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By *iresmilly OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Stillorgan

When doing a search criteria, are there any other filters you wish they could add? I would like to narrow down by height, and interests, and search radius. Anyone else have any they would add?

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By *ozzlesMan
5 weeks ago

galway

I'd like to be able to search radius instead of counties and if it's a wish list then I'd like a search of most likely to reply🙂

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By *iresmilly OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Stillorgan


"I'd like to be able to search radius instead of counties and if it's a wish list then I'd like a search of most likely to reply🙂"

Exactly!! In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Stop me wasting time with dreamers, fantasists and lads just chatting to fill Their wank banks!

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By *iscuits8Man
5 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year."

Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all

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By *iresmilly OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Stillorgan


"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year.

Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all"

Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH

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By *iscuits8Man
5 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

I'd probably only be considered "active" here to people because of forum use. But not everyone uses the forums.

Not everyone is big into veris either. I've met 4/5 people over the past year but only have a verification from one.

If I wasn't a forum regular and hadn't met that person... I'd still have met 3/4 others but going by the above my profile should be deleted 🤷‍♂️

A filter where you can't receive messages from unverified members in the past 12 months or something, fair enough

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By *usicman1982Man
5 weeks ago

Coalisland

Weight and or dress size, because I like a larger lady. But I can see how this would be abused, so I understand why it’s not there

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By *andomCaptainMan
5 weeks ago

Tipp &

Yeah height would be one for sure... Like when you have a thing for shorter women being able to select a height range woukd be great. 4'11 - 5'4" for example

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By *iresmilly OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Stillorgan


"Yeah height would be one for sure... Like when you have a thing for shorter women being able to select a height range woukd be great. 4'11 - 5'4" for example"

100% agree

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By *earuisceMan
5 weeks ago

south sligo


"I'd probably only be considered "active" here to people because of forum use. But not everyone uses the forums.

Not everyone is big into veris either. I've met 4/5 people over the past year but only have a verification from one.

If I wasn't a forum regular and hadn't met that person... I'd still have met 3/4 others but going by the above my profile should be deleted 🤷‍♂️

A filter where you can't receive messages from unverified members in the past 12 months or something, fair enough"

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
5 weeks ago

Newry

I mean I want to say height but I'd miss out on the very lovely guys who are under 6' Yep I want to have my cake and eat it too

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By *illbillMan
5 weeks ago

dublin

Good question...crucial criteria may include lack of ab

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By *P_80Man
5 weeks ago

Waterford


"I'd like to be able to search radius instead of counties and if it's a wish list then I'd like a search of most likely to reply🙂

Exactly!! In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Stop me wasting time with dreamers, fantasists and lads just chatting to fill Their wank banks! "

Whatever happened to people being free to use the site as they please?

Ridiculous idea.

Putting pressure on people to meet just to get verifications so they can stay on the site.

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By *ustBoWoman
5 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year.

Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all

Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH"

Don't give them wank material then. It would be the easiest way to avoid that.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
5 weeks ago

Newry


"I'd like to be able to search radius instead of counties and if it's a wish list then I'd like a search of most likely to reply🙂

Exactly!! In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Stop me wasting time with dreamers, fantasists and lads just chatting to fill Their wank banks! "

How do you measure activity though? Truly inactive members shouldn't be a problem because, by definition, they're inactive.

It can't be accurately measured by verifications either. Not everyone gives or wants them. How do you define activity? Socially active? Sexually active? What if who one has sex with, and when, is nobody's business and they don't announce by means of visible verification every time a peen goes in the vag? Would putting pressure on people to be active within a certain time frame lead to more pressure exerted/ more desperation in private messages.

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By *ealitybitesMan
5 weeks ago

Belfast


"I'd like to be able to search radius instead of counties and if it's a wish list then I'd like a search of most likely to reply🙂

Exactly!! In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Stop me wasting time with dreamers, fantasists and lads just chatting to fill Their wank banks! "

I haven't met anyone through fab in 5 years by choice. Should my profile be removed?

