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By *rans Laura OP TV/TS
5 weeks ago

guess

Hi all, I’m only just out as trans, seen all the therapist gp and referralsl gone to ngs etc… had my breakdowns over the past 2 years, and yes even tried to take my own life, I was married with amazing wife who is standing by me and giving me support until we sort out my future alone! Only thing is I’ve called all the support centres looking to get involved with other girls and trans people who might have went through the same issues, but all they can tell me is they won’t be in my age group, I don’t want to be socially isolated and live in a room as this is the biggest event of my life, I work in a hospital with over 1400 people and I’ve never felt so alone. If any knows any groups please let me know x Laura

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By *og-ManMan
5 weeks ago

somewhere

Look up the DV8 profile

They run events that you will be interested in

Best of luck on your journey

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By *oZi23Couple
5 weeks ago

Louth

"Hi all, I’m only just out as trans, seen all the therapist gp and referralsl gone to ngs etc… had my breakdowns over the past 2 years, and yes even tried to take my own life, I was married with amazing wife who is standing by me and giving me support until we sort out my future alone! Only thing is I’ve called all the support centres looking to get involved with other girls and trans people who might have went through the same issues, but all they can tell me is they won’t be in my age group, I don’t want to be socially isolated and live in a room as this is the biggest event of my life, I work in a hospital with over 1400 people and I’ve never felt so alone. If any knows any groups please let me know x Laura "

You're definitely not going to be alone. Highly recommend looking up the Glam Girls page. They run great nights the last Friday of every month.

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By *rans Laura OP TV/TS
5 weeks ago

guess

Thanks

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By *rans Laura OP TV/TS
5 weeks ago

guess

Thanks I will, I’m actually not looking to party as I don’t know Laura is attracted to, seems silly but I’ve been the married reliable string hardworking man for 47 years and then like a light switch this hits me,

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By *usietranslutTV/TS
5 weeks ago

carlow

The good thing about light switches is that they are generally enlightening. Moral and practical support will be readily forthcoming from ordinary decent people. The Parties and Glam events will follow in due course.

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By *milyRose321TV/TS
5 weeks ago

Derry, Ireland

"Thanks I will, I’m actually not looking to party as I don’t know Laura is attracted to, seems silly but I’ve been the married reliable string hardworking man for 47 years and then like a light switch this hits me, "

You will be fine lol

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By *ileen_cdTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Dublin

You can ask me, I know everything (as in two or three things

) about the social scene in Dublin.

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By *xplorer2023Man
5 weeks ago

dublin 7

Congratulations Laura, enjoy the next chapter

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
4 weeks ago

Belfast and Tyrone

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
4 weeks ago

Belfast and Tyrone

Congratulations, I'm sure it's scary as well. Someone close to me went out today in a very public way at an event and even ended up on a stage helping a magician and introduced herself as her new name. Thats such a big step.

I was so proud of her.

Don't be put off by age ranges in organisations. There's places like the Rainbow Project that should be welcoming.

Vics

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
4 weeks ago

Belfast and Tyrone

Some reddits are great too, my partner is trans reddit, bigender etc. I'm sure there's loads.

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By *ilf ShakeWoman
4 weeks ago

KILDARE

Congratulations it's a nerve racking but exciting time ahead for you x

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By *rans Laura OP TV/TS
4 weeks ago

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Thanks

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