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"Does anyone else feel like this site is dieing a slow death.... like it feels so boring lately excitement seems to be sucked our of everyone on here at the moment " We are finding it lots of fun, plenty of genuine, diverse and interesting people out there with lots of socials happening regularly. Forums can be a bit hit & miss, some very interesting & funny people keep it bright however there is a lot of group-think commandos here patrolling the posts for anyone daring to say something different. | |||
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""group-think commandos" 😆 Only funny because it's so true. " It's kinda funny that they do there 'speech policing duties' on Fab of all places. It's not the Irish Times, not everyone thinks in unison. Hilarious  | |||
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"Too boring Not tall enough My dick isn't big enough I don't have a gym bod I'm too young I'm too old Women are rude Men are ignorant Place is full of time wasters Why can't I get an invite? Why doesn't the site hold my hand? Just a short summary of a few of the excuses on the forums every single day. Meanwhile with one click you can jump to the long list of new members every day and the neverending lists of new pics and videos and dozens of social events. Slowly shutting down? Doesn't look that way. " Definitely not, Irish Fab is alive and kicking, socials most weeks, folk from all over the country and from all corners of the world here too. | |||
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""group-think commandos" 😆 Only funny because it's so true. It's kinda funny that they do there 'speech policing duties' on Fab of all places. It's not the Irish Times, not everyone thinks in unison. Hilarious "Genuine question Do you think that everyone that disagrees with you is part of some group think network. | |||
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"You get what you put into it, I have noted tones of negativity in the forums that I'm not fond of so OP you could be forgiven if the forum activity was the focus of your comments, I would feel combined with all the other elements prevously mentioned, the meets, the socials, the people, the photos / vids and cams , this place is thriving and there is serious fun to be had . Prime example, a thread two weeks ago ( ask in private etc ) about 30 contributers , all "in" but no questions asked LOL, it fell flat. Point being , sitting around waiting for other people to put in the effort or make the fun doesn't work. Persons who engage in a positive manner certainly get the most out of this place. " Exactly this! | |||
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"You need to come on over to the new site OP, that’s where all the riding is going on" Yep, it's amazing, so hard to keep up | |||
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""group-think commandos" 😆 Only funny because it's so true. It's kinda funny that they do there 'speech policing duties' on Fab of all places. It's not the Irish Times, not everyone thinks in unison. Hilarious
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Do you think that everyone that disagrees with you is part of some group think network.
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""group-think commandos" 😆 Only funny because it's so true. It's kinda funny that they do there 'speech policing duties' on Fab of all places. It's not the Irish Times, not everyone thinks in unison. Hilarious
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Do you think that everyone that disagrees with you is part of some group think network.
Of course not, most people on Irish fab have very diverse opinions and are capable of having a back and forth discussion. But you knew that already.
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"You need to come on over to the new site OP, that’s where all the riding is going on Yep, it's amazing, so hard to keep up" What site, let us all know! | |||
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"You get what you put into it, I have noted tones of negativity in the forums that I'm not fond of so OP you could be forgiven if the forum activity was the focus of your comments, I would feel combined with all the other elements prevously mentioned, the meets, the socials, the people, the photos / vids and cams , this place is thriving and there is serious fun to be had . Prime example, a thread two weeks ago ( ask in private etc ) about 30 contributers , all "in" but no questions asked LOL, it fell flat. Point being , sitting around waiting for other people to put in the effort or make the fun doesn't work. Persons who engage in a positive manner certainly get the most out of this place. " ⬆️ This guy gets it 💯 And he's not speaking hypothetically either. Full of positivity, threw himself into the forums and socials, enjoying himself and reaping the benefits. | |||
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"You get what you put into it, I have noted tones of negativity in the forums that I'm not fond of so OP you could be forgiven if the forum activity was the focus of your comments, I would feel combined with all the other elements prevously mentioned, the meets, the socials, the people, the photos / vids and cams , this place is thriving and there is serious fun to be had . Prime example, a thread two weeks ago ( ask in private etc ) about 30 contributers , all "in" but no questions asked LOL, it fell flat. Point being , sitting around waiting for other people to put in the effort or make the fun doesn't work. Persons who engage in a positive manner certainly get the most out of this place. ⬆️ This guy gets it 💯 And he's not speaking hypothetically either. Full of positivity, threw himself into the forums and socials, enjoying himself and reaping the benefits. " I think its the magic hat myself | |||