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By *ionycusMan
5 weeks ago

Babylon

Reload-speed

Squirt load ml

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By *on Draper2.0Man
5 weeks ago

Maynooth

Relationship status would be a good one.

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By *electableicecreamMan
5 weeks ago

The West

I'd like to be able to search by cup size so I can work my way sequentially through the alphabet.

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By *iresmilly OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Stillorgan


"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year.

Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all

Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH

Don't give them wank material then. It would be the easiest way to avoid that.

"

Not that easy when you look like me 😉

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By *iresmilly OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Stillorgan


"Reload-speed

Squirt load ml

"

100% 😂😂😂

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By *iresmilly OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Stillorgan


"I'd like to be able to search by cup size so I can work my way sequentially through the alphabet.

"

Great idea!! I hope the Fab admin are hitting these ideas down😂

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By *iresmilly OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Stillorgan


"Relationship status would be a good one."

Another great idea- now how many would tell the truth is another thing- but it would be handy for women like me who try to avoid the married men drama

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By *og-ManMan
5 weeks ago

somewhere


"I'd like to be able to search by cup size so I can work my way sequentially through the alphabet.

"

Reminds me of the rows of seats in Croke park

A to Z

AA to ZZ

how far back do you want to be

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By *iresmilly OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Stillorgan


"I'd like to be able to search radius instead of counties and if it's a wish list then I'd like a search of most likely to reply🙂

Exactly!! In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Stop me wasting time with dreamers, fantasists and lads just chatting to fill Their wank banks!

I haven't met anyone through fab in 5 years by choice. Should my profile be removed?"

.

Yes. Absolutely. You should make friends in the real world and not live vicariously through the active members.

I’m joking of course- but there should be a filter for people to use to take out inactive non meeting members.

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By *og-ManMan
5 weeks ago

somewhere

Haven't used the search option in years but just a couple of things

Isn't vaping the same as smoking so add a choice for that

Blank profiles shouldn't show in searches just like hidden profiles

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By *ubadubdubWoman
5 weeks ago

Hereabouts


"I'd like to be able to search radius instead of counties and if it's a wish list then I'd like a search of most likely to reply🙂

Exactly!! In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Stop me wasting time with dreamers, fantasists and lads just chatting to fill Their wank banks!

How do you measure activity though? Truly inactive members shouldn't be a problem because, by definition, they're inactive.

It can't be accurately measured by verifications either. Not everyone gives or wants them. How do you define activity? Socially active? Sexually active? What if who one has sex with, and when, is nobody's business and they don't announce by means of visible verification every time a peen goes in the vag? Would putting pressure on people to be active within a certain time frame lead to more pressure exerted/ more desperation in private messages.

"

It would be easy enough to remove inactive profiles if a user hasn't logged in in a given period of time

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By *electableicecreamMan
5 weeks ago

The West

Profiles are automatically sorted by last time active anyway? 🤷🏻

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By *oprano100Man
5 weeks ago

Dublin

Eggxactly

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By *oprano100Man
5 weeks ago

Dublin

Search by 'Interests'

Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them.

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By *iresmilly OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Stillorgan


"Search by 'Interests'

Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them."

Agreed!!

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By *oprano100Man
5 weeks ago

Dublin


"Search by 'Interests'

Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them.

Agreed!! "

I am very interested in other peoples interests, aswell as my own interests. See do our interests match up, would be interesting.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
5 weeks ago

Newry


"Search by 'Interests'

Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them."

You can select an individual interest in the advanced search

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By *oldByMarCouple
5 weeks ago

playa de ingles / outa da west


"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year.

Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all

Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH

Don't give them wank material then. It would be the easiest way to avoid that.

Not that easy when you look like me 😉"

How do you know they use you as wank material ??????

You have high notions of yourself

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
5 weeks ago

Cork

Nobody has said it but personally I'd love to filter people out if they use "fill in later", don't have a bio, "I know what I want". I would consider that a bullshit filter personally but I'd also like a filter for "fit", no point of me looking at profiles that require that. Not a filter I'd want personally but I know some people would like to filter out people who have met another specific profile.

