FabSwingers.com forum: Do females meet married men

By *om4527 OP Man
51 weeks ago

Omagh

Do females meet married men

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By *s LollyWoman
51 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Some do some don't

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By *2357Woman
51 weeks ago

clonmel tipp

Definitely not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I dont, no.

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By *om4527 OP Man
51 weeks ago

Omagh

What about u

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By *om4527 OP Man
51 weeks ago

Omagh

What would you do

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By *ilMsStickyWoman
51 weeks ago

Galway

The cheating married ones usually prefer chatting and wanking over yer pics. Afraid to meet in case they get caught. The least reliable in my experience.

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By *ady ChatterleyWoman
51 weeks ago

Athlone

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
51 weeks ago

Home

They don't want single fella either

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By *inger_SterlingCouple
51 weeks ago

Dublin

As someone already said, some do, some don't. Some are married themselves, some are in situationships..

At the end of the day, if you click, you click, and then where there is a will there is a way.

-D

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By *a1970Man
51 weeks ago

East cork

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By *a1970Man
51 weeks ago

East cork

"As someone already said, some do, some don't. Some are married themselves, some are in situationships..

At the end of the day, if you click, you click, and then where there is a will there is a way.

-D"
perfect, well said

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By *arnalityMan
51 weeks ago

southside

Agree, some do and some don't. If someone puts "no attached" or something in their profile, I wouldn't dream of messaging. Those I have met have all been married themselves.

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
51 weeks ago

Co Antrim

Nope, no way

We have it as a hard limit, which is ignored on a daily basis by people who can't read.

You married guys ruin for the genuinely single ones as there's no trust for single male profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I meet men. Their relationship status is their business.

I am married but am here with husband’s complete knowledge. They’re the ones who have to live with their conscience!

But, to be honest, it’s usually so cloak and dagger that the meets rarely happen. I do prefer single men though - a lot less complicated and open

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By *alon1977Man
51 weeks ago

ballina

Single guy here.

Find it very hard to get chatting with any women

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By *rinibooWoman
51 weeks ago

clare

Won’t meet married unless there partner gives permission.

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By *ornucopiaMan
51 weeks ago

Bexley

"As someone already said, some do, some don't. Some are married themselves, some are in situationships..

At the end of the day, if you click, you click, and then where there is a will there is a way.

-D"

..and where there's a dick there's a date!

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By *amsevenMan
51 weeks ago

cork

Theres quite a few female profiles looking for married men iv noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

You need to work on how you message people, always read their profiles first before contact and make sure you are the right fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"Theres quite a few female profiles looking for married men iv noticed"

Could be secondary accounts of women not wanting to meet attached guys.

Stating they only want to meet attached then allows them add respondents to their block list.

Just a thought.

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By *K lad 89Man
51 weeks ago

kilkenny

Is there??

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By *inger_SterlingCouple
51 weeks ago

Dublin

Personally, I prefer attached women, they have experience, usually know what they want, have similiar, relatable life paths to mine, tend not to be shallow, and are generally our there for fun and games...

I wouldn't know what to do with a single woman, especially under 40... would be total catastrophe!

-D

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By *amsevenMan
51 weeks ago

cork

"Theres quite a few female profiles looking for married men iv noticed

Could be secondary accounts of women not wanting to meet attached guys.

Stating they only want to meet attached then allows them add respondents to their block list.

Just a thought. "

Or could be women who want to meet married men because they think single men will just get clingy

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By *amsevenMan
51 weeks ago

cork

"Personally, I prefer attached women, they have experience, usually know what they want, have similiar, relatable life paths to mine, tend not to be shallow, and are generally our there for fun and games...

I wouldn't know what to do with a single woman, especially under 40... would be total catastrophe!

-D"

Im the opposite. Zero interest in attached females

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
51 weeks ago

Co Antrim

"Theres quite a few female profiles looking for married men iv noticed

Could be secondary accounts of women not wanting to meet attached guys.

Stating they only want to meet attached then allows them add respondents to their block list.

Just a thought. "

There's too many to try and block. Married men think they've hit the jackpot with this site but they just ruin it.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Yes, actually some prefer married men.

Never jealous, non pushy, experienced, good conversationalist, aim to please.....

I could go on about the pluses

But the minuses.....😂😂😂

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"Theres quite a few female profiles looking for married men iv noticed

Could be secondary accounts of women not wanting to meet attached guys.