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"You get what you put into it, I have noted tones of negativity in the forums that I'm not fond of so OP you could be forgiven if the forum activity was the focus of your comments, I would feel combined with all the other elements prevously mentioned, the meets, the socials, the people, the photos / vids and cams , this place is thriving and there is serious fun to be had . Prime example, a thread two weeks ago ( ask in private etc ) about 30 contributers , all "in" but no questions asked LOL, it fell flat. Point being , sitting around waiting for other people to put in the effort or make the fun doesn't work. Persons who engage in a positive manner certainly get the most out of this place. ⬆️ This guy gets it 💯 And he's not speaking hypothetically either. Full of positivity, threw himself into the forums and socials, enjoying himself and reaping the benefits. I think its the magic hat myself "A bit like the sorting hat in Harry Potter  | |||
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"over the last month we had messages on the forum, our status, and our page for some social drinks in two different counties and no one is interested. Socials and parties or private groups seem to be the way now, because we have put in the effort, and although we may not be everyone's cup of tea for whatever people's preferences are, no one appears to be interested meeting through fab itself anymore that's just our experience anyway, and it's been that way for awhile now. " Hey guys, we've been the same, have posted a few times saying that we're in such and such a place if any couples were interested in a social drink. Nobody (apart from single guys) has ever responded. On saying that, we've only ever replied once to this type of status, as they were friends and we knew where we stood. We generally don't reply, simply because they haven't invited us directly and we don't want our offer to be rejected, which could easily happen. So we always ask people directly now for a social, as we are more likely to get a positive response. Its all about feeling wanted as opposed to chancing our arm replying to a general status when maybe they were hoping for someone else. Mrs xx | |||
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"over the last month we had messages on the forum, our status, and our page for some social drinks in two different counties and no one is interested. Socials and parties or private groups seem to be the way now, because we have put in the effort, and although we may not be everyone's cup of tea for whatever people's preferences are, no one appears to be interested meeting through fab itself anymore that's just our experience anyway, and it's been that way for awhile now. Hey guys, we've been the same, have posted a few times saying that we're in such and such a place if any couples were interested in a social drink. Nobody (apart from single guys) has ever responded. On saying that, we've only ever replied once to this type of status, as they were friends and we knew where we stood. We generally don't reply, simply because they haven't invited us directly and we don't want our offer to be rejected, which could easily happen. So we always ask people directly now for a social, as we are more likely to get a positive response. Its all about feeling wanted as opposed to chancing our arm replying to a general status when maybe they were hoping for someone else. Mrs xx" Hi. I couldn't see anyone rejecting U both. | |||
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"over the last month we had messages on the forum, our status, and our page for some social drinks in two different counties and no one is interested. Socials and parties or private groups seem to be the way now, because we have put in the effort, and although we may not be everyone's cup of tea for whatever people's preferences are, no one appears to be interested meeting through fab itself anymore that's just our experience anyway, and it's been that way for awhile now. Hey guys, we've been the same, have posted a few times saying that we're in such and such a place if any couples were interested in a social drink. Nobody (apart from single guys) has ever responded. On saying that, we've only ever replied once to this type of status, as they were friends and we knew where we stood. We generally don't reply, simply because they haven't invited us directly and we don't want our offer to be rejected, which could easily happen. So we always ask people directly now for a social, as we are more likely to get a positive response. Its all about feeling wanted as opposed to chancing our arm replying to a general status when maybe they were hoping for someone else. Mrs xx" Perfect and honest, great to read! | |||
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"over the last month we had messages on the forum, our status, and our page for some social drinks in two different counties and no one is interested. Socials and parties or private groups seem to be the way now, because we have put in the effort, and although we may not be everyone's cup of tea for whatever people's preferences are, no one appears to be interested meeting through fab itself anymore that's just our experience anyway, and it's been that way for awhile now. Hey guys, we've been the same, have posted a few times saying that we're in such and such a place if any couples were interested in a social drink. Nobody (apart from single guys) has ever responded. On saying that, we've only ever replied once to this type of status, as they were friends and we knew where we stood. We generally don't reply, simply because they haven't invited us directly and we don't want our offer to be rejected, which could easily happen. So we always ask people directly now for a social, as we are more likely to get a positive response. Its all about feeling wanted as opposed to chancing our arm replying to a general status when maybe they were hoping for someone else. Mrs xx" Hey guys, hope you're both keeping well! We do contact people directly on here too, but usually there is no reply or they don't even read the message! Most people we have met in the past was through the site, now we find it is just not the same and we still put in the same effort. Maybe we just don't appeal to people's taste which is understandable, but we just don't think the site is as good as it used to be. Seems to be a lot more time wasters and fake profiles than before too which makes it kind of exhausting. More socials and parties it is for us so 🤣 | |||