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By *iresmilly OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Stillorgan


"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year.

Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all

Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH

Don't give them wank material then. It would be the easiest way to avoid that.

Not that easy when you look like me 😉

How do you know they use you as wank material ??????

You have high notions of yourself

"

How Irish of you. Can women not admit when they are attractive, without being shamed by other women and made feel less? Yes, I am an attractive woman. Sorry if that made you feel uncomfortable. I’m also highly successful. Imagine the notions of that!!

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By *oprano100Man
5 weeks ago

Dublin


"Search by 'Interests'

Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them.

You can select an individual interest in the advanced search"

I think its appropriate at this point to use the excuse 'i'm new here'

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
5 weeks ago

Newry


"Search by 'Interests'

Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them.

You can select an individual interest in the advanced search

I think its appropriate at this point to use the excuse 'i'm new here' "

Every day's a school day

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By *oprano100Man
5 weeks ago

Dublin


"Search by 'Interests'

Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them.

You can select an individual interest in the advanced search

I think its appropriate at this point to use the excuse 'i'm new here'

Every day's a school day "

Lessons will be learned

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By *iresmilly OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Stillorgan


"Search by 'Interests'

Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them.

You can select an individual interest in the advanced search

I think its appropriate at this point to use the excuse 'i'm new here'

Every day's a school day

Lessons will be learned "

Run for the hills. Say nothing positive about yourself or you will Be branded “notions”, and just know that the only way to get veris is to put yourself out there and attend socials. Yes it’s hard for men to find a woman due to the 3 men for every one woman statistic that’s bounded around. Oh also, before you post anything in the forums, use the search bar first to see if it’s been previously discussed- do all

That and you will be grand 😂

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
5 weeks ago

Newry


"Search by 'Interests'

Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them.

You can select an individual interest in the advanced search

I think its appropriate at this point to use the excuse 'i'm new here'

Every day's a school day

Lessons will be learned

Run for the hills. Say nothing positive about yourself or you will Be branded “notions”, and just know that the only way to get veris is to put yourself out there and attend socials. Yes it’s hard for men to find a woman due to the 3 men for every one woman statistic that’s bounded around. Oh also, before you post anything in the forums, use the search bar first to see if it’s been previously discussed- do all

That and you will be grand 😂"

Is there any need? I let the guy know that he could do what he suggested. It was good natured. It was given & taken as such. Away and be snidey somewhere else.

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By *ionycusMan
5 weeks ago

Babylon


"Search by 'Interests'

Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them.

You can select an individual interest in the advanced search

I think its appropriate at this point to use the excuse 'i'm new here'

Every day's a school day

Lessons will be learned

Run for the hills. Say nothing positive about yourself or you will Be branded “notions”, and just know that the only way to get veris is to put yourself out there and attend socials. Yes it’s hard for men to find a woman due to the 3 men for every one woman statistic that’s bounded around. Oh also, before you post anything in the forums, use the search bar first to see if it’s been previously discussed- do all

That and you will be grand 😂

Is there any need? I let the guy know that he could do what he suggested. It was good natured. It was given & taken as such. Away and be snidey somewhere else. "

That took a very strange turn , that previous comment was pretty harmless and tongue on cheek....

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By *atonaWoman
5 weeks ago

Meh


"Weight and or dress size, because I like a larger lady. But I can see how this would be abused, so I understand why it’s not there"

Omg I’d love that. I have a thing for muscular lean men.

