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By *sBoss OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

Cork

Is it really that important??

I had no idea ....genuinely interested in people's thoughts on it,eye contact while being intimate.....

First time posting a question on here,be kind lol

Happy Saturday x

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By *iamo69Man
2 weeks ago

South

Depends realy on how you feel

Sometimes it's good yes

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By *ewcouplesdCouple
2 weeks ago

Dublin

Yes eye contact is huge to me!

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By *ichael00300Man
2 weeks ago

Cork

That look

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By *og-ManMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere

When you're looking into her eyes as you cum...probably the nicest eye contact you can make

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By *aoirse NaughtyWoman
2 weeks ago

Cork

Its essential for me with my partner, with other people not so much

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By *unallround69Man
2 weeks ago

Killarney

I find it adds to the intensity and connection

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By *lasticpaddy1Man
2 weeks ago

Athlone

Absolutely essential only time I don't is if I switch to doggy during

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By *ingerrrrWoman
2 weeks ago

Meath

Oh god I love eye contact… especially in public with someone you shouldn’t be looking at..

I know I give it a lot and have bold eyes on me that betray what’s in my head.. (filth.. that’s what’s in my head…24 feckin 7 these days)

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By *ocketman81Man
2 weeks ago

Ennis

Yip, it is for me just makes it more intimate and to cum while looking deep into her eyes is just heaven

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By *arper8000Man
2 weeks ago

cork

eye contact is sexy, but depends on the position, nit always possible if face done ass up 😆

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By *sBoss OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

Cork

Thanks for all the replies ....that's a yes so then 😄

Would/should a person be offended if the other person just couldn't make eye contact as in they find it intimidating even though everything else is going really really well.....

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By *eddiWoman
2 weeks ago

Cork

I don't always make eye contact when being intimate, usually because my mind is elsewhere... but if I'm speaking to someone absolutely need eye contact. Maybe because I'm dominant and like to make them sweat a bit. But also if they ask me to look at them during sex because it's a turn on then certainly I will.

Xx

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By *electableicecreamMan
2 weeks ago

The West


"Thanks for all the replies ....that's a yes so then 😄

Would/should a person be offended if the other person just couldn't make eye contact as in they find it intimidating even though everything else is going really really well....."

I have a friend who is autistic and finds direct eye contact very challenging and very intense. She will avoid it naturally and I know she really appreciates when people don't put neurotypical expectations on her.

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By *INTMan
2 weeks ago

Minutes from Somewhere Else

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By *INTMan
2 weeks ago

Minutes from Somewhere Else

I guess it depends on the context. Personally, I like eye contact. There's an entire level or flirtation that can be done with eyes alone.

For instance, a quick glance followed by an averted one, followed by another can convey a fair amount of information and interest. Or, in closer proximity, an averted gaze followed by direct eye contact can send a very powerful message.

We communicate with our whole bodies. Whether we intend to or not. Our eyes are the windows into our souls. It's frequently how we identify creepy/undesirable people.

Communicate with them. Deliberately.

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By *earuisceMan
2 weeks ago

south sligo

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By *inkywife1981Couple
2 weeks ago

A town near you

Back in the day when looking to pull eye contact was everything you needed to know whether to make a move or not

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By *inkywife1981Couple
2 weeks ago

A town near you

Should add that we both find eye contact a big turn on when _iving/receiving oral

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By *tudentForFunMan
2 weeks ago

Craigavon

I’m scared of it

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By *exyScientistsCouple
2 weeks ago

Castlebar

Woth the right person it definitely makes sex, and kissing way more intense 😈

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By *aoirse NaughtyWoman
2 weeks ago

Cork


"Woth the right person it definitely makes sex, and kissing way more intense 😈"

Agree 100%

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By *rRiosMan
2 weeks ago

dublin


"Woth the right person it definitely makes sex, and kissing way more intense 😈"

Camping does this for me! 🙃

Sorry

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By *astelloWoman
2 weeks ago

Far far away

Eye contact is so important..if they can't look at you directly there is no point continuing.

Eyes tell it all.

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By *iviMan
1 week ago

Antrim

You can tell a lot from the eyes.... so yes its important for me

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By *hantomfemmeWoman
1 week ago

originally from sligo

I find with my ADHD that eye contact is hard especially on social meets and being intimate. But I know it can mean im being distant. I'm just so socially awkward

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By *aoirse NaughtyWoman
1 week ago

Cork


"I find with my ADHD that eye contact is hard especially on social meets and being intimate. But I know it can mean im being distant. I'm just so socially awkward"

Well that's understandable to anyone that knows or lives with ADHD

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By *elfastDMan
1 week ago

belfast

It is intense

But I suspect when my eyes roll back in times of immense pleasure I probably look weird

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By *argus12Man
1 week ago

meath dublin

It’s essential

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By *ubblebeexxxMan
1 week ago

city centre

If you're not gonna make sure contact I may as well leave the brown paper bag over my head ?

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By *exyScientistsCouple
1 week ago

Castlebar


"Woth the right person it definitely makes sex, and kissing way more intense 😈"

And blow jobs...