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"over the last month we had messages on the forum, our status, and our page for some social drinks in two different counties and no one is interested. Socials and parties or private groups seem to be the way now, because we have put in the effort, and although we may not be everyone's cup of tea for whatever people's preferences are, no one appears to be interested meeting through fab itself anymore that's just our experience anyway, and it's been that way for awhile now. Hey guys, we've been the same, have posted a few times saying that we're in such and such a place if any couples were interested in a social drink. Nobody (apart from single guys) has ever responded. On saying that, we've only ever replied once to this type of status, as they were friends and we knew where we stood. We generally don't reply, simply because they haven't invited us directly and we don't want our offer to be rejected, which could easily happen. So we always ask people directly now for a social, as we are more likely to get a positive response. Its all about feeling wanted as opposed to chancing our arm replying to a general status when maybe they were hoping for someone else. Mrs xx Hey guys, hope you're both keeping well! We do contact people directly on here too, but usually there is no reply or they don't even read the message! Most people we have met in the past was through the site, now we find it is just not the same and we still put in the same effort. Maybe we just don't appeal to people's taste which is understandable, but we just don't think the site is as good as it used to be. Seems to be a lot more time wasters and fake profiles than before too which makes it kind of exhausting. More socials and parties it is for us so 🤣" Yes, the social scene is much bigger nowadays and people seem to prefer those to the 1-to-1's as previously mentioned. | |||
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"Does anyone else feel like this site is dieing a slow death.... like it feels so boring lately excitement seems to be sucked our of everyone on here at the moment We are finding it lots of fun, plenty of genuine, diverse and interesting people out there with lots of socials happening regularly. Forums can be a bit hit & miss, some very interesting & funny people keep it bright however there is a lot of group-think commandos here patrolling the posts for anyone daring to say something different. " | |||
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"over the last month we had messages on the forum, our status, and our page for some social drinks in two different counties and no one is interested. Socials and parties or private groups seem to be the way now, because we have put in the effort, and although we may not be everyone's cup of tea for whatever people's preferences are, no one appears to be interested meeting through fab itself anymore that's just our experience anyway, and it's been that way for awhile now. Hey guys, we've been the same, have posted a few times saying that we're in such and such a place if any couples were interested in a social drink. Nobody (apart from single guys) has ever responded. On saying that, we've only ever replied once to this type of status, as they were friends and we knew where we stood. We generally don't reply, simply because they haven't invited us directly and we don't want our offer to be rejected, which could easily happen. So we always ask people directly now for a social, as we are more likely to get a positive response. Its all about feeling wanted as opposed to chancing our arm replying to a general status when maybe they were hoping for someone else. Mrs xx Hi. I couldn't see anyone rejecting U both. " Thanks Paj  | |||
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"I'd have to disagree OP. Thriving site is thriving. Many people prefer to attend socials, meet people getvto know a larger group and its easier to meet up or get invited to parties that way. These people intend on being here long term, so they're not in a rush. One thing I have noticed a lot lately, and it's a societal thing too. That's people looking for instant gratification. They send out a few last minute messages or put up some status. Then, when they get no traction, everyone is a timewaster or the site is finished. (Others are aul farts like Badger regaling us with their nostalgia of a better time!!😂😂...just kidding!!)" ..... The OP is actually spot on imho and the standard of thread topic on the forums has nose dived over the past few months. Equally the level of effort required to arrange meets has increased enormously while the quantity and quality of such meets has deteriorated significantly. In terms of the forums most people are too scared to put their heads above the Fab parapets knowing well that if the venture on here with an opinion which might be a little bit radical or controversial they will either be smothered by a status quo dump fest from the usual suspects or drowned out completely by the extremely loud click(sic) sound. In terms of socials it appears to be a constant rehash of the same old tired formats with little or no innovation being evident. While being an older site member in terms of age, which at least in my case I am proud to show correctly, I am still relative newbie on the site so I couldn't be less capable of regaling nostalgia as I don't have sufficient fab experience to be able to share things from anytime other than the relatively recent past. | |||
