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"So guys wondering what swingers on fab think about polyamory lifestyle " I have only met one person here in a poly relationship, and it seemed like a good fit for them... I would like to explore this with a bi poly MF couple of anyone would be interested | |||
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"As a concept I was dubious, didn't actually believe it existed, but over the last couple of months my eyes have been opened , and have meet some wonderful polyamerous couple or halves , and it really seems to be working for them . In one way I think it's probably more of a commitment ie the communication / honesty etc is on a different level !! Probably not my thing at mo , was trained in the old Irish ways , certain routes etc. But I'm sure , for future generations it will certainly become a society norm . " Yeah I think it will become much more normal. Another thing I'm seeing being challenged is a prescribed relationship path. I.e you meet, you fall in love, you get serious, you move in together, you might marry, you might make babies. In Polyamory there can be some of that with a nesting partner, but it's not a given. In a way then you have a partner who chooses to be with you rather than having to be with you because finances, housing and lives are entwined. But similarly it's actually more cost effective to pool money and resources together. So I'm not sure nesting with someone will ever totally be out. Maybe we'll go back to communes. With the housing crisis it might work out OK! | |||
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"Yep I know a few who do it and it works really well for them! It takes a lot of communication and honesty. I don't think I would have the time. One relationship is hard enough! It's really interesting to see and also just goes to show how normalised monogamy is and how well society is set up for it, but that makes it harder for Poly people. It's nice to see alternative relationship styles. Can we talk Vics" | |||
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"Looks like a potential clusterfuck in all the wrong ways to me, but to each their own, not for me and very different to swinging IMO" I(mrs)agre.. it's completely different to swining....with swinging there's no emotional attachment....and that works for me.. | |||
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"Unfortunately have only met unsuccessful poly couples in real life 🥲 " We do exist, but admittedly are fairly few and far between! Successful long-term poly requires a lot of self awareness, reflection, honesty, very high level communication skills, emotional maturity and a lot more. It's a truly wonderful gift to be part of if you can build it with the right people, very much worth the time and effort 😊 | |||
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