FabSwingers.com forum: Feeld membership

By *upermanslovechild OP Man
over a year ago

Killiney

Anyone use Feeld frequently enough to know if the membership is worth it or just stick to picking a cheap fecked and not pay it?

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By *mmortalbMan
over a year ago

kildare

Was just thinking of posting a similar post. I've been using it to no avail, like you, wondering if it's worth paying for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally not worth it.

There's not enough of a user base for their to be really any advantages.

If someone likes your profile you can see the name and just swipe through the stack until you find that name.

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By *mmortalbMan
over a year ago

kildare

"Totally not worth it.

There's not enough of a user base for their to be really any advantages.

If someone likes your profile you can see the name and just swipe through the stack until you find that name."

Was thinking this. Thought maybe being able to ping would help. Ireland is still growing it seems, not as open minded yet

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By *upermanslovechild OP Man
over a year ago

Killiney

Yeah makes sense, seems to be more of a mainland European app

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Totally not worth it.

There's not enough of a user base for their to be really any advantages.

If someone likes your profile you can see the name and just swipe through the stack until you find that name.

Was thinking this. Thought maybe being able to ping would help. Ireland is still growing it seems, not as open minded yet"

As far as I can see there's even less users on it this year than last year. Maybe Dublin might be worth it but in Galway it's a barren wasteland

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By *mmortalbMan
over a year ago

kildare

Not sure, I'm kildare, not far off Dublin and no luck. But, that said, I just might not be there cup of tea hahaha and that's ok. I'll be up at some kink events so I'll ask some of the people there what their opinions are of it.

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By *om TangoMan
over a year ago

Tedavnet Co.Monaghan

Definitely not worth it here in Monaghan.

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By *isterWhistleMan
over a year ago

Limerick & Dublin

I’ve found it great in cities. Don’t pay for it and haven’t felt the need to pay its growing all the time too.

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By *upermanslovechild OP Man
over a year ago

Killiney

Debatable that's it's growing, I thinking it's just the tourist coming here that happen to have it

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Sallins

I had never even heard of it until this post, for info.

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By *antam AvershiresMan
over a year ago

Visiting

It's pretty dire in London.

I have the membership but at least 80%+ of the people I like don't have it so they'll not see who is from.

The app itself is a bit of a dumpster fire in terms of usability.

Should really have a feature where paid members see other paid members as a priority and better exclusion criteria.

It's all well and good me saying I don't want to search for single males but it should also block women who have categorically said they don't want matching with men for example.

Friend in the US swears by it and I do get more matches when I'm in Italy using it too.

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By *ilentnoiseMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've found it to be pretty poor in Ireland, but maybe that's because I'm a single guy. When I have connected with people, they generally seem to be quite inexperienced and very 'new' to the whole swinging / threesome scene. Nothing wrong with that, but prefer Fab because more experienced people who understand the dynamics involved a lot better.

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By *upermanslovechild OP Man
over a year ago

Killiney

"I've found it to be pretty poor in Ireland, but maybe that's because I'm a single guy. When I have connected with people, they generally seem to be quite inexperienced and very 'new' to the whole swinging / threesome scene. Nothing wrong with that, but prefer Fab because more experienced people who understand the dynamics involved a lot better."

In fairness that's roughly the same experience I've had as well.

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By *iery FemaleWoman
over a year ago

Louth

It's atrocious! I had the paid membership last year & found it to be a total waste of money.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

It’s shite for women too. It’s full of men who can’t handle the thought of a woman being more sexually experienced than them.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

"It’s shite for women too. It’s full of men who can’t handle the thought of a woman being more sexually experienced than them. "

That's likely not Feeld exclusive though.

Many guys are threatened by women with more experience than them.

Call it Bravado or whatever, it's ridiculous in this day and age.

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

North Cork

As long as you're not a Yank or a donkey you'll be ok.

Ooops sorry, that's the other Field....

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

a village near you.

There is nobody from Leitrim, Sligo, and Mayo on Feeld.

I was on it last year, and when I narrowed down my preferences, just a handful of profiles came up.

It's not working in Ireland.

Fxtxlifx is better, there's a large Ireland community on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t think it’s worth investing in in Ireland

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By *ealthMan
over a year ago

Tallaght

Fxtxlifx What platform is that couldn’t find the domain

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By *upermanslovechild OP Man
over a year ago

Killiney

"There is nobody from Leitrim, Sligo, and Mayo on Feeld.

