FabSwingers.com forum: New Thai girlfriend not into swinging

By (user no longer on site) OP
5 weeks ago

I have a new Thai girlfriend, who i may add is super sexy, and we are moving in together next week.

I brought up the subject of swinging two weeks ago but unfortunately she doesn't believe in sharing and won't entertain it.😕 😢

So no new couples profile for me and singles profile will be paused unless she has a change of heart.

Has anyone else been in this same situation?.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
5 weeks ago

Castlebar

Well you have presumably been in a monogamous relationship for some time? So you must have known that you have to make a choice? Monogamy or swinging? And by agreeing to live together that choice is made. End of...

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
5 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

I'm not getting the relevance of this post. She doesn't want sex with other people but you clearly do and you're hoping people here are going to tell you "ah sure what she doesn't know won't hurt her".

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By *quish and KellyCouple
5 weeks ago

"I'm not getting the relevance of this post. She doesn't want sex with other people but you clearly do and you're hoping people here are going to tell you "ah sure what she doesn't know won't hurt her". "

Seems to be a bit of a pattern in a lot of posts we’re seeing recently,

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By *og-ManMan
5 weeks ago

somewhere

A couple of months ago you were bringing here away for a weekend and you told her she was having a 3sum

She was looking forward to it you said

Did it go wrong

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By *riveronMan
5 weeks ago

Bring her back and get another!

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By *rRiosMan
5 weeks ago

dublin

"Bring her back and get another!

Jesus Christ!

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By *riveronMan
5 weeks ago

It's traditional in Thailand that the husband owns the woman, so swinging is not a thing that is popular there! So its highly unlikely that you'll be able to change her mind!

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By *ohng69Man
5 weeks ago

athenry

Is this the same girlfriend you wanted to surprise with a threesome over a year ago?

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By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
5 weeks ago

Waterford

"Is this the same girlfriend you wanted to surprise with a threesome over a year ago?"

He only dates Thai women it seems

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By *izzKathrynWoman
5 weeks ago

Drogheda

Did you try turning it off and on?

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By *astelloWoman
5 weeks ago

Far far away

I find the reset button is great

A whole new experience

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By *urious_2025Man
5 weeks ago

Dublin

She's new but you're already moving in together

How new is new?

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By *oo32Man
5 weeks ago

tipperary

"It's traditional in Thailand that the husband owns the woman, so swinging is not a thing that is popular there! So its highly unlikely that you'll be able to change her mind!

I'm fairly sure it's not traditional at all

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By *oleraine-coupleCouple
5 weeks ago

Coleraine

"I have a new Thai girlfriend, who i may add is super sexy, and we are moving in together next week.

I brought up the subject of swinging two weeks ago but unfortunately she doesn't believe in sharing and won't entertain it.😕 😢

So no new couples profile for me and singles profile will be paused unless she has a change of heart.

Has anyone else been in this same situation?."

Go enjoy your sexy GF and forget about this place. Don’t ruin what you have or try and change her.

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By *ungry CatCouple
5 weeks ago

Belfast

Swinging isn't just about fucking other people.

There is soft swing, where people don't swap partners.

There is exhibitionism where other people watch you.

There is also voyeurism where you watch other people.

There is also a massive social aspect to it.

If you stay fixated solely on swapping - your partner will likely never change her mind.

If you stay fixated on the need to cheat (being here on your own is bad enough as it's deceptive af if she doesn't know) - what's the point in being in a relationship all together. Just break up before you both wasted your time on each other.

Life is too precious to waste it on cheating and especially on being cheated on.

Missus

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By *riveronMan
5 weeks ago

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
5 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

He's gone!!

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By *riveronMan
5 weeks ago

"It's traditional in Thailand that the husband owns the woman, so swinging is not a thing that is popular there! So its highly unlikely that you'll be able to change her mind!

I'm fairly sure it's not traditional at all

Na, i made that all up out of boredom!

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By *electableicecreamMan
5 weeks ago

The West

That escalated quickly

Rest in UNLOS

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By *ally8Woman
5 weeks ago

Plymouth

"It's traditional in Thailand that the husband owns the woman, so swinging is not a thing that is popular there! So its highly unlikely that you'll be able to change her mind!

I'm fairly sure it's not traditional at all

It is true for Thailand and the vast majority of countries all over the world, and for all of recorded history. It’s all about having babies.

Only a very few western countries currently pretend that women and men are somehow “equal”.

How many female Catholic priests do you know of?

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By *ichaeltontineMan
5 weeks ago

SWANSEA

I arranged with my grfrd to do some chat online. She got into talk with a guy and i wa wanking listening. Then she changed her mind. The kept calling and txting

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By *iscod169Man
5 weeks ago

Portlaoise, Dublin

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By *iscod169Man
5 weeks ago

Portlaoise, Dublin

"Did you try turning it off and on?"

Just off

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By *he gentleman 1000Man
4 weeks ago

santry

"I have a new Thai girlfriend, who i may add is super sexy, and we are moving in together next week.

I brought up the subject of swinging two weeks ago but unfortunately she doesn't believe in sharing and won't entertain it.😕 😢

So no new couples profile for me and singles profile will be paused unless she has a change of heart.

Has anyone else been in this same situation?."
hello jay Cartwright

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