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By *unflower OP   Woman
5 days ago

Dublin

Girls, be cautious!

I don’t know if it’s spring or common insanity but recently too many new accounts pretend to be my neighbor 🤣

They usually start a chat with: I know you, I live few doors down.

They don’t answer when you ask what area, street, estate they live in, but will try to guess if you have kids, etc.

They will try to get your number, to send a photo (sure).

Be careful, block, ignore, report.

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By *rutus83Man
5 days ago

naas


"Girls, be cautious!

I don’t know if it’s spring or common insanity but recently too many new accounts pretend to be my neighbor 🤣

They usually start a chat with: I know you, I live few doors down.

They don’t answer when you ask what area, street, estate they live in, but will try to guess if you have kids, etc.

They will try to get your number, to send a photo (sure).

Be careful, block, ignore, report.

"

Turn off your location on see who's near. Hopefully that will somewhat help with your situation.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
5 days ago

Lucan


"Girls, be cautious!

I don’t know if it’s spring or common insanity but recently too many new accounts pretend to be my neighbor 🤣

They usually start a chat with: I know you, I live few doors down.

They don’t answer when you ask what area, street, estate they live in, but will try to guess if you have kids, etc.

They will try to get your number, to send a photo (sure).

Be careful, block, ignore, report.

"

Ah feck, that spoils it for those of us who are just a few doors down

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
5 days ago

Cork

I don't really think it's the season, but all year round. If my inbox isn't men trying to meet me, it's people pretending to be others to get details like "do you know who I am?"

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By *ustBoWoman
5 days ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I wouldn't even open a message that started like that it would be a straight delete for me. Mind you newbies can't message me anyhow.

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By *INTMan
5 days ago

Minutes from Somewhere Else

The more I think about this the scarier it gets.

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By *unflower OP   Woman
5 days ago

Dublin


"Girls, be cautious!

I don’t know if it’s spring or common insanity but recently too many new accounts pretend to be my neighbor 🤣

They usually start a chat with: I know you, I live few doors down.

They don’t answer when you ask what area, street, estate they live in, but will try to guess if you have kids, etc.

They will try to get your number, to send a photo (sure).

Be careful, block, ignore, report.

Turn off your location on see who's near. Hopefully that will somewhat help with your situation. "

He wasn’t from my area. Just someone trying to get my number

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By *unflower OP   Woman
5 days ago

Dublin


"I wouldn't even open a message that started like that it would be a straight delete for me. Mind you newbies can't message me anyhow. "

Well we all have been newbies at some point. I’m okay with people who recently joined fab.

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By *affa31Woman
5 days ago

Galway

Another situation where we’re told to do xyz and prevent it.

Maybe people could just stop being fucking creeps!

It’s shit when it happens op. Best bet is to utterly ignore them.

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By *razySexyCoolCorkWoman
5 days ago

Cork


"Another situation where we’re told to do xyz and prevent it.

Maybe people could just stop being fucking creeps!

It’s shit when it happens op. Best bet is to utterly ignore them. "

I was just about to post the same thing.

Why should it be our problem and we should be having to find ways of preventing this type of behaviour. Just don't f*cking act like that

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
5 days ago

Newry

People come up with all sorts of "ingenious" methods to try and get us to engage with them, whether that's pretending you've spoken before, pretending they know you, swiping photos of the internet, etc, etc, etc

I do what I can from my side to prevent it but it'd be so much better if people just quit being dicks

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
5 days ago

Lucan


"People come up with all sorts of "ingenious" methods to try and get us to engage with them, whether that's pretending you've spoken before, pretending they know you, swiping photos of the internet, etc, etc, etc

I do what I can from my side to prevent it but it'd be so much better if people just quit being dicks"

Remember that time when I sent you three cock pics and you started hounding me for more, mad for it, you were? Anyway, what were we talking about?

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By *iscuits8Man
5 days ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


"People come up with all sorts of "ingenious" methods to try and get us to engage with them, whether that's pretending you've spoken before, pretending they know you, swiping photos of the internet, etc, etc, etc

I do what I can from my side to prevent it but it'd be so much better if people just quit being dicks"

Ah it's yourself!

Remember me?! 🙂

Kitchen utensils. Big willy.

We should catch up xox

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By *ustBoWoman
5 days ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I wouldn't even open a message that started like that it would be a straight delete for me. Mind you newbies can't message me anyhow.

Well we all have been newbies at some point. I’m okay with people who recently joined fab."

That's true I had a few not so nice experiences with newbies so just so just tightened my filters up after.

Mind you most of my filters are tight now. Not for any other reason that I can't be bothered getting loads of messages. Knowing I won't bother replying to them.

That's just me.

