FabSwingers.com forum: Attention

By *lmost8 OP Man
1 week ago

limerick

How does one hold someone’s attention here after getting it, the conversation starts then evaporates like a fart😅

What are the trade secrets?🤣

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
1 week ago

Newry

I don't think there is a trade secret.

Usually I find if you're both into each other then it just happens with ease.

If you're having to chase it or force it then it's not there in the first place

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
1 week ago

nobody said it was easy,,o take me back to the start again..

Communication and be punctual with your replying, don't fart about thinkin on a reply just be urself and speak ur mind..

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By *he KakapoMan
1 week ago

A nice rock

I whip my cock out.

It doesn't help the convo but it distracts me

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By *iscuits8Man
1 week ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

"I whip my cock out.

It doesn't help the convo but it distracts me"

A helicopter never fails

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By *electableicecreamMan
1 week ago

The West

Most conversations I have here or on apps don't lead to meeting and usually fizzle out or go into hibernation until schedules and locations coincide.

I'm much happier meeting the people where the conversation blossoms by itself. It's just so much more likely to be a good connection in person.

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By *lmost8 OP Man
1 week ago

limerick

🤣🤣🤣

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By *lmost8 OP Man
1 week ago

limerick

It starts good, then just fizzles away, i tried being my genius witty beautiful self 😅 ( yeah right)

I’m going to windmill into the next convo as advised here 🤣😅

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By *exiiKa25Woman
1 week ago

City Centre

Most don't get past first message unless they have decent open line and conversation. Needs to not be forced or hounding, people have lives behind the scenes

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By *lmost8 OP Man
1 week ago

limerick

Perhaps we should chat 😅🤣

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By *eroLondonMan
1 week ago

Mayfair

I suppose you need to master the årt of conversation. Be inquisitive but not pushy; be reciprocal to keep the momentum of the conversation flowing, don't ask closed questions, be cheeky but not impertinent...

... don't hesitate to give up if the other person is giving you perfunctory responses or is simply not interested. It has to be a two-way street.

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By *rystalsswingCouple
1 week ago

Galway / Midlands / West

"I whip my cock out.

It doesn't help the convo but it distracts me

A helicopter never fails

🚁"

But you must slap her in the face, otherwise is useless 🚁

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
1 week ago

Home

"How does one hold someone’s attention here after getting it, the conversation starts then evaporates like a fart😅

What are the trade secrets?🤣"
talk about farts

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By *P_80Man
1 week ago

Waterford

No trade secrets.

If you're both into each other the conversation will flow.

If the conversation feels like it has to be dragged, then it just ain't happening.

You also have to consider that when sending messages behind an online profile, it's much more difficult to make a connection than if you were to meet in person.

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By *heBlowinsCouple
1 week ago

West Cork

"Most conversations I have here or on apps don't lead to meeting and usually fizzle out or go into hibernation until schedules and locations coincide.

I'm much happier meeting the people where the conversation blossoms by itself. It's just so much more likely to be a good connection in person.

This is very true in our case, both on Fab and anywhere online really.

The quickest way to fizzletown for us is to talk incessantly about sex and nothing else. Gets tedious. Be a person 😅

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By *urvyLouLouWoman
1 week ago

Dungannon/Belfast

Honestly, if a convo evaporates like a fart, maybe it just wasn't worth holding onto. I’m all for connections that flow naturally, the kind that keep you coming back for more without even trying

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By *ayyye6Man
1 week ago

london

Trying to chat too much sometimes hurts your chances, had ones who thought I was only looking chat so vanished on me

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By *ayyye6Man
1 week ago

london

"Trying to chat too much sometimes hurts your chances, had ones who thought I was only looking chat so vanished on me"

Also when chatting leave a bit of bait something that’s easy to shoot a reply to so your message doesn’t feel like the end of a discussion

I usually have that issue

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
1 week ago

Galway, Clare

"Most conversations I have here or on apps don't lead to meeting and usually fizzle out or go into hibernation until schedules and locations coincide.

I'm much happier meeting the people where the conversation blossoms by itself. It's just so much more likely to be a good connection in person.

This is very true in our case, both on Fab and anywhere online really.

The quickest way to fizzletown for us is to talk incessantly about sex and nothing else. Gets tedious. Be a person 😅"

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By *exyScientistsCouple
1 week ago

Castlebar

"Honestly, if a convo evaporates like a fart, maybe it just wasn't worth holding onto. I’m all for connections that flow naturally, the kind that keep you coming back for more without even trying

Definitely this...if its fun and relaxed and isn't hard work. Once you have to force it then it's probably done

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By *lmost8 OP Man
1 week ago

limerick

I can chat about any subject and wasnt being pushy,should I open with a joke?

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By *lutterFlyWoman
1 week ago

Not Belfast but NI

As others have said, if the conversation is boring and/or hard work it ends.

Although, it is not always fair jumping to conclusions about a person from their first few message. They could be shy or not had a lot of experience yet turn out to be the needle in the Fab haystack! It has happened for me once or twice and so glad I didn't bin them based on their first message

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