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By (user no longer on site) OP   
19 weeks ago

Ok, I know I'm not an ugly fella but you can't tell that because my face is kept private. So, I'd like some input on my profile and some understanding of WHY I rarely get beyond a "looked at me" or even an opened message.

Any feedback is appreciated.

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
19 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

Personally, I can't stand dick pics in a profile.

And your bio is khnd of crass.. not the most appealing I've ever read.

But best of luck

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
19 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Your profile is a bit moany. Try adding some positivity. Your pics need work too. Try different outfits / angles / lighting and see what works.

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By *affa31Woman
19 weeks ago

Galway

Your profile is whingy and tells us nothing about what you bring to the table. No one is here to dish out pity fucks.

People will also assume you’re cheating on your wife (perhaps you have permission to play but that’s not clear) and that will eliminate you from many people’s list.

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By *agneyandhutchCouple
19 weeks ago

lucan

I had a different response written, explaining why I wouldn't look twice at your profile but then I thought, the reasons mean something to me. Why give you tips if what we see is a true representation of who and what you are. I'd rather say an immediate 'no' that dress you up and fake who you are.

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
19 weeks ago

The West

You haven't given or received oral in nearly 20yrs, but you and your partner decided to dabble in BDSM?...something doesn't quite add up there, for me!

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By *iscuits8Man
19 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


"No one is here to dish out pity fucks."

😔

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
19 weeks ago

Hi everyone, thanks for your input. I have changed my profile and, hopefully, it is sufficient. If not, please let me know.

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By *og-ManMan
19 weeks ago

somewhere


"Hi everyone, thanks for your input. I have changed my profile and, hopefully, it is sufficient. If not, please let me know. "

I'd still get rid of the update as it's not a good look to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
19 weeks ago

Really?

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By *herest KhanMan
19 weeks ago

The Jungle


"Really? "
it's substantially better than it was.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
19 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

The profile is better. The status update is awful. The pics need some improvement

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By *ooking2099Man
19 weeks ago

city


"The profile is better. The status update is awful. The pics need some improvement "

Staus update comes accross a whiney moan bag, he also states he isnt into mm meets ,but his only verification is from a man.

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By *og-ManMan
19 weeks ago

somewhere


"The profile is better. The status update is awful. The pics need some improvement

Staus update comes accross a whiney moan bag, he also states he isnt into mm meets ,but his only verification is from a man. "

It doesn't mean anything if a man verifies another man or it shouldn't

I've verified a few men from coffee meets and I tell them it might mean grief for them later

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By *rutus83Man
19 weeks ago

naas


"Ok, I know I'm not an ugly fella but you can't tell that because my face is kept private. So, I'd like some input on my profile and some understanding of WHY I rarely get beyond a "looked at me" or even an opened message.

Any feedback is appreciated. "

Have a look at a few male profiles and get some ideas in types of pics they post and how they describe themselves to stand out from the rest of the males on here,

The rest is your preferences and try make it clear you have permission from your wife or partner to try your hand in this life style

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
19 weeks ago

Cork


"The profile is better. The status update is awful. The pics need some improvement

Staus update comes accross a whiney moan bag, he also states he isnt into mm meets ,but his only verification is from a man.

It doesn't mean anything if a man verifies another man or it shouldn't

I've verified a few men from coffee meets and I tell them it might mean grief for them later "

Normally I'd agree but his verification on the other side doesn't seem to be a social one. I don't think it's a bad thing to.have a veri from another fella, it is suspect to lie about it. When you're competing with hundreds, you can't afford a single issue.

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By *ooking2099Man
19 weeks ago

city

[Removed by poster at 22/03/25 15:35:28]

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By *ooking2099Man
19 weeks ago

city

Yeah his review of the guy he met, does suggest more than a chin wag, unless coffee is been served differently in dublin

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By *electableicecreamMan
19 weeks ago

The West

"Dead Bedroom Man Looking for Cuddles"

This is guaranteed to put pretty much everyone off your profile before they even look at the rest.

We're all here for the same thing and people hook up based on attraction. That means something different to everyone so all you can do is put your best foot forward and see what works.

Fab is hard because people, especially in the forum, see hundreds if not thousands of profiles and after a while they all blur together so when you ask for feedback you need to be prepared for some savagery.

Sympathy fucks are found on sadswingers.com

Good luck!

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By *herest KhanMan
19 weeks ago

The Jungle


""Dead Bedroom Man Looking for Cuddles"

"
oh wow I missed that part. Eh, yea! That's not good.

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By *iscuits8Man
19 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Exactly

You can't cuddle anyone if you're dead!

(or maybe I've taken it up wrong)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
19 weeks ago

I let him satisfy a kink with no physical contact at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
19 weeks ago

As a former US Marine, I've taken a tongue lashing far more severe than I'll ever get here.

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By *ooking2099Man
19 weeks ago

city

What unit and where did you serve

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
19 weeks ago


"What unit and where did you serve"

2/8 Marines, Golf Company in Jacksonville, North Carolina.

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By *ooking2099Man
19 weeks ago

city

Deployment? Years served?

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By *og-ManMan
19 weeks ago

somewhere


"What unit and where did you serve

2/8 Marines, Golf Company in Jacksonville, North Carolina."

Well done for the service to your country

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By *og-ManMan
19 weeks ago

somewhere


"Deployment? Years served? "

Doesn't make a difference when there's men on here that claim to be in the army while a member of the FCA

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
19 weeks ago


"What unit and where did you serve

2/8 Marines, Golf Company in Jacksonville, North Carolina.

Well done for the service to your country "

Thank you. I wish I could go back in time and do some things over though.

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By *og-ManMan
19 weeks ago

somewhere


"What unit and where did you serve

2/8 Marines, Golf Company in Jacksonville, North Carolina.

Well done for the service to your country

Thank you. I wish I could go back in time and do some things over though."

Sure we all do that sometimes

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By *ooking2099Man
19 weeks ago

city


"Deployment? Years served?

Doesn't make a difference when there's men on here that claim to be in the army while a member of the FCA "

Well as i had a buddy die in a iraq I am very cautious of fellows claimin to have served in the marines, as you need to be a US citizen natualy born or natualized, or have lived and worked there on a permanent residence visa (old school green cards)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
19 weeks ago


"Deployment? Years served?

Doesn't make a difference when there's men on here that claim to be in the army while a member of the FCA

Well as i had a buddy die in a iraq I am very cautious of fellows claimin to have served in the marines, as you need to be a US citizen natualy born or natualized, or have lived and worked there on a permanent residence visa (old school green cards)"

I'm American.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
19 weeks ago


"Deployment? Years served?

Doesn't make a difference when there's men on here that claim to be in the army while a member of the FCA "

Sorry, what's the FCA?

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By *og-ManMan
19 weeks ago

somewhere


"Deployment? Years served?

Doesn't make a difference when there's men on here that claim to be in the army while a member of the FCA

Sorry, what's the FCA? "

The Irish equivalent of The National Guard.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
19 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
19 weeks ago


"Deployment? Years served?

Doesn't make a difference when there's men on here that claim to be in the army while a member of the FCA

Sorry, what's the FCA?

The Irish equivalent of The National Guard....."

Understood.

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
19 weeks ago

The West


"Deployment? Years served?

Doesn't make a difference when there's men on here that claim to be in the army while a member of the FCA

Well as i had a buddy die in a iraq I am very cautious of fellows claimin to have served in the marines, as you need to be a US citizen natualy born or natualized, or have lived and worked there on a permanent residence visa (old school green cards)"

I know at least 4 people very close to where we live in the Marines and USAF.

Most were born there, parents moved home shortly after!

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