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"When the fun stops, stop. Log off, take a break for a while. Staying isn't compulsory." What she said, I've basically stopped on here. There's much less hassle. | |||
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"When the fun stops, stop. Log off, take a break for a while. Staying isn't compulsory. What she said, I've basically stopped on here. There's much less hassle." Yep what she said I did for a few years now it’s worse multiple verifications needed meeting in socials people say there one thing when they clearly are not it’s a cross between wading through the BS and time waster’s to find genuine people then not being able to meet anyone anymore because you don’t have the right amount of verifications or didn’t attend social gatherings on the other side of the country when they were on that Wednesday night When this was good was when you talked to people on the phone met somewhere public if both parties wanted to and progress from there but now this place has got itself to a place where some people have made it normal to need to have multiple verifications and you need socal gatherings by whatever ever today’s number is before you can meet people Funny thing is yesterday I saw a post advertising a social gathering again in Dublin but you have had to have attended other social events in the past to even apply to go to the pub it’s on in!!! Really? What’s next a letter from your mother the parish priest and Garda vetting before the cup of coffee. | |||
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"When the fun stops, stop. Log off, take a break for a while. Staying isn't compulsory. What she said, I've basically stopped on here. There's much less hassle. Yep what she said I did for a few years now it’s worse multiple verifications needed meeting in socials people say there one thing when they clearly are not it’s a cross between wading through the BS and time waster’s to find genuine people then not being able to meet anyone anymore because you don’t have the right amount of verifications or didn’t attend social gatherings on the other side of the country when they were on that Wednesday night When this was good was when you talked to people on the phone met somewhere public if both parties wanted to and progress from there but now this place has got itself to a place where some people have made it normal to need to have multiple verifications and you need socal gatherings by whatever ever today’s number is before you can meet people Funny thing is yesterday I saw a post advertising a social gathering again in Dublin but you have had to have attended other social events in the past to even apply to go to the pub it’s on in!!! Really? What’s next a letter from your mother the parish priest and Garda vetting before the cup of coffee. " To be fair now, people can 6 sell whatever they want to make them comfortable enough to meet. If you don't meet their requirements then as well as you not suiting them, they must likely don't suit you either so go look for someone else who does suit you. All the others that you mentioned still exist as well, it's just a matter of finding them. | |||
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"I’ve been on this site for several years and have really found it has become quite boring with the same idiotic updates and pics and comments. The same people trying to sell onlyfans contents or charging for meets. Seems like it’s becoming a cross between Craigslist and facebook with wanking material" Not here that long but I just block profiles that we don’t have anything in common with each other or I’m not the age they want or I’ve mailed and they deleted. Saves everyone the hassle. I’ve seen a few fans updates and I’ve been mailed looking for money for a meet. They are usually gone fairly quick. Take a break, have a KitKat and come back in a few weeks fresh. 😃 | |||
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"Let’s be honest here, once you get over 55 you’ve aged out of a lot of people preferences. You might not like it but that’s life. This refrain of I can’t get anywhere on fab cause everyone insists on xyz needs to stop. If you’re not within their preferences, you’re not within their preferences. There are plenty of people who meet outside of socials, who meet unverified people and there are even socials that welcome unverified people to help them get their first veri. Many of these are on weekend afternoons which usually make them easier to attend. If fab is not working for you, either change the way you approach things or accept that maybe it’s not the right place for you. Also, be aware that whinging about people not wanting to meet you is not going to magically make other people want to meet you. " Crikey Jaffa, that 55 comment felt like a knife to the heart!!! Lol | |||
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"Let’s be honest here, once you get over 55 you’ve aged out of a lot of people preferences. You might not like it but that’s life. This refrain of I can’t get anywhere on fab cause everyone insists on xyz needs to stop. If you’re not within their preferences, you’re not within their preferences. There are plenty of people who meet outside of socials, who meet unverified people and there are even socials that welcome unverified people to help them get their first veri. Many of these are on weekend afternoons which usually make them easier to attend. If fab is not working for you, either change the way you approach things or accept that maybe it’s not the right place for you. Also, be aware that whinging about people not wanting to meet you is not going to magically make other people want to meet you. Crikey Jaffa, that 55 comment felt like a knife to the heart!!! Lol" Soz I mean, I’d be more concerned with the amount of female pics on a single male profile than the 55 but 🤷🏻♀️ | |||
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"Let’s be honest here, once you get over 55 you’ve aged out of a lot of people preferences. You might not like it but that’s life. This refrain of I can’t get anywhere on fab cause everyone insists on xyz needs to stop. If you’re not within their preferences, you’re not within their preferences. There are plenty of people who meet outside of socials, who meet unverified people and there are even socials that welcome unverified people to help them get their first veri. Many of these are on weekend afternoons which usually make them easier to attend. If fab is not working for you, either change the way you approach things or accept that maybe it’s not the right place for you. Also, be aware that whinging about people not wanting to meet you is not going to magically make other people want to meet you. " Not sure if that’s meant for me but just to be clear I’m not whining about wanting to meet I have no issue with that at all I have met people on and outside of here that have no idea this exists My point was this seems to be a different platform to what it was originally set up to be which was a place to meet like minded people and obviously you wouldn’t want to meet someone who’s not What’s happened since I returned is obstacles are now put in the way of this being what it was meant to be making it more difficult to reach its original objective. Counterproductive? If for safety reasons there’s nothing to say a guy/girl won’t turn nasty just because they are verified by someone else’s Social events someone people are not comfortable in those settings for multiple reasons yet they are now held to verify people who can now go on to do what the site was originally intended in the first place So for whatever reason in my opinion the sites changed and not for the better but as I said it’s just my personal opinion not a winge or a moan life’s too short to waste energy doing that ![]() | |||
