FabSwingers.com forum: The audacity 🤣

By *odest9inch OP Man
16 weeks ago

Leitrim longford meath westmeath roscommon..sligo.. pick

I'm noticing a lot of this of late.First off, Fab, great, I'm on it a good while now and i always considered it a ladies world, rightly so, no harm..blokes a plenty. Ladies should be able to pick and choose, It might force lads to perform the best mating dance!

But to my point, the amount of couples/females, no public photos,or one of a foot, no verifications or 1 from 9 months ago from someone who met them for a coffee.

They're on this site 12 months or 2 years and the tagine the choose is "No face pic, No reply"

Are these people meeting people?

I understand some don't like extra veris but I don't think it's the case here..

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By *ittycouple4funCouple
16 weeks ago

stillorgan

I think it's dreamer husbands that haven't persuaded the wife to take the plunge.

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By *odest9inch OP Man
16 weeks ago

Leitrim longford meath westmeath roscommon..sligo.. pick

Yes..thanks for the reply..that is not a bad shout at all.

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By *otownkid1967Man
16 weeks ago

Portlaoise

A lot of single blokes claim to be part of a couple chancing their arm .

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By *ohn Doe 1000Man
16 weeks ago

lanesbouragh

"A lot of single blokes claim to be part of a couple chancing their arm ."

This one.. a female friend has noticed this on many occasions.. fake couple with just the male available

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By *odest9inch OP Man
16 weeks ago

Leitrim longford meath westmeath roscommon..sligo.. pick

Fair enough,that would account for a lot of it..

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By *apmCouple
16 weeks ago

navan

It’s unreal how many wives of couples are at a hen night or choir practice but the man is available

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By *exyScientistsCouple
16 weeks ago

Castlebar

All the fake profiles we have encountered claim to be a couple and send pictures too. I'm not sure why they think they come across as genuine. If you are a real couple its easy to get verifications so anyone without or hidden ones are usually fake.

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By *arbles00Man
16 weeks ago

Area 54

"All the fake profiles we have encountered claim to be a couple and send pictures too. I'm not sure why they think they come across as genuine. If you are a real couple its easy to get verifications so anyone without or hidden ones are usually fake. "

This is very true

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
16 weeks ago

Cork

It might limit the amount of possible meets but if a profile asks for a face pic but:

1. Hasn't been verified by people you trust

2. Haven't been to a social

Or 3. Don't have a face pic

Just don't bother with them. Like how single men on here can feel entitled to sex, these people feel entitled. It might sound harsh but from what I've heard of people laughing about others appearances ect. It's the best option.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
16 weeks ago

Portstewart

You also get people who accuse couples with a reasonable selection of veris that there fake so that they take the eye off themselves. And we get asked why we don't meet anyone for fun unless we've met someone for a cuppa and chat with us both before even offering a play meet

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By *ild WomanWoman
16 weeks ago

carlow

Yeah does be lot of guys saying a couple but if a couple I meet both or not at all. So couple on profile that's what I expect and nothing else.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
16 weeks ago

Portstewart

What is your opinions on for instance turning someone down for them to immediately reply I've a friend of the opposite sex I can bring along with me just let me at your wife

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
16 weeks ago

Newry

"What is your opinions on for instance turning someone down for them to immediately reply I've a friend of the opposite sex I can bring along with me just let me at your wife "

Desperados. The sudden appearance of an extra person (who probably doesn't even know they've been offered as a sweetener) doesn't make me want to ride someone I previously didn't want to ride 🤷

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
16 weeks ago

Newry

"I'm noticing a lot of this of late.First off, Fab, great, I'm on it a good while now and i always considered it a ladies world, rightly so, no harm..blokes a plenty. Ladies should be able to pick and choose, It might force lads to perform the best mating dance!

But to my point, the amount of couples/females, no public photos,or one of a foot, no verifications or 1 from 9 months ago from someone who met them for a coffee.

They're on this site 12 months or 2 years and the tagine the choose is "No face pic, No reply"

Are these people meeting people?

I understand some don't like extra veris but I don't think it's the case here.."

They could well be, although probably not.

If people want to ask for a face photo from the off - regardless of what they themselves choose to show publicly - and that's not something you're prepared to do, then you're not compatible. There's nothing to be be gained by trying to figure out the whys and wherefores.

And lastly - everyone can pick and choose. It's not something exclusive to women here.

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

"It might limit the amount of possible meets but if a profile asks for a face pic but:

1. Hasn't been verified by people you trust

2. Haven't been to a social

Or 3. Don't have a face pic

THIS!!

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By *adhatter and coCouple
16 weeks ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Some of us have socks and shoes that we want to show off hence the foot photo

But seriously we don’t ask for face pics and we don’t send ours either

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By *rystalsswingCouple
16 weeks ago

Up the Road / Galway/ Midlands

If there's no fodder on a profile, we just won't respond.

We clearly state on our bio that we won't send face pics, doesn't stop people from asking tho 🙄

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By *antra MassageMan
16 weeks ago

Galway

I never ask for pics. I don't mind what you look like, as long as you're sociable and can hold a conversation.

I never send pics, either. My public pics here give a hint of me. Unfortunately there are a lot of fake couple profiles here at the moment, but they're easy enough to spot. Socials, referrals, are the way to go.

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
16 weeks ago

The West

Can spot a fake couples profile from a hundred yards. It's at the point now where I even know the single male account that has created them!

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By *rakesterlingMan
16 weeks ago

Dublin

A ladies profile asking for a face pic straight out of the bat, especially with no verifications, photo verifications, etc etc... Is just a clear indicator of some kind of fishing and play for privacy / security intrusion...

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By *avie tCouple
16 weeks ago

otherside of nowhere

I wouldn't overthink it....if your preference on your profile is not to send face pictures then don't...it's on ours so if we get a request for a face pic we just move on.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
16 weeks ago

Lucan

I wouldn't call it audacity myself.

People can ask for whatever they want and nobody has to give it to them if they don't want to. It's just another filter really.

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By *avie tCouple
16 weeks ago

otherside of nowhere

"I wouldn't call it audacity myself.

People can ask for whatever they want and nobody has to give it to them if they don't want to. It's just another filter really. "

Well hello 👋

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By *odest9inch OP Man
15 weeks ago

Leitrim longford meath westmeath roscommon..sligo.. pick

Cheers all, nice to know you all experience some sort level of it. The male profiles concealed as couples, some more obvious that others, but I've had some msgs along the lines of comments written above!! My most memorable was "she's out at the moment but I'd like you to come over and I can check your cock to confirm it is the one on your profile as she's very picky" that was an outrageous effort 🤣🤣.

I'm still thinking a lot of the ones I see are couples, but couples who are possibly not serious or as previously mentioned,the lady in it has no interest. Picture hunting not exactly a big thing with girls though!

When I phrased it as an "audacity", my point is, I'm totally open with face pics and they're in for friends.

I think a profile with no pics, body or otherwise demanding a face pic in first msg is a lil cheeky or perhaps they're aware they'll get them..just not of me!!

Fab is what it is, fairly straight forward, you look at some women or couples and can instantly tell their heads are probably melted with msgs, if those profile took that approach I'd probably understand it better, an effort to cut down on nuisance msgn, maybe most women/couples are inundated with msgs anyway!!

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