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"Always insist on safe sex even as far as condoms on when sucking or being sucked " VERY few use condoms for oral, in fact I've never once seen it | |||
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"Always insist on safe sex even as far as condoms on when sucking or being sucked VERY few use condoms for oral, in fact I've never once seen it " I've seen some fab profile pics where the man had a condom on during a blow job Never seen a woman with a dental dam ( is that the correct name ) | |||
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"Just wondering about people opinions on unprotected sex on fab? " It’s not for me but what’s not for me, might be for someone else. | |||
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"'I prefer bare and will try with every woman just because it feels better and she might let me in the heat of the moment' Wrote no man on fab ever but I've heard that story from every woman I know. I practice safe sex. Condoms are one part of that risk assessment. Regular testing and knowing/trusting my partner's approach to safe sex is more important than just relying on a condom in my opinion. For example, it is, in my opinion, safer for me not to have sex, even with a condom, with a woman who fucks a lot of guys bare because if the condom breaks then I am exposed. Conversely if I am with someone who I've built up enough trust with that I know they will keep me safe then condoms aren't going to make us safer. The first sex party I ever went to led to me recieving multiple phone calls afterwards that they're had been an outbreak of gonorrhoea and I should get tested. I didn't fuck anyone that night because it was my first party so my clear test wasn't a big surprise but how did that happen? It happened because people prefer bare and build circles of trust. Once that circle gets wide enough the balance of probability increases the risk exponentially and I believe this is more common than anyone will write on fab." Nicely put and love the way a lot of guys here say they only use condoms but the truth is that, given the chance, 95% of guys would fuck without it, I can show hundreds of messages in my inbox with guys talking about breathing me and filling me up, as a woman never twke anyones word, if I'm playing with a man outside my partner then I bring the condoms and I generally dont let them fuck from behind because they take it off | |||
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"'I prefer bare and will try with every woman just because it feels better and she might let me in the heat of the moment' Wrote no man on fab ever but I've heard that story from every woman I know. I practice safe sex. Condoms are one part of that risk assessment. Regular testing and knowing/trusting my partner's approach to safe sex is more important than just relying on a condom in my opinion. For example, it is, in my opinion, safer for me not to have sex, even with a condom, with a woman who fucks a lot of guys bare because if the condom breaks then I am exposed. Conversely if I am with someone who I've built up enough trust with that I know they will keep me safe then condoms aren't going to make us safer. The first sex party I ever went to led to me recieving multiple phone calls afterwards that they're had been an outbreak of gonorrhoea and I should get tested. I didn't fuck anyone that night because it was my first party so my clear test wasn't a big surprise but how did that happen? It happened because people prefer bare and build circles of trust. Once that circle gets wide enough the balance of probability increases the risk exponentially and I believe this is more common than anyone will write on fab. Nicely put and love the way a lot of guys here say they only use condoms but the truth is that, given the chance, 95% of guys would fuck without it, I can show hundreds of messages in my inbox with guys talking about breathing me and filling me up, as a woman never twke anyones word, if I'm playing with a man outside my partner then I bring the condoms and I generally dont let them fuck from behind because they take it off" Can't believe they take it off that'd disrespectful to the recipient its consensual but with protection can't see why people just don't wear them this day and age. | |||
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"'I prefer bare and will try with every woman just because it feels better and she might let me in the heat of the moment' " Well that coveres this week's bio update | |||
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"We just assume anyone is a potential cesspit of pathogens and act accordingly " Yep ![]() | |||
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"My wife tells me that it's more common that lads look to go in bare initially than those who automatically assume condoms will be used." It's so common that every pretty much every woman I've met has already assumed I want to go bare and didn't bring condoms so offers me one of hers to avoid any awkwardness. I bring my own because I only wear one brand/size but it always happens. This isn't to say that they're aren't women who are willing to risk it. There are and I have met women who don't mind and don't test and those women I don't fuck. | |||
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" Nicely put and love the way a lot of guys here say they only use condoms but the truth is that, given the chance, 95% of guys would fuck without it, I can show hundreds of messages in my inbox with guys talking about breathing me and filling me up, as a woman never twke anyones word, if I'm playing with a man outside my partner then I bring the condoms and I generally dont let them fuck from behind because they take it off Can't believe they take it off that'd disrespectful to the recipient its consensual but with protection can't see why people just don't wear them this day and age." It's not that its disrespectful...its that its sexual assault! | |||
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"Just wondering about people opinions on unprotected sex on fab? " Its not for us. If it is for others, then that's solely their decision. But they wouldn't be for us either! | |||
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"Just the other side of the coin we've all seen the female profiles that say safe sex only and yet have unprotected sex without an issue Its not just a male issue Part of the problem is that people are afraid to be honest especially in Ireland as it's a small world over here I've only ever seen one couple on here saying they only want sex with men that don't wear condoms Wouldn't it better if everyone was more honest about it In the UK forums there's a lot of couples and women saying they only have sex without condoms " I have to agree with this frim my experience so far, people need to be more straight foward but then in this cancel culture theses days saying the wrong thing can have a whole side of life shit down for you in moments | |||
