week. Very tight filters and not posting new pics for ages have helped a lot.

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By *ubadubdubWoman
4 weeks ago

Hereabouts


" There are very few that are compatible and to whom I'm attracted.

Same!"

Snap.

My profile is nearly always on private now to reduce the inflow of mail and so I can initiate conversations at my own pace.

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By *he gentleman 1000 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

santry


"About two a week. Very tight filters and not posting new pics for ages have helped a lot. "
lol that would help

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By *leasurer77Man
4 weeks ago

Athlone


"My filters are set as tight as a ducks ass so it keeps the volume wayyyyy down so depending on what i post the messages vary, i don't open many messages anyway so couldn't give an exact amount...."

I'm privileged x

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By *leasurer77Man
4 weeks ago

Athlone

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By *leasurer77Man
4 weeks ago

Athlone


" There are very few that are compatible and to whom I'm attracted.

Same!

Snap.

My profile is nearly always on private now to reduce the inflow of mail and so I can initiate conversations at my own pace. "

I can confirm

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By *astelloWoman
4 weeks ago

Far far away

About 15. If I'm lucky.

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By *ild WomanWoman
4 weeks ago

carlow

Think about 5 or 6 a day. If anymore I'll leave it a bit longer to answer because most of them will probably blocked

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By *aid backMan
4 weeks ago

by a lake with my rod out

Do you think women really want to have to trawl through a pile of the same shite messages every day 🤣🤣 99.9% of the time I don't mail first. I meet people in person at events it's a 1000 times more effective to getting to know people than an email

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By *eordie.Woman
4 weeks ago

The Sticks

The odds are good

The goods are mostly odd

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By *om TangoMan
4 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

I’ve seen some of the messages women get on here and I definitely don’t think it’s easy for them.

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By *atonaWoman
4 weeks ago

Meh


"Must be great be women on fab...

The flipside to this is the insurmountable unsolicited abuse and toxic messages that they receive. I don't envy them of that. I admire their strong constitution in dealing with it."

Yep. Just yesterday someone messaged me who hadn’t read my bio. I politely rejected him and his reply? “Ahahah grandma”. He’s 32.

I replied with thank you for your kind words and wished him a good day. Should have called him an idiot, but what’s the point.

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