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By *ornywife20 OP   Couple
16 weeks ago

North Cork

There are some really nice genuine single guys on here .

We met a few lovely guys at a social last weekend and reconnected with a guy we met a while back .

It's a pity there is a minority who ruin it for the majority of them .

Having said that most of the assholes hide behind their keyboard and never venture out to the real world.

So here is a shout out to all the nice single guys out there. Don't give up get to socials, clubs and parties. And hopefully you will be rewarded .

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By *affa31Woman
16 weeks ago

Galway

There’s loads of great guys here.

Nobody ruins anything for anyone else except themselves.

The cockwombles make it easier for the great guys to stand out!

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By *iscuits8Man
16 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

"Boobies for Biscuits"

"Really nice genuine guys"

It's just flattering being the inspiration for threads on here sometimes 🥰😇

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Definitely some really genuine nice guys on here

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By *og-ManMan
16 weeks ago

somewhere


""Boobies for Biscuits"

"Really nice genuine guys"

It's just flattering being the inspiration for threads on here sometimes 🥰😇"

Not forgetting the usual Linden wins Biscuits in a Jaffa auction thread

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By *iscuits8Man
16 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


""Boobies for Biscuits"

"Really nice genuine guys"

It's just flattering being the inspiration for threads on here sometimes 🥰😇

Not forgetting the usual Linden wins Biscuits in a Jaffa auction thread "

Oh god you just reminded me it's almost a week since I last checked on him in the attic

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By *og-ManMan
16 weeks ago

somewhere


""Boobies for Biscuits"

"Really nice genuine guys"

It's just flattering being the inspiration for threads on here sometimes 🥰😇

Not forgetting the usual Linden wins Biscuits in a Jaffa auction thread

Oh god you just reminded me it's almost a week since I last checked on him in the attic"

Did you move him out of the basement because of the good weather

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By *argus12Man
16 weeks ago

meath dublin

Some do spoil it for the genuine

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By *exyScientistsCouple
16 weeks ago

Castlebar

There are absolutely some great single guys on here. I judge everyone on their own merits and certainly wouldn't rule them.out based on the behaviour of the not so nice ones.

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By *INTMan
16 weeks ago

Minutes from Somewhere Else


"Don't give up get to socials, clubs and parties. And hopefully you will be rewarded ."

I go to socials, clubs & parties mostly to have a good time, just as I would in the vanilla world. Sometimes you meet someone, sometimes you don't. What's important is to be true to yourself and not have any preconceived ideas.

I go to have a pint, have a dance, have a laugh, to be friendly and open to new people and experiences.

The good time is it's own reward which is why, I think, so many people emphasize how much they enjoy the social side of the scene.

Anything beyond that is a bonus.

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By *affa31Woman
16 weeks ago

Galway


"Some do spoil it for the genuine "

Who? I’ve never discounted a guy based on the actions of another guy.

It’s a poor excuse 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *og-ManMan
16 weeks ago

somewhere

Some blokes only ruin it for themselves and not every other bloke

Socials are still the easiest way to meet women and couples

You can write thousands of messages and get nowhere

You can turn up to a social and start meeting people which I personally think is easier

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By *he boy next door300Man
16 weeks ago

MAGHERAFELT


"There are some really nice genuine single guys on here .

We met a few lovely guys at a social last weekend and reconnected with a guy we met a while back .

It's a pity there is a minority who ruin it for the majority of them

Having said that most of the assholes hide behind their keyboard and never venture out to the real world.

So here is a shout out to all the nice single guys out there. Don't give up get to socials, clubs and parties. And hopefully you will be rewarded ."

Hurray! Nice that someone such as yourself is standing up for the genuine nice guys!

* wipes tear from eye*

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
16 weeks ago

ireland

Agree ,there are some fantastic single guys here ,agree with the comments above tho ,the not so great single guys dont ruin it for anyone but themselves and makes the good guys look even better imo !

