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By *inky Bear and Vics OP   Couple
2 days ago

Northern Ireland

Inspired by other posts, what green flags do you like to see on Couples profiles.

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By *og-ManMan
2 days ago

somewhere

The actual couple and not just 20 photos of the female half

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
2 days ago

Lucan

20 photos of the female half. 😎

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
2 days ago

Cork


"20 photos of the female half. 😎"

Top or bottom half?

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By *exyScientistsCouple
2 days ago

Castlebar

Some element of a conversation

Verifications

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
2 days ago

East / North, Cork

Matching how they describe themselves in there profile.

Obvious compatibility between each other.

An attempt to check is the other partner is happy or comfortable.

Concern for the safety of their partner.

No attempts to push or convince the other do to something.

Both enthusiastic about swinging.

They are actually a couple and not just pretending to be to get an invitation.

No signs of jealousy or coercion.

Not talking negatively about each other.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
2 days ago

East / North, Cork

Ohh sorry I thought this was green flags in person not just on the profile

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By *inky Bear and Vics OP   Couple
2 days ago

Northern Ireland


"The actual couple and not just 20 photos of the female half "

This is frustrating for us having only one pic of him and it's a dick pic, and loads of pics of her.

I appreciate photos of couples together, even if they are dressed like date night or holiday photos. That's our green flag.

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By *inky Bear and Vics OP   Couple
2 days ago

Northern Ireland


"Ohh sorry I thought this was green flags in person not just on the profile "

Ah sure both...why not. Might be informative for someone.

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By *razyNippleLoverMan
2 days ago

Back End of Beyond

Nice mix on the photos , but at least one where they are together.

When the content is clear about both there goals , singularly and jointly.

Also like when they make clear who your chatting to straight away .

Mr here , Ms here , or both.

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By *electableicecreamMan
2 days ago

The West

I really like to see at least one photo of the couple together regardless of how many individual pics there are

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By *he boy next door300Man
2 days ago

MAGHERAFELT

'Will meet single men'!!!

Also, have had two invitations with the male 'only' beginning to think thats a red flag!!

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By *hePixieAndTheBearCouple
2 days ago

Galway

Some photos of the M half. And not dick pics.

A profile text that gives a little something about who they are and what they're after.

And if they're the ones getting in touch with us, an actual message instead of "Hi, how are ye?". 🙄

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By *inky Bear and Vics OP   Couple
2 days ago

Northern Ireland


"Matching how they describe themselves in there profile.

Obvious compatibility between each other.

An attempt to check is the other partner is happy or comfortable.

Concern for the safety of their partner.

No attempts to push or convince the other do to something.

Both enthusiastic about swinging.

They are actually a couple and not just pretending to be to get an invitation.

No signs of jealousy or coercion.

Not talking negatively about each other."

I think this is why a social meet is important and one of the things I look out for is how much is a couple on the same page about everything. How they interact and how playful and comfortable they are within their relationship

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By *inky Bear and Vics OP   Couple
2 days ago

Northern Ireland


"'Will meet single men'!!!

Also, have had two invitations with the male 'only' beginning to think thats a red flag!!

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Yeah...with these ones there is often no wife or girlfriend at all.

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
2 days ago

City Centre

Equal amounts of photos of them both and together.

A little about their relationship, if they are in a LTR, married or fuck friends who have put a profile together.

Links to single accounts, especially if they meet separately.

I always like to know who is running things and messaging me. I prefer to talk to the female firstly and I like it when it's her I'm talking to when establishing those first connections. That's my favourite green flag when it comes to couples.

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By *rxmrsCouple
2 days ago

in ur bed


"The actual couple and not just 20 photos of the female half "

What if the male half doesn't like taking pictures 🤷‍♀️

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By *inky Bear and Vics OP   Couple
2 days ago

Northern Ireland


"The actual couple and not just 20 photos of the female half

What if the male half doesn't like taking pictures 🤷‍♀️"

I suppose then women won't know what attraction they might have with the male half then.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
2 days ago

Lucan


"20 photos of the female half. 😎

Top or bottom half?"

Bottom half is best for me, back bottom and front bottom

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By *inky Bear and Vics OP   Couple
2 days ago

Northern Ireland

Reply to forum post "Couples Green Flags" from contributor

Clearly stated wants and preferences.

