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By *easingTim OP   Man
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

What’s the most interesting etiquette you’ve learned about (or from) swinging that really surprised you??

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I was lucky the first couple I met on a different sitw gave be the best advice/etiquette. It was to treat the site/interactions like you would a pub. Basically no "wanna fuck messages" or flashing your cock.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I was told " if you don't ask you don't get " at the very first party I went to

Totally surprised me as I never really discussed sex with anyone before

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By *easingTim OP   Man
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

The need to lay down parameters before a meet...

Case in point: If a man meets a couple Is kissing, spanking, etc permissible? Is it okay to be filmed? So transparency and trust before lust is essential

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By *hePixieAndTheBearCouple
over a year ago

Galway

The expectation of not overstaying one's welcome and kind of quickly parting ways once done.

We'd naturally be more into cuddles, small break, second round, [...] ultimately leading to breakfast together. But that seems to be an exception at best and a complete no-no at worst.

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By *easingTim OP   Man
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"The expectation of not overstaying one's welcome and kind of quickly parting ways once done.

We'd naturally be more into cuddles, small break, second round, [...] ultimately leading to breakfast together. But that seems to be an exception at best and a complete no-no at worst."

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Call me old fashioned but cuddles, pillow chat, nibbles and breakfast can be a great finale to a memorable meet

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By *aisyandTrigCouple
over a year ago

Cork

Ask… worst they/he/she can say is no

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
over a year ago

Cork

Didn't really learn it (I assumed it originally) but someone isn't more inclined to interact with you if you over them sex or drugs.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
over a year ago

Castlebar


"The expectation of not overstaying one's welcome and kind of quickly parting ways once done.

We'd naturally be more into cuddles, small break, second round, [...] ultimately leading to breakfast together. But that seems to be an exception at best and a complete no-no at worst."

I don't think this is a no no per se but it depends on lots of things including a build up of intimacy for me and a "relationship" that is more established maybe.....

But overnight stays on meets do seem to be an unexpected event on a meet. Personally I hate driving home late at night 😳

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By *amelaPamCDTV/TS
over a year ago

South Dublin

Lower one's expectation.

If it flows - it flows, if not walk away.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I was given advice from Cj here years ago.

*Do not take advice from Cj

Do not, under any circumstances, wipe your knob on the curtains when finished

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

North Cork

The basic principle of swinging being an "attraction without attachment" type of arrangement, a variation of the panda principle is probably the most appropriate applicable etiquette.

Eats, shoots and leafs.

Comes, cums and goes.

🤝🐼👋

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

a village near you.

One of my earlier swinging experiences was fun to begin with, but ended in disaster.

Lessons learned,

Never drink alcohol at a meet.

Always discuss consent and boundaries beforehand.

If it doesn't appeal to me, while I'm sober and not in a state of arousal, I am prepared to walk away.

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