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"I love the people who are on here to do moany posts. It really enriches us all ffs. Don't like it, leave. Simple." Not moaning, just making an observation Fab has changed a lot since I first joined. I have met and been verified and I’m not gonna get upset when a message is unanswered or I receive a no thanks. I just think that as a platform for swinging engagements it has turned into a Facebook type of site. If you check out the amount of pay to play you’d be surprised. It’s not the same on the uk site | |||
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"I never whinged about whether I get meets or not, it’s the actual membership (fabbers) that has changed. They are not swinging" You're joking ....the forums are a tiny part of fab Some people dont even know the forums exist There's a lot happening off the forums that doesn't get mentioned on the forums Sure there's riding going on everywhere | |||
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"Let’s be honest here, once you get over 55 you’ve aged out of a lot of people preferences. You might not like it but that’s life. This refrain of I can’t get anywhere on fab cause everyone insists on xyz needs to stop. If you’re not within their preferences, you’re not within their preferences. There are plenty of people who meet outside of socials, who meet unverified people and there are even socials that welcome unverified people to help them get their first veri. Many of these are on weekend afternoons which usually make them easier to attend. If fab is not working for you, either change the way you approach things or accept that maybe it’s not the right place for you. Also, be aware that whinging about people not wanting to meet you is not going to magically make other people want to meet you. Not sure if that’s meant for me but just to be clear I’m not whining about wanting to meet I have no issue with that at all I have met people on and outside of here that have no idea this exists My point was this seems to be a different platform to what it was originally set up to be which was a place to meet like minded people and obviously you wouldn’t want to meet someone who’s not What’s happened since I returned is obstacles are now put in the way of this being what it was meant to be making it more difficult to reach its original objective. Counterproductive? If for safety reasons there’s nothing to say a guy/girl won’t turn nasty just because they are verified by someone else’s Social events someone people are not comfortable in those settings for multiple reasons yet they are now held to verify people who can now go on to do what the site was originally intended in the first place So for whatever reason in my opinion the sites changed and not for the better but as I said it’s just my personal opinion not a winge or a moan life’s too short to waste energy doing that ![]() So you're saying verification is an obstacle? Firstly, for the swinging scene in Irekand, id say it's never been easier to get verified. Secondly, it helps avoid so many fake accounts on here. | |||
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"Let’s be honest here, once you get over 55 you’ve aged out of a lot of people preferences. You might not like it but that’s life. This refrain of I can’t get anywhere on fab cause everyone insists on xyz needs to stop. If you’re not within their preferences, you’re not within their preferences. There are plenty of people who meet outside of socials, who meet unverified people and there are even socials that welcome unverified people to help them get their first veri. Many of these are on weekend afternoons which usually make them easier to attend. If fab is not working for you, either change the way you approach things or accept that maybe it’s not the right place for you. Also, be aware that whinging about people not wanting to meet you is not going to magically make other people want to meet you. Not sure if that’s meant for me but just to be clear I’m not whining about wanting to meet I have no issue with that at all I have met people on and outside of here that have no idea this exists My point was this seems to be a different platform to what it was originally set up to be which was a place to meet like minded people and obviously you wouldn’t want to meet someone who’s not What’s happened since I returned is obstacles are now put in the way of this being what it was meant to be making it more difficult to reach its original objective. Counterproductive? If for safety reasons there’s nothing to say a guy/girl won’t turn nasty just because they are verified by someone else’s Social events someone people are not comfortable in those settings for multiple reasons yet they are now held to verify people who can now go on to do what the site was originally intended in the first place So for whatever reason in my opinion the sites changed and not for the better but as I said it’s just my personal opinion not a winge or a moan life’s too short to waste energy doing that ![]() No that wasn’t my point it’s just what you want to take from the point I was making which if you read it you will understand Your firstly….. is exactly the point I was making which only was this never happened before or was needed it has just crept in plus if you do want to be verified and live in an urban area or close to one I’m sere it is easy And finally fake accounts have always been on here from day one the idea of changing to be on here was discussed which I agree with by the way to stop or reduce them but never happened Please remember this is not my forum I’m just giving my opinion having read the tag ![]() | |||
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"When the fun stops, stop. Log off, take a break for a while. Staying isn't compulsory." Good advice... | |||
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"I’ve been on this site for several years and have really found it has become quite boring with the same idiotic updates and pics and comments. The same people trying to sell onlyfans contents or charging for meets. Seems like it’s becoming a cross between Craigslist and facebook with wanking material" Neither I nor anyone I know has ever been sent an OF link here or seen anyone charging for meets. It’s bizarre to me that you think this is common place. Do you message every new female account on here or do they just send them out of the blue? | |||
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"I can imagine the single guys are prone to bad actors, ie working girls and OF wannabes. " Not once in two years have I come across any of these bad actor's. | |||
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"I can imagine the single guys are prone to bad actors, ie working girls and OF wannabes. Not once in two years have I come across any of these bad actor's. " Yet we see these claims from single guys in the forums all the time. | |||
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