Can't forget about them 🥵

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By *adhatter and coCouple
1 week ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

I close my eyes and retreat into my own world , I actually dislike opening my eyes and making accidental eye contact feeling like I’m being watched

Yes I’m weird

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By *T33Couple
1 week ago

Dublin 8

Yes , eye contact with partner, and eye contact with partner while with other people

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By *dfabMan
1 week ago

Dunboyne


"Woth the right person it definitely makes sex, and kissing way more intense 😈

And blow jobs...

Can't forget about them 🥵"

BJ's yes but when I'm kissing my eyes are usually closed. Not sure why but seems more natural.

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By *sa fun marriedMan
1 week ago

enniscorthy


"Is it really that important??

I had no idea ....genuinely interested in people's thoughts on it,eye contact while being intimate.....

First time posting a question on here,be kind lol

Happy Saturday x "

For sure it is..!👌👌

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By *exiiKa25Woman
1 week ago

City Centre

With partner yes, other people not so much

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By *urvyLouLouWoman
1 week ago

Dungannon/Belfast

That slow, deliberate gaze that says more than words ever could. It’s the way a look can tease, taunt, and pull you in deeper. Can feel like a challenge – one I love taking on. So to answer, from my personal perspective yes

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By *s LollyWoman
1 week ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Eye contact is very important to me it's very intimate and turns me on

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By *affa31Woman
1 week ago

Galway

I do like eye contact but find it can draw me away from the moment if I have to hold it.

Like I would need to close my eyes during an orgasm to really get deep into it.

And while _iving a bj, I will give some eye contact but I find it easier to concentrate on what I’m doing if my eyes are closed. Habit probably but hard to break.

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By *om TangoMan
1 week ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

Oh eye contact when the lady is about to cum. I nearly always ask for her to look at me.

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By *hivers2020Woman
1 week ago

lolli land


"Oh eye contact when the lady is about to cum. I nearly always ask for her to look at me. "

I do the same with guys, ask them to look me in the eyes and tell me they are cuming for me 👸🏻

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By *ogladyWoman
1 week ago

The bog

Eye contact doesn't really work for me .. Having a wonky eye sure they wouldn't know if I'm looking at them or the wall.. 🙈🙈

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
1 week ago

Lucan

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
1 week ago

Lucan


"Eye contact doesn't really work for me .. Having a wonky eye sure they wouldn't know if I'm looking at them or the wall.. 🙈🙈"

There'd be very little hope of eye contact with your face buried into the pillow anyway

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By *dfabMan
1 week ago

Dunboyne


"Oh eye contact when the lady is about to cum. I nearly always ask for her to look at me.

I do the same with guys, ask them to look me in the eyes and tell me they are cuming for me 👸🏻"

I'd be delighted to be looking into your eyes

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By *ogladyWoman
1 week ago

The bog


"Eye contact doesn't really work for me .. Having a wonky eye sure they wouldn't know if I'm looking at them or the wall.. 🙈🙈

There'd be very little hope of eye contact with your face buried into the pillow anyway "

That's because I'd be probally be smothered to death.. 😱😱😂😂

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By *aketaxibelfastMan
1 week ago

Belfast

Talk about raising your “come here you now” lol that and when your fingers (yes your fingers) end up getting a wonder blow job at the same time??? What a cum session that turns into!! Super sexy

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By *errardNo8Man
1 week ago

Galway/Mayo

The eyes are the gateway to the soul. I met an absolutely beautiful lady at a party a little while ago. And we caught eyes. And there was fire. I knew and she knew just from the eyes. And the contact continued throughout. I knew what she was feeling just from her eyes. And i felt as sexy as fuck. It was hot 🔥

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By *C BrayMan
1 week ago

Bray

It takes sex to the next level for me, it's very hot when receiving oral to see them eyes looking up at me. I find it incredibly hot when looking deep into a woman's eyes as she cums to climax watching the pleasure build and explode while keeping eye contact is amazing

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By *om TangoMan
1 week ago

aughnacloy monaghan area


"Eye contact doesn't really work for me .. Having a wonky eye sure they wouldn't know if I'm looking at them or the wall.. 🙈🙈"

I’ve just had a perv at your profile. Nothing wrong with your eyes girl. You’re beautiful and never think anything less of yourself. Any man would be lucky to have you look him in the eyes.

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By *ddiesayshello2Man
1 week ago

dundalk , Monaghan,meath

ph god yeah love the eye contact, especially when getting you cock sucked and she looks up at you and you look at here. just something so so hot about it

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By *ubadubdubWoman
1 week ago

Hereabouts

Freaks me out a bit to be honest. A brief glance in the eye direction is enough for me

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By *og-ManMan
1 week ago

somewhere

What about the women with eyes in the back of their heads ....

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
1 week ago

Lucan


"What about the women with eyes in the back of their heads ...."

I could get behind them

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By *onny1969Man
1 week ago

local

You need the eye contact , no eye contact and chances are they are not in the same place as you and probably wondering if you put the bins out, unless it’s doggy or reverse cowboy then I couldn’t care where her mind was

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By *mazingTimesMan
1 week ago

Dublin

I love eye contact, right from the first glance in a busy bar…..to the eye contact when pleasuring each other!!

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By *xplorer2023Man
1 week ago

dublin 7


"Yes , eye contact with partner, and eye contact with partner while with other people "

This is really hot 🌶

One of my go-to porn searches was eye contact female orgasm

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