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"I thought this was going to be an easy ask." You thought women would volunteer in droves to go to a hotel room for sex with 2 or 3 men she’s never seen before? Is that something you’ve heard happens often on fab? Not passing any judgement, just genuinely curious about your train of thought 😁 | |||
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"Absolutely take your point but I know what I’m about and I prefer to discuss my profile privately with interested fabbers and not on a forum reply to a random opinion to which I can’t reply privately to _specially the last two comment." This forum thread was created by you so why would you feel the need to discuss it in private? I've no interest in discussing any forum thread or anyone's profile in private. I haven't even looked at your profile beyond the fact you aren't verified. Even if you were it's still asking a lot to expect anyone but _specially a woman to just turn up at an hotel room. If it can't be said here it just raises a further red flag. | |||
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"In all honesty do you actually think that I expect to arrange to meet another fabber and the first time I lay eyes on them is when I open the door to them. I seriously have to question the intelligence of some of the fabbers on here." Ah the old low IQ insult Donald. | |||
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"In all honesty do you actually think that I expect to arrange to meet another fabber and the first time I lay eyes on them is when I open the door to them. I seriously have to question the intelligence of some of the fabbers on here." Questioning the intelligence? Well it seems to me you are questioning well verified members who have been trusted by others. Question away all you like dude. Enjoy that empty hotel room and the box of complementary box of tissues in the bathroom | |||
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"Sometimes high IQ and stupidity and ignorance go hand in hand maybe look in the mirror." Will do sir. …..but I’ll be happy with what I see. In fact that mirror comes in handy when the few who I meet are feeling kinky and want to watch what what is going on. | |||
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"So yous toddle of there now to whatever boring existence yous lead or don’t lead and mind your own business like good little boys " Haaa now now now! Would you like a hug???? You seem very upset. | |||
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"I don’t get why everyone is getting so argumentative here, it was just an ask by the OP and sometimes this type of fun can be fun! Mfm and the likes can be hard to arrange because most men chicken out of it last min so seeing someone so willing wanting to try this is actually a breath of fresh air to some women! And it’s also what fab is all about! If I wasn’t out of the country at that time I would absolutely be on board! " This isn’t the first time he’s posted things like this and then got irate when people advised that single women are, by and large, unlikely to put themselves in that kind of situation. If you take this thread in isolation, it may seem argumentative but it comes on the back of other threads. | |||
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"I don’t get why everyone is getting so argumentative here, it was just an ask by the OP and sometimes this type of fun can be fun! Mfm and the likes can be hard to arrange because most men chicken out of it last min so seeing someone so willing wanting to try this is actually a breath of fresh air to some women! And it’s also what fab is all about! If I wasn’t out of the country at that time I would absolutely be on board! This isn’t the first time he’s posted things like this and then got irate when people advised that single women are, by and large, unlikely to put themselves in that kind of situation. If you take this thread in isolation, it may seem argumentative but it comes on the back of other threads. " I have seen OP post before and also others jumping on his back just the same. He just comes across like a person that wants to try new things and is throwing it out there. Yea some women are cautious and others are more daring like myself. It’s literally no different than going to a play party and getting the same experience | |||
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"I don’t get why everyone is getting so argumentative here, it was just an ask by the OP and sometimes this type of fun can be fun! Mfm and the likes can be hard to arrange because most men chicken out of it last min so seeing someone so willing wanting to try this is actually a breath of fresh air to some women! And it’s also what fab is all about! If I wasn’t out of the country at that time I would absolutely be on board! This isn’t the first time he’s posted things like this and then got irate when people advised that single women are, by and large, unlikely to put themselves in that kind of situation. If you take this thread in isolation, it may seem argumentative but it comes on the back of other threads. I have seen OP post before and also others jumping on his back just the same. He just comes across like a person that wants to try new things and is throwing it out there. Yea some women are cautious and others are more daring like myself. It’s literally no different than going to a play party and getting the same experience " Except at a play party