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By *avie tCouple
16 weeks ago

otherside of nowhere

I agree and we have met some of the best.....but if people have been let down with no shows or other nonsense it kinda dampens the enthusiasm at times.. so no they don't spoil it but it can stop people engaging especially if your newish to the lifestyle

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
16 weeks ago

Galway, Clare


"Some do spoil it for the genuine "

No, they really don't.

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By *nickerDropperGlory69Man
16 weeks ago

cavan town

I think a lot of guys blame other guys as a cop out for not "doing well" on here. Leading to a lack of effort on their part.

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By *ohnsmithMan
16 weeks ago

South Tipperary

We are a like hen's teeth....

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By *om TangoMan
16 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area


"Some blokes only ruin it for themselves and not every other bloke

Socials are still the easiest way to meet women and couples

You can write thousands of messages and get nowhere

You can turn up to a social and start meeting people which I personally think is easier "

I fully agree. I’ve only ever got 2 meetings from on here. You send a nice message and it’s gets you no where. Go to a social and you mostly can at least get a coffee meeting out of it. I do enjoy a chat over a coffee so it works well for me. Thankfully I’m very lucky to have a small circle of fab friends around me that keep me in line. And by god they have their hands fully with me. Lol

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By *erydiscreet777Man
16 weeks ago

Dublin 22

nice post

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By *entleGent13Man
16 weeks ago

Somewhere

"Dont be a dick" is my yardstick.

It's great to meet new people who are on that sane planet as you.

Doesn't matter who they are or what walk of life...it's what they say and do that counts.

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By *ornywife20 OP   Couple
16 weeks ago

North Cork

When we joined fab first there was a lot of entitled single guys on the forum just constantly giving out about not getting the sex they thought they would instantly get.

I must hold my hands up and say

It did put us off single guys initially I must admit we were new and nieve and we didn't realise that this was just a tiny minority. Glad to say we now the truth.

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By *electableicecreamMan
16 weeks ago

The West

The muppets set the bar so low I limbo under it on my way to meets.

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By *astelloWoman
16 weeks ago

Far far away

I completely agree. Some amazingly lovely guys here. Just finding the rare few is hard.

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By *ionycusMan
16 weeks ago

Babylon

Nice guys, who really wants a nice guy ?

Genuine, what exactly does that mean?

Rewarded, in what way?

I understand that there are numerous people on here that upset others with their opinions and outlook, because they don't align. This doesn't mean they are not nice , and it certainly doesn't mean they aren't genuine, because; to hold your opinion in the face of backlash, is about as genuine as you get in my book.

As for rewarded, this triggers me in so many ways. Whenever I might have gotten a puppy, I would try to teach them how to behave, if they did something I wanted them to do , I would reward them. I do not aim to be anyone's, nice guy or puppy.

I am unapologetically myself.

I am very nice to people I like, I am certainly genuine, and I believe in reciprocation and equality.

Now , I understand that the OP was just happy to have met some nice single guys at the weekend,and for that I am happy, you have some great verifications and obviously live the life. Celebrating is good, but the drivel and nonsense that followed makes my dinner move back up my throat.

X

Peace ✌️

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By *upermanslovechildMan
16 weeks ago

Kiliney

Yeah pity we're all tarred with the same brush. I've had some couples simply refuse to talk to me because of their previous poor encounters or should I say ghosters. I've even had some couples who I've previously got on well with but just not organiser a meet up yet, refuse to meet, again because of previous history.

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By *electableicecreamMan
16 weeks ago

The West


"Yeah pity we're all tarred with the same brush. I've had some couples simply refuse to talk to me because of their previous poor encounters or should I say ghosters. I've even had some couples who I've previously got on well with but just not organiser a meet up yet, refuse to meet, again because of previous history."

I would say that's more of a reflection on those couples than anything else tbh.

Anyone sufficiently motivated can figure out how to use fab to find people they are compatible with.

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By *j TruckerMan
16 weeks ago

monaghan

There are far too many keyboard warriors on here and judges and juries before they even get a chance to speak to a person that's just my opinion

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By *nickerDropperGlory69Man
16 weeks ago

cavan town


"

Anyone sufficiently motivated can figure out how to use fab to find people they are compatible with."