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By *atonaWoman
5 weeks ago

Meh


"Yeah height would be one for sure... Like when you have a thing for shorter women being able to select a height range woukd be great. 4'11 - 5'4" for example"

I’d love that. I’m almost 5’11 and would love if men under that would be unable to contact me

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By *ionycusMan
5 weeks ago

Babylon


"Yeah height would be one for sure... Like when you have a thing for shorter women being able to select a height range woukd be great. 4'11 - 5'4" for example

I’d love that. I’m almost 5’11 and would love if men under that would be unable to contact me "

Everything can be got around with dishonesty

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By *og-ManMan
5 weeks ago

somewhere


"Yeah height would be one for sure... Like when you have a thing for shorter women being able to select a height range woukd be great. 4'11 - 5'4" for example

I’d love that. I’m almost 5’11 and would love if men under that would be unable to contact me

Everything can be got around with dishonesty"

Borrow shoes off Bono

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By *ionycusMan
5 weeks ago

Babylon

😂😂😂

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By *uriousaboutswingCouple
5 weeks ago

Commuter Town

Would like a filter for circumcised men hahaha

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By *iresmilly OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Stillorgan


"Search by 'Interests'

Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them.

You can select an individual interest in the advanced search

I think its appropriate at this point to use the excuse 'i'm new here'

Every day's a school day

Lessons will be learned

Run for the hills. Say nothing positive about yourself or you will Be branded “notions”, and just know that the only way to get veris is to put yourself out there and attend socials. Yes it’s hard for men to find a woman due to the 3 men for every one woman statistic that’s bounded around. Oh also, before you post anything in the forums, use the search bar first to see if it’s been previously discussed- do all

That and you will be grand 😂

Is there any need? I let the guy know that he could do what he suggested. It was good natured. It was given & taken as such. Away and be snidey somewhere else.

That took a very strange turn , that previous comment was pretty harmless and tongue on cheek.... "

Yep- they are out in force today 😂😂

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By *razyNippleLoverMan
5 weeks ago

Back End of Beyond

Men with bobble hats on

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By *inkyDragonMan
5 weeks ago

Dublin


"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year.

Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all

Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH"

How do you know they are wanking over your pics? Asking for a friend obvs as I’ve already wanked over your pics, many times.

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By *oprano100Man
5 weeks ago

Dublin


"Search by 'Interests'

Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them.

You can select an individual interest in the advanced search

I think its appropriate at this point to use the excuse 'i'm new here'

Every day's a school day

Lessons will be learned

Run for the hills. Say nothing positive about yourself or you will Be branded “notions”, and just know that the only way to get veris is to put yourself out there and attend socials. Yes it’s hard for men to find a woman due to the 3 men for every one woman statistic that’s bounded around. Oh also, before you post anything in the forums, use the search bar first to see if it’s been previously discussed- do all

That and you will be grand 😂"

That all sound complicated as my brain is fried by Thursday.

I think i'll just have a wank but you've gone and hidden your Jugs again.

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By *iresmilly OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Stillorgan


"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year.

Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all

Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH

How do you know they are wanking over your pics? Asking for a friend obvs as I’ve already wanked over your pics, many times. "

Don’t I know! Soon to be in person once I’m back in Eire 😉

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By *iresmilly OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Stillorgan


"Search by 'Interests'

Seems a bit useless having them listed on profiles, when currently you can't search by them.

You can select an individual interest in the advanced search

I think its appropriate at this point to use the excuse 'i'm new here'

Every day's a school day

Lessons will be learned

Run for the hills. Say nothing positive about yourself or you will Be branded “notions”, and just know that the only way to get veris is to put yourself out there and attend socials. Yes it’s hard for men to find a woman due to the 3 men for every one woman statistic that’s bounded around. Oh also, before you post anything in the forums, use the search bar first to see if it’s been previously discussed- do all

That and you will be grand 😂

That all sound complicated as my brain is fried by Thursday.

I think i'll just have a wank but you've gone and hidden your Jugs again."

Ah once I’m back Home and ready to play I’ll put my photos back out 😂

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By *inkyDragonMan
5 weeks ago

Dublin


"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year.

Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all

Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH

How do you know they are wanking over your pics? Asking for a friend obvs as I’ve already wanked over your pics, many times.

Don’t I know! Soon to be in person once I’m back in Eire 😉"

Jaysus. Now there’s a date if ever I’ve seen one. At least my phone screen won’t be all wet and messy anymore!