you'd be likely to have an experienced host (with multiple verifications behind them) to keep an eye on things. They'll usually know the guests to an extent too. That's a very very different situation to that which the OP is proposing. It's all well and good being daring...many put safety a little higher on their priorities. OP it may seem like people are pissing on your chips but they're just being realistic. There aren't many women who would put themselves in a hotel room with three random men who are unknown to them and unknown to each other. Your post literally says just turn up and yet you don't seem to understand the lack of engagement. And I'm only speaking from a woman's perspective - there are many guys who won't want to just stick their mickey in any random woman just because the opportunity is there. There are things you could take away from this thread which might lead to such meets being successful in the future yet you choose to get defensive and honestly, a bit pissy. Taking on board the feedback might lead to better outcomes rather than chucking it back at people | |||
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"I don’t get why everyone is getting so argumentative here, it was just an ask by the OP and sometimes this type of fun can be fun! Mfm and the likes can be hard to arrange because most men chicken out of it last min so seeing someone so willing wanting to try this is actually a breath of fresh air to some women! And it’s also what fab is all about! If I wasn’t out of the country at that time I would absolutely be on board! This isn’t the first time he’s posted things like this and then got irate when people advised that single women are, by and large, unlikely to put themselves in that kind of situation. If you take this thread in isolation, it may seem argumentative but it comes on the back of other threads. I have seen OP post before and also others jumping on his back just the same. He just comes across like a person that wants to try new things and is throwing it out there. Yea some women are cautious and others are more daring like myself. It’s literally no different than going to a play party and getting the same experience Except at a play party you'd be likely to have an experienced host (with multiple verifications behind them) to keep an eye on things. They'll usually know the guests to an extent too. That's a very very different situation to that which the OP is proposing. It's all well and good being daring...many put safety a little higher on their priorities. OP it may seem like people are pissing on your chips but they're just being realistic. There aren't many women who would put themselves in a hotel room with three random men who are unknown to them and unknown to each other. Your post literally says just turn up and yet you don't seem to understand the lack of engagement. And I'm only speaking from a woman's perspective - there are many guys who won't want to just stick their mickey in any random woman just because the opportunity is there. There are things you could take away from this thread which might lead to such meets being successful in the future yet you choose to get defensive and honestly, a bit pissy. Taking on board the feedback might lead to better outcomes rather than chucking it back at people " The host isn’t in the room with a whip keeping an eye on things. Also at the last play party I was at many of the guests didn’t even have any verifications and one wasn’t on fab so that’s not always the case. What he’s asking isn’t any different to what many couples do on here by booking a room and expecting the female to come join which is the majority of messages I get! Admittedly, the OP could have taken a better approach about it but I don’t think everyone should be always jumping on his back because of it, I would be defensive too! It’s like playground bullying in here sometimes | |||
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"! It’s like playground bullying in here sometimes " Having read the thread nobody had chimed in other than lads showing interest until the OP bumped the thread 3 or 4 times and stated he thought it would be am easy ask. What followed was if maybe unrequested still honest and r_spectful feedback about why the lack of interest may be. The OP was the one who started with personal insults. I think this place can jump on people (well men generally) making genuine requests too quickly. This though doesn't seem like one of those times | |||
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"I don’t get why everyone is getting so argumentative here, it was just an ask by the OP and sometimes this type of fun can be fun! Mfm and the likes can be hard to arrange because most men chicken out of it last min so seeing someone so willing wanting to try this is actually a breath of fresh air to some women! And it’s also what fab is all about! If I wasn’t out of the country at that time I would absolutely be on board! This isn’t the first time he’s posted things like this and then got irate when people advised that single women are, by and large, unlikely to put themselves in that kind of situation. If you take this thread in isolation, it may seem argumentative but it comes on the back of other threads. I have seen OP post before and also others jumping on his back just the same. He just comes across like a person that wants to try new things and is throwing it out there. Yea some women are cautious and others are more daring like myself. It’s