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By *og-Man OP   Man
6 weeks ago

somewhere

Sure look might as well start another discussion along the same lines as the other one

Ladies most of ye are straight but will kiss other women or even play with their boobs

What's that about and how come no one cares about it and most men would love to look while you're doing it

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By *P_80Man
6 weeks ago

Waterford

It's like going to strip shows.

When women do it it's just fun.

When men do it it's creepy and perverted

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By *ealitybitesMan
6 weeks ago

Belfast

It's like the women with bicurious on their profile who bitch non stop in private messages about how disgusting other female profiles are and when asked why they claimed to be bicurious if they were so turned off by a few pics, replied that some couples wouldn't chat to them if they didn't pretend to be bi.

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By *affa31Woman
6 weeks ago

Galway

Ah now bog, you know that biphobia only applies to the dirty bi men!

Women are exempt obvs

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
6 weeks ago

Newry

Women - hot, can call themselves whatever they want regardless

Men - urgh, dirty horrible liars, must describe themselves with total accuracy

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By *ubadubdubWoman
6 weeks ago

Hereabouts


"Sure look might as well start another discussion along the same lines as the other one

Ladies most of ye are straight but will kiss other women or even play with their boobs

What's that about and how come no one cares about it and most men would love to look while you're doing it

"

I dunno Bog,

suggested answer to q1: women are just more comfortable with physical touch maybe and not as hung up about the 'rules' of engagement

Suggested answer to q2: men like to see women as sexual beings, especially naughty ones

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By *inkywife1981Couple
6 weeks ago

A town near you

Alternatively maybe some women are bi curious as they state on their profiles and enjoy sexual realtions with other women and state it on their profiles thus making it clear to people who dont want to meet bi curious women to skip that profile, that doesn't mean bi curious women can't get the ick at the though of 2 men going at it.

No one can dictate what one person enjoys or gets the ick from.

It's also respectful to potential suiters to highlight that you engage in sex acts with the same sex so they can make an informed choice and weigh up the risks of getting involved with you based on your lifestyle considering that according to the CDC, every government health agency and LGBTQ+ organisation advising that bi and gay people have a significantly higher risk of catching sexually transmitted diseases.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
6 weeks ago

kinkytown

Shame hetrofexible isn't an option on here as it is with other sites

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By *UIETELLE2052Couple
6 weeks ago

Dundrum

It can change Sue was a definite straight lady but once she tried bi loved it and still learning on the journey

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By *uddermeIspinMan
6 weeks ago

city centre


"Sure look might as well start another discussion along the same lines as the other one

Ladies most of ye are straight but will kiss other women or even play with their boobs

What's that about and how come no one cares about it and most men would love to look while you're doing it

"

Oh bogman you're such b a joker

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
6 weeks ago

Belfast and Tyrone

It's the old double standard.

Women are nearly expected to be Bi in this scene and Bi men are treated as if they have leprosy. The sexual health risks are from promiscuity not from queerness. Oral sex is less risky than penetrative sex. So women who have penetrative sex with an infected man without using a condom have exactly the same risk as a man who is penetrated by another man.

Men want women to put on a show. That's misogynistic and treating women like they are objects that exist for mens benefit and enjoyment.

So it depends on what everyone's motivations are. If women do it 'for their man' it's not placing their own needs at the top and it's not great for their playmate.

But if SHE is genuinely bisexual then there's no problem.

Swingers have more sexual partners than mono people (duh). Queer people practice non mono more often than heterosexual people do, as a cultural norm. Therefore any risks are about lifestyle rather than being 'dirty' and as swingers we are part of the same lifestyle.

Be a slut! But be a safe slut. Testing is free, repeatable and easy.

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By *ildAtlanticSecretCouple
6 weeks ago

around Clare, Galway, Limerick

Wasn't it the tiger king that said everyone is a little bit gay 🤣😂🤣😂😂 even if they don't want to admit it

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By *orthsouth4957Couple
6 weeks ago

swords

We joined here because i wanted girl on girl fun, a woman that just kisses would not do it for me, fully bi or gay woman all the way and we only meet couples if the woman is bi. It is unfair for the guys who are bi, the should be able to be open about their sexuality

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By *ionycusMan
6 weeks ago

Babylon

If a man wanted to say he was a lesbian, and felt like a lesbian, and even put on some lesbian clothes (comfortable shoes, tank top 😂♥️)and rejoiced to the world 'they' were a lesbian, would it make any sound of there was no one there to tell them if they were right or wrong?

