FabSwingers.com forum: Unusual turn offs on a profile

By *razySexyCoolCork OP Woman
4 days ago

Cork

Just doing the usual scrolling on a Sunday morning and looked at a profile. They have a picture of a football club emblem so I closed the profile.

I'm not against the club, it's more a man in his 50's using that as one of his pictures. Just an ick of mine I guess.

Anyone else have any unusual icks like that?

*apologies to those with such pictures. No upset intended.

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By *adger BrocMan
4 days ago

Co. Cork

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By *adger BrocMan
4 days ago

Co. Cork

Photo of penis.....particularly placed over porcelain.

🍆🚽

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By *entleGent13Man
4 days ago

Somewhere

"Just doing the usual scrolling on a Sunday morning and looked at a profile. They have a picture of a football club emblem so I closed the profile.

I'm not against the club, it's more a man in his 50's using that as one of his pictures. Just an ick of mine I guess.

Anyone else have any unusual icks like that?

*apologies to those with such pictures. No upset intended. "

I guess that's more about your expectations of a man in his 50s on a swinging site.

I can't speak for the guy personally but it's clear it's something that matters to him and he wants to attract those that think thats a good quality or common interest.

I guess people try to put what they think their particular audience want to see on their profiles.

My own personal "ick" is people who have overtly aggressive profiles about what they want and dont want.

But all that does is confirm they are not for me...and I'm probably not for them. So, they are getting the desired effect really.

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By *og-ManMan
4 days ago

somewhere

I scroll but more out of having a look rather than looking for someone

Pet peeves on photos ....lots of female photo's on a male profile

Female only photo's on a couple's profile

Cock on toilet photos ....jaysus I understand it can be the only room in the house with a lock on the door but it looks terrible

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By *agic mike1Man
4 days ago

laois/offaly

"I scroll but more out of having a look rather than looking for someone

Pet peeves on photos ....lots of female photo's on a male profile

Female only photo's on a couple's profile

Cock on toilet photos ....jaysus I understand it can be the only room in the house with a lock on the door but it looks terrible "

And a trout not flushed down🤭🤭

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By *om TangoMan
4 days ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

Profiles that say “must send face picture with first message “ I rarely judge anyone on their profile to be honest. I’ve seen profiles and I would think to myself they are hateful people and I wouldn’t want anything to do with them. Then I’d end up chatting to them at a social only to find out they are some of the loveliest people you could meet. So therefore I do try not to read too much into anyone’s profile bios.there is this one lady. Her profile bio would leave most thinking that she is not a nice person, but at a social I was chatting away with this lovely lady for ages. I asked her what her profile name was only to discover it was a profile that I’d told myself to avoid. She is an absolute kind and lovely lady in person.

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By *illdonCouple
4 days ago

Everywhere

That gets on my nerves as well. Makes me scroll on by. True as you say, what is interpreted in a profile versus what they are actually trying to convey are quite often two very different things. So much can get lost in text. But the 'face pics with first message' a total pet peeve of mine for sure. Don't care how hot they are, that one makes me scroll.

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By *acy69Woman
4 days ago

Letterkenny

Entitled people who think the world surrounds them... the don't don't don't people. ("don't message me if ur not verified people)"And the bathroom profile cock pics..

And the guy from Kerry who keeps coming back with different profiles and 1st message is always "Can I ask you a question and 2nd message is can you send me your used tights and panties i want to sniff them....

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
4 days ago

belfast

Those profiles that read like the small print in a contract, but basically boil down to “I’m very important, here are all the things I don’t like and that you mustn’t be or do if you are lucky enough to meet me.”

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By * DareCouple
4 days ago

Letterkenny

Will go with what I love on a profile as that’s easier sometimes ….. love well dressed in a suit or even nice casual gear and where you can see the person a little more rather than the thousands of …… just our preference I guess 🫶🏻

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By *ealitybitesMan
4 days ago

Belfast

Anything that isn't consistent with what they say in their bio.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 days ago

Castlebar

Nothing unusual

Just the regular usual ones 🤣

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By *ubadubdubWoman
3 days ago

Hereabouts

Moustaches.. they seem to be trendy now, but its a 👎🏻 for me

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By *electableicecreamMan
3 days ago

The West

"Moustaches.. they seem to be trendy now, but its a 👎🏻 for me "

And mullets

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By *og-ManMan
3 days ago

somewhere

There's some photos and I'm sure I can see a woman's tonsils while the camera is pointing up her fanny

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By *easingTimMan
3 days ago

Loughlinstown

You might have nice kit on in the foreground

but a messy bedroom in the background. Noooo...