literally no different than going to a play party and getting the same experience Except at a play party you'd be likely to have an experienced host (with multiple verifications behind them) to keep an eye on things. They'll usually know the guests to an extent too. That's a very very different situation to that which the OP is proposing. It's all well and good being daring...many put safety a little higher on their priorities. OP it may seem like people are pissing on your chips but they're just being realistic. There aren't many women who would put themselves in a hotel room with three random men who are unknown to them and unknown to each other. Your post literally says just turn up and yet you don't seem to understand the lack of engagement. And I'm only speaking from a woman's perspective - there are many guys who won't want to just stick their mickey in any random woman just because the opportunity is there. There are things you could take away from this thread which might lead to such meets being successful in the future yet you choose to get defensive and honestly, a bit pissy. Taking on board the feedback might lead to better outcomes rather than chucking it back at people The host isn’t in the room with a whip keeping an eye on things. Also at the last play party I was at many of the guests didn’t even have any verifications and one wasn’t on fab so that’s not always the case. What he’s asking isn’t any different to what many couples do on here by booking a room and expecting the female to come join which is the majority of messages I get! Admittedly, the OP could have taken a better approach about it but I don’t think everyone should be always jumping on his back because of it, I would be defensive too! It’s like playground bullying in here sometimes " That sounds like a risky party. | |||
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" I’m 100% trustworthy and r_spectful." ...said every single serial killer ever!  | |||
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"I don’t get why everyone is getting so argumentative here, it was just an ask by the OP and sometimes this type of fun can be fun! Mfm and the likes can be hard to arrange because most men chicken out of it last min so seeing someone so willing wanting to try this is actually a breath of fresh air to some women! And it’s also what fab is all about! If I wasn’t out of the country at that time I would absolutely be on board! This isn’t the first time he’s posted things like this and then got irate when people advised that single women are, by and large, unlikely to put themselves in that kind of situation. If you take this thread in isolation, it may seem argumentative but it comes on the back of other threads. I have seen OP post before and also others jumping on his back just the same. He just comes across like a person that wants to try new things and is throwing it out there. Yea some women are cautious and others are more daring like myself. It’s literally no different than going to a play party and getting the same experience Except at a play party you'd be likely to have an experienced host (with multiple verifications behind them) to keep an eye on things. They'll usually know the guests to an extent too. That's a very very different situation to that which the OP is proposing. It's all well and good being daring...many put safety a little higher on their priorities. OP it may seem like people are pissing on your chips but they're just being realistic. There aren't many women who would put themselves in a hotel room with three random men who are unknown to them and unknown to each other. Your post literally says just turn up and yet you don't seem to understand the lack of engagement. And I'm only speaking from a woman's perspective - there are many guys who won't want to just stick their mickey in any random woman just because the opportunity is there. There are things you could take away from this thread which might lead to such meets being successful in the future yet you choose to get defensive and honestly, a bit pissy. Taking on board the feedback might lead to better outcomes rather than chucking it back at people The host isn’t in the room with a whip keeping an eye on things. Also at the last play party I was at many of the guests didn’t even have any verifications and one wasn’t on fab so that’s not always the case. What he’s asking isn’t any different to what many couples do on here by booking a room and expecting the female to come join which is the majority of messages I get! Admittedly, the OP could have taken a better approach about it but I don’t think everyone should be always jumping on his back because of it, I would be defensive too! It’s like playground bullying in here sometimes " Why were non-Fab people at a Fab party?? Says a lot about the host. | |||
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" Why were non-Fab people at a Fab party?? Says a lot about the host." It could have been a Swingers party rather than a Fab one and I know there are some swingers FB pages too, or there's organisers that are big enough that they have their own network like We are Envy, and sure...they have presence on Fab but possibly don't think of themselves as a Fab group. But at the very least there would be some membership (paying for tickets by default shares identity data) or vouching system as well as proactive moderators. Everyone is r_sponsible for managing their own risks and vetting to their own satisfaction even in a private party situation. A person being present doesn't imply that person is available to fuck. Mutual attraction is still a thing and no means no. And when no isn't r_spected it's assault. | |||