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" The OP is actually spot on imho and the standard of thread topic on the forums has nose dived over the past few months. *** Build it and they will come. Maybe. The forums are pretty much the same as they ever were. And that's not just this particular sub-forum. My answer is always the same on this one: Don't like the current threads? Start some yourself. *** Equally the level of effort required to arrange meets has increased enormously while the quantity and quality of such meets has deteriorated significantly. **** I'm assuming you mean for yourself? Because it's impossible for you to speak on behalf of everyone. How has the level of effort required increased (for you)? In what way has the quality of your meets significantly deteriorated? **** In terms of the forums most people are too scared to put their heads above the Fab parapets knowing well that if the venture on here with an opinion which might be a little bit radical or controversial they will either be smothered by a status quo dump fest from the usual suspects or drowned out completely by the extremely loud click(sic) sound. **** Why is multiple people disagreeing on a particular subject bad? If someone states a controversial or radical opinion and subsequently lots of people agree with said opinion, is it that then bad too? **** In terms of socials it appears to be a constant rehash of the same old tired formats with little or no innovation being evident. **** How many different ones have you been to in order to qualify this statement? What innovative ideas do you suggest? There are armchair critics everywhere. **** While being an older site member in terms of age, which at least in my case I am proud to show correctly, I am still relative newbie on the site so I couldn't be less capable of regaling nostalgia as I don't have sufficient fab experience to be able to share things from anytime other than the relatively recent past. " | |||
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"Does anyone else feel like this site is dieing a slow death.... like it feels so boring lately excitement seems to be sucked our of everyone on here at the moment " We use a site in France, that upgraded and relaunched itself under a new name, There is a feed/wall to post pics and videos An events page, where members can mark themselves as in attendance. A Travel calendar too I don't think Fab is dying but it is in need of some upgrades | |||
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"I was 60 last month so I'm dying a slow death. Make of fab what you will Enjoy it and hope others enjoy you at the same time Well said Live life " | |||
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" The OP is actually spot on imho and the standard of thread topic on the forums has nose dived over the past few months. *** Build it and they will come. Maybe. The forums are pretty much the same as they ever were. And that's not just this particular sub-forum. My answer is always the same on this one: Don't like the current threads? Start some yourself. *** Equally the level of effort required to arrange meets has increased enormously while the quantity and quality of such meets has deteriorated significantly. **** I'm assuming you mean for yourself? Because it's impossible for you to speak on behalf of everyone. How has the level of effort required increased (for you)? In what way has the quality of your meets significantly deteriorated? **** In terms of the forums most people are too scared to put their heads above the Fab parapets knowing well that if the venture on here with an opinion which might be a little bit radical or controversial they will either be smothered by a status quo dump fest from the usual suspects or drowned out completely by the extremely loud click(sic) sound. **** Why is multiple people disagreeing on a particular subject bad? If someone states a controversial or radical opinion and subsequently lots of people agree with said opinion, is it that then bad too? **** In terms of socials it appears to be a constant rehash of the same old tired formats with little or no innovation being evident. **** How many different ones have you been to in order to qualify this statement? What innovative ideas do you suggest? There are armchair critics everywhere. **** While being an older site member in terms of age, which at least in my case I am proud to show correctly, I am still relative newbie on the site so I couldn't be less capable of regaling nostalgia as I don't have sufficient fab experience to be able to share things from anytime other than the relatively recent past. " Good questions that probbaly won't be answered! Too many with a "poor me" mindset that choose to make unqualified statements. | |||
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" Equally the level of effort required to arrange meets has increased enormously while the quantity and quality of such meets has deteriorated significantly. " So it's getting harder for you to get meets and the quality of your meets is going down. I hope the people you've been meeting aren't reading this. That's a bit rough. " While being an older site member in terms of age, which at least in my case I am proud to show correctly, " Don't we all show our correct age? Hands up who has had to change their age since they joined? | |||
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"If you ever go to social events there are lots of cliques and groups. I think they'd be better off having a house party instead of going to events " Many people who've met before at other events will naturally congregate together. What we've noticed at socials we've been to is that everybody is usually nice. Some are attracted to you and some are not. Some will want to chat to you and others won't. Some people take the rejection way too personal! | |||
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"If you ever go to social events there are lots of cliques and groups. I think they'd be better off having a house party instead of going to events " I don't understand your reasoning when you've been to a social and got 4 veris out of it Surely that proves they can work | |||
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"Nit sure on the rejection part it's the only way I get verifications " I'd change your profile pic, be a man of mystery. Take some good pics. Good luck 🍀 | |||
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"You can't message a woman on this as a single man . Just adding my opinion to the thread title , no problems if I'm wrong. Went to an event recently and I'm still bitter about it to be honest " What are you bitter about? | |||
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"It was a disaster. Considering I've gotten my verifications from social events that tells you how bad it was" Why was it a disaster? Because you didn’t meet anyone there who wants to meet for play? | |||
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"No I answered that above. I go to social events. I'm there to meet and chat to people. " So why was it a disaster? | |||
