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By *aybeLady OP   Woman
5 days ago

West Dublin

I've no one to hug me today and tell me it will be ok 😢😢

My twin sis is living abroad. Brothers are crap at these things anyway.

Only told 1 friend via text.

Times like this, being single sucks.

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By *otownkid1967Man
5 days ago

Portlaoise

Hope you are OK, sending you big hugs.

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By *ungry CatCouple
5 days ago

Belfast

It's all good in the end. If it's not good - it's not the end.

Whatever you're going through- it'll pass. Everything passes in due time, then we look back just remember how much it hurt that one time back in a day.

Hang on in there OP, it'll get better. It always does in one way or another ❤️

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By *aybeLady OP   Woman
5 days ago

West Dublin


"It's all good in the end. If it's not good - it's not the end.

Whatever you're going through- it'll pass. Everything passes in due time, then we look back just remember how much it hurt that one time back in a day.

Hang on in there OP, it'll get better. It always does in one way or another ❤️"

Not really in all cases. The end for me is 6ft under or held in an urn! 😬

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By *adger BrocMan
5 days ago

Co. Cork

Build your future life 1 🧱 at a time.

🤗🤗🤗

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By *om TangoMan
5 days ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

A part of me hates being single. Like this week for example I’m off on a weeks holiday and unfortunately bored out of my tits sitting about the house. Saturday nights home alone can a pain in the ass. But then I get thinking, could I give this lifestyle up and settle into a closed relationship. Nope. I’ve away to many friends in this lifestyle to turn my back to it. Maybe someday I might meet that special lady that would understand me.

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By * DareCouple
5 days ago

City


"I've no one to hug me today and tell me it will be ok 😢😢

My twin sis is living abroad. Brothers are crap at these things anyway.

Only told 1 friend via text.

Times like this, being single sucks. "

Sorry you’re having a crap day. Really hope it’s not too bad, it will be ok. Feel free to DM if you wanted to chat xxx 🤗 🤗 🤗

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By *antra MassageMan
5 days ago

Galway

If you're still there OP, sending you a virtual hug and a cuddle. I've been listening to your threads for a while, I can see your situation is not easy.

If I was beside you I'd tuck you in for the night, and give you a big kiss.

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By *entleGent13Man
5 days ago

Somewhere

Based upon what I've read here I'm really sorry to hear this.

I hope whatever your diagnosis the treatment goes well.

As others have said if you need support just ask. We are all human and need others from time to time.

Sending you my most positive thoughts.

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By *ofistimacatedMan
5 days ago

cavan town

Check out dunderry Park. This place and the people there absolutely changed my life, 15 years ago. You would absolutely find someone there who is going through what you are going through. It may not be "your thing" I didn't think it was mine until I went there.

Good luck 🤗

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By *INTMan
4 days ago

Minutes from Somewhere Else


"It's all good in the end. If it's not good - it's not the end.

Whatever you're going through- it'll pass. Everything passes in due time, then we look back just remember how much it hurt that one time back in a day.

Hang on in there OP, it'll get better. It always does in one way or another ❤️

Not really in all cases. The end for me is 6ft under or held in an urn! 😬"

This sounds incredibly serious.

Frighteningly so.

I truly wish for the best possible outcome for you. Call upon your Fab family when the others are out of reach.

If you need a hand, we're only a text away.

Strongs. ❤️

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By *aoirse NaughtyWoman
4 days ago

Cork


"It's all good in the end. If it's not good - it's not the end.

Whatever you're going through- it'll pass. Everything passes in due time, then we look back just remember how much it hurt that one time back in a day.

Hang on in there OP, it'll get better. It always does in one way or another ❤️

Not really in all cases. The end for me is 6ft under or held in an urn! 😬"

Virtual hugs for now but real ones if needed

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By *ezoMan
4 days ago

The Kingdom


"I've no one to hug me today and tell me it will be ok 😢😢

My twin sis is living abroad. Brothers are crap at these things anyway.

Only told 1 friend via text.

Times like this, being single sucks. "

Being single can be a pain at times I agree. Not sure what you're going through but I hope you have a friend you can reach out to.

Maybe the friend you texted will respond, or someone you can lean on comes your way.

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By *ingetMan
4 days ago

West Cork

Can meet you for dinner or a coffee with 24 hour notice.or just chat any time.

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By *e MasseurMan
4 days ago

lk


"I've no one to hug me today and tell me it will be ok 😢😢

My twin sis is living abroad. Brothers are crap at these things anyway.

Only told 1 friend via text.

Times like this, being single sucks. "

It's fucked up, I know.

I've been struggling with my mental health for the past days. It seems that everyone one that I love and care about has turned against me, while I'm trying had to be the best one for them.

I can't afford to be 6ft under. I have a little boy who I love the most and depends on me and only me.

Honestly,dsth is an illusion, the life problems are to be fixed in life. Any other exit is a lie and won't fix it.

I hope you find the strength you need. Everything will be okay, I really hope.

Remember, life problems are only fixed in life. You're stronger than this.

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By *om TangoMan
4 days ago

aughnacloy monaghan area


"I've no one to hug me today and tell me it will be ok 😢😢

My twin sis is living abroad. Brothers are crap at these things anyway.

Only told 1 friend via text.

