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By *tevie-wonderboy OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Limerick

So this is for anyone who wants to share.

Wat would you do if you've confessed your love to someone and they reject you but u have no choice but to be around them. Yet each time you're around they do everything in their abilities to show u wat ur missing for example like falling asleep on the couch next to you wearing no underwear her ass pushed up in the air. Or bending over in front of you in a short skirt. Or final example leaving their shirt loose and leaning over u. How do u react cause I'm dying here

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
12 weeks ago

Cork

I wouldn't want to be near anyone like that.

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By *aybeLadyWoman
12 weeks ago

West Dublin

Sounds like they are playing games with you and your feelings.

I would distance myself from them tbh.

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By *eturning MGMan
12 weeks ago

mayo galway roscommon sligo....West Of Ireland

Sounds like they using you to massage their own ego. You need out of there. Not good for you.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
12 weeks ago

Castlebar

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By *he KakapoMan
12 weeks ago

A nice rock

They are either intentionally provoking you,

Or you are so infatuated you are seeing things that aren't really there.

Either way as everyone said above remove yourself from the situation asap

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By *rutus321Man
12 weeks ago

Offaly

That's not good for your mental health

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By *exyScientistsCouple
12 weeks ago

Castlebar


"They are either intentionally provoking you,

Or you are so infatuated you are seeing things that aren't really there.

Either way as everyone said above remove yourself from the situation asap "

This is true...maybe they genuinely don't think they are making things more difficult for you. Being in contact with someone that has rejected you will be tough for a long time...

But some people have no respect for other people's feelings. It will take longer to get over it for as long as you are exposed to it. If they are not empathetic to your feelings you have to see them for the person they are...and try to keep your distance as much as you can. Remind yourself that if they are not a nice person you deserve someone who doesn't treat you this way.

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By *iggles202Man
12 weeks ago

Clondalkin

Distance myself as much as possible that sounds like someone who just wants to annoy u and use ur feeling to hurt you it’s just sad

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By * DareCouple
12 weeks ago

….

Definitely go and get out of that environment 🏃

Things will get better then

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
12 weeks ago

The West

To many here letting the lady in question here off waaayyy too easy!

If she's the sort of person that launtd herself and sticks her arse in your face with no underwear on after already rejecting you, then, she's a bit of a cu^t!

Also. If she didn't reject you, she has narcissistic tendencies and very likely to be a bunny boiler. You've dodged a bullet here, lad....run!

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By *tevie-wonderboy OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Limerick

Like she is a great person and I've felt a connection there with her and from her before. But past few mnths she been off with me now there is this I dono I try to avoid her at all costs but hard when she is everywhere

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By *osh140Man
12 weeks ago

Dungannon

Sisters do that sometimes and don't realise their doing it

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By *rRiosMan
12 weeks ago

dublin


"Like she is a great person and I've felt a connection there with her and from her before. But past few mnths she been off with me now there is this I dono I try to avoid her at all costs but hard when she is everywhere "

Without sounding too harsh, if she is sleeping beside you on the couch you are not trying to avoid her imo. And if you have admitted feelings to her and she is behaving like this, she doesn’t respect your feelings very much. Hope you figure it out

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By *eturning MGMan
12 weeks ago

mayo galway roscommon sligo....West Of Ireland


"Like she is a great person and I've felt a connection there with her and from her before. But past few mnths she been off with me now there is this I dono I try to avoid her at all costs but hard when she is everywhere "

Sound like ye are married.....

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By *tevie-wonderboy OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Limerick

Not a married couple no I've managed to avoid her at all costs since late Feb but lately I been in situations where she is around and can't avoid her in a house

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By *aybeLadyWoman
12 weeks ago

West Dublin

I would therefore make even more of an effort not to be in the same space as her.

If she is doing what you say, she is just teasing you knowing how you feel. Its not right and she will continue to do it because you are allowing her to.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
12 weeks ago

Newry


"They are either intentionally provoking you,

Or you are so infatuated you are seeing things that aren't really there.

Either way as everyone said above remove yourself from the situation asap "

This.

It's easy to read too much into a person's actions when you're head over heels about them.

Conversely, if that's not the case, is she really the great person you say she is? Do you really want to be around someone who can behave in such a shitty manner to someone who has been open about their feelings and left themselves emotionally vulnerable? A person who shows no compassion, no empathy? If this woman is truly behaving like this, she is not your friend. Know your worth & remove her from your life

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By *iresmillyWoman
12 weeks ago

Stillorgan

She’s a mickey tease and is feeding of your feelings for her. She is the worst of women if she is doing this on purpose. Call her out on it- if she bends over in front of you again call her out and tell her to work on her modesty, if you see her without underwear throw a coat over her and tell her to grow up. Don’t let her fuck with your head. You deserve better, we all do

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
12 weeks ago

Portstewart

Sounds like she is getting her kicks outta teasing you honestly the best thing you can do is run far away as she will cause you trouble. God forbid she tries to accuse you of being inappropriate and it would ruin your life.

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By *aradeaneWoman
12 weeks ago

gorey

Why are you both sleeping on the same couch and she has no underwear on? Sorry this sounds very silly. Get out. Now.

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