Little to no "we're not looking for"s

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
2 days ago

The West

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
2 days ago

The West

Couples profiles with pictures of the male and pictures of them together.

Unlikely to engage with those that don't. We don't for one second buy the "man is shy" or doesn't like taking photos" etc.

A short concise profile, keep it on point.

The ones with big long paragraphs of demands are off-putting for sure.

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
2 days ago

Cork


"The actual couple and not just 20 photos of the female half

What if the male half doesn't like taking pictures 🤷‍♀️"

I'd say it's acceptable if he's not looking to actively participate. In my mind, it's a bit of a step up than having a single profile saying "I'm actually a couple and he's always going to be involved in the play"

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By *electableicecreamMan
2 days ago

The West


"The actual couple and not just 20 photos of the female half

What if the male half doesn't like taking pictures 🤷‍♀️

I'd say it's acceptable if he's not looking to actively participate. In my mind, it's a bit of a step up than having a single profile saying "I'm actually a couple and he's always going to be involved in the play" "

If he's gonna be in the room then I'd want to know what he looks like. The vibe is important to me.

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By *rxmrsCouple
2 days ago

in ur bed

I'm only asking a question i didn't mean anything by it

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
2 days ago

Cork


"I'm only asking a question i didn't mean anything by it "

It's a good question, I suppose what does my opinion matter in this regard if you're only looking for a couple or woman. Delectable made a good argument. I know I'm not a big fan of taking photos but I'd never get anywhere on here without them.

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By *rxmrsCouple
2 days ago

in ur bed


"I'm only asking a question i didn't mean anything by it

It's a good question, I suppose what does my opinion matter in this regard if you're only looking for a couple or woman. Delectable made a good argument. I know I'm not a big fan of taking photos but I'd never get anywhere on here without them."
a lot worry about tattoos and someone noticing them i should have said that earlier

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By *inky Bear and Vics OP   Couple
2 days ago

Northern Ireland


"I'm only asking a question i didn't mean anything by it

It's a good question, I suppose what does my opinion matter in this regard if you're only looking for a couple or woman. Delectable made a good argument. I know I'm not a big fan of taking photos but I'd never get anywhere on here without them. a lot worry about tattoos and someone noticing them i should have said that earlier "

Its a case of blurring all tattoos if it's a concern

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
2 days ago

Portstewart

A couple openly willing to meet for a coffee and chat to see if there's any sparks/vibes that there into both parties and not taking one for the team as such openly talking about what they want to get from fab and even beyond are they just looking a 1 and done or are they looking to make it a regularish thing like a few meets over the year and the biggest green flag for us is a couple who is ok with meet not just at a weekend

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By *rxmrsCouple
2 days ago

in ur bed


"I'm only asking a question i didn't mean anything by it

It's a good question, I suppose what does my opinion matter in this regard if you're only looking for a couple or woman. Delectable made a good argument. I know I'm not a big fan of taking photos but I'd never get anywhere on here without them. a lot worry about tattoos and someone noticing them i should have said that earlier

Its a case of blurring all tattoos if it's a concern "
maybe they don't like blurring ud still be hiding half the body wouldn't u

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By *inky Bear and Vics OP   Couple
2 days ago

Northern Ireland


"I'm only asking a question i didn't mean anything by it

It's a good question, I suppose what does my opinion matter in this regard if you're only looking for a couple or woman. Delectable made a good argument. I know I'm not a big fan of taking photos but I'd never get anywhere on here without them. a lot worry about tattoos and someone noticing them i should have said that earlier

Its a case of blurring all tattoos if it's a concern maybe they don't like blurring ud still be hiding half the body wouldn't u "

I would be very wary and pass on a profile where the guy was unwilling to even try and post pics of himself.

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By *inky Bear and Vics OP   Couple
1 day ago

Northern Ireland

Reply to forum post "Couples Green Flags" from a contributor

...Its a case of blurring all tattoos if it's a concern...

I've always thought that there are two types of people on Fab. Those that want/need privacy of their Fab life from their "normal" life, and those that don't want/need any distinction between the two. I know that sounds simple but this is the basis of all content that someone(s) will post to their profile.

I don't see it as an immediate red flag if a couple have few photos or fewer photos of one partner. I ask them about it in conversation.

It would, however, be a major red flag if both were not willing to attend a social meet ahead of potential play.

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