I was on it last year, and when I narrowed down my preferences, just a handful of profiles came up.

It's not working in Ireland.

Fxtxlifx is better, there's a large Ireland community on it. "

I found the people are there very hypocritical though, they'd criticize you/your profile and then when you would say anything back to them, "How dare you judge someone without even knowing them/what their life is like". When I'd point out to them that's literally what they just did to me, I'd be told that's different etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newbie to Feeld but interested to try.

Is it possible to maintain anonymity on there (e.g. no face pic initially) or is it more like traditional dating apps in that respect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can post anonymous pictures. A lot of profiles just have random pics of landscapes or deserts haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't pay for it. As others have said, it's a terrible glitchy app. I've had matches and whole message threads disappear. And I know it wasn't an unmatch, because I matched with the person again and both of us had had the same experience of a load of chats disappearing.

And yeah, not many active profiles on. I've had some nice chats with people when I do match, but it's a lot of admin for very little craic. Here or fet are your best bet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't pay for it. As others have said, it's a terrible glitchy app. I've had matches and whole message threads disappear. And I know it wasn't an unmatch, because I matched with the person again and both of us had had the same experience of a load of chats disappearing.

And yeah, not many active profiles on. I've had some nice chats with people when I do match, but it's a lot of admin for very little craic. Here or fet are your best bet."

Thanks for the info - appreciate it

(Assume it's as tough an environment for single guys as any dating / social app but useful to learn a bit before investing time in it).

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By *ealthMan
over a year ago

Tallaght

Fxtxlifx what site is this pls

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By *mmortalbMan
over a year ago

kildare

"Fxtxlifx what site is this pls"

Take the middle x away, and add e for the others.

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By *mmortalbMan
over a year ago

kildare

I bought pings to see 🙈 f that helped, waste of money

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By *ACOLCouple
over a year ago

Cork

"Fxtxlifx what site is this pls"

Is like Facebook bit for kinks and so on.

Lina.

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By *ealthMan
over a year ago

Tallaght

Can you please type out the correct website out for me, couldn’t write u in private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would be blocked if we typed the name here

f3tl1f3

If 3s are e’s can you work it out?

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By *ACOLCouple
over a year ago

Cork

6th on the alphabet, 5th on the alphabet, 20th on the alphabet of life.

Lina.

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim

F3t is a lot of fun. But it's not for finding sex. It's set up to not be a dating app. Even the founder states that in the blurb. It's more like a sex positive FB but you can also be exposed to some extreme kinks. Also many kinks are platonic or asexual not necessarily sexual.

F33ld was successful for me once in Dublin where you have the higher population density and I got lucky with a really nice person. Later I paid for the app, it was a waste of time. The available profiles in my area where 5 people and not one of them I'd want to get to know.

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By *hePixieAndTheBearCouple
over a year ago

Galway

"F3t is a lot of fun. But it's not for finding sex. It's set up to not be a dating app. Even the founder states that in the blurb. It's more like a sex positive FB but you can also be exposed to some extreme kinks. Also many kinks are platonic or asexual not necessarily sexual."

So much this. It's a lot more about expressing yourself and discussing one's deranged brain with fellow degenerates than anything.

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By *M316Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Couldn’t get the hang og F3tlyf3 myself found it very complicated and outdated but I’d say fab needs major updating too. An app would bring it into this century

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Thanks for this thread I did think the app was pretty useless and not enough users.

If there are any 3 sum hunters on this thread have you any suggestions for finding 3 sums or is fab the best place to look?

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

As a single man, i find it better than here to make connections,well ,easier to initiate conversations at least .

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"It’s shite for women too. It’s full of men who can’t handle the thought of a woman being more sexually experienced than them. "
I believe they can be I like the thought of a women being more experienced than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"As a single man, i find it better than here to make connections,well ,easier to initiate conversations at least ."

Understand that

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By *asheaMan
51 weeks ago

Killarney

It's crap. Was on it before. Had one girl from dingle chatting to me and she just stop. Very poor app with trying to make any connection but that's down to the people

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

As others have said not worth it in Ireland. Had a lot more success with it when I was over in England. It's actually pretty decent over there.

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By *annyZ100Man
51 weeks ago

Sligo

Waste of money. Just doesn't have enough users here.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Any one else confirm this?

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