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By *addycockleMan
5 weeks ago

grenagh


"I'd probably only be considered "active" here to people because of forum use. But not everyone uses the forums.

Not everyone is big into veris either. I've met 4/5 people over the past year but only have a verification from one.

Indeed. Not everyone is into verification

If I wasn't a forum regular and hadn't met that person... I'd still have met 3/4 others but going by the above my profile should be deleted 🤷‍♂️

A filter where you can't receive messages from unverified members in the past 12 months or something, fair enough"

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By *iresmilly OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Stillorgan


"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year.

Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all

Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH

How do you know they are wanking over your pics? Asking for a friend obvs as I’ve already wanked over your pics, many times.

Don’t I know! Soon to be in person once I’m back in Eire 😉

Jaysus. Now there’s a date if ever I’ve seen one. At least my phone screen won’t be all wet and messy anymore!"

I don’t waste a drop😉

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By *inkyDragonMan
5 weeks ago

Dublin


"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year.

Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all

Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH

How do you know they are wanking over your pics? Asking for a friend obvs as I’ve already wanked over your pics, many times.

Don’t I know! Soon to be in person once I’m back in Eire 😉

Jaysus. Now there’s a date if ever I’ve seen one. At least my phone screen won’t be all wet and messy anymore!

I don’t waste a drop😉"

You’re flirting with me now Milly!

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By *ennessee WhiskeyMan
5 weeks ago

London

I meannnn back in Ireland (midlands) from London, does the search criteria help with that, can’t imagine Athlone has much happening! 😄🙄

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By *iresmilly OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Stillorgan


"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year.

Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all

Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH

How do you know they are wanking over your pics? Asking for a friend obvs as I’ve already wanked over your pics, many times.

Don’t I know! Soon to be in person once I’m back in Eire 😉

Jaysus. Now there’s a date if ever I’ve seen one. At least my phone screen won’t be all wet and messy anymore!

I don’t waste a drop😉

You’re flirting with me now Milly! "

Not flirting- promising

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By *inkyDragonMan
5 weeks ago

Dublin


"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year.

Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all

Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH

How do you know they are wanking over your pics? Asking for a friend obvs as I’ve already wanked over your pics, many times.

Don’t I know! Soon to be in person once I’m back in Eire 😉

Jaysus. Now there’s a date if ever I’ve seen one. At least my phone screen won’t be all wet and messy anymore!

I don’t waste a drop😉

You’re flirting with me now Milly!

Not flirting- promising"

Careful now, promises come with expectations.

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By *ustBoWoman
5 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year.

Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all

Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH

Don't give them wank material then. It would be the easiest way to avoid that.

Not that easy when you look like me 😉"

Well that is very true

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By *iresmilly OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Stillorgan


"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year.

Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all

Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH

Don't give them wank material then. It would be the easiest way to avoid that.

Not that easy when you look like me 😉

Well that is very true "

Thank you for your pleasant response. I presume you are subjected to the same wank bankers also looking like that gurllll😉😂 lovely pics!

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple
5 weeks ago

Louth


"I'd like to be able to search radius instead of counties and if it's a wish list then I'd like a search of most likely to reply🙂

Exactly!! In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Stop me wasting time with dreamers, fantasists and lads just chatting to fill Their wank banks! "

A year is a long time 6 months no verifications in that period and account binned.

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple
5 weeks ago

Louth


"In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year.

Ah wouldn't be on board with this one at all

Why not? The amount of men that are here who just want wank bank material before they go up to fuck their unsuspecting wives in bed- tired of wank bank sex pests TBH"

Totally agree at least half of all accounts should be removed, inactive after 3 months binned.

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By *iresmilly OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Stillorgan


"I'd like to be able to search radius instead of counties and if it's a wish list then I'd like a search of most likely to reply🙂

Exactly!! In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Stop me wasting time with dreamers, fantasists and lads just chatting to fill Their wank banks!

