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By (user no longer on site) OP   
7 weeks ago

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By *ionycusMan
7 weeks ago

Babylon

Jesus , thrown out from your own thread, you pissed someone off

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By *rRiosMan
7 weeks ago

dublin

Vent away! Sometime bouncers are on a power trip and sometimes bouncers are dickheads. They’ve to make snap judgements based on little information.

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By *og-ManMan
7 weeks ago

somewhere

Sometimes customers can be dickheads

Always two sides to everything

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By *adger BrocMan
7 weeks ago

Co. Cork

Sometimes they may even send married women home pregnant from rock festivals in the North West.....

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
7 weeks ago

Home


"[Removed by poster at 14/06/25 00:13:37]"
not tonight bud

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By *entleGent13Man
7 weeks ago

Somewhere

Having worked on doors for a few years in my younger days i can safely say I met my fair share of lads who were just not right for it.

You need a calm demeanour and a genuine empathy for others. All the best guys I ever worked with had it and rarely had to get physical in any way.

The types being referred to in by the Op thought it gave them licence to be a "big tough guy".

Truth about most of those types is they get found out when it comes on top.

If you talked to most people who had a problem you'd get way further than being a dick.

In saying that there are people who dont want to listen and are active looking to be a dick. That's when the stakes change and it's time to leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

All clowns 🤡 amounted to nothing with their lives so they throw a black jacket and gloves on and think they can bully people. Best part of them wouldn’t tie their laces.

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By *rRiosMan
7 weeks ago

dublin


"Sometimes customers can be dickheads

Always two sides to everything "

Costumers are not being paid to be there.

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By *oprano100Man
7 weeks ago

Dublin

I always respect the bouncer power-trip or not, i was one many years ago, if your not getting in your not getting in.

Show respect, and you will almost always get in.

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By *iscuits8Man
7 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


"All clowns 🤡 amounted to nothing with their lives"

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By *og-ManMan
7 weeks ago

somewhere


"Sometimes customers can be dickheads

Always two sides to everything

Costumers are not being paid to be there. "

Being paid to do their job ....

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By *ealcoupleCouple
7 weeks ago


"Sometimes they may even send married women home pregnant from rock festivals in the North West..... "

I lol'd

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By *hunkyRedPandaMan
7 weeks ago

City


"All clowns 🤡 amounted to nothing with their lives so they throw a black jacket and gloves on and think they can bully people. Best part of them wouldn’t tie their laces. "

I was a bouncer while i was a soldier. I wasn't on a power trip. I stopped violence and d*unken behaviour that ruined the majority of people's nights. People who couldn't handle their drink but were just messy were treated with dignity, thrown out, not barred.

The violent fucktards, well, they weren't treated violently in return. But I wasn't going to be gentle. Depends on the degree if force necessary to defuse the situation to stop them geing a danger to themselves and others.

You have some issues if you think they're all clowns. Are you a messy d*unk?

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By *rRiosMan
7 weeks ago

dublin


"Sometimes customers can be dickheads

Always two sides to everything

Costumers are not being paid to be there.

Being paid to do their job ...."

Is their job to be assholes? Because that is what the op was venting about. Even if costumers are being dicks, bouncers should still be professional.

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By *og-ManMan
7 weeks ago

somewhere


"Sometimes customers can be dickheads

Always two sides to everything

Costumers are not being paid to be there.

Being paid to do their job ....

Is their job to be assholes? Because that is what the op was venting about. Even if costumers are being dicks, bouncers should still be professional. "

I didn't see what the op wrote as he deleted it

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By *rRiosMan
7 weeks ago

dublin


"Sometimes customers can be dickheads

Always two sides to everything

Costumers are not being paid to be there.

Being paid to do their job ....

Is their job to be assholes? Because that is what the op was venting about. Even if costumers are being dicks, bouncers should still be professional.

I didn't see what the op wrote as he deleted it "

It was about bouncers powertrips.

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By *iktikiCouple
6 weeks ago

city centre


"Sometimes customers can be dickheads

Always two sides to everything

Costumers are not being paid to be there. "

Don’t give them the right to behave like assholes.

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By *ub with a ChubbMan
6 weeks ago

Southwest & Cork City


"Sometimes customers can be dickheads

Always two sides to everything

Costumers are not being paid to be there.

Don’t give them the right to behave like assholes."

Some of them definitely traded in their cop-on, and personality for a pair of gloves.

I was refused entry a couple of weeks back to a bar in Cork at 9pm as I'd had "enough to drink for one night".

Best part about it was I was the designated driver....farcical.

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By *rystalsswingCouple
6 weeks ago

Up the Road / Galway/ Midlands


"[Removed by poster at 14/06/25 00:13:37]not tonight bud "

😂👏

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West

There was a guy in a chat group that I'm in recently who's main job was working door's.

He was a very angry man and came on most days to talk about the the idiot's he'd put in there place at work and he loved to talk about the fights he been in and how good was at violence.

He'd just been fired too.

There might be doorman that are assholes but most business owners wouldn't want because they are responsible for people safety. If security workers act unprofessionally it's important to report them.

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West

That might be the most typos I've ever posted.

In my defense I'm still in bed

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By *og-ManMan
6 weeks ago

somewhere

Anyone dealing with the public who's an aggressive arsehole shouldn't be in their job ....no matter the job

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By *ealitybitesMan
6 weeks ago

Belfast

I can't think of anyplace I've been that actually required a doorman since I was in my late 20s so I can't comment on current behaviour.

Way back then each premises employed their own bouncers who were all individuals with their own rules but that started to change locally at least when door security companies started up and they had to be properly licenced.

Before that, most of the doormen I knew were county GAA players and of the 20 or so I came across, only one had a poor reputation. The rest were all very laid back and calm in tight situations.

The only time I can remember them having difficulty was when a group of women started fighting and none of the doormen wanted to get involved. Women didn't do doors back then.

We had to employ licenced door staff for monthly events we were running for teenagers to avoid insurance claims etc. Up to that point it was just committee members. They were all very professional.

I've worked with a few people who have done doors over the years and they all had responsible roles in the fire service or as sales reps and in one case a company director so I disagree with the statement above about them not amounting to much and having to do it as a last resort.

There will always be bad apples but the majority never have any issues because they deal with the problem before it arises.

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By *K lad 89Man
6 weeks ago

kilkenny

Usually all power tripping clowns, 9 times out of 10 if I got to an establishment that has these door people I’m never just allowed to walk straight in and even in places I’ve never been to before. I think they all feel threatened by someone who might be taller/stronger looking.

Now I always pay them compliments it makes them uncomfortable

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By *hunkyRedPandaMan
6 weeks ago

City


"Sometimes customers can be dickheads

Always two sides to everything

Costumers are not being paid to be there.

Don’t give them the right to behave like assholes.

Some of them definitely traded in their cop-on, and personality for a pair of gloves.

I was refused entry a couple of weeks back to a bar in Cork at 9pm as I'd had "enough to drink for one night".

Best part about it was I was the designated driver....farcical. "

Been there myself. Refuses for being too d*unk. Despite being blood sober. Ended up working with that doorman, only to witness him first hand doing it again.... what a horrible night on the door. Two or three of our staff were power-trippers. Rest, just wanted to earn a few euro and let people have safe, enjoyable nights.

I miss the good craic, both with customers and coworkers. I do not miss the violence.

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