Times like this, being single sucks. "

I’ve been thinking. I’m off work this week on holidays. I’m willing to jump on bus Friday and head your way. Take you for dinner or whatever. Don’t need nothing in return. Allow me to be that friend for the day.

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By *ungry CatCouple
4 days ago

Belfast


"It's all good in the end. If it's not good - it's not the end.

Whatever you're going through- it'll pass. Everything passes in due time, then we look back just remember how much it hurt that one time back in a day.

Hang on in there OP, it'll get better. It always does in one way or another ❤️

Not really in all cases. The end for me is 6ft under or held in an urn! 😬"

I'm in a same boat until doctors say otherwise. Find something to hold onto. Make a new routine and stick to it. Force yourself to get up and do something for yourself. Invite friends or family for dinner. Make plans for future. Work towards those plans. They found a cancerous tumour in my brain on Christmas day last year. I still don't know if it spread or shrunk. All I can do is wait and focus on the positive things in life and work towards the future, whatever it'll bring. One step at the time, just keep moving, keep yourself focused on things you enjoy. Being single is not that bad either - you don't have to pick up after anyone and have time to spare on hobbies, walks, friends and maybe even create a new life.

There will always be bad days, its just part of life, you just have to always believe that tomorrow will be better and push yourself to make it better ❤️

missus

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By *eadMeisterMan
4 days ago

near you...maybe


"I've no one to hug me today and tell me it will be ok 😢😢

My twin sis is living abroad. Brothers are crap at these things anyway.

Only told 1 friend via text.

Times like this, being single sucks. "

Could drive up to spend a few hours with you ...let me know okay.

🫂🫂🫂

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By *aybeLady OP   Woman
4 days ago

West Dublin


"I've no one to hug me today and tell me it will be ok 😢😢

My twin sis is living abroad. Brothers are crap at these things anyway.

Only told 1 friend via text.

Times like this, being single sucks.

I’ve been thinking. I’m off work this week on holidays. I’m willing to jump on bus Friday and head your way. Take you for dinner or whatever. Don’t need nothing in return. Allow me to be that friend for the day. "

Aw that is very sweet of you to offer xx

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By *aybeLady OP   Woman
4 days ago

West Dublin


"I've no one to hug me today and tell me it will be ok 😢😢

My twin sis is living abroad. Brothers are crap at these things anyway.

Only told 1 friend via text.

Times like this, being single sucks.

Could drive up to spend a few hours with you ...let me know okay.

🫂🫂🫂"

I appreciate the offer xx

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By *inky grandadMan
4 days ago

Spain


"I've no one to hug me today and tell me it will be ok 😢😢

My twin sis is living abroad. Brothers are crap at these things anyway.

Only told 1 friend via text.

Times like this, being single sucks.

"

. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Be strong and battle on and chat here or DM. Kind regards John

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By *ubblebeexxxMan
4 days ago

city centre

Sorry to hear this OP I know you're struggling with this but try and stay positive and hopefully good news will follow.

Chin up

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By *orklassWoman
4 days ago

Cork

Massive hugs to you xx

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By *ll4Man
3 days ago

Close but far

Be super strong trust me it passes, been in a few pot holes in my life and when I look back having being close to calling it a day it seems I'd be kicking myself for beaten myself up.

It all passes, nothing lasts forever, grab a pillow, hug it squeeze the shit if it cry on it and in time and trust me it will you will look back and go im super confident strong and am who I am and no one is gonna change me coz ur right in ur decisions and actions to be where you are today....

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By *ariaxxxxWoman
3 days ago

London / London / Dublin /

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By *ariaxxxxWoman
3 days ago

London / London / Dublin /


"It's all good in the end. If it's not good - it's not the end.

Whatever you're going through- it'll pass. Everything passes in due time, then we look back just remember how much it hurt that one time back in a day.

Hang on in there OP, it'll get better. It always does in one way or another ❤️

Not really in all cases. The end for me is 6ft under or held in an urn! 😬"

No, medicine is advancing all time, I'm sure you'll eating well...

.FFS Don't let it kill ya

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By *aybeLady OP   Woman
3 days ago

West Dublin

Thanks for all the replies.

Its been a mild flurry of phone calls & plans put in place.

Didnt sleep much on that night, shock horror. I'm uses to dealing with bad news so I feel sorry for myself that it can be a lonely existance but it sinks in & I focus on the task.

Having said that, I do have 2 seperate bunch of ladies who have been or are going through what I am so I know I can always reach out to them & I did ❤️

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By *ariaxxxxWoman
3 days ago

London / London / Dublin /


"Thanks for all the replies.

Its been a mild flurry of phone calls & plans put in place.

Didnt sleep much on that night, shock horror. I'm uses to dealing with bad news so I feel sorry for myself that it can be a lonely existance but it sinks in & I focus on the task.

Having said that, I do have 2 seperate bunch of ladies who have been or are going through what I am so I know I can always reach out to them & I did ❤️"

Yea ok,mind yourself,

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By *ooking2099Man
3 days ago

cork


"I've no one to hug me today and tell me it will be ok 😢😢

My twin sis is living abroad. Brothers are crap at these things anyway.

Only told 1 friend via text.

If you cant control it dont worry about it. It may seem like a bit idiotic, but in fairness we cant control lots of events that happen, so why stress over it

Times like this, being single sucks. "

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