FabSwingers.com forum: Bad verifications.

By *icks and mixes OP Couple
4 days ago

belfast

Does anybody be honest when leaving verifications?

I mean if it were say a dirty house, dirty sheets, bad sex, over in a jiffy, underwhelming. whatever the scenario.

Do you be honest & leave a terrible verification or would you write it off as just a bad experience and move on?

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By *iscuits8Man
4 days ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

I just don't display any of them that mention my small willy!

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By *iscuits8Man
4 days ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

I was never really big into leaving/taking veris for some reason, there's a few I've met and we just never did them. But I'd always leave one if they like... I can honestly say I've never had a social/meetuo from here that I'd call negative so I'd have no reason to leave anyone anything other than a positive review 🙂

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By *affa31Woman
4 days ago

Galway

It’s pointless leaving a negative veri because people won’t display them.

You learn to read between the lines though.

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By *icks and mixes OP Couple
4 days ago

belfast

We feel like we should be honest & people that meet us too but you couldn't actually say whats on your mind without upsetting people. But yeah, between the lines is where its at i suppose.

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By *ACOLCouple
4 days ago

Limerick

I wouldn't leave a verification at all, i would just approach them privately, and explain what might have gone wrong from my point of view.

We also don't show our verification, unless they come from host/hostess, but it's just because we want people to make their own opinion of us.

Lina.

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By *icks and mixes OP Couple
4 days ago

belfast

Probably best not to leave one sometimes maybe.

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By *s LollyWoman
4 days ago

The pub then supermacs ...

If i meet someone and for whatever reason don't vibe i don't leave one, i have in the past left one and regretted after but hey hoo the block button solves that problem..

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
4 days ago

ireland

We wouldn't bother leaving one if it wasn't a good experience ,noone would display a bad veri so wouldn't be much point !

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By *eys00Man
4 days ago

have boots will travel

Im lucky in that I’ve never had to leave a bad veri, but I feel like a bad one just wouldn’t be displayed and used to bump up the numbers!

It’s hard to know whether to leave one, I’m sure others would appreciate seeing the honesty so they know what the reality, however seeing as it can be hidden there’s probably not much point 🤷🏻‍♂️

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By *outhDublinMan86Man
4 days ago

shankill

Opening yourself up to backlash if you do especially if it’s a single male.

Reminds me of the old saying “if you’ve nothing good to say don’t say it all”

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By *icks and mixes OP Couple
4 days ago

belfast

"If i meet someone and for whatever reason don't vibe i don't leave one, i have in the past left one and regretted after but hey hoo the block button solves that problem..

Jeez our block buttons getting longer by the minute. Shockingly bad for just hitting it recently.

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By *icks and mixes OP Couple
4 days ago

belfast

"Opening yourself up to backlash if you do especially if it’s a single male.

Reminds me of the old saying “if you’ve nothing good to say don’t say it all”"

True.

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By *ucktailMan
4 days ago

Dundonald

"Opening yourself up to backlash if you do especially if it’s a single male.

Reminds me of the old saying “if you’ve nothing good to say don’t say it all”"

Very true.

I know a few people that have told me they have lied in their veris even when a crap meet. For that reason . Hence why I don't trust what veris say . Also a girl told me she lied in veris just to get at someone else

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By *mooth 55Man
4 days ago

seaside

Iv met some people here based on veris, and certainly were not a patch on the individual..

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By *eirdos Everywhere!Man
4 days ago

Belfast (Dublin)

“Seen them at the social and they seem lovely”

“Spoke to them for two minutes and they seem lovely”

Usually crap from socials. Those Veri’s should be banned!

A girl was telling me a fella left her a veri from a party that she wasn’t at, she’d to pull out last minute but was in the telegram group. Madness.

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
4 days ago

Belfast

I would leave a positive veri if I really liked them and no verification if it all went a bit tits up.

I don't like doing repeat verifications too often with the same people. Even if we see them regularly, there's people here to who track that and then we get accused of being a clique.

As for our verifications, I don't like graphic ones if it was a sexy meet. Just keep it generic and friendly. The only point of veris for us is to see that people do actually meet up and they are reasonably nice people. We can follow that up with an in person vibe check.

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By *antra MassageMan
4 days ago

Galway

I've never received a bad verification. But I think I'd publish it anyway, just to let others compare it with my other good veris.

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By *iresmillyWoman
4 days ago

Stillorgan

I don’t give veris from socials much weight TBH. I wish Veris had to be displayed, like Google reviews, so we could see the full truth, and that the veris couldn’t just be from socials or there was some way to filter social veris out.

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By *ubblebeexxxMan
3 days ago

city centre

"Does anybody be honest when leaving verifications?

I mean if it were say a dirty house, dirty sheets, bad sex, over in a jiffy, underwhelming. whatever the scenario.

Do you be honest & leave a terrible verification or would you write it off as just a bad experience and move on?

Just how dirty a house are we talking here? You know..... cause there are different levels of dirty

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
3 days ago

Newry

All a verification is supposed to do is confirm the person is who they claim to be.

I wouldn't leave a bad verification if their house was dirty (I'd be extremely unlikely to be in that situation anyway) if the person was otherwise lovely. Likewise if the sex was disappointing -after all, we're not all looking for the same thing.

If I found the person to be a complete arse I'd just not leave a verification.

If they were dangerous or not who they claimed to be, I'd report them

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By *ionycusMan
3 days ago

Babylon

I left one once and they sent me a very threatening message afterwards saying i accused them of being a catfish and that their pictures displayed, were of them . no way were it, they never displayed the verification, obviously.

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