FabSwingers.com forum: Hey. Hi. Sup. Etc...

By (user no longer on site) OP
16 weeks ago

Do people really reply to these first messages? 🤔

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By *radseman.jayMan
16 weeks ago

allover

Hi 😉whats seldom is wonderful lol you have to start a message with some sort of greeting 😊

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By *rakesterlingMan
16 weeks ago

Dublin

"Do people really reply to these first messages? 🤔"

Ah look, some people are just awkward, and generally socially inept... It takes a bit of time for them to open up and loosen up.

Personally I do my best to establish a conversation with anyone interested in doing the same with me.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
16 weeks ago

Newry

Depends who is sending the message and what their profile is like

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By *rakesterlingMan
16 weeks ago

Dublin

"Depends who is sending the message and what their profile is like"

Joey from Friends...

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By *entleGent13Man
16 weeks ago

Somewhere

I'd do the polite thing and say hello back. It's up to them from there as to how they act.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
16 weeks ago

kinkytown

We don't. We consider it laziness and have found in the past it's like pulling teeth talking to people who send them

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
16 weeks ago

Newry

"Depends who is sending the message and what their profile is like

Joey from Friends...

How YOU doin'?

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By *cotsguyyMan
16 weeks ago

Belfast

"Do people really reply to these first messages? 🤔"

Do people really send them?

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

well I'd reply to sny lady that showed interest. one letter is enough. even a wink would do. no point in writing essays if there's no attraction

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By *altsman88Man
16 weeks ago

athlone

"Depends who is sending the message and what their profile is like

Joey from Friends...

How YOU doin'?

lol that should do it

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By *eanRMan
16 weeks ago

Dublin 9

"Do people really reply to these first messages? 🤔"

Why not send me one and see

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
16 weeks ago

ireland

"Depends who is sending the message and what their profile is like"

This ^^

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By *P_80Man
16 weeks ago

Waterford

Generally if I receive an opening message like that, it usually comes from a profile that explicitly says to make an effort in first message. Those ones I won't reply to. It comes of as arrogant to me and I actually have 3 messages in my inbox at the moment that I haven't replied to because of this.

I understand as much as anyone that an opening message isn't an easy thing to construct so it really depends on the profile whether I reply or not.

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By *ittycouple4funCouple
15 weeks ago

stillorgan

We don't reply. It's just laziness.

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By *agneyandhutchCouple
15 weeks ago

lucan

No, we don't reply. If there's that little effort put in to break the ice, it doesn't bode well.

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By *rystalsswingCouple
15 weeks ago

Up the Road / Galway/ Midlands

"We don't reply. It's just laziness. "

👍👍

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By *leasurer77Man
15 weeks ago

Athlone

"Do people really reply to these first messages? 🤔"

The better question is why anyone would send a message to a profile with almost no information on it?

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
15 weeks ago

Cork

This is why I send my intricate review of the previous nights fair city episode. Nothing gets a woman hotter.

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By *allDarkHandsome101Man
15 weeks ago

City

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By *irishladMan
15 weeks ago

North County Dublin

I wonder how many in this treas got a "hi" since posting

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By *exyScientistsCouple
15 weeks ago

Castlebar

Not a hope...

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By *tagandvixenniCouple
15 weeks ago

County Antrim

Nope just get deleted

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By *razyNippleLoverMan
15 weeks ago

Back End of Beyond

I got a "H" once to lazy even for the i ,

I replied with an "N" and they got upset !!!

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By *s LollyWoman
15 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

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By *iCuri0Man
15 weeks ago

Shannon

I'll answer anyone if they have a profile pic and don't start with a dic pic

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By *hePixieAndTheBearCouple
15 weeks ago

Galway

We don't, and say so in the profile. It's a bit annoying at times when it comes from a profile we kinda like, but it's just not an engaging start and it doesn't exactly leave much of a hook for an interesting reply.

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By *j TruckerMan
15 weeks ago

monaghan

Some people want to play to a simple hello and others wouldn't reply to a 5,000 word novel lol everybody is different and to each their own

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By *hePixieAndTheBearCouple
15 weeks ago

Galway

"Some people want to play to a simple hello and others wouldn't reply to a 5,000 word novel lol everybody is different and to each their own"

Absolutely. Not everyone has a words kink, and that's alright. But here, just gimme those 5000 words already... 🥵

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By *uy9745Man
15 weeks ago

Carrigaline

Think it's laziness, if your not going to put effort into a message why should I reply to you. Even a simple hi how are you? Is much better and likely to get a response

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By *hantomfemmeWoman
15 weeks ago

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I will always reply to a 1 worder with a 1 worder

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By * DareCouple
15 weeks ago

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No we don’t… hard to even know what to say back except a another hi in return ….so no we don’t bother

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