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By *ealitybitesMan
6 weeks ago

Belfast


"Wasn't it the tiger king that said everyone is a little bit gay 🤣😂🤣😂😂 even if they don't want to admit it "

I saw a tiktok video the other day of a comedian claiming that all men are born half gay.

He said the proof was when they tried throwing a ball with their non dominant arm.

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By *ionycusMan
6 weeks ago

Babylon


"Wasn't it the tiger king that said everyone is a little bit gay 🤣😂🤣😂😂 even if they don't want to admit it

I saw a tiktok video the other day of a comedian claiming that all men are born half gay.

He said the proof was when they tried throwing a ball with their non dominant arm. "

💔😂😂😂

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By *P_80Man
6 weeks ago

Waterford


"If a man wanted to say he was a lesbian, and felt like a lesbian, and even put on some lesbian clothes (comfortable shoes, tank top 😂♥️)and rejoiced to the world 'they' were a lesbian, would it make any sound of there was no one there to tell them if they were right or wrong? "

I really fancy women. I wear comfortable clothes and shoes.

Perhaps I'm a lesbian.

But if I'm a lesbian and fancy trans women, am I back to square one and straight again?

A person could go mad thinking too much about this stuff

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By *ionycusMan
6 weeks ago

Babylon


"If a man wanted to say he was a lesbian, and felt like a lesbian, and even put on some lesbian clothes (comfortable shoes, tank top 😂♥️)and rejoiced to the world 'they' were a lesbian, would it make any sound of there was no one there to tell them if they were right or wrong?

I really fancy women. I wear comfortable clothes and shoes.

Perhaps I'm a lesbian.

But if I'm a lesbian and fancy trans women, am I back to square one and straight again?

A person could go mad thinking too much about this stuff "

Better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war.

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By *ildAtlanticSecretCouple
6 weeks ago

around Clare, Galway, Limerick


"Wasn't it the tiger king that said everyone is a little bit gay 🤣😂🤣😂😂 even if they don't want to admit it

I saw a tiktok video the other day of a comedian claiming that all men are born half gay.

🤣😂🤣😂😂

He said the proof was when they tried throwing a ball with their non dominant arm. "

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By *izzKathrynWoman
6 weeks ago

Drogheda

I'm just at sucker for a woman with curves & love boobies ❤️

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By *oprano100Man
6 weeks ago

Dublin


"It's the old double standard.

Women are nearly expected to be Bi in this scene and Bi men are treated as if they have leprosy. The sexual health risks are from promiscuity not from queerness. Oral sex is less risky than penetrative sex. So women who have penetrative sex with an infected man without using a condom have exactly the same risk as a man who is penetrated by another man.

Men want women to put on a show. That's misogynistic and treating women like they are objects that exist for mens benefit and enjoyment.

So it depends on what everyone's motivations are. If women do it 'for their man' it's not placing their own needs at the top and it's not great for their playmate.

But if SHE is genuinely bisexual then there's no problem.

Swingers have more sexual partners than mono people (duh). Queer people practice non mono more often than heterosexual people do, as a cultural norm. Therefore any risks are about lifestyle rather than being 'dirty' and as swingers we are part of the same lifestyle.

Be a slut! But be a safe slut. Testing is free, repeatable and easy.

"

I don't see how 'misogyny' is linked to the OP's post, or if it just a word you like to say.

To answer the OP, and from my experiences with women whom were straight, and got involved in some play with other women, they were just genuinely curious, some progressed further, some just stayed straight. They say that there is a bicurious streak in most women, but not all. Their just bicurious, and it's always nice to see the progression of women enjoying themselves and exploring their fantasies.

