FabSwingers.com forum: face pics

By *it69 OP Man
52 weeks ago

dublin

its very sad to see face pics and profile names of single guys,who are 100 percent single, from here been posted on a well known social media site

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By *uteirishaWoman
52 weeks ago

ghost town

The toxicity is ridiculous!! We all have real lives.. no one has the right to out someone for their own sick personal gain.. and when you suspect who it is..and the damage they will cause

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By *earuisceMan
52 weeks ago

south sligo

You can adjust your privacy settings so non fab members can not search your name on any of the usual search engines

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By *uteirishaWoman
52 weeks ago

ghost town

It's not a name shared.. it's face pics shared on a site geared to 'protect' but it's giving poisonous people opportunity to take out of school

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By *it69 OP Man
52 weeks ago

dublin

its face pics been shared is the problem, i wouldnt mind the profile seen here

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
52 weeks ago

Limerick

This is why we never share face pics in anyway unfortunately it can stop some great potential meets however not worth the risk with the few nut jobs who get their jollies off exposing people.

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By *it69 OP Man
52 weeks ago

dublin

100 percent, someone is sharing them and its terrible

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By *og-ManMan
52 weeks ago

somewhere

Presume you're talking about the page set up to out men who are married and dating

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Where are they being shared?

That goes against all what this place is about

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By *og-ManMan
52 weeks ago

somewhere

"Where are they being shared?

That goes against all what this place is about "

There's a page on the most popular social media site ....not sure if the site can be named

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Guys are being slated on those pages. And trying to degrade us women for being on here, everyone has their own reasons for being on here and shouldn't fear the risk of somebody sharing their pictures all over the internet.

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By *it69 OP Man
52 weeks ago

dublin

Hi all,yes its a well known page on a site that you cant name here, its putting face pics of guys there and their user names from here, its been done by someone from here. it does go against everything, but be wary, its disgracful what is going on

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By *uteirishaWoman
52 weeks ago

ghost town

That's the one

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By *annyZ100Man
52 weeks ago

Sligo

What's the name of the page? At least it can be reported.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"What's the name of the page? At least it can be reported. "

I posted on the forum last week and named the page

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By *ealitybitesMan
52 weeks ago

Belfast

Sharing info and face pics has been a thing on here since I first joined.

Usually on chatgroups but more recently on social media.

There are a few people who used to post on the forums, mostly in the lounge, who had to leave the site because their details were shared on social media. Their only crime was to say no to certain women.

I've had my pics shared on chatgroups which is why I don't exchange pics with anyone even if that means we won't meet.

Information is currency on here.

I know exactly who shared my pics originally and I've also been sent screenshots of chats where women I've never met or spoken to and have never even seen their profiles before were sharing my details.

If you are in any group that shares pics or details you are equally culpable even if you are pretending it's for safety reasons. Nobody really believes that bs anymore.

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By *uteirishaWoman
52 weeks ago

ghost town

I had actually mentioned the whole rejection aspect to someone earlier.

As for reporting.. individual that is doing this.. they should..as should anyone sharing information from here to our anyone.. be reported and banned

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Yes totally agree . So toxic. I've had a woman spread toxic made up crap about me due to me turning her down. Stalked everything I was doing even outside of fab and contacting people I had on my veris just to try and get info about me then spreading dangerous rumours thru the cliques or the private group chats on this. Luckily I have some friends that made me aware of this . .

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Sharing info and face pics has been a thing on here since I first joined.

Usually on chatgroups but more recently on social media.

I've had my pics shared on chatgroups which is why I don't exchange pics with anyone even if that means we won't meet.

Information is currency on here.

If you are in any group that shares pics or details you are equally culpable even if you are pretending it's for safety reasons. Nobody really believes that bs anymore.

I have experienced the exact same as u have mentioned about and all due to be rejected or jealousy

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Can someone pm me the name

Of the page please?

