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"I'd like to be able to search radius instead of counties and if it's a wish list then I'd like a search of most likely to reply🙂" Exactly!! In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Stop me wasting time with dreamers, fantasists and lads just chatting to fill Their wank banks! | |||
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"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year." Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all | |||
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"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all" Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH | |||
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"Yeah height would be one for sure... Like when you have a thing for shorter women being able to select a height range woukd be great. 4'11 - 5'4" for example" 100% agree | |||
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"I'd probably only be considered "active" here to people because of forum use. But not everyone uses the forums. Not everyone is big into veris either. I've met 4/5 people over the past year but only have a verification from one. If I wasn't a forum regular and hadn't met that person... I'd still have met 3/4 others but going by the above my profile should be deleted 🤷♂️ A filter where you can't receive messages from unverified members in the past 12 months or something, fair enough" ![]() | |||
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"I'd like to be able to search radius instead of counties and if it's a wish list then I'd like a search of most likely to reply🙂 Exactly!! In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Stop me wasting time with dreamers, fantasists and lads just chatting to fill Their wank banks! " Whatever happened to people being free to use the site as they please? ![]() | |||
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"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH" Don't give them wank material then. It would be the easiest way to avoid that. | |||
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"I'd like to be able to search radius instead of counties and if it's a wish list then I'd like a search of most likely to reply🙂 Exactly!! In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Stop me wasting time with dreamers, fantasists and lads just chatting to fill Their wank banks! " How do you measure activity though? Truly inactive members shouldn't be a problem because, by definition, they're inactive. It can't be accurately measured by verifications either. Not everyone gives or wants them. How do you define activity? Socially active? Sexually active? What if who one has sex with, and when, is nobody's business and they don't announce by means of visible verification every time a peen goes in the vag? Would putting pressure on people to be active within a certain time frame lead to more pressure exerted/ more desperation in private messages. | |||
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"I'd like to be able to search radius instead of counties and if it's a wish list then I'd like a search of most likely to reply🙂 Exactly!! In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Stop me wasting time with dreamers, fantasists and lads just chatting to fill Their wank banks! " I haven't met anyone through fab in 5 years by choice. Should my profile be removed? | |||
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"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH Don't give them wank material then. It would be the easiest way to avoid that. " Not that easy when you look like me 😉 | |||
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"I'd like to be able to search by cup size so I can work my way sequentially through the alphabet. " Great idea!! I hope the Fab admin are hitting these ideas down😂 | |||
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"Relationship status would be a good one." Another great idea- now how many would tell the truth is another thing- but it would be handy for women like me who try to avoid the married men drama | |||
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"I'd like to be able to search by cup size so I can work my way sequentially through the alphabet. " Reminds me of the rows of seats in Croke park A to Z AA to ZZ how far back do you want to be ![]() | |||
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"I'd like to be able to search radius instead of counties and if it's a wish list then I'd like a search of most likely to reply🙂 Exactly!! In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Stop me wasting time with dreamers, fantasists and lads just chatting to fill Their wank banks! I haven't met anyone through fab in 5 years by choice. Should my profile be removed?" . Yes. Absolutely. You should make friends in the real world and not live vicariously through the active members. I’m joking of course- but there should be a filter for people to use to take out inactive non meeting members. | |||
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"I'd like to be able to search radius instead of counties and if it's a wish list then I'd like a search of most likely to reply🙂 Exactly!! In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Stop me wasting time with dreamers, fantasists and lads just chatting to fill Their wank banks! How do you measure activity though? Truly inactive members shouldn't be a problem because, by definition, they're inactive. It can't be accurately measured by verifications either. Not everyone gives or wants them. How do you define activity? Socially active? Sexually active? What if who one has sex with, and when, is nobody's business and they don't announce by means of visible verification every time a peen goes in the vag? Would putting pressure on people to be active within a certain time frame lead to more pressure exerted/ more desperation in private messages. " It would be easy enough to remove inactive profiles if a user hasn't logged in in a given period of time | |||
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"Search by 'Interests' Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them." Agreed!! | |||
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"Search by 'Interests' Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them. Agreed!! " I am very interested in other peoples interests, aswell as my own interests. See do our interests match up, would be interesting. | |||
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"Search by 'Interests' Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them." You can select an individual interest in the advanced search | |||
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"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH Don't give them wank material then. It would be the easiest way to avoid that. Not that easy when you look like me 😉" How do you know they use you as wank material ![]() ![]() | |||
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"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH Don't give them wank material then. It would be the easiest way to avoid that. Not that easy when you look like me 😉 How do you know they use you as wank material ![]() ![]() How Irish of you. Can women not admit when they are attractive, without being shamed by other women and made feel less? Yes, I am an attractive woman. Sorry if that made you feel uncomfortable. I’m also highly successful. Imagine the notions of that!! | |||
