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"What is it with one word texts! I know this is an old complaint, but a little effort can change everything. What happened to engaging through conversation, after all … we wouldn’t walk up to someone at a social event and say “hi, hello, well etc” " It might have something to do with how behaviour is reinforced on here. If people put in effort but don't get a reply, they will stop putting in the effort. If they don't get a reply with a lack of effort, then they might stop sending messages altogether or continue to invest the same lack of effort bcos they believe the outcome will be the same, so they may reason "why put in the effort?" | |||
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"What is it with one word texts! I know this is an old complaint, but a little effort can change everything. What happened to engaging through conversation, after all … we wouldn’t walk up to someone at a social event and say “hi, hello, well etc” It might have something to do with how behaviour is reinforced on here. If people put in effort but don't get a reply, they will stop putting in the effort. If they don't get a reply with a lack of effort, then they might stop sending messages altogether or continue to invest the same lack of effort bcos they believe the outcome will be the same, so they may reason "why put in the effort?"" I tried loads of different ways to get a reply I just given up in the end but that's just me and understand why with all the single guys on this and them sending stupid amounts of messages to women and men for that matter. It's very hard to get notice but hopefully some day someone will notice me for being a nice and sound lad ( which no serial killer ever said 🤣🤣) | |||
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"Hi or hey. Doesn’t matter what us single guys text. We make an effort of reading the bio. Try to include something from their bio in the first message and we still don’t get a response. So I can understand why some men can’t be assed to make an effort with first message. " But that's the whole point.. it DOES matter what single guys say. I've had some messages lately that have just been plain ignorant/stupid/lazy/disrespectful. And that's just the part I can see without opening it. So no, I'm absolutely not going to bother reading any further. A message doesn't necessarily have to reference something from our profile, it just needs a bit of cop on. | |||
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"Hi or hey. Doesn’t matter what us single guys text. We make an effort of reading the bio. Try to include something from their bio in the first message and we still don’t get a response. So I can understand why some men can’t be assed to make an effort with first message. But that's the whole point.. it DOES matter what single guys say. I've had some messages lately that have just been plain ignorant/stupid/lazy/disrespectful. And that's just the part I can see without opening it. So no, I'm absolutely not going to bother reading any further. A message doesn't necessarily have to reference something from our profile, it just needs a bit of cop on. " Hey x | |||
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"I got a couple saying Ho during the week " To be fair it's Santy's quiet time of the year 🎅 | |||
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"Not just single guys in fairness I got a couple saying Ho during the week " You're right. It's not just single guys.. I got a "Hi" from a couple too. ![]() | |||
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"Not just single guys in fairness I got a couple saying Ho during the week You're right. It's not just single guys.. I got a "Hi" from a couple too. ![]() Get a few “High” ‘s too lately ![]() | |||
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"I got a couple saying Ho during the week To be fair it's Santy's quiet time of the year 🎅" At least they didn't say Hoe ![]() | |||
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"I got a couple saying Ho during the week To be fair it's Santy's quiet time of the year 🎅 At least they didn't say Hoe ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Have to admit that if someone messaged us with a one word text we have been known to reply with single word texts just to see how long it takes them to catch on and sometimes they don't but it's like pulling teeth " Have done this too if I'm very bored...like text tennis, just to see whether I can get a whole sentence. I usually give up before that happens 🤣 | |||
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"Fuck ??" I got a message like that from a guy a few years ago. I just replied with Off??. He never responded. In my defense, I thought it was some sort of word game. | |||
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"Hi or hey. Doesn’t matter what us single guys text. We make an effort of reading the bio. Try to include something from their bio in the first message and we still don’t get a response. So I can understand why some men can’t be assed to make an effort with first message. But that's the whole point.. it DOES matter what single guys say. I've had some messages lately that have just been plain ignorant/stupid/lazy/disrespectful. And that's just the part I can see without opening it. So no, I'm absolutely not going to bother reading any further. A message doesn't necessarily have to reference something from our profile, it just needs a bit of cop on. " This exactly it. But its sometimes how singel women and couples message us. | |||
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