FabSwingers.com forum: Would you leave fab if your family found out

By *ornywife20 OP Couple
51 weeks ago

North Cork

Hypothetically speaking what would you do if your family found out you were on here

Would you leave or would you tell them to piss off its none of their business.

Personal I love it so i would tell them to piss off its our own business what we do.

We might change our profile so they can't find us but that would be it.

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By *s SingletWoman
51 weeks ago

Kilkenny

My adult daughters know I'm on fab and some of my close trustworthy family outside of them it's not anyone's business who or what I do so I'm definitely in the piss off box 😘

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Fab is just a hook up site for anyone that asks me. It's essentially true and easier to explain.

I don't mind who knows that I have sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Mine already know, and also my friends. It’s not a deal. I use it for sex, same as others use T1nd3r. It’s not a big deal- but I’m single. I guess if you are married there is more judgement on your marriage

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By *asheaMan
51 weeks ago

Killarney

Nope cause what my interest on here are my own. It's perfectly legal and it's between consent adults

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
51 weeks ago

kinkytown

Nope because it's none of their business what we do in our sex lives

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By *hePixieAndTheBearCouple
51 weeks ago

Galway

Absolutely not. It's a conversation we've had back when we started all this, as we knew that our secret hobbies might get found out by relatives, friends, coworkers... And, uh, Fab is only the tip of the iceberg compared to the other scene...

But at the end of the day, that's who we are, that's what we do, and we're only keeping it discreet out of courtesy for a society which lives under mental restraints. What happens between consenting adults is no one else's business. Some of it doesn't even hurt anyone! 😅

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By *raceystickWoman
51 weeks ago

lincs

Sone of my friends already know..as for my parents..well I'm sure in the 80s they was into it so live and let live I say xxx

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By *exyScientistsCouple
51 weeks ago

Castlebar

Nope

No point closing the stable door after the horse has bolted

Sure everyone knows once you're in you can never leave. Everyone always cums back 🤪😈

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By *hynot xCouple
51 weeks ago

Woop Woop

No.

Don't think it would surprise any of them 🤗

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By *om TangoMan
51 weeks ago

Tedavnet Co.Monaghan

I got exposed last year which was the best thing happened. But I never tell anyone where I’m going or what I’m upto. As far as anyone knows I’m away with a group from Rory’s solo travel group. This lifestyle fixed me when I was broken and I’m in no rush to leave it. So anyone that finds out I’m here will have to accept it of piss off. I will say a few have pissed of and these days I get weird looks when I go to local football matches

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By *oradMan
51 weeks ago

South Central Dublin

Issue/fear has only ever really been if the kids /kids friends found out and started teasing them. Bullet proof otherwise, but would be same with tinder etc.

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By *udding RoseWoman
51 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"I got exposed last year which was the best thing happened. But I never tell anyone where I’m going or what I’m upto. As far as anyone knows I’m away with a group from Rory’s solo travel group. This lifestyle fixed me when I was broken and I’m in no rush to leave it. So anyone that finds out I’m here will have to accept it of piss off. I will say a few have pissed of and these days I get weird looks when I go to local football matches"

Some people are just so damn opionated, that's why I go away to socials rather than finding somebody in my local pub etc!! I don't let on to anyone what I'm doing, none of their business!! My sister has her suspicions but she doesn't question me anymore!! I ignore her when she comments on something, couldn't be bothered entertaining her!!

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By *om TangoMan
51 weeks ago

Tedavnet Co.Monaghan

I can’t get my head around how people judge us for going to socials and meeting like minded friends and new people. And how dare someone judge someone else because they enjoy sex. Yes that sex might be with someone you don’t know very well but so what.

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By *udding RoseWoman
51 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

I'm 50 odd years of age, not old and even still people think it weird/funny that I could be still enjoying sex!! One of my sister's questioned me years ago why I did an specific sexual act.... it was okay for her to do it as she was in a relationship!! I ignored everything else she had to say after that!! I can't be arsed explaining myself!!

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By *otownkid1967Man
51 weeks ago

Portlaoise

"Nope

No point closing the stable door after the horse has bolted

Sure everyone knows once you're in you can never leave. Everyone always cums back 🤪😈"

My sentiments exactly

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By *og-ManMan
51 weeks ago

somewhere

"Nope

No point closing the stable door after the horse has bolted

Sure everyone knows once you're in you can never leave. Everyone always cums back 🤪😈

My sentiments exactly

I'll be singing hotel california all day now

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By *om TangoMan
51 weeks ago

Tedavnet Co.Monaghan

"I'm 50 odd years of age, not old and even still people think it weird/funny that I could be still enjoying sex!! One of my sister's questioned me years ago why I did a specific sexual act.... it was okay for her to do it as she was in a relationship!! I ignored everything else she had to say after that!! I can't be arsed explaining myself!! "

You go girl and enjoy yourself and do what makes you feel wonderful and live your life as you see fit. Not how others want you to live it. I couldn’t give a fuck how others judge me these days. Big deal. I love sex and meeting like minded people.