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By *uteirishaWoman
52 weeks ago

ghost town

Hidden profile there

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Sadly because they are part of certain cliques that run socials. Nothing is said and people are afraid to speak up incase they are ostracised as they have told me

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By *uteirishaWoman
52 weeks ago

ghost town

I do feel that alot of power is given to certain people.. quite unwarranted.. creating fear..

How would a particular person feel if their name was outted for doing what they are doing... would shut down their quests attending socials

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Oh because they are in the clique of the social organisers .they have turned a blind eye. The said girl even hit me at a social event because I was chatting to another girl and the organisers where informed about it yet nothing was done. And sadly if a guy had done the same thing he would be banned and put up on all the said groups above. I've found the ones that say about no drama are the actual gossips and drama people.. they are the ones going around gossiping and sharing information.. fab in northern Ireland has really went down hill

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By *eturning MGMan
52 weeks ago

Mayo, Roscommon, Galway, Leitrim, Sligo....West Of Ireland

I know some people on here who organise socials and they are amazing. So warm and welcoming. Others are little hitlers with toxic power and use it. People teffified to say anything incase they get black listed. Bad mouthing people. Worst thing still is their minnions who believe everything they say. And any1 sharing info from here on othere sites should be publicly named and shamed

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By *adger BrocMan
52 weeks ago

North Cork

Blocked, blacklisted, berated, banned, badmouthed, bullied, belittled, badgered, battered and bitched about.

The joys of being on the fringes of Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"its very sad to see face pics and profile names of single guys,who are 100 percent single, from here been posted on a well known social media site"

This sort of carry on is really bad form. All that can be done is reporting them to FB but I doubt it would make any difference. Some of those pages have been up for years.

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
52 weeks ago

Cork

"its very sad to see face pics and profile names of single guys,who are 100 percent single, from here been posted on a well known social media site

This sort of carry on is really bad form. All that can be done is reporting them to FB but I doubt it would make any difference. Some of those pages have been up for years."

Facebook has relaxed its responsibility on this stuff for quite a while. Most groups know how to avoid being down for long (backups, removing people who report ect) It's a bit depressing that we need oversight, instead of adults behaving somewhat.

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By *iam756Man
52 weeks ago

somewhere Dublin & Kildare

"This is why we never share face pics in anyway unfortunately it can stop some great potential meets however not worth the risk with the few nut jobs who get their jollies off exposing people. "

That is so true sorry to everyone but has to be said I never fab face or expect someone to for me if set up a meet and swap WhatsApp there’s a chance but I believe if you like there body pic there is a small chance you won’t like them and can always say not for me if not a mad person or persons that should be ok

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Disaster daters is possibly the name.

It outs married guys.

I know a lady that's involved in it.

She didn't mind doing being with married guys when she was married, now she's gone rogue.

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By *eturning MGMan
52 weeks ago

Mayo, Roscommon, Galway, Leitrim, Sligo....West Of Ireland

Name and shame the ones doin it if anyone know them

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Are We Dating the Same Guy

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By *ealcoupleCouple
52 weeks ago

"Are We Dating the Same Guy"

This site has been mentioned on one of those pages alright. No profile names have been mentioned or pictures shared though from what I have seen anyways.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Really simple solution - refuse to share your face pic on here. I can’t understand profiles who insist on a face pic with first message or it will be deleted?

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By *astleharbourCouple
52 weeks ago

Other

Know all about it and even veiled remarks made on a social media page for residents in an estate

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

What's the legal implications??

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By *inkywife1981Couple
52 weeks ago

A town near you

"its very sad to see face pics and profile names of single guys,who are 100 percent single, from here been posted on a well known social media site"

One of the reasons we worry about face pics and only share on WhatsApp if a meet is likely

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

I'm single so doesn't bother me tbh...it's not nice though and I suppose I do like my privacy

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By *hunkyRedPandaMan
52 weeks ago

Germany

"What's the legal implications??"