And while yes we can do fab however we like , and people should have more cop on than to send messages like that as an opening. The plain truth is people will still ignore how creepy they are being in the hope of getting a reply or a reaction. Somehow in their mind they justify it. 🤷

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By *iresmillyWoman
5 days ago

Stillorgan

Janey I’ve had similar recently- this guy kept insisting I worked in Dunnes, and started getting hostile about it when I said he was wrong. Then another dude was insisting that I was from Estate in my general location and I’d bought drugs from him- again hostile when I told him he was incorrect. Do they make this stuff up just to get a reaction and interactions?? Like the guys who say- “can I ask you a question” just to get a reply- literally the most annoying men on Fab do this.

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By *electableicecreamMan
5 days ago

The West

Ok but hear me out. Can I ask you all a question?

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
5 days ago

Northern Ireland


"Janey I’ve had similar recently- this guy kept insisting I worked in Dunnes, and started getting hostile about it when I said he was wrong. Then another dude was insisting that I was from Estate in my general location and I’d bought drugs from him- again hostile when I told him he was incorrect. Do they make this stuff up just to get a reaction and interactions?? Like the guys who say- “can I ask you a question” just to get a reply- literally the most annoying men on Fab do this. "

I had a guy telling me he fucked me last year. I assured him that he didn't. He insisted he did and wanted to connect again. He started to try with road names and locations. It really freaked me out at the time!

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By *unflower OP   Woman
5 days ago

Dublin


"Ok but hear me out. Can I ask you all a question?"

You, sweetie, can ask me anything anytime 😋

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By *unflower OP   Woman
5 days ago

Dublin


"Another situation where we’re told to do xyz and prevent it.

Maybe people could just stop being fucking creeps!

It’s shit when it happens op. Best bet is to utterly ignore them. "

You are 100% right. It’s always us, when it should be them just being normal humans

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By *exyScientistsCouple
5 days ago

Castlebar


"Girls, be cautious!

I don’t know if it’s spring or common insanity but recently too many new accounts pretend to be my neighbor 🤣

They usually start a chat with: I know you, I live few doors down.

They don’t answer when you ask what area, street, estate they live in, but will try to guess if you have kids, etc.

They will try to get your number, to send a photo (sure).

Be careful, block, ignore, report.

"

Had this one. It was so funny. Had him answering questions for ages pretending I thought I knew him. Was the best fun 🤣

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By *ickin2Man
5 days ago

Kilkenny


"Girls, be cautious!

I don’t know if it’s spring or common insanity but recently too many new accounts pretend to be my neighbor 🤣

They usually start a chat with: I know you, I live few doors down.

They don’t answer when you ask what area, street, estate they live in, but will try to guess if you have kids, etc.

They will try to get your number, to send a photo (sure).

Be careful, block, ignore, report.

Had this one. It was so funny. Had him answering questions for ages pretending I thought I knew him. Was the best fun 🤣"

Brilliant

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By *iscuits8Man
5 days ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


" I had a guy telling me he fucked me last year. I assured him that he didn't."

I had this from a woman on here a while back. Was gas. She insisted I had. She thought I was just trying to deny it. Was almost pleading with her in the end to believe me 😆 mad stuff...

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
5 days ago

Newry


" I had a guy telling me he fucked me last year. I assured him that he didn't.

I had this from a woman on here a while back. Was gas. She insisted I had. She thought I was just trying to deny it. Was almost pleading with her in the end to believe me 😆 mad stuff..."

How many times do I have to apologise...I told you it was a REALLY vivid dream!

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
5 days ago

Newry


"People come up with all sorts of "ingenious" methods to try and get us to engage with them, whether that's pretending you've spoken before, pretending they know you, swiping photos of the internet, etc, etc, etc

I do what I can from my side to prevent it but it'd be so much better if people just quit being dicks

Remember that time when I sent you three cock pics and you started hounding me for more, mad for it, you were? Anyway, what were we talking about? "

I just hadn't seen it from enough angles Mick!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
4 days ago

Lucan


"People come up with all sorts of "ingenious" methods to try and get us to engage with them, whether that's pretending you've spoken before, pretending they know you, swiping photos of the internet, etc, etc, etc

I do what I can from my side to prevent it but it'd be so much better if people just quit being dicks

Remember that time when I sent you three cock pics and you started hounding me for more, mad for it, you were? Anyway, what were we talking about?

I just hadn't seen it from enough angles Mick!"

I've now corrected that. You've got mail, or is it male 😎

...lots of it

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
4 days ago

Tipperary

Come World Wide Web behaviour especially on sites like these.

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By *unflower OP   Woman
4 days ago

Dublin


"Come World Wide Web behaviour especially on sites like these."

Never had it before on other sites. But well everyday is a learning day.

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By *man1044Man
4 days ago

North Galway

Plenty dicks on this site they spoil it for genuine people.

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By *ealitybitesMan
4 days ago

Belfast


"Plenty dicks on this site they spoil it for genuine people."

No they don't

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By *oxic1998Woman
4 days ago

Belfast

Why do you answer messages like that? They want a reaction from you.....just ignore. Winds them up more.

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By *electableicecreamMan
4 days ago

The West


"Plenty dicks on this site they spoil it for genuine people."

They set the bar so low it's getting harder to limbo under it.

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