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"I thought this was going to be an easy ask." you know what happened though he piss in the bed and thought he was sweating | |||
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" Why were non-Fab people at a Fab party?? Says a lot about the host. It could have been a Swingers party rather than a Fab one and I know there are some swingers FB pages too, or there's organisers that are big enough that they have their own network like We are Envy, and sure...they have presence on Fab but possibly don't think of themselves as a Fab group. But at the very least there would be some membership (paying for tickets by default shares identity data) or vouching system as well as proactive moderators. Everyone is r_sponsible for managing their own risks and vetting to their own satisfaction even in a private party situation. A person being present doesn't imply that person is available to fuck. Mutual attraction is still a thing and no means no. And when no isn't r_spected it's assault. " Ditto!!! 👏 | |||
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"I see your point completely in regards to safety but I wouldn’t expect any women to agree to join me in a hotel room unless she was 100% safe and or knew one of the other participants. I’m 100% trustworthy and r_spectful." Not being bad - ur not even meet verified. If I was a cpl or fem I wouldn’t waste my time Sorry to be blunt | |||
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"Jesus the OP is getting an awful hard time. Usual clique mentality. Maybe some are afraid you will start a club and take away from their income. " 
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"Jesus the OP is getting an awful hard time. Usual clique mentality. Maybe some are afraid you will start a club and take away from their income.
I don’t think that’s a concern tbf "The biggest concern here is that someone wants a woman to willingly put herself up for a group of guys with no way of knowing if she's going to be ra&ed or not. | |||
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"Jesus the OP is getting an awful hard time. Usual clique mentality. Maybe some are afraid you will start a club and take away from their income.
I don’t think that’s a concern tbf
The biggest concern here is that someone wants a woman to willingly put herself up for a group of guys with no way of knowing if she's going to be ra&ed or not. "Not too mention the guys blindly signing up for the ride not knowing if the woman even exists (never mind what she looks like) and not knowing if they are going to be r0bbed or not. That's not an accusation directly at you OP but it's not that long ago that a dozen guys all turned up to a hotel and were left out of pocket with their dicks in their hands | |||
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"All genuine males will always make sure that women are playing in a safe environment. If she says no or stop then men must obey her request " Not sure how safe a woman would feel if she turned up for something like this, decided the guys there weren't her type, and turned around to leave. Because women won't fuck just anyone.. just in case some people weren't aware. | |||
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"All genuine males will always make sure that women are playing in a safe environment. If she says no or stop then men must obey her request Not sure how safe a woman would feel if she turned up for something like this, decided the guys there weren't her type, and turned around to leave. Because women won't fuck just anyone.. just in case some people weren't aware. " That would be exactly my concern. I’m very picky hence why I’d never put myself in a situation like this. But maybe it suits others who are less risk adverse 😉 | |||
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"All genuine males will always make sure that women are playing in a safe environment. If she says no or stop then men must obey her request Not sure how safe a woman would feel if she turned up for something like this, decided the guys there weren't her type, and turned around to leave. Because women won't fuck just anyone.. just in case some people weren't aware. " That's where a little social time before the actual fun starts is required | |||
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"Anyone remotely interested or is this a total waste of time.Smart remarks welcome lol" You have no verifications. Only guys will sign up for this. | |||
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"Absolute spoofer your true colours coming out. Anyone reading your messages about would rub a mile no verifications nothing I wonder why " You ok hun? | |||
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"Absolute spoofer your true colours coming out. Anyone reading your messages about would rub a mile no verifications nothing I wonder why " ... A mile is quite a lot to rub. Most people would be more than happy to rub 6 or 7 inches. | |||
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"Jesus the OP is getting an awful hard time. Usual clique mentality. Maybe some are afraid you will start a club and take away from their income. " Have to agree with you . | |||
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