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"'I prefer bare and will try with every woman just because it feels better and she might let me in the heat of the moment' Wrote no man on fab ever but I've heard that story from every woman I know. I practice safe sex. Condoms are one part of that risk assessment. Regular testing and knowing/trusting my partner's approach to safe sex is more important than just relying on a condom in my opinion. For example, it is, in my opinion, safer for me not to have sex, even with a condom, with a woman who fucks a lot of guys bare because if the condom breaks then I am exposed. Conversely if I am with someone who I've built up enough trust with that I know they will keep me safe then condoms aren't going to make us safer. The first sex party I ever went to led to me recieving multiple phone calls afterwards that they're had been an outbreak of gonorrhoea and I should get tested. I didn't fuck anyone that night because it was my first party so my clear test wasn't a big surprise but how did that happen? It happened because people prefer bare and build circles of trust. Once that circle gets wide enough the balance of probability increases the risk exponentially and I believe this is more common than anyone will write on fab. Nicely put and love the way a lot of guys here say they only use condoms but the truth is that, given the chance, 95% of guys would fuck without it, I can show hundreds of messages in my inbox with guys talking about breathing me and filling me up, as a woman never twke anyones word, if I'm playing with a man outside my partner then I bring the condoms and I generally dont let them fuck from behind because they take it off Can't believe they take it off that'd disrespectful to the recipient its consensual but with protection can't see why people just don't wear them this day and age." It's also a form of assault | |||
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"It is bonkers how these threads don't seem to ever have those who just admit they have bare sex, and yet so many are." My biggest fear in life is getting someone pregnant. So, STIs aside, I always use the Extra Safe condoms. But you're right though. In all my adventures over the years, it's astounding how many times I could have gone bare if I wanted to. | |||
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"It is bonkers how these threads don't seem to ever have those who just admit they have bare sex, and yet so many are. My biggest fear in life is getting someone pregnant. So, STIs aside, I always use the Extra Safe condoms. But you're right though. In all my adventures over the years, it's astounding how many times I could have gone bare if I wanted to." If your done having kids or you're sure you don't want any you could consider getting the snip. I never looked back after mine. It's great peace of mind and means I don't have to trust at anyone else when it comes to contraception. You might be able to relax with more accommodating rubbers. Just fyi I use Skyns and have never had one break. | |||
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"Just wondering about people opinions on unprotected sex on fab? " Absolute no no for me . I have however developed a fwb relationship over the last 3 years on here so we’ve made the exception for each other . But with anyone else , definitely no | |||
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"BB is obviously way hotter but unfortunately not worth the risk " Agree fully | |||
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"Always insist on safe sex even as far as condoms on when sucking or being sucked VERY few use condoms for oral, in fact I've never once seen it " I have, not often, but more than once. I don't mind. Either way. Never had an issue wearing condoms, and regular screenings are so easy these days. I have been asked would I feel comfortable playing if all parties showed recent & clean test results, again it's not often and it was with couples I have known and met with quite regularly. | |||
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"It's not even a conversation to be had for me. If you're not prepared to be considerate to others needs as well as your own then I don't want to know you. Safe sex is the default at all times for me. Why would I want chance my own wellbeing or anyone else for that matter?" Excellent answer and completely agree ! | |||
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"I just like to remind people when this thread pops up that Around one third of all people who get syphilis do so through having unprotected oral sex with no other vaginal or anal sex involved! Most people with syphilis don’t notice any symptoms and don’t know they have it." Jassssuuusssss ![]() | |||
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"You can't trust what people on here are telling you...so no, not a fan. " Bang on very true | |||
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"You can't trust what people on here are telling you...so no, not a fan. Bang on very true " Certainly when you add in the "straight" guys who are playing bare over on the sister site. | |||
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"I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again, I’ve no idea how men can watch their partners being filled by some rando from Fab, and then hop in straight after- never mind the chance of her getting pregnant but do they never worry about her or them getting riddled, like if rando is bare backing your wife/partner then they’ve BB’d others- anyhow each to their own, not yucking anyone’s yum…peace" Totally agree with you 💯 on the above statement It’s like a loaded gun with 5 live & 1 blank It only takes one shot You choose whether to pull the trigger or not They have no respect for their own health never mind anyone else . | |||
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"Protection is a must apart from oral.. so many here insist on bare so its a no no with me.." Jaffa quotes you've a high chance of Syhpilis from oral, that's why I refuse to do it | |||
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"Protection is a must apart from oral.. so many here insist on bare so its a no no with me.. Jaffa quotes you've a high chance of Syhpilis from oral, that's why I refuse to do it" I wouldn’t take my chancres! ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Just wondering about people opinions on unprotected sex on fab? " What are your guys thoughts on it?? | |||
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"With my partner I play without but with everyone else it's a must I have a few couples tell me that I should let them fuck me without condoms as it's too awkard and time consuming to put them on every time" "Time consuming" it literally takes less than 30 seconds.... anyone who says it's awkward or not fun are selfish cunts! Stay safe until you are checked or Ina long relationship...that's just my 2cents anyways. | |||
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"A young man messages me last week looking to know could he fill me up and impregment me funny enough he didn't reply when I asked him how he felt about geriatric pregnancy My special power is being a erection killer ![]() Did he want to go public or private?.. Like, does he understand the cost of cots and buggies these days. Some lads don't know what they're letting themselves in for!! | |||
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"A young man messages me last week looking to know could he fill me up and impregment me funny enough he didn't reply when I asked him how he felt about geriatric pregnancy My special power is being a erection killer ![]() I've been asked to be a sugar daddy and pay for cots and buggies with promise of sex when the baby is born ....blocked ![]() | |||
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"A young man messages me last week looking to know could he fill me up and impregment me funny enough he didn't reply when I asked him how he felt about geriatric pregnancy My special power is being a erection killer ![]() ![]() I do not think you understand what a sugar daddy is 🙃 | |||
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