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Is there any real couples out there who meets and play ????
How’s experience of you guys
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"Hey Fabbers, We recently joined so not passing judgement here, Connected with lots of really nice couples here. But seems most of people are only interested in socialising, discussing weather, sharing pics and sexting. Fab looks like extension of what’sapp or insta
Is there any real couples out there who meets and play ????
How’s experience of you guys
"I see this too, a lot more people like to meet and connect through socials and the lack of clubs in Ireland probably makes it harder for them social nights to be club nights which is how it is on the uk scene!! There is also plenty who only enjoy the social scene. It’s each to their own!! Btw your weekend plan sounds just like mine!! | |||
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"Biggest tip I'd give, which we've been given when we started ourselves is to attend some of the big socials (evening ones with overnight stay at venue). It removes the awkwardness of going through the site/messaging. You get to directly see and chat up people in person, there are plenty of them around, and they get to see you straight away. And as events often provide the list of attendees ahead of time, if you see a few profiles on the list which caught your eye previously, that's a great opportunity to say hi. Like said above, 4-way attraction is not easy, so it might take a good few attempts before you find it. 4 weeks really isn't much. The wait between signinf up here and that first play meet can be a bit frustrating, but better to take the time to get it right. Don't worry, you'll find your matches." We've been on here over a yr in that yr we've had a few social meets aswell as a few fun meets, but we haven't nor at the moment could we ever see ourselves going to a party due to a few reasons. We have seen a few couples we know who joined the same time we did and have gone to party's and they've never looked back loved it. My point is there's no set way to be a success on here every couple/person has different experiences from here it's all down to the people, we live by a few rules, be yourself, be respectful and mannerly and most importantly treat people they way you would like to be treated yourselves, don't take fab life too seriously enjoy your time here. | |||
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"Lots do. However you do have to consider not only the mutual attraction of 4 people, but the availability of 4 people also. 4 weeks is a very short time, sometimes Fab requires a certain amount of patience." We agree 100%, With couples, there has to be a mutual attraction all around, or it would be like asking a partner to ‘take one for the team’, leading to a lack of enjoyment/fulfilment for all and possibly leading to non participation in future. Patience is totally the key word. Connection between everyone involved is what’s important for us, that leads to chemistry and maximum sexual enjoyment  | |||
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"Lots do. However you do have to consider not only the mutual attraction of 4 people, but the availability of 4 people also. 4 weeks is a very short time, sometimes Fab requires a certain amount of patience. We agree 100%, With couples, there has to be a mutual attraction all around, or it would be like asking a partner to ‘take one for the team’, leading to a lack of enjoyment/fulfilment for all and possibly leading to non participation in future. Patience is totally the key word. Connection between everyone involved is what’s important for us, that leads to chemistry and maximum sexual enjoyment "Just add One of my favourite questions to ask a couples profile in "ask in private answer in public" , is would either one of you lower your standards for a meet , to keep your partner happy , and in fairness not one has said they are willing to take one for the team , in. And I ask it a lot !! Thinks it's a great gauge of their caliber. So it's defo a challenge to ensure all involved are happy and calenders can align | |||
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"One of my favourite questions to ask a couples profile in "ask in private answer in public" , is would either one of you lower your standards for a meet , to keep your partner happy , and in fairness not one has said they are willing to take one for the team , in. And I ask it a lot !! Thinks it's a great gauge of their caliber. So it's defo a challenge to ensure all involved are happy and calenders can align " Our experience has been the opposite. Couples admit that (especially at the beginning) they have taken one for the team because its so hard to get the 4-way attraction. | |||
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"One of my favourite questions to ask a couples profile in "ask in private answer in public" , is would either one of you lower your standards for a meet , to keep your partner happy , and in fairness not one has said they are willing to take one for the team , in. And I ask it a lot !! Thinks it's a great gauge of their caliber. So it's defo a challenge to ensure all involved are happy and calenders can align Our experience has been the opposite. Couples admit that (especially at the beginning) they have taken one for the team because its so hard to get the 4-way attraction." Well that doesnt suprise me, I often did wonder was a couple likely to admitt it to a stranger like me, let alone to the forum masses makes sense that chats between couples could be more honest about their challenges, thanks for the insight. | |||
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"One of my favourite questions to ask a couples profile in "ask in private answer in public" , is would either one of you lower your standards for a meet , to keep your partner happy , and in fairness not one has said they are willing to take one for the team , in. And I ask it a lot !! Thinks it's a great gauge of their caliber. So it's defo a challenge to ensure all involved are happy and calenders can align Our experience has been the opposite. Couples admit that (especially at the beginning) they have taken one for the team because its so hard to get the 4-way attraction. Well that doesnt suprise me, I often did wonder was a couple likely to admitt it to a stranger like me, let alone to the forum masses makes sense that chats between couples could be more honest about their challenges, thanks for the insight." Yes its definitely something that people aren't proud to admit, but It's a topic that comes up at parties amongst the women after a few drinks. Plus I've never heard a man say he's taken one for the team for some strange reason  | |||
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