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By *izzKathrynWoman
51 weeks ago

Drogheda

I told my mother who's in her 70s, it's a lifestyle it's not illegal. Opinions are like arseholes everyone has one. Life is for living & enjoying. Do as you please x

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By *aughtySubMan
51 weeks ago

Liverpool

I found my sister on here a while back. I fabbed her pics. Can’t find her now, she either left or blocked me lol. It’s not been mentioned between us

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"I found my sister on here a while back. I fabbed her pics. Can’t find her now, she either left or blocked me lol. It’s not been mentioned between us"

Nope- this should be in the fantasy story section

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
51 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Our family know

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By *ofusplusCouple
51 weeks ago

Limerick

"I found my sister on here a while back. I fabbed her pics. Can’t find her now, she either left or blocked me lol. It’s not been mentioned between us

Nope- this should be in the fantasy story section"

That's a bit harsh. Why do you assume he didn't?

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Would never leave if they knew. I’m not ashamed of what I do and who I am. If they want to look, my profile is there for them to look through. I’d actively let them pop up and say hey

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By *eehornyWoman
51 weeks ago

Mayo

My sisters know and my best friend... none of which were surprised lol

What people don't know outside of here is that you can use it as a dating and a social site it's not all just sex. I've met some close friends on here too.

My only worry, which someone else mentioned, is my kids or their friends finding out.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

My family and friend know I'm on here years. They say better off here least we all know what we want. Probably different been single on here.

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By *anon17Man
51 weeks ago

mayo

I have told a few close friends about it and I am on it, one of them because he’s bi but won’t admit to any of us that he is, thought it would help him, but he did not wait on it, always asked me about it, we have a term that we both use, we call it the playground

, and another female knows and she is just jealous that she near got a chance to join, maybe one day I will introduce her to a party or social, but if my close friends or family found out it would not put me up or down, at the end of the day I am single

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By *ubeMan
51 weeks ago

Drogheda

Some of my friends know I'm on here, i told my mother a long time back and she was OK with it, but when out for dinner with friends and a few drinks in it is sure to come up on conversation as to why I'm on here and not looking to settle down, my answer never changes done that before and not going back, I'm happy so why fix something that's not broken. Anyway it's not like I'm looking for a woman or couple every weekend, just when the mood takes me. It's not like the place is filled with women or couples just throwing themselves at me anyway.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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51 weeks ago

Central

It wouldn't make any difference though I'd instil privacy

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By *lyingsoloireMan
51 weeks ago

mytown

When we had our couples profile a good few years ago( still are a couple with 2 single profiles now) we had to delete our account do to being in a small town and people talking about us. We only found out a few months ago off our now nearly 20 year old son that when he was 11 or 12 how all the lads in school we talking about how his mother and father were swingers.

So to protect my kids I would definitely delete my account in the morning again if I had to

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By *ancy38Woman
51 weeks ago

galway

Some of my friends know I'm in here. Some of my family wouldn't be surprised. I don't really care who knows I'm in here. I think one of my adult kids knows. The younger kids I wouldn't want them knowing untill they are adults. We're asking time dead so no point in worrying to much about who knows tbh. They'll be talking about someone else another day anyway or if they are talking about you, they'll be leaving someone else alone.

Life is for living and I'm not getting any younger so I'm here to enjoy myself.

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By *aid backMan
51 weeks ago

by a lake with my rod out

Some people don't leave after their wives find out they just start a different profile

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By *oonbath89Man
51 weeks ago

radstock

My sister was on here , she doesn’t know I know

But answer is no I wouldn’t leave fab

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By *indenMan
51 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

I don’t think it would bother any of my family, and I don’t think any of them would be surprised, but I do think it’s easier being single.

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By *aughtySubMan
51 weeks ago

Liverpool

"I found my sister on here a while back. I fabbed her pics. Can’t find her now, she either left or blocked me lol. It’s not been mentioned between us

Nope- this should be in the fantasy story section"

It’s all true xx

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By *erbysGentMan
50 weeks ago

Ilkeston

My dad knows I'm on a swinger site and mum kinda knows I find fun online but not that I'm specifically a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

"My dad knows I'm on a swinger site and mum kinda knows I find fun online but not that I'm specifically a swinger"

Glad they are good with it!