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By *ildAtlanticSecretCouple
6 weeks ago

around Clare, Galway, Limerick


"I'm just at sucker for a woman with curves & love boobies ❤️ "
aren't we all 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
6 weeks ago

Cork

The last thread was a dumpster fire, it wasn't exactly the best way of phrasing things but I swear people just prefer conflict now. It's almost completely pointless questioning these things unless they are in that position. Actions speak louder than words.

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By *og-Man OP   Man
6 weeks ago

somewhere


"I'm just at sucker for a woman with curves & love boobies ❤️ "

Jesus ....am I a lesbian too now K

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By *ionycusMan
6 weeks ago

Babylon


"I'm just at sucker for a woman with curves & love boobies ❤️

Jesus ....am I a lesbian too now K "

Sign me up !!!!

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West

Bog starting fights in the forum again

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By *og-Man OP   Man
6 weeks ago

somewhere


"Bog starting fights in the forum again "

Just asking questions

Every day a school day

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West


"Bog starting fights in the forum again

Just asking questions

Every day a school day "

I should have made it more obvious that I was joking. I've never seen you start a fight bog.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
6 weeks ago

Castlebar

I have kissed a few ladies...

I like kissing people who are good at kissing 💋

I wouldn't call myself bi curious though.

It seems to me that there are a higher percentage of bi curious women on Fab but I haven't done the stats 🤔 particularly in couples.

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
6 weeks ago

Cork


"I have kissed a few ladies...

I like kissing people who are good at kissing 💋

I wouldn't call myself bi curious though.

It seems to me that there are a higher percentage of bi curious women on Fab but I haven't done the stats 🤔 particularly in couples.

"

I'd expect more from a scientist

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By *man1044Man
6 weeks ago

North Galway

Whatever floats the boat i happy with.

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By *atonaWoman
6 weeks ago

Meh

I thought I was bi-curious a few years back. Then I found myself in a situation where I had the opportunity to try it and as soon as her lips approached mine I said nope. I like to look at you when you’re over there, but don’t come near. One of the reasons I’ve yet to try threesomes as most of the men I’ve encountered want MFF and I’m not interested in that.

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By *affa31Woman
6 weeks ago

Galway


"I'm just at sucker for a woman with curves & love boobies ❤️ aren't we all 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻"

Nope 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t get the fascination with boobs.

I’ve messed around with 2 women. I’ve concluded that I’m not bi.

Would I kiss a woman? Sure. I’d kiss anyone who didn’t utterly revolt me and was a good kisser.

Does kissing a woman make me bi? No. Being attracted to a woman would make me bi.

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By *izzKathrynWoman
6 weeks ago

Drogheda

I joined fab as I was bi curious, on exploration i'm very into it!! Now I feel single men's pain it's hard to meet women and I'm sound and don't send dick pics hahaha

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By *uietcontrolMan
6 weeks ago

city


"Alternatively maybe some women are bi curious as they state on their profiles and enjoy sexual realtions with other women and state it on their profiles thus making it clear to people who dont want to meet bi curious women to skip that profile, that doesn't mean bi curious women can't get the ick at the though of 2 men going at it.

No one can dictate what one person enjoys or gets the ick from.

It's also respectful to potential suiters to highlight that you engage in sex acts with the same sex so they can make an informed choice and weigh up the risks of getting involved with you based on your lifestyle considering that according to the CDC, every government health agency and LGBTQ+ organisation advising that bi and gay people have a significantly higher risk of catching sexually transmitted diseases.

"

Your profile bio should have a red flag instead of a green. You don't have to post every thought Fabgemma

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By *og-Man OP   Man
6 weeks ago

somewhere


"Bog starting fights in the forum again

Just asking questions

Every day a school day

I should have made it more obvious that I was joking. I've never seen you start a fight bog. "

I know I just wanted to make sure so did the moderators

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West


"Bog starting fights in the forum again

Just asking questions

Every day a school day

I should have made it more obvious that I was joking. I've never seen you start a fight bog.

I know I just wanted to make sure so did the moderators "

IfI accidentally land you on the naughty step I'll owe you a pint at least!

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By *hunkyRedPandaMan
6 weeks ago

City


"I'm just at sucker for a woman with curves & love boobies ❤️ aren't we all 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Nope 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t get the fascination with boobs.