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By *s LollyWoman
16 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

There are some lovely guys on here my problem is finding them 🤷 if anyone could point 👉 me in the right direction mucho appreciato 😁

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago


"There are some lovely guys on here my problem is finding them 🤷 if anyone could point 👉 me in the right direction mucho appreciato 😁"

Oh look your on top again 😂😂

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By *s LollyWoman
16 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"There are some lovely guys on here my problem is finding them 🤷 if anyone could point 👉 me in the right direction mucho appreciato 😁

Oh look your on top again 😂😂"

Tell the truth ye only love it😝😉

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago


"There are some lovely guys on here my problem is finding them 🤷 if anyone could point 👉 me in the right direction mucho appreciato 😁

Oh look your on top again 😂😂

Tell the truth ye only love it😝😉"

Id love it more if ya really were 🥵

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By *avie tCouple
16 weeks ago

otherside of nowhere


"

Anyone sufficiently motivated can figure out how to use fab to find people they are compatible with. "

Agree completely.....

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By *s LollyWoman
16 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"There are some lovely guys on here my problem is finding them 🤷 if anyone could point 👉 me in the right direction mucho appreciato 😁

Oh look your on top again 😂😂

Tell the truth ye only love it😝😉

Id love it more if ya really were 🥵"

Dreams do cum through 😉

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By *eestar10Man
16 weeks ago

cavan

Some one looking me??

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
16 weeks ago

Home

Be nice and join the forums and don't insult people and hopefully people will realize you might be a nice fella

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago


"There are some lovely guys on here my problem is finding them 🤷 if anyone could point 👉 me in the right direction mucho appreciato 😁

Oh look your on top again 😂😂

Tell the truth ye only love it😝😉

Id love it more if ya really were 🥵

Dreams do cum through 😉"

A dream lolly 🤤🤤

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By *errardNo8Man
16 weeks ago

Galway/Mayo


"There are some lovely guys on here my problem is finding them 🤷 if anyone could point 👉 me in the right direction mucho appreciato 😁"

I'm right behind ya in supermacs

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Actions of a few really make it difficult for anyone genuine here

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By *he KakapoMan
16 weeks ago

A nice rock

Can we please stop telling people to behave better.

I can look like a vaguely normal decent human on here with minimum effort because of the comparisons.

I do not want to have to make an effort thanks.

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By *affa31Woman
16 weeks ago

Galway

Anyone describing themselves as a “nice guy” raises red flags for me tbh.

The self described nice guys often just think they know what people want to hear.

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By *electableicecreamMan
16 weeks ago

The West


"Anyone describing themselves as a “nice guy” raises red flags for me tbh.

The self described nice guys often just think they know what people want to hear. "

It's funny because describing a woman as 'nice' can be problematic for a whole different bunch of reasons

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By *antra MassageMan
16 weeks ago

Galway


"Anyone describing themselves as a “nice guy” raises red flags for me tbh.

The self described nice guys often just think they know what people want to hear. "

"Nice guy" is a perception others might have of me. I'm decent, kind, understanding, a good listener. It's not a term I use to describe myself, though..I'm just a sound bloke...

But, in common parlance we all know what it means.

An interesting thread.

I'm flying a sea of green flags today.

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago


"There’s loads of great guys here.

Nobody ruins anything for anyone else except themselves.

The cockwombles make it easier for the great guys to stand out!"

😂😂😂cockwombles😂😂😂

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By *ornywife20 OP   Couple
16 weeks ago

North Cork


"Anyone describing themselves as a “nice guy” raises red flags for me tbh.

The self described nice guys often just think they know what people want to hear. "

There us a different thread running where a guy claims to be a really nice guy.

This thread is just a shout out to guys we have met and chatted to and my way of describing them is as Nice genuine guys . As in not assholes .