Stating they only want to meet attached then allows them add respondents to their block list.

Just a thought.

There's too many to try and block. Married men think they've hit the jackpot with this site but they just ruin it. "

Agreed. 💯👌🏻

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By *rotic Stretch MassageCouple
51 weeks ago

Limerick

"Won’t meet married unless there partner gives permission. "

That's how we role! We both meet other people with each other's permission. Open relationships are great x

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I'm married and met a few married women as well. I always turn up.

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By *njco64Man
51 weeks ago

Tipperary

"As someone already said, some do, some don't. Some are married themselves, some are in situationships..

At the end of the day, if you click, you click, and then where there is a will there is a way.

-D"

situationships

I really like that says a lot

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By *ealDea1Man
51 weeks ago

Louth/M1

I've been on fab over 20 years and I'm still shocked by the dumb words on so many female profiles... you really do no know guys at all... The more push backs you put, the more you will attract that very type!

The best way is to put as few push backs as possible and nearer the truth you will get...

I mean... No married or attached... (answer) oh I'm deffo single... and so it rolls!

You are far more likely to get what you say you do not want.. You truly need to work out how guys work... and it is easy to get a women who says no married... the same as it is to those who say "no bi"

Bi guys put straight on their profile... do you not get that one either!!

Met loads in past, rarely bother now, but it still makes me laugh how women are on fab... not saying its just a women thing.. but that is my experience...

Have fun, don't be so naive...

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
51 weeks ago

Co Antrim

So you are saying that women are responsible for men being assholes?

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By *hilaboutMan
51 weeks ago

kilkenny

Fair share of married ladies on here which is great

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By *ngel and EvilCouple
51 weeks ago

Belfast

Our experience with married/attached men is that they are mostly a complete let down. Msg us looking a coffee meet for a veri then let us down. With work and family commitments we dont have a lot of free time.

The very few that do turn up are told that we wont lie for them. If theyre caught out cheating we will tell their partners/wives etc exactly how we met. We dont have to lie in our relationship. We are here together. We also play separately. We prefer to have the other halves permission if playing solo with couples.

Easiest way to spot married/attached men are the ones over 30 who cant accomodate (cause they have a wife and kids or still living with their parents) only log in at certain times (during work hours) and/or hide their profiles at weekends (cant get caught on their phone).

We dont accomodate as our youngest lives at home. Whilst our kids are aware of swingers we wont bring it to our home whilst she is here. Once she moves out might be a different story lol

Angel x

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By *otownkid1967Man
51 weeks ago

Portlaoise

I'm sure some do meet married men. Whether they know if they are married is another thing. It's hard enough to get meets as a man anyways. The women will always have the upper hand as there are so many more men on here. I do know a few ladies who are married and play ,some of their hubbies know and some dont.

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple
51 weeks ago

Louth

We typically meet ladies or couples, the guys we meet we know them well. Married or single they simply cannot be trusted to show up. We have a few single female friends we know very well and their story is no different. So it's not really a point of them been anything, history shows they are just unreliable.

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By *oradMan
51 weeks ago

South Central Dublin

Some do. Some dont. I find its less about thr principle and more the reliability & availability.

I try to not engage anyone explicitly saying 'NMM' but found they didnt care in-person at DV8, Vanilla etc.

No point in being judgmental here, we all have redlines we put out to save ourselves hassle

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I would meet a married woman and have done in the past one never knows their circumstances and there’s not desire to have a lasting relationship unless they want to just every now and then. We can’t judge here I feel.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
51 weeks ago

Lucan

"I've been on fab over 20 years and I'm still shocked by the dumb words on so many female profiles... you really do no know guys at all... The more push backs you put, the more you will attract that very type!

The best way is to put as few push backs as possible and nearer the truth you will get...

I mean... No married or attached... (answer) oh I'm deffo single... and so it rolls!

Bi guys put straight on their profile... do you not get that one either!!

Met loads in past, rarely bother now, but it still makes me laugh how women are on fab... not saying its just a women thing.. but that is my experience...

Have fun, don't be so naive...

I believe the site will be 19 years old in September. I'd imagine it was a lonely existence for the first couple of years before the website was started up.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Married/ attached ladies on their own are not for me , each to their own , non judgemental blah blah blah , loads of ladies that don't have that drama or confrontational possibility. Sex isn't what it should be as maybe both always looking over their Shoulder & hey both could be in the arse hole of nowhere & along comes someone they know & boom ..it's out ..