A year is a long time 6 months no verifications in that period and account binned. "

Or an option just to block them

From being in my search criteria or looking at my account t would be good

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple
5 weeks ago

Louth


"I'd like to be able to search radius instead of counties and if it's a wish list then I'd like a search of most likely to reply🙂

Exactly!! In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Stop me wasting time with dreamers, fantasists and lads just chatting to fill Their wank banks!

I haven't met anyone through fab in 5 years by choice. Should my profile be removed?"

Yes

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By *og-ManMan
5 weeks ago

somewhere

Inactive accounts that haven't logged on in over 6 months should be automatically deleted

Anyone else verified or unverified should be left alone

It can take some people a few months to get going

Figure out who's mad and who's not as mad

Figure out how to use the site

It can take some people a week

Its all good

If you dont want your pictures to be used as a wank bank then dont post pictures

Maybe just me but would anyone actually wank over pictures on here

There's a lot better porn on other sites

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By *ealitybitesMan
5 weeks ago

Belfast


"I'd like to be able to search radius instead of counties and if it's a wish list then I'd like a search of most likely to reply🙂

Exactly!! In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Stop me wasting time with dreamers, fantasists and lads just chatting to fill Their wank banks!

I haven't met anyone through fab in 5 years by choice. Should my profile be removed?

Yes "

Why? Just because it doesn't suit how you think others should use the site? What about the hundreds if not thousands of members who have never met through fab and use it to keep up with socials etc?

What about all those who get lots of new repeat verifications but don't meet anyone new? Are they really classed as active?

What about those who are constantly meeting but don't give or receive verifications? Wouldn't they appear as inactive?

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By *enSallyCouple
5 weeks ago

Blessington

Shaved/Trimmed/Natural

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By *reamerBMan
5 weeks ago

Fantasy

Exhibition tag, not just voyurism tag. And maybe other kinks/fetish search tags. Maybe an open to socials or something for profiles.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
5 weeks ago

Newry


"I'd like to be able to search radius instead of counties and if it's a wish list then I'd like a search of most likely to reply🙂

Exactly!! In active members should be removed- or members with no veris after a year. Stop me wasting time with dreamers, fantasists and lads just chatting to fill Their wank banks!

I haven't met anyone through fab in 5 years by choice. Should my profile be removed?

Yes "

You yourselves have said it's incredibly rare that you will meet people through Fab, preferring people you've met through organised socials. Why is RB any different? Perhaps he also prefers to meet reliable and trusted people he already knows?

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple
5 weeks ago

Louth

Rare for us is 1 a month, socials are only to get play dates. It's a swingers site not a chat forum site. Plenty of socials sites for that, so yes the ability to out all the non viable profiles and inactives automatically would be great. Greater search functions would work in the UK, maybe Dublin but for the rest of the country it would result in zero to an incredibly small amount of profiles returned in that search. The search by miles function they have in the UK and not by county should be in the Ireland section, but it's fab, no changes will be made, it's all hypothetical.

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By *ealitybitesMan
5 weeks ago

Belfast


"Rare for us is 1 a month, socials are only to get play dates. It's a swingers site not a chat forum site. Plenty of socials sites for that, so yes the ability to out all the non viable profiles and inactives automatically would be great. Greater search functions would work in the UK, maybe Dublin but for the rest of the country it would result in zero to an incredibly small amount of profiles returned in that search. The search by miles function they have in the UK and not by county should be in the Ireland section, but it's fab, no changes will be made, it's all hypothetical. "

I'm just curious how after 9 years here and having met close to 60 people, attended socials and run chatgroups among other things that my decision to step back for personal reasons and not meet anyone though the site has a detrimental affect on your use of the site?

Absolutely nothing that you or anyone else does on fab affects me or my use of the site in any way at all so why is it so important to remove everyone you aren't compatible with?