Does it fall under Coco's law?

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By *Js-EmmaCouple
52 weeks ago

dublins fair city

No legal implications. Unless you share real name and details. Then it’s GDPR.

1 rule for all. DO NOT put up your face picture. All pictures are copied. Someone put up my profile pic then winked my partner 🤣 eejit.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"No legal implications. Unless you share real name and details. Then it’s GDPR.

1 rule for all. DO NOT put up your face picture. All pictures are copied. Someone put up my profile pic then winked my partner 🤣 eejit. "

Under GDPR, a face photo is considered personal data and requires a legal basis for processing.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"No legal implications. Unless you share real name and details. Then it’s GDPR.

1 rule for all. DO NOT put up your face picture. All pictures are copied. Someone put up my profile pic then winked my partner 🤣 eejit.

Under GDPR, a face photo is considered personal data and requires a legal basis for processing. "

Think you’ll find GDPR only applies to companies, entities, and organisations. Don’t think it covers private individuals to individuals.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"No legal implications. Unless you share real name and details. Then it’s GDPR.

1 rule for all. DO NOT put up your face picture. All pictures are copied. Someone put up my profile pic then winked my partner 🤣 eejit.

Under GDPR, a face photo is considered personal data and requires a legal basis for processing.

Think you’ll find GDPR only applies to companies, entities, and organisations. Don’t think it covers private individuals to individuals."

That's not entirely correct. There are exemptions for private individuals but they are narrow in scope and there's quite a few scenarios where it can be applied to a private person.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

But I only knew what I read and it's not straight forward.

Either way I can't see the data protection commissioner intervening because someone's photo was posted on Facebook 😂

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By *amon.dMan
52 weeks ago

antrim

If a couple or lady want a face pic I offer to go on cam and show it, if they insist on pic that's a red flag.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

So I joined the page (the Dublin one) and went through it for hours tonight- I couldn’t find anything mentioning Fab or swinging in the last two years? Am I missing something?

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"So I joined the page (the Dublin one) and went through it for hours tonight- I couldn’t find anything mentioning Fab or swinging in the last two years? Am I missing something? "

There are at least 5 different groups that cover all of Ireland

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By *it69 OP Man
51 weeks ago

dublin

it was taken down by admin on that group, but username was mentioned and so was here, there are screenshots too

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By *om TangoMan
51 weeks ago

Tedavnet Co.Monaghan

There is I think 3 couples profiles near me and not one of them has any pictures up but in their bios they say face pic must be sent with first message. Don’t think I’ve ever ask for a face picture because I rather get to know the person for who they are. Not for what they look like.

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By *imerick ladyWoman
51 weeks ago

suburbs

Read this post a couple hours ago . Now just received a message from a female asking my thoughts on married men and women … thought it was very random and wondering if she was just fishing to possibly out me if I’m ok with ? Or am I just being paranoid since reading this post ? Does anyone know the profile of the person doing this ?

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By *arcus1041Man
51 weeks ago

Navan

What the page i like to see it .

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By *iam756Man
51 weeks ago

somewhere Dublin & Kildare

What is there fab profile

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By *uteirishaWoman
51 weeks ago

ghost town

I agree

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By *uteirishaWoman
51 weeks ago

ghost town

I feel it's the one doing the outing should be shut down..

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By *iam756Man
51 weeks ago

somewhere Dublin & Kildare

"I feel it's the one doing the outing should be shut down.."

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By *he KakapoMan
51 weeks ago

A nice rock

"So I joined the page (the Dublin one) and went through it for hours tonight- I couldn’t find anything mentioning Fab or swinging in the last two years? Am I missing something? "

Other than hours of your life?

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By *imerick ladyWoman
51 weeks ago

suburbs

"Read this post a couple hours ago . Now just received a message from a female asking my thoughts on married men and women … thought it was very random and wondering if she was just fishing to possibly out me if I’m ok with ? Or am I just being paranoid since reading this post ? Does anyone know the profile of the person doing this ?"