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"Search by 'Interests' Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them. You can select an individual interest in the advanced search" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Search by 'Interests' Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them. You can select an individual interest in the advanced search ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Every day's a school day ![]() | |||
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"Search by 'Interests' Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them. You can select an individual interest in the advanced search ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Lessons will be learned ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Search by 'Interests' Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them. You can select an individual interest in the advanced search ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Run for the hills. Say nothing positive about yourself or you will Be branded “notions”, and just know that the only way to get veris is to put yourself out there and attend socials. Yes it’s hard for men to find a woman due to the 3 men for every one woman statistic that’s bounded around. Oh also, before you post anything in the forums, use the search bar first to see if it’s been previously discussed- do all That and you will be grand 😂 | |||
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"Search by 'Interests' Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them. You can select an individual interest in the advanced search ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Is there any need? I let the guy know that he could do what he suggested. It was good natured. It was given & taken as such. Away and be snidey somewhere else. | |||
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"Search by 'Interests' Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them. You can select an individual interest in the advanced search ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() That took a very strange turn , that previous comment was pretty harmless and tongue on cheek.... | |||
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"Weight and or dress size, because I like a larger lady. But I can see how this would be abused, so I understand why it’s not there" Omg I’d love that. I have a thing for muscular lean men. | |||
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"Yeah height would be one for sure... Like when you have a thing for shorter women being able to select a height range woukd be great. 4'11 - 5'4" for example" I’d love that. I’m almost 5’11 and would love if men under that would be unable to contact me | |||
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"Yeah height would be one for sure... Like when you have a thing for shorter women being able to select a height range woukd be great. 4'11 - 5'4" for example I’d love that. I’m almost 5’11 and would love if men under that would be unable to contact me " Everything can be got around with dishonesty | |||
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"Yeah height would be one for sure... Like when you have a thing for shorter women being able to select a height range woukd be great. 4'11 - 5'4" for example I’d love that. I’m almost 5’11 and would love if men under that would be unable to contact me Everything can be got around with dishonesty" Borrow shoes off Bono | |||
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"Search by 'Interests' Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them. You can select an individual interest in the advanced search ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yep- they are out in force today 😂😂 | |||
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"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH" How do you know they are wanking over your pics? Asking for a friend obvs as I’ve already wanked over your pics, many times. ![]() | |||
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"Search by 'Interests' Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them. You can select an individual interest in the advanced search ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() That all sound complicated as my brain is fried by Thursday. I think i'll just have a wank but you've gone and hidden your Jugs again. | |||
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"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH How do you know they are wanking over your pics? Asking for a friend obvs as I’ve already wanked over your pics, many times. ![]() Don’t I know! Soon to be in person once I’m back in Eire 😉 | |||
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"Search by 'Interests' Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them. You can select an individual interest in the advanced search ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Ah once I’m back Home and ready to play I’ll put my photos back out 😂 | |||
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"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH How do you know they are wanking over your pics? Asking for a friend obvs as I’ve already wanked over your pics, many times. ![]() Jaysus. Now there’s a date if ever I’ve seen one. At least my phone screen won’t be all wet and messy anymore! | |||
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"I'd probably only be considered "active" here to people because of forum use. But not everyone uses the forums. Not everyone is big into veris either. I've met 4/5 people over the past year but only have a verification from one. Indeed. Not everyone is into verification If I wasn't a forum regular and hadn't met that person... I'd still have met 3/4 others but going by the above my profile should be deleted 🤷♂️ A filter where you can't receive messages from unverified members in the past 12 months or something, fair enough" | |||
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"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH How do you know they are wanking over your pics? Asking for a friend obvs as I’ve already wanked over your pics, many times. ![]() I don’t waste a drop😉 | |||
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"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH How do you know they are wanking over your pics? Asking for a friend obvs as I’ve already wanked over your pics, many times. ![]() You’re flirting with me now Milly! ![]() | |||
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"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH How do you know they are wanking over your pics? Asking for a friend obvs as I’ve already wanked over your pics, many times. ![]() ![]() Not flirting- promising | |||
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"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH How do you know they are wanking over your pics? Asking for a friend obvs as I’ve already wanked over your pics, many times. ![]() ![]() Careful now, promises come with expectations. | |||
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"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH Don't give them wank material then. It would be the easiest way to avoid that. Not that easy when you look like me 😉" Well that is very true ![]() | |||
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"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH Don't give them wank material then. It would be the easiest way to avoid that. Not that easy when you look like me 😉 Well that is very true ![]() Thank you for your pleasant response. I presume you are subjected to the same wank bankers also looking like that gurllll😉😂 lovely pics! | |||
