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By *unshineandrain OP   Man
6 weeks ago

City

So folk who here judges the book by its cover ??

In simple term no physical likey no lighty :.!

Is this a good idea or not what you think …?

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By *exyScientistsCouple
6 weeks ago

Castlebar

Nope

I find it's not a great indicator for physical attraction for me. I definitely have been attracted to people after a conversation that I wouldn't have been attracted to from just a photo.

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By *ealitybitesMan
6 weeks ago

Belfast

Definitely not.

An amazing cover can't excuse the crappy or the crazy inside.

They have to convince me that they are good people and worthy of having sex with me.

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By *izzKathrynWoman
6 weeks ago

Drogheda

Nope, if a person can have the crack, be easygoing and decent personality, looks aren't the be all.

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By *hilaboutMan
6 weeks ago

kilkenny


"Nope, if a person can have the crack, be easygoing and decent personality, looks aren't the be all."
..this exactly

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By *irdnBorisMan
6 weeks ago

dorset poole uk


"Nope, if a person can have the crack, be easygoing and decent personality, looks aren't the be all."
100% exactly looks i never go by as long as you can have a laugh and good personality and down to earth far too many judge and jurys out there just be yourself and respect people too respect gets you further in life

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
6 weeks ago

Newry

I have to be physically attracted to someone. I make no apologies for that.

However I won't fuck someone solely because I find them physically attractive.

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West

I wouldn't fuck someone if I didn't think they were hot.

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By *eijaWoman
6 weeks ago

City Centre

The first impression is important but just because I may find you attractive doesn't mean I will want to jump on you...there has to be be some sort of connnection.

Good conversation as well as chemistry are a must hence a Social always first for me ☕️🍷

B x

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

I find that the cover of the book catches my attention but the pages of the book hold onto it.

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By *ionycusMan
6 weeks ago

Babylon

Passion is initially ignited by attraction, what happens afterwards depends on lots of factors.

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By *entleGent13Man
6 weeks ago

Somewhere


"So folk who here judges the book by its cover ??

In simple term no physical likey no lighty :.!

Is this a good idea or not what you think …?"

Nope. Has to be more than physical. But it's part of the package.

Attraction for me is about humour, wit, intelligence, candour, style, and an air of devilment.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
6 weeks ago

Lucan

The cover usually has some notes on it about the content of the book, usually on the back cover, and that's why I always look at a woman's bottom first.

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By *og-ManMan
6 weeks ago

somewhere

As long as Peig is not on the cover

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Ha ha its funny then as most look at a profile and do not even give a simple reply or even chat to see what a person is like. Oh and dont get me started on the ones demanding pics. Yes i have no bother sharing but if your gona demand you can at least send one first.

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By *uddermeIspinMan
6 weeks ago

city centre


"I find that the cover of the book catches my attention but the pages of the book hold onto it. "

Could have put it any better than this.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago


"Ha ha its funny then as most look at a profile and do not even give a simple reply or even chat to see what a person is like. Oh and dont get me started on the ones demanding pics. Yes i have no bother sharing but if your gona demand you can at least send one first. "

Exactly. Physical attraction is a base element uncontrollable and instinctive. Anything after is from the mind and open to constant adjustments based on experiences.

This site is such that it is mostly to do with animal instinct or lower chakras and so people can say one thing with their mind but do another with there instinctive behaviours. Sadly it seems very cutthroat but it is what it is.

Personally I will always turn my head for a beautiful lady but if the mind is shallow or empty I am out of there. This can have a lot to do with age I believe. I do love a good chat the most.

Hope everyone finds what they are looking for.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
6 weeks ago

Castlebar


"Ha ha its funny then as most look at a profile and do not even give a simple reply or even chat to see what a person is like. Oh and dont get me started on the ones demanding pics. Yes i have no bother sharing but if your gona demand you can at least send one first. "

Profiles are excluded based on more than just a picture. No women is going to chat to every single guy that sends a message. Everyone has their own criteria when deciding who to chat with and responds accordingly.

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