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By *tomicRoseCouple
50 weeks ago

Belfast

Some of our family know and a select few friends. We definitely wouldn’t hide it if challenged.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

"Some of our family know and a select few friends. We definitely wouldn’t hide it if challenged. "

Same, would happily answer any questions or show anything they wanted to see

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

"Hypothetically speaking what would you do if your family found out you were on here

Would you leave or would you tell them to piss off its none of their business.

Personal I love it so i would tell them to piss off its our own business what we do.

We might change our profile so they can't find us but that would be it."

Well if they've already found out, just keep going, the worst has already happened (apart from rocking up to a meet & the family member is there) the only way they are going to know you keep going is being on the site themselves. I've spotted couple people I know over the years but I'd never say it to them.

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By *aptainandfirstmateCouple
50 weeks ago

galway

I think our family would be surprised if we weren’t on here lol. Xxxx

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By *ortyfunMan
50 weeks ago

east Meath

back a while ago when on here as a couple realised we were organising a meet with my brother and his wife

we still laugh about it ( we didn't meet up)

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By *aptainandfirstmateCouple
50 weeks ago

galway

"back a while ago when on here as a couple realised we were organising a meet with my brother and his wife

we still laugh about it ( we didn't meet up)"

Who do you laugh with??? Your brother? Class!!!

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By *ortyfunMan
50 weeks ago

east Meath

yep it was a pic they had we recognised their sitting room

followed by a call are you by chance on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

"yep it was a pic they had we recognised their sitting room

followed by a call are you by chance on fab "

Shame you didn’t meet but glad you can both still laugh about it!

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By *erbysGentMan
50 weeks ago

Ilkeston

"yep it was a pic they had we recognised their sitting room

followed by a call are you by chance on fab "

Did he tell his wife about your call? Lol

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By *anon17Man
50 weeks ago

mayo

"Some of my friends know I'm in here. Some of my family wouldn't be surprised. I don't really care who knows I'm in here. I think one of my adult kids knows. The younger kids I wouldn't want them knowing untill they are adults. We're asking time dead so no point in worrying to much about who knows tbh. They'll be talking about someone else another day anyway or if they are talking about you, they'll be leaving someone else alone.

Life is for living and I'm not getting any younger so I'm here to enjoy myself. "
your dead right life is for living

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Life is for living and I'm not getting any younger so I'm here to enjoy myself. your dead right life is for living "

I want to live, explore and be kinky and if some people see me doing that, so be it!

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By *OTSOSUBTLEMan
50 weeks ago

DUBLIN

Half my family live in the UK and the rest in Dublin. I'd say they are unlikely to be on this site. Might be a bit awkward if some friends were on here and in fact, I did chat with a lady on here several months ago and we also met for a drink. Then, a few weeks later, I was a friend's 60th. He was trying to get me to meet a lady of his acquaintance but I was tired so when home without meeting her. I had a text from her later saying it was a small world and she had seen me at the party. I doubt either of us will be discussing the matter with the friend. .

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By *ensualnFunCouple
50 weeks ago

Midlands

Our parents and kids know and they are ok with it. So no choice to be made. After that… everyone else can piss off. We only live once ☺️😈

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By *samyhotwifeWoman
50 weeks ago

Dublin

No I definitely wouldn't leave. It's my life and my decision x

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By *aketaxibelfastMan
50 weeks ago

Belfast

Oh there would be a few I’d tell to join themselves that they might enjoy themselves for a change

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By *r.mr.Man
50 weeks ago

Dublin 18

Definitely piss off go do something else and get a hobby

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Would never leave. I’m proud of my sexual openness and love being on here. If a family member found me on here, I’d happily chat to them, no shame in what we are both looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Absolutely not im proud to be a swinger and my family know and support me

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By *lay rock69Man
36 weeks ago

monaghan

Family and friends all know it my choice open about being a swinger even the x wife knows don't care what she thinks

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By *enitMan
36 weeks ago

Galway

Bit late once they know!

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By *om TangoMan
36 weeks ago

Tedavnet Co.Monaghan

I’m going no where anytime soon regardless of who knows what I do. I’m breaking no laws

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
36 weeks ago

Cork Ireland

Very interesting conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

When I'm asked how I meet people I tell them tinder, fab and feeld. None of my family would bat an eyelid.

I'm not married and don't have to worry about school gate gossip and I don't work in a job that would consider my lifestyle scandalous. I still wouldn't show my face though because until it's normalised it can be weaponised.

Its funny because people talk all the time about how tinder is for hookups but that's fine.

No I wouldn't leave. No need.

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