FabSwingers.com forum: Woman at work

By *ralPleasure25 OP Man
3 weeks ago

cork

Morning,

Ok dont judge me please, there's a woman i work with who i really fancy she knows my other half but I can tell she likes me abit to i dont know how much but I cant get her outa my head. Do you think I should say to her or message her or leave it alone.

She is married herself to but something about her i just want her badly. Am I thinking with my little head more than my big head lol

Don't judge just want to see what people have to say like I say you only live once

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By *ettaManMan
3 weeks ago

Based in Kerry, work in Cork.

"Morning,

She is married herself to but something about her i just want her badly. Am I thinking with my little head more than my big head lol

Don't judge just want to see what people have to say like I say you only live once "

What would the consequences be if:

A) you say it to her or send her a message, but she doesn't feel the same way and says it to your other half?

B) You say it to her, ye hook up, but your other half finds out?

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By *ubadubdubWoman
3 weeks ago

Hereabouts

"Morning,

She is married herself to but something about her i just want her badly. Am I thinking with my little head more than my big head lol

Don't judge just want to see what people have to say like I say you only live once "

You already know the answer to this I think.

'you only live once' .... that's little head talking

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
3 weeks ago

Craigavon

Don't mess on your own doorstep remember you still have to work together if things go pear shaped in my opinion not worth the risk

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By *lavemale66Man
3 weeks ago

Cap d'Agde

"Morning,

She is married herself to but something about her i just want her badly. Am I thinking with my little head more than my big head lol

Don't judge just want to see what people have to say like I say you only live once "

I would think getting involved in a sexual/romantic situation with this lady could end very badly for a number of reasons.

I am sure there are a lot of people, myself included, who work with or who know people they would like to be involved with but common sense prevails.

As you suggest the blood flow is going to the wrong head.

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By *he Pilot69Man
3 weeks ago

kerry/cork

It’s your little head talking for sure!

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By *oo32Man
3 weeks ago

tipperary

Nope

It'll end in tears...and there'll be a whole other shitshow to deal with

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By *inglingPringle87Man
3 weeks ago

city

Don't shit on your own doorstep comes to mind.

This is like shitting on the front and back doorstep.

Whenever you want to leave you'll end up stepping in shit.

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By *aid backMan
3 weeks ago

by a lake with my rod out

Don't shit where you eat

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By *og-ManMan
3 weeks ago

somewhere

Playing Devil's Advocate here

Go for it

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By *argus12Man
3 weeks ago

meath dublin

Well one important point to note is whether she is more senior than you. Is your job worth the risk.

That said, maybe tease the subject with her at an office social. You can always blame the drink lol

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By *xplorer2023Man
3 weeks ago

dublin 7

you might be worrying over nothing.

Try talking to your colleague's husband and get the OK from him first.

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
3 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

"Well one important point to note is whether she is more senior than you. Is your job worth the risk.

That said, maybe tease the subject with her at an office social. You can always blame the drink lol"

So the fact she's married is irrelevant??

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By *ucyD99Woman
3 weeks ago

dub

Nooooooooo

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
3 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

How about we all agree to keep forum comments to forums rather than message people directly to make stupid remarks. That'd be lovely.

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By *oprano100Man
3 weeks ago

Dublin

Don't do it, there is always Karmic consequences particularly in workplace settings such as this.

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By *lickdickMan
3 weeks ago

Belfast

Don't shit where you eat

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By *eehornyWoman
3 weeks ago

Mayo

You are thinking with your little head...No judgement but if you want to have sex with someone other than your partner without her consent that is cheating and she will most likely find out. Instead maybe broach the subject with your wife, she may be up for it too

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By *riveronMan
3 weeks ago

Gwan, do it, we all love a good car crash!

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By *agneyandhutchCouple
3 weeks ago

lucan

I’m with bogman

Go for it 😆

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By *ariaxxxxWoman
3 weeks ago

London/Kent

"Well one important point to note is whether she is more senior than you. Is your job worth the risk.

That said, maybe tease the subject with her at an office social. You can always blame the drink lol

So the fact she's married is irrelevant??"

^^^^^^^ This 👍

Quote - "So the fact she's married is irrelevant".......

What if she has a crazed jealous husband & he hears you're 'hitting' on his wife (if you decide to) or if it developed into an 'affair' & he hears about that..... Sh*t happens ya know......

Some men who 'mess around' with others wives without their knowledge are badly assaulted by deranged unhinged jealous Husbands.

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