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By *adger BrocMan
51 weeks ago

North Cork

"Married/ attached ladies on their own are not for me , each to their own , non judgemental blah blah blah , loads of ladies that don't have that drama or confrontational possibility. Sex isn't what it should be as maybe both always looking over their Shoulder & hey both could be in the arse hole of nowhere & along comes someone they know & boom ..it's out .."

.....

I sometimes find myself looking over my shoulder during sex just to admire the lady's shapely ankles.

👀💪🦶🦶

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

The best way is to put as few push backs as possible and nearer the truth you will get...

I mean... No married or attached... (answer) oh I'm deffo single... and so it rolls!

Bi guys put straight on their profile... do you not get that one either!!

Met loads in past, rarely bother now, but it still makes me laugh how women are on fab... not saying its just a women thing.. but that is my experience...

Have fun, don't be so naive...

Best mansplain of the week

That's all settled now we can move on

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Mind you it's only Tuesday

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By *ealDea1Man
51 weeks ago

Louth/M1

The best way is to put as few push backs as possible and nearer the truth you will get...

I mean... No married or attached... (answer) oh I'm deffo single... and so it rolls!

Bi guys put straight on their profile... do you not get that one either!!

Met loads in past, rarely bother now, but it still makes me laugh how women are on fab... not saying its just a women thing.. but that is my experience...

Have fun, don't be so naive...

I believe the site will be 19 years old in September. I'd imagine it was a lonely existence for the first couple of years before the website was started up.

I started with Swinging heaven and overlapped into fab when it started.. no chat when it started... I'm not here to split hairs, but I think it was more than 19 years, but happy to be proven wrong... before swinging heaven it was chat and before that MSN had a great chat site... they just suddenly closed... So don't come high and mighty and all knowing, when you know little of my journey!

I do very little in the forum, but I did notice you chip in on most... with usually a shite input, like here!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
51 weeks ago

Lucan

The best way is to put as few push backs as possible and nearer the truth you will get...

I mean... No married or attached... (answer) oh I'm deffo single... and so it rolls!

Bi guys put straight on their profile... do you not get that one either!!

Met loads in past, rarely bother now, but it still makes me laugh how women are on fab... not saying its just a women thing.. but that is my experience...

Have fun, don't be so naive...

I believe the site will be 19 years old in September. I'd imagine it was a lonely existence for the first couple of years before the website was started up.

I do very little in the forum, but I did notice you chip in on most... with usually a shite input, like here! "

Well now, if you had said you were swinging over twenty years I wouldn't have had an issue with it. You said you were on this site specifically for over twenty years and I pointed out that this site hasn't existed for twenty years.

High and mighty? Meh.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

The best way is to put as few push backs as possible and nearer the truth you will get...

I mean... No married or attached... (answer) oh I'm deffo single... and so it rolls!

Bi guys put straight on their profile... do you not get that one either!!

Met loads in past, rarely bother now, but it still makes me laugh how women are on fab... not saying its just a women thing.. but that is my experience...

Have fun, don't be so naive...

I feel a lot of anger in that passage of yours towards women (“dumb words” etc), just very hostile. Is that why you have not met anyone in 11 years?

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"Do females meet married men"

Oh, absolutely,but most are experts at pretending they don’t. 😉 It happens more than people admit... 😂

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By *ergalMan
51 weeks ago

Cork

"Do females meet married men

Oh, absolutely,but most are experts at pretending they don’t. 😉 It happens more than people admit... 😂"

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Most pretend not to be ,

Also if they are married guaranteed to be more discreet

Do men meet attached women 🤔

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"Most pretend not to be ,

Also if they are married guaranteed to be more discreet

Do men meet attached women 🤔 "

Absolutely, they seem to be naughtier as they have things to tick off their "fucket" list🤭🤭🤭

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By *ergalMan
51 weeks ago

Cork

"Most pretend not to be ,

Also if they are married guaranteed to be more discreet

Do men meet attached women 🤔 "

I have my status up, and always did. At least gives people the option to interact or not. Why hide it

Men meet married women, yes

Discretion,nsa, non clingy fun !

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By *ewcorkcpl23Couple
51 weeks ago

Cork

When we seek ffm or mfm we always seek attached females or males but their partners need to know what's going on and we will always seek to chat to them too either in social meet or on a cam meet. But still the amount of attached people who try to pull fast ones is off the scale.

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