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"I'd like to be able to search radius instead of counties and if it's a wish list then I'd like a search of most likely to reply🙂 Exactly!! In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Stop me wasting time with dreamers, fantasists and lads just chatting to fill Their wank banks! " A year is a long time 6 months no verifications in that period and account binned. | |||
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"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH" Totally agree at least half of all accounts should be removed, inactive after 3 months binned. | |||
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"I'd like to be able to search radius instead of counties and if it's a wish list then I'd like a search of most likely to reply🙂 Exactly!! In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Stop me wasting time with dreamers, fantasists and lads just chatting to fill Their wank banks! A year is a long time 6 months no verifications in that period and account binned. " Or an option just to block them From being in my search criteria or looking at my account t would be good | |||
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"I'd like to be able to search radius instead of counties and if it's a wish list then I'd like a search of most likely to reply🙂 Exactly!! In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Stop me wasting time with dreamers, fantasists and lads just chatting to fill Their wank banks! I haven't met anyone through fab in 5 years by choice. Should my profile be removed?" Yes | |||
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"I'd like to be able to search radius instead of counties and if it's a wish list then I'd like a search of most likely to reply🙂 Exactly!! In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Stop me wasting time with dreamers, fantasists and lads just chatting to fill Their wank banks! I haven't met anyone through fab in 5 years by choice. Should my profile be removed? Yes " Why? Just because it doesn't suit how you think others should use the site? What about the hundreds if not thousands of members who have never met through fab and use it to keep up with socials etc? What about all those who get lots of new repeat verifications but don't meet anyone new? Are they really classed as active? What about those who are constantly meeting but don't give or receive verifications? Wouldn't they appear as inactive? | |||
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"I'd like to be able to search radius instead of counties and if it's a wish list then I'd like a search of most likely to reply🙂 Exactly!! In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Stop me wasting time with dreamers, fantasists and lads just chatting to fill Their wank banks! I haven't met anyone through fab in 5 years by choice. Should my profile be removed? Yes " You yourselves have said it's incredibly rare that you will meet people through Fab, preferring people you've met through organised socials. Why is RB any different? Perhaps he also prefers to meet reliable and trusted people he already knows? | |||
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"Rare for us is 1 a month, socials are only to get play dates. It's a swingers site not a chat forum site. Plenty of socials sites for that, so yes the ability to out all the non viable profiles and inactives automatically would be great. Greater search functions would work in the UK, maybe Dublin but for the rest of the country it would result in zero to an incredibly small amount of profiles returned in that search. The search by miles function they have in the UK and not by county should be in the Ireland section, but it's fab, no changes will be made, it's all hypothetical. " I'm just curious how after 9 years here and having met close to 60 people, attended socials and run chatgroups among other things that my decision to step back for personal reasons and not meet anyone though the site has a detrimental affect on your use of the site? Absolutely nothing that you or anyone else does on fab affects me or my use of the site in any way at all so why is it so important to remove everyone you aren't compatible with? | |||
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"Rare for us is 1 a month, socials are only to get play dates. It's a swingers site not a chat forum site. Plenty of socials sites for that, so yes the ability to out all the non viable profiles and inactives automatically would be great. Greater search functions would work in the UK, maybe Dublin but for the rest of the country it would result in zero to an incredibly small amount of profiles returned in that search. The search by miles function they have in the UK and not by county should be in the Ireland section, but it's fab, no changes will be made, it's all hypothetical. I'm just curious how after 9 years here and having met close to 60 people, attended socials and run chatgroups among other things that my decision to step back for personal reasons and not meet anyone though the site has a detrimental affect on your use of the site? Absolutely nothing that you or anyone else does on fab affects me or my use of the site in any way at all so why is it so important to remove everyone you aren't compatible with? " It's what they think would make the site better for them, for them. It's not about you or me or anyone else, but them. | |||
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"I would like a filter for "users blocked by multiple other users" " Why ? | |||
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"I would like a filter for "users blocked by multiple other users" Why ?" Easy and straightforward way of filtering out the weirdos, as if your on multiple blocks lists it suggests your the problem. Filtering those people out and saves me the bother of dealing with them | |||
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"J...and only finding out, when trying to perv on some, interesting looking, profiles. If you didn't know you're on their blocklist ....how do you know they've blocked you??" It's written there... | |||
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"J...and only finding out, when trying to perv on some, interesting looking, profiles. If you didn't know you're on their blocklist ....how do you know they've blocked you?? It's written there..." ok fair , I just haven't noticed that myself so didn't know | |||
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"I would like a filter for "users blocked by multiple other users" Why ? Easy and straightforward way of filtering out the weirdos, as if your on multiple blocks lists it suggests your the problem. Filtering those people out and saves me the bother of dealing with them" Seeing as how most people use the block function just to filter out people they aren't compatible with and have never spoken to the chances are a lot of people on multiple block lists are only there because of location, interests, age etc and nothing to do with behaviour or character at all. | |||
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"I would like a filter for "users blocked by multiple other users" Why ? Easy and straightforward way of filtering out the weirdos, as if your on multiple blocks lists it suggests your the problem. Filtering those people out and saves me the bother of dealing with them Seeing as how most people use the block function just to filter out people they aren't compatible with and have never spoken to the chances are a lot of people on multiple block lists are only there because of location, interests, age etc and nothing to do with behaviour or character at all." Possible, but only people I've ever blocked were weirdos a cranks. So I've assumed people blocked by multiple others would be weirdos and cranks. | |||
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