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
3 days ago

Galway, Clare

Photos that are over a year old - I've seen some profiles with photos going back ten years and no current ones. Like, why???

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By *ofusplusCouple
3 days ago

Limerick

On couple's profiles, when you don't know who is who in that section above the 'Interests' part. They call themselves 'M' and 'P' but it's not obvious who is the male and who is the female.

He could be the 5ft 1, bisexual, smoker or the 6ft 6, straight, non smoker.

Sometimes it's important to know

Oh and the constant 'I' in the bio. Does the other person not matter?

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By *aloma PicassoWoman
3 days ago

Waterford city

Taking a nude picture in a child's bedroom

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By *emlock HarryMan
3 days ago

cullon

I absolutely hate pics of dicks beside deodorant cans..

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By *opcattMan
2 days ago

co down

"Just doing the usual scrolling on a Sunday morning and looked at a profile. They have a picture of a football club emblem so I closed the profile.

I'm not against the club, it's more a man in his 50's using that as one of his pictures. Just an ick of mine I guess.

Anyone else have any unusual icks like that?

*apologies to those with such pictures. No upset intended. "
my ick is new profiles not photo verified or meet verified with no picture demanding a clear face pic or no reply 🤦‍♂️

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
2 days ago

Lucan

The demands that some have... You must do this and you must not do that, then type this backwards on the third line of text or YOU'LL BE BLOCKED! 😱

Life is way too short to be dealing with all of that.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
2 days ago

Newtownabbey

Eye close ups, I can't cope with them

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By *affa31Woman
2 days ago

Galway

"Eye close ups, I can't cope with them "

Same, and include in that any close ups of mouths, hands etc where they’re the only part of the body visible

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By *ewcorkcpl23Couple
2 days ago

Cork

We have a few iks, profiles that demand face pics, ones that have little to no text on them, profiles that say they don't do xyz then on verifications show they actually do it. Profiles with alot of dick pics .

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By *ensualDivaWoman
2 days ago

Galway, Limerick, Clare, Somewhere sensual

Too long or too short

Stating the obvious

And in messages being called babe or worse still "Dear" 🤮

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By *endi LiquorTV/TS
2 days ago

newry

Usual sitting on the toilet with a hard on.

Pic in mirror when it's bogging or the mess of the room behind them.

Guys holding their hard cock and dirty finger nails.

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By *razyNippleLoverMan
2 days ago

Back End of Beyond

Dado wallpaper borders.

Don't get me wrong I still like a good Dado rail just not the wall paper version

That And

Hairy knee caps

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
24 hours ago

Galway, Clare

"Too long or too short

Stating the obvious

And in messages being called babe or worse still "Dear" 🤮"

I've had many really frickin' awful/lazy/crap messages recently, and in a few I've been referred to as Miss.

Just no!!

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By *ubblebeexxxMan
24 hours ago

city centre

"Too long or too short

Stating the obvious

And in messages being called babe or worse still "Dear" 🤮

I've had many really frickin' awful/lazy/crap messages recently, and in a few I've been referred to as Miss.

Just no!!"

Oh dear, that's not good

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
24 hours ago

Belfast

Loads of dick pics taken from different angles.

Women's bodies on a single male profiles with no tagging done so you can't tell if the woman consented to having her pic on his profile. Photos can be edited and text added, so no excuse on this.

Pics of messy houses and toilet bowls

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By *adyKarmennTVTV/TS
24 hours ago

Dublin

Repeated dock pics usually the same one

Messy backgrounds …. No thank you

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By *roove_SomeMan
24 hours ago

Derry

Essays and dissertations on their profile that are a chore to read.

Kind of a phenomenon really.... The longer it goes, the more negative it gets.

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By *attooedwelshguy7Man
21 hours ago

Gwent

My unusual ick is “Will fill in later” it screams they can’t be bothered.

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By *ustMe!Woman
21 hours ago

co.down

-No effort made on profile

-No pics

-Too many or only dick pics

-comments toward others in regards to their size etc on the wee status update. (If someone’s body shape or size is not for then just move on and don’t look)

-Profile full of lies (especially when you know that person personally)

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