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By *nickerDropperGlory69Man
16 weeks ago

cavan town

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By *nickerDropperGlory69Man
16 weeks ago

cavan town


"Anyone describing themselves as a “nice guy” raises red flags for me tbh.

The self described nice guys often just think they know what people want to hear.

There us a different thread running where a guy claims to be a really nice guy.

This thread is just a shout out to guys we have met and chatted to and my way of describing them is as Nice genuine guys . As in not assholes . "

Sorry for piggybacking off this thread. My only aim on here on the forum is to make connections. To get to know people and to let people know me( as much as is possible on this platform) so that at future socials, if we meet, we are not so much strangers. My post was a lighthearted way of getting a few conversations going. Was never meant to derail this post.

-Sofistimacated John-

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By *lack FridayMan
16 weeks ago

Galway

I have read some of the awful stuff that women have been sent by guys.

Some was outright disgusting and indeed possibly criminal.

No person deserves to get abused verbally, threatened and treated with contempt.

It is very easy for them to be brave behind a keyboard and scare others, particularly ladies.

Would they do so in public or at home? - I doubt it very much.

On each occasion I found it very embarrassing, as a male that another male would do and say such things to a female.

The women on here are, in my opinion, very brave people.

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By *rish sissy cum slutTV/TS
16 weeks ago

cork

Wow ye change yer mind fast I can remember a few months back ye took a dig at single people saying they shouldn't be on here and ye got some back lash lol but now they are all lovely

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By *eroLondonMan
16 weeks ago

Mayfair

Bumping this for the gentlemen, the gentle fellows, the jolly good citizens, the Knight-errants and chivalric menfolk. † ⚔️ †

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By *littlebitoffunMan
16 weeks ago

east antrim


"Agree ,there are some fantastic single guys here ,agree with the comments above tho ,the not so great single guys dont ruin it for anyone but themselves and makes the good guys look even better imo !"

Thank you double trouble

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By *xstevenxxMan
16 weeks ago

dublin

Always nice to be complimented on all one can have is a good name on here

As was drilled into me from my youth - manners cost nothing so why not use them at every chance in life, they make you go a long way in life

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By *electableicecreamMan
16 weeks ago

The West


"

The women on here are, in my opinion, very brave people."

Having a knob is gender specific. Being one isn't.

Shout to all my penis weilding non knobheads!

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By *ealitybitesMan
16 weeks ago

Belfast


"I have read some of the awful stuff that women have been sent by guys.

Some was outright disgusting and indeed possibly criminal.

No person deserves to get abused verbally, threatened and treated with contempt.

It is very easy for them to be brave behind a keyboard and scare others, particularly ladies.

Would they do so in public or at home? - I doubt it very much.

On each occasion I found it very embarrassing, as a male that another male would do and say such things to a female.

The women on here are, in my opinion, very brave people."

I'm not even slightly embarrassed for the actions of others regardless of gender.

Why should I be?

What other people do on here or in life in general is no reflection on me. I'm only responsible for my own actions.

I would never think of saying I was embarrassed for all the shitty drivers on the road just because I'm also a driver so why would I apply a different rule here?

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By *eroLondonMan
16 weeks ago

Mayfair


"I have read some of the awful stuff that women have been sent by guys.

Some was outright disgusting and indeed possibly criminal.

No person deserves to get abused verbally, threatened and treated with contempt.

It is very easy for them to be brave behind a keyboard and scare others, particularly ladies.

Would they do so in public or at home? - I doubt it very much.

On each occasion I found it very embarrassing, as a male that another male would do and say such things to a female.

The women on here are, in my opinion, very brave people."

At least you didn't do the unthinkable and apologise on the behalf of all men. Thank goodness.

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By *indenMan
16 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


""Boobies for Biscuits"

"Really nice genuine guys"

It's just flattering being the inspiration for threads on here sometimes 🥰😇

Not forgetting the usual Linden wins Biscuits in a Jaffa auction thread

Oh god you just reminded me it's almost a week since I last checked on him in the attic"

Thanks for switching the WiFi back on…..😘👍

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