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"Cliques. Groups . People going to a social and not been social to be honest. Not looking for sex at social events that's never the motivation " Actually, never mind. Your comment on the other thread explains a lot  | |||
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"I'm furious . I'll give it back to people " Furious about what? You went to a social, got 4 veris. If people don’t want to interact with you, that’s their choice. Seriously, if fab is evoking such strong reactions in you, it’s time to step away. | |||
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"I've stepped away " Relax, you are competing with 6 paks, 10 inch dongs and full heads of hair | |||
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"Packs" Such a positive, fun mindset you have there! Swinging is people who find each other mutually attractive deciding to explore a sexual encounter with each other. It is not a database of available women who do the fucking and that means they will do the fucking with you. Not every woman will find you attractive, whereas broadly speaking men will have the ability to fuck someone they don't find any attraction to. That's generally not the case for women. I am sex repulsed by things like entitlement or being pushy or disrespectful. So having a positive attitude goes a long way. All socials have people who already know each other. Same with any other group in life. You put yourself in front of people, you be respectful and fun to be with. Being angry that nobody included you will only make people wary of you. | |||
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" The OP is actually spot on imho and the standard of thread topic on the forums has nose dived over the past few months. *** Build it and they will come. Maybe. The forums are pretty much the same as they ever were. And that's not just this particular sub-forum. My answer is always the same on this one: Don't like the current threads? Start some yourself. *** (I sometimes do and hopefully will continue to do so) ........................ Equally the level of effort required to arrange meets has increased enormously while the quantity and quality of such meets has deteriorated significantly. **** I'm assuming you mean for yourself? Because it's impossible for you to speak on behalf of everyone. How has the level of effort required increased (for you)? In what way has the quality of your meets significantly deteriorated? **** (I only ever set out to speak for myself on here and have never assumed that I was in anyway representing the views of others.) ....................... In terms of the forums most people are too scared to put their heads above the Fab parapets knowing well that if the venture on here with an opinion which might be a little bit radical or controversial they will either be smothered by a status quo dump fest from the usual suspects or drowned out completely by the extremely loud click(sic) sound. **** Why is multiple people disagreeing on a particular subject bad? If someone states a controversial or radical opinion and subsequently lots of people agree with said opinion, is it that then bad too? **** (There is a difference between individuals expressing similar views and some pretty obvious orchestration of agreed responses to particular threads) . ........................ In terms of socials it appears to be a constant rehash of the same old tired formats with little or no innovation being evident. **** How many different ones have you been to in order to qualify this statement? What innovative ideas do you suggest? There are armchair critics everywhere. **** (I have attended 5 or 6 socials in the past year and most have been very similar in format. I am unsure what new ideas could help to improve socials but that is probably a question better addressed by hosts, who charge a fee to those attending, to come up with new ideas to make sure people get the most from attending such events). ....................... While being an older site member in terms of age, which at least in my case I am proud to show correctly, I am still relative newbie on the site so I couldn't be less capable of regaling nostalgia as I don't have sufficient fab experience to be able to share things from anytime other than the relatively recent past. Good questions that probbaly won't be answered! Too many with a "poor me" mindset that choose to make unqualified statements." I hope this answers some of the questions asked and apologies for my late reply as "poor me" was too busy with some real life stuff over the past few days to make a more prompt reply . ********** I am also curious to know if by "unqualified statements" the poster meant that the opinions expressed were true and correct, which is the normal interpretation of that phrase, or if they actually meant in this context the statements were made by someone who may not be best qualified to make such statements. 🦡 | |||
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" Equally the level of effort required to arrange meets has increased enormously while the quantity and quality of such meets has deteriorated significantly. So it's getting harder for you to get meets and the quality of your meets is going down. I hope the people you've been meeting aren't reading this. That's a bit rough. (Those that read forum threads may well see my post and it will be for them to judge if it refers to them or not). While being an older site member in terms of age, which at least in my case I am proud to show correctly, Don't we all show our correct age? Hands up who has had to change their age since they joined?" ✋ I for one displayed an incorrect age on the site when I first joined as a way of helping to protecting my anonymity. I subsequently corrected my age and actually had some difficulty in convincing people I was in fact older than originally stated. Whatever about swinging, hiking/hillwalking definitely appears to keep you looking younger... | |||
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"Does anyone else feel like this site is dieing a slow death.... like it feels so boring lately excitement seems to be sucked our of everyone on here at the moment " No! As a swinging couple we find the site as good as it’s always been. Easy to meet new people and have fun whenever we want. | |||
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