Am I being paranoid ?

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By *he KakapoMan
51 weeks ago

A nice rock

Am I being paranoid ?"

Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they aren't out to get you.

But yes people have and will continue to make profiles solely to out people, search for suspected unfaithful spouses,and generally troll others.

Welcome to the internet

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By *iam756Man
51 weeks ago

somewhere Dublin & Kildare

So true some really not so nice people in the world and they are on the net to

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By *imerick ladyWoman
51 weeks ago

suburbs

Am I being paranoid ?

Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they aren't out to get you.

But yes people have and will continue to make profiles solely to out people, search for suspected unfaithful spouses,and generally troll others.

Welcome to the internet "

So you’re saying I am being paranoid ?

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By *he DivilmentMan
51 weeks ago

gort and surrounding areas in galway city a lot

That's disgusting thats being done

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By *he DivilmentMan
51 weeks ago

gort and surrounding areas in galway city a lot

I totally agree and given a beating too

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By *ealcoupleCouple
51 weeks ago

Am I being paranoid ?

Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they aren't out to get you.

But yes people have and will continue to make profiles solely to out people, search for suspected unfaithful spouses,and generally troll others.

Welcome to the internet

So you’re saying I am being paranoid ?

Where did she message you? Here or FB?

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By *imerick ladyWoman
51 weeks ago

suburbs

Am I being paranoid ?

Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they aren't out to get you.

But yes people have and will continue to make profiles solely to out people, search for suspected unfaithful spouses,and generally troll others.

Welcome to the internet

So you’re saying I am being paranoid ?

Where did she message you? Here or FB?"

Here.. her message asked how do I feel about married men and women ?

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By *ealcoupleCouple
51 weeks ago

Am I being paranoid ?

Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they aren't out to get you.

But yes people have and will continue to make profiles solely to out people, search for suspected unfaithful spouses,and generally troll others.

Welcome to the internet

So you’re saying I am being paranoid ?

Where did she message you? Here or FB?

Here.. her message asked how do I feel about married men and women ?"

Random!

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Am I being paranoid ?

Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they aren't out to get you.

But yes people have and will continue to make profiles solely to out people, search for suspected unfaithful spouses,and generally troll others.

Welcome to the internet

So you’re saying I am being paranoid ?

Where did she message you? Here or FB?

Here.. her message asked how do I feel about married men and women ?"

Was it a new profile? Any veris on it? Had you any interaction beforehand?

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By *imerick ladyWoman
51 weeks ago

suburbs

Am I being paranoid ?

Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they aren't out to get you.

But yes people have and will continue to make profiles solely to out people, search for suspected unfaithful spouses,and generally troll others.

Welcome to the internet

So you’re saying I am being paranoid ?

Where did she message you? Here or FB?

Here.. her message asked how do I feel about married men and women ?

Was it a new profile? Any veris on it? Had you any interaction beforehand? "

Can’t remember if it’s new profile (I’ve since blocked her ) but I don’t think it was . She had verifications but they were hidden and have had zero interaction with her previously . That was her first message

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Am I being paranoid ?

Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they aren't out to get you.

But yes people have and will continue to make profiles solely to out people, search for suspected unfaithful spouses,and generally troll others.

Welcome to the internet

So you’re saying I am being paranoid ?

Where did she message you? Here or FB?

Here.. her message asked how do I feel about married men and women ?

Was it a new profile? Any veris on it? Had you any interaction beforehand?

Okay, well The likelihood since she had veris is that it wasn’t a brand new account, and given she has veris it’s more than plausible that we’re not dealing with a nun or an innocent🤭 I probably wouldn’t read too much into it. You can always unblock her and have a good look at her profile and reblock her again after. Maybe even send her a message and ask her why she is asking? If you don’t want to you can always pm me her name and I’ll make conversation with her.

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