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By *electableicecreamMan
5 weeks ago

The West

[Removed by poster at 13/06/25 20:16:48]

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By *inkyDragonMan
5 weeks ago

Dublin

Make love 🥰 not war 🔫

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By *ionycusMan
5 weeks ago

Babylon


"Rare for us is 1 a month, socials are only to get play dates. It's a swingers site not a chat forum site. Plenty of socials sites for that, so yes the ability to out all the non viable profiles and inactives automatically would be great. Greater search functions would work in the UK, maybe Dublin but for the rest of the country it would result in zero to an incredibly small amount of profiles returned in that search. The search by miles function they have in the UK and not by county should be in the Ireland section, but it's fab, no changes will be made, it's all hypothetical.

I'm just curious how after 9 years here and having met close to 60 people, attended socials and run chatgroups among other things that my decision to step back for personal reasons and not meet anyone though the site has a detrimental affect on your use of the site?

Absolutely nothing that you or anyone else does on fab affects me or my use of the site in any way at all so why is it so important to remove everyone you aren't compatible with? "

It's what they think would make the site better for them, for them.

It's not about you or me or anyone else, but them.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
5 weeks ago

A town near you

I would like a filter for "users blocked by multiple other users"

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By *ionycusMan
5 weeks ago

Babylon


"I would like a filter for "users blocked by multiple other users" "

Why ?

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By *inkywife1981Couple
5 weeks ago

A town near you


"I would like a filter for "users blocked by multiple other users"

Why ?"

Easy and straightforward way of filtering out the weirdos, as if your on multiple blocks lists it suggests your the problem.

Filtering those people out and saves me the bother of dealing with them

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By *ealmc1973Man
5 weeks ago

Limerick, Clare, Tipperary

Jeeez, I've been blocked by 'multiple other users' without even knowing that I am on their block list and without even having any interactions with them and only finding out, when trying to perv on some, interesting looking, profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago


"Jeeez, I've been blocked by 'multiple other users' without even knowing that I am on their block list and without even having any interactions with them and only finding out, when trying to perv on some, interesting looking, profiles."

If you didn't know you're on their blocklist ....how do you know they've blocked you??

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By *ealmc1973Man
5 weeks ago

Limerick, Clare, Tipperary


"J...and only finding out, when trying to perv on some, interesting looking, profiles.

If you didn't know you're on their blocklist ....how do you know they've blocked you??"

It's written there...

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago


"J...and only finding out, when trying to perv on some, interesting looking, profiles.

If you didn't know you're on their blocklist ....how do you know they've blocked you??

It's written there..."

ok fair , I just haven't noticed that myself so didn't know

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By *ealitybitesMan
5 weeks ago

Belfast


"I would like a filter for "users blocked by multiple other users"

Why ?

Easy and straightforward way of filtering out the weirdos, as if your on multiple blocks lists it suggests your the problem.

Filtering those people out and saves me the bother of dealing with them"

Seeing as how most people use the block function just to filter out people they aren't compatible with and have never spoken to the chances are a lot of people on multiple block lists are only there because of location, interests, age etc and nothing to do with behaviour or character at all.

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By *antra MassageMan
5 weeks ago

Galway

I haven't any veris this year, as I don't need them. Enough people here know I'm a sane, safe human. Many of my meets now are repeat meets so no veris needed. I'd like a search feature to make it easier for people to find me.

So a search feature like,

Daytime meets,

Travel radius,

Massage only, no sex.

Philosophical views, like Yoga, Tantra, Conscious connection,Kundalini, Meditation,etc.

Maybe stays updates that last longer than 2 days.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
4 weeks ago

A town near you


"I would like a filter for "users blocked by multiple other users"

Why ?

Easy and straightforward way of filtering out the weirdos, as if your on multiple blocks lists it suggests your the problem.

Filtering those people out and saves me the bother of dealing with them

Seeing as how most people use the block function just to filter out people they aren't compatible with and have never spoken to the chances are a lot of people on multiple block lists are only there because of location, interests, age etc and nothing to do with behaviour or character at all."

Possible, but only people I've ever blocked were weirdos a cranks.

So I've assumed people blocked by multiple others would be weirdos and cranks.

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By *astelloWoman
4 weeks ago

Far far away

If someone has been reported. Don't allow them back under another pseudonym.

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