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By *orkcocksucker OP   Man
51 weeks ago

Cork

Genuine question to straight lads.... How do you feel about taking a compliment or wink etc from another dude?

I wouldn't normally but passed this absolute 10/10 gorgeous lad running this evening and slowed down to have a look and gave him a wink (something I'm not in the habit off but was mega horny today) and when I looked in the rear view mirror he was having a fit swinging his arms about in disgust 🙄

Surely he could have just taken the compliment without all the macho bullsh*t??

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

It is a compliment in my book

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By *ealitybitesMan
51 weeks ago

Belfast

Where was the compliment?

All he saw was a complete stranger in a car, kerb crawling and winking at him.

It wouldn't bother me if another man spoke to me in a social situation and complimented me but the scenario you are describing isn't complimentary.

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By *ealitybitesMan
51 weeks ago

Belfast

How do you know he was straight?

Would a bi or gay man have reacted differently if a horny man in a passing car slowed and winked?

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By *om TangoMan
51 weeks ago

Tedavnet Co.Monaghan

A stranger in a car I would think weird but I wouldn’t be insulted. In a social setting I’d just take it as away of a quick hello. In work if I’m standing talking to someone and one of the lads walk by I’d wink at him. Now I’m bringing to wonder does the everyday wink mean something else to the people around me

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By *iscuits8Man
51 weeks ago

Dublin / Meath / Birmingham

Maybe he thought slowing down a car to get someone's attention and wink at them was a bit weird/creepy

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By *intyballsMan
51 weeks ago

Meath

If a guy did that nowadays he would be reported to the police.

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By *og-ManMan
51 weeks ago

somewhere


"Maybe he thought slowing down a car to get someone's attention and wink at them was a bit weird/creepy"

This

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By *affa31Woman
51 weeks ago

Galway

Yup it’s creepy, not a compliment.

Women hate it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago


"Genuine question to straight lads.... How do you feel about taking a compliment or wink etc from another dude?

I wouldn't normally but passed this absolute 10/10 gorgeous lad running this evening and slowed down to have a look and gave him a wink (something I'm not in the habit off but was mega horny today) and when I looked in the rear view mirror he was having a fit swinging his arms about in disgust 🙄

Surely he could have just taken the compliment without all the macho bullsh*t??"

Sounds like he was disgusted by your horny curb crawling, that's not macho bullshit, a woman would have the same reaction. It's creepy not complimentary

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Sounds like you've lost perspective on how to behave appropriately with other people.

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By *ergalMan
51 weeks ago

Cork

Bit creepy slowing down in the car tbf. If that happened to a girl, she'd probably call the guards

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By *eturning MGMan
51 weeks ago

Mayo, Roscommon, Galway, Leitrim, Sligo....West Of Ireland

No problem taking a compliment from a dude but this just sounds creepy..honestly did you not think before you did it or posted this? If a straigh guy did this to a woman he would probably be reported to the guards.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I normally wouldn't be looking into cars unless of course there was a good looking woman driving or a passenger. Usually at traffic lights or M50 car parking in the mornings and evenings. Anyway more power to said hunk out jogging 🏃‍♂️. I'm sure he doesn't throw a tantrum when women wink in his direction

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By *ealitybitesMan
51 weeks ago

Belfast

Apart from everything said above I'd like to know why you were winking a straight man?

Did you know he was straight when you decided to do this or did you decide he must have been straight because of his reaction?

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By *ealitybitesMan
51 weeks ago

Belfast


"I normally wouldn't be looking into cars unless of course there was a good looking woman driving or a passenger. Usually at traffic lights or M50 car parking in the mornings and evenings. Anyway more power to said hunk out jogging 🏃‍♂️. I'm sure he doesn't throw a tantrum when women wink in his direction "

Who said he threw a tantrum? Pretty normal reaction to the situation in my opinion.

He wasn't looking into cars either. The op pulled up alongside him so obviously he was going to look.

Do you know many kerbcrawling women who would do something like this?

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By *agneyandhutchCouple
51 weeks ago

lucan

Is your real name Jeff?

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago


"Genuine question to straight lads.... How do you feel about taking a compliment or wink etc from another dude?

I wouldn't normally but passed this absolute 10/10 gorgeous lad running this evening and slowed down to have a look and gave him a wink (something I'm not in the habit off but was mega horny today) and when I looked in the rear view mirror he was having a fit swinging his arms about in disgust 🙄

Surely he could have just taken the compliment without all the macho bullsh*t??"

Doesn’t matter the sex or sexuality, you slowed your vehicle down so you could perv on a dude out running and minding his own business. 100% creeper vibes going on dude. Wrong just wrong. Uninvited sexual attention is never ok

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By *ady ChatterleyWoman
51 weeks ago

Athlone

Gone are the days of the wolf whistle

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

It is a bit creepy, I'm straight but I don't mind a compliment or a knowing glance from a man but slowing down in a car to do it it's not appropriate

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago


"I normally wouldn't be looking into cars unless of course there was a good looking woman driving or a passenger. Usually at traffic lights or M50 car parking in the mornings and evenings. Anyway more power to said hunk out jogging 🏃‍♂️. I'm sure he doesn't throw a tantrum when women wink in his direction

Who said he threw a tantrum? Pretty normal reaction to the situation in my opinion.

He wasn't looking into cars either. The op pulled up alongside him so obviously he was going to look.

Do you know many kerbcrawling women who would do something like this?"

I can recall one summer evening while I was cycling in the Dublin/wicklow hills and a car overtook me and a young woman bared her bum from the back passenger open window

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By *entleGent13Man
51 weeks ago

Somewhere


"Genuine question to straight lads.... How do you feel about taking a compliment or wink etc from another dude?

I wouldn't normally but passed this absolute 10/10 gorgeous lad running this evening and slowed down to have a look and gave him a wink (something I'm not in the habit off but was mega horny today) and when I looked in the rear view mirror he was having a fit swinging his arms about in disgust 🙄

Surely he could have just taken the compliment without all the macho bullsh*t??"

I wouldn't take offense.

I'd be polite and state it's not for me. I'd probably say thank you and leave it at that.

Can't see why anyone would be offended...but I'm not that guy I suppose.

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By *dlim23Man
51 weeks ago

Limerick

Interactions with people are harder than walking through a minefield these days in general. Everyone rushing to be insulted. I.teravtions I don't like I ignore and keep.going about my day

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By *dlim23Man
51 weeks ago

Limerick

That's meant to say interactions I don't like

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