I’ve messed around with 2 women. I’ve concluded that I’m not bi.

Would I kiss a woman? Sure. I’d kiss anyone who didn’t utterly revolt me and was a good kisser.

Does kissing a woman make me bi? No. Being attracted to a woman would make me bi. "

The first thing a man looks for in a woman is her heart. Just because her boobs get in the way is not our fault

Yes, unclutch your pearls, got that from a meme

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By *hunkyRedPandaMan
6 weeks ago

City


"Shame hetrofexible isn't an option on here as it is with other sites"

Pansexual then? I saw 30 types.

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By *ofusplusCouple
6 weeks ago

Limerick


"I'm just at sucker for a woman with curves & love boobies ❤️ aren't we all 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Nope 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t get the fascination with boobs.

I’ve messed around with 2 women. I’ve concluded that I’m not bi.

Would I kiss a woman? Sure. I’d kiss anyone who didn’t utterly revolt me and was a good kisser.

Does kissing a woman make me bi? No. Being attracted to a woman would make me bi. "

I would say the same thing. Mrs

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By *lassic guyMan
6 weeks ago

my bed to your just ask


"Sure look might as well start another discussion along the same lines as the other one

Ladies most of ye are straight but will kiss other women or even play with their boobs

What's that about and how come no one cares about it and most men would love to look while you're doing it

"

well then there not straight they are bi curious and if there going the full 9 yards then there bisexual

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By *hunkyRedPandaMan
6 weeks ago

City


"I'm just at sucker for a woman with curves & love boobies ❤️ aren't we all 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Nope 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t get the fascination with boobs.

I’ve messed around with 2 women. I’ve concluded that I’m not bi.

Would I kiss a woman? Sure. I’d kiss anyone who didn’t utterly revolt me and was a good kisser.

Does kissing a woman make me bi? No. Being attracted to a woman would make me bi.

I would say the same thing. Mrs "

"Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or sexual behavior toward both males and females."

But you choose to believe what ever you want....

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By *ubadubdubWoman
6 weeks ago

Hereabouts


"I'm just at sucker for a woman with curves & love boobies ❤️ aren't we all 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Nope 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t get the fascination with boobs.

I’ve messed around with 2 women. I’ve concluded that I’m not bi.

Would I kiss a woman? Sure. I’d kiss anyone who didn’t utterly revolt me and was a good kisser.

Does kissing a woman make me bi? No. Being attracted to a woman would make me bi.

I would say the same thing. Mrs

"Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or sexual behavior toward both males and females."

But you choose to believe what ever you want...."

Ah now go way with that definition ... I've eaten buns cos they were there and looked tasty, but turns out they were stale and tasteless. I didn't like those buns.

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By *refMan
6 weeks ago

Right up your street

Plenty of men say they are straight and are out chowing down on dong.

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By *hunkyRedPandaMan
6 weeks ago

City


"I'm just at sucker for a woman with curves & love boobies ❤️ aren't we all 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Nope 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t get the fascination with boobs.

I’ve messed around with 2 women. I’ve concluded that I’m not bi.

Would I kiss a woman? Sure. I’d kiss anyone who didn’t utterly revolt me and was a good kisser.

Does kissing a woman make me bi? No. Being attracted to a woman would make me bi.

I would say the same thing. Mrs

"Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or sexual behavior toward both males and females."

But you choose to believe what ever you want....

Ah now go way with that definition ... I've eaten buns cos they were there and looked tasty, but turns out they were stale and tasteless. I didn't like those buns. "

That's an actual definition. Not one that I made up. Plenty of people judging and pigeon-holing others, while saying they can't be....

So choose you're own bias. That's your freedom

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By *affa31Woman
6 weeks ago

Galway


"I'm just at sucker for a woman with curves & love boobies ❤️ aren't we all 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Nope 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t get the fascination with boobs.

I’ve messed around with 2 women. I’ve concluded that I’m not bi.

Would I kiss a woman? Sure. I’d kiss anyone who didn’t utterly revolt me and was a good kisser.

Does kissing a woman make me bi? No. Being attracted to a woman would make me bi.

I would say the same thing. Mrs

"Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or sexual behavior toward both males and females."

But you choose to believe what ever you want....

Ah now go way with that definition ... I've eaten buns cos they were there and looked tasty, but turns out they were stale and tasteless. I didn't like those buns.

That's an actual definition. Not one that I made up. Plenty of people judging and pigeon-holing others, while saying they can't be....

So choose you're own bias. That's your freedom "

Tbf, if a guy kissed another guy, a lot of people around here would be flat out saying he’s gay.

I’m not bi though. Sorry to crush hopes and dreams left right and centre

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By *og-Man OP   Man
6 weeks ago

somewhere


"I'm just at sucker for a woman with curves & love boobies ❤️ aren't we all 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Nope 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t get the fascination with boobs.

I’ve messed around with 2 women. I’ve concluded that I’m not bi.

Would I kiss a woman? Sure. I’d kiss anyone who didn’t utterly revolt me and was a good kisser.

Does kissing a woman make me bi? No. Being attracted to a woman would make me bi.

I would say the same thing. Mrs

"Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or sexual behavior toward both males and females."

But you choose to believe what ever you want....

Ah now go way with that definition ... I've eaten buns cos they were there and looked tasty, but turns out they were stale and tasteless. I didn't like those buns. "

How about baps.....do you like baps Rubs

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By *ubadubdubWoman
6 weeks ago

Hereabouts


"I'm just at sucker for a woman with curves & love boobies ❤️ aren't we all 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Nope 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t get the fascination with boobs.

I’ve messed around with 2 women. I’ve concluded that I’m not bi.

Would I kiss a woman? Sure. I’d kiss anyone who didn’t utterly revolt me and was a good kisser.

Does kissing a woman make me bi? No. Being attracted to a woman would make me bi.

I would say the same thing. Mrs

"Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or sexual behavior toward both males and females."

But you choose to believe what ever you want....

Ah now go way with that definition ... I've eaten buns cos they were there and looked tasty, but turns out they were stale and tasteless. I didn't like those buns.

How about baps.....do you like baps Rubs "

Love the baps Bog

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By *ubadubdubWoman
6 weeks ago

Hereabouts


"I'm just at sucker for a woman with curves & love boobies ❤️ aren't we all 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Nope 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t get the fascination with boobs.

I’ve messed around with 2 women. I’ve concluded that I’m not bi.

Would I kiss a woman? Sure. I’d kiss anyone who didn’t utterly revolt me and was a good kisser.

Does kissing a woman make me bi? No. Being attracted to a woman would make me bi.

I would say the same thing. Mrs

"Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or sexual behavior toward both males and females."

But you choose to believe what ever you want....

Ah now go way with that definition ... I've eaten buns cos they were there and looked tasty, but turns out they were stale and tasteless. I didn't like those buns.

That's an actual definition. Not one that I made up. Plenty of people judging and pigeon-holing others, while saying they can't be....

So choose you're own bias. That's your freedom

Tbf, if a guy kissed another guy, a lot of people around here would be flat out saying he’s gay.

I’m not bi though. Sorry to crush hopes and dreams left right and centre "

If a guy holds hands with another guy people think they're gay sure. Yet in Egypt where I'm pretty sure being gay is illegal, men hold hands all the time. So it just shows you can't make assumptions based on what you see. Only the person themselves know their identity

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West

When I was in the pub on Tori Ireland the were elderly gentlemen sitting and clasping hands while they talked. Never seen that before.

I think most people accept that some women sometimes kiss other women and they aren't bi or gay and it just feels nice.

Equally it's accepted that men don't do that and probably because everyone will thank they are gay even if they are not. I also don't think it crosses our mind because it's verboten in our culture.

Interestingly men experienced in MFM usually don't mind close quarters nudity and physical contact.

I kissed a couple of guys before I turned twenty and thought they were rough and smelly. Don't know how women do it tbh

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By *hunkyRedPandaMan
6 weeks ago

City


"I’m not bi though. Sorry to crush hopes and dreams left right and centre "

Dreams not crushed. Besides, there's plenty more doirty thoughts where that came from

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