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By *Js-J OP   Man
19 weeks ago

Dublin

In a world where you can anything, be kind

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By *iscuits8Man
19 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Don't tell me what to do!

Ah no I will

❤️

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By *herest KhanMan
19 weeks ago

The Jungle

In a world where I can be anything, I wanna be Batman

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By *hePixieAndTheBearCouple
19 weeks ago

Galway


"In a world where you can anything, be kind"

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By *anther PurrrsWoman
19 weeks ago

the Shadows Purrring or Roaring


"In a world where you can anything, be kind"

💯💯💯

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By *unsigntwoCouple
19 weeks ago

athlone

In a world where you can be anything.... why not be kind

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By *exyScientistsCouple
19 weeks ago

Castlebar

💯💙

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By *ickedtiesWoman
19 weeks ago

limerick

❤️❤️

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By *aughty MilfCouple
19 weeks ago

Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland

♥️♥️

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By *eanRMan
19 weeks ago

Dublin 9

Absolutely

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By *tesset69TV/TS
19 weeks ago

belfast

Ah! U will, U will, U will 💏

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By *ot so needyMan
19 weeks ago

Galway


"In a world where you can be anything.... why not be kind "
💚

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By *M_CoupleCouple
19 weeks ago

North

100%

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By *otownkid1967Man
19 weeks ago

Portlaoise

If you can't say or do something nice for others, you are part of the problem not the solution

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
19 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

What if they are really really annoying?

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By *asual777Man
19 weeks ago

i travel all over

Or they pretend to be kind then send you aggressive PMs for no reason?

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
19 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

Or sometimes you just can't be arsed

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By *aseylee324Couple
19 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

[Removed by poster at 19/03/25 07:48:47]

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By *outhDublinMan86Man
19 weeks ago

shankill

Actually takes more effort to be a dick than to be not. However some people take your can’t be arse attitude as rudeness and start on you.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
19 weeks ago

East / North, Cork


"Actually takes more effort to be a dick than to be not. However some people take your can’t be arse attitude as rudeness and start on you. "

Sure, but some people are worth the effort

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By *ickin2Man
19 weeks ago

Kilkenny

Definitely be kind

It doesn't cost anything to be nice

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By *uteirishaWoman
19 weeks ago

ghost town


"Or they pretend to be kind then send you aggressive PMs for no reason? "

The masks can only be worn for a certain period

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By *ensualnFunCouple
19 weeks ago

Midlands


"Or they pretend to be kind then send you aggressive PMs for no reason?

The masks can only be worn for a certain period "

Agreed 100%

The masks always fall but some people are very good at pretending to be kind and get you to trust them! And then bam! You got back stabbed!

In spite of all of this, in a world where you can be anything, I will always choose to be kind because being nasty takes way too much energy 😜

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By *londieandDiCouple
19 weeks ago

Dublin

In a world where you can be anything …. At least be kind

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By *odi minxWoman
19 weeks ago

everywhere

Always be kind.

It's nice to be nice

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By *unsigntwoCouple
19 weeks ago

athlone


"Or they pretend to be kind then send you aggressive PMs for no reason?

The masks can only be worn for a certain period "

They don't know the meaning of BE KIND and what FRIENDSHIP looks like

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By *allDarkHandsome101Man
19 weeks ago

City

In a world where I can be anything I am Ryan Gosling

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By *uteirishaWoman
19 weeks ago

ghost town

Xx

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By *ensualnFunCouple
19 weeks ago

Midlands


"Or they pretend to be kind then send you aggressive PMs for no reason?

The masks can only be worn for a certain period

They don't know the meaning of BE KIND and what FRIENDSHIP looks like "

Well said. I agree 100%

It’s very sad for them really.

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By *s SingletWoman
19 weeks ago

Kilkenny

Be kind ❤️❤️

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By *ealitybitesMan
19 weeks ago

Belfast

I can only assume that there is more to this thread and the multiple status updates that I'm not aware of but I would prefer people were genuine rather than just being kind for the sake of it.

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By *uteirishaWoman
19 weeks ago

ghost town


"In a world where you can be anything …. At least be kind "

Yes xx

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By *outhDublinMan86Man
19 weeks ago

shankill


"In a world where you can be anything …. At least be kind

Yes xx"

Agreed. Doesn’t cost anything either or go up with cost of living

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By *azzandbobzeventsCouple
19 weeks ago

Cork

Backstabbing has no place on this site, doing so will out you quite quickly and more importantly give you a bad name.

In a world of hate, be kind #da church ❤️❤️

Anyone with a problem on my views, I'll gladly forward you my address, just be absolutely certain you know what you are asking because I'll guarantee you one thing that I have nothing better to do with my time while I'm fighting for my life with Cancer and you will inedibley bend to my will!!!

Bazz 😊

Hawk Tuahing Cancer since Mar '24.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
19 weeks ago

Newtownabbey


"I can only assume that there is more to this thread and the multiple status updates that I'm not aware of but I would prefer people were genuine rather than just being kind for the sake of it. "

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By *radseman.jayMan
19 weeks ago

allover

It's nice to be important but more important to be NICE

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By *tmustbeMan
19 weeks ago

dublin

People like you preach about being kind then are wankers themselves

Not necessarily you OP

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By *aybeLadyWoman
19 weeks ago

West Dublin

Wish the guy in Tesco was told this mantra this morning. He was rude to me, I called him out on it. I ended up crying.

I'm going through A LOT at the mo and it kinda tipped me over the edge. You never know what people are going through.

I told the store manager what happened.

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By *moothSpankMan
19 weeks ago

Lucan

A smile costs you nothing to give away, and if the other person doesn't smile back, good luck & fuck them! 👍😅

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By *ickin2Man
19 weeks ago

Kilkenny


"Wish the guy in Tesco was told this mantra this morning. He was rude to me, I called him out on it. I ended up crying.

I'm going through A LOT at the mo and it kinda tipped me over the edge. You never know what people are going through.

I told the store manager what happened. "

Sorry to see you treated like that

Stand up and be counted

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By *hePixieAndTheBearCouple
19 weeks ago

Galway

Thought this was about general positivity and the whole random acts of kindness idea, but all those status updates seem to indicate that I got wooshed.

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By *outhDublinMan86Man
19 weeks ago

shankill


"Thought this was about general positivity and the whole random acts of kindness idea, but all those status updates seem to indicate that I got wooshed. "

Just spotted the statuses. Also got whooshed

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By *ickin2Man
19 weeks ago

Kilkenny


"Thought this was about general positivity and the whole random acts of kindness idea, but all those status updates seem to indicate that I got wooshed. "

It's amazing how people can change to suit themselves in the moment

This thread only goes to show how changeable people can be to suit themselves

We are all adults

Surely good manners and honesty should be to the front

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By *og-ManMan
19 weeks ago

somewhere

What does whooshed mean

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By *iscuits8Man
19 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

I've no idea what whooshed means, nor where all the statuses came from 🙃

Feel like that tracker mortgage chap

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By *outhDublinMan86Man
19 weeks ago

shankill


"What does whooshed mean "

Whoosh is when a joke/reference goes over your heard. Whoosh

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By *ickin2Man
19 weeks ago

Kilkenny


"What does whooshed mean

Whoosh is when a joke/reference goes over your heard. Whoosh"

Learn something new everyday

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By *aybeLadyWoman
19 weeks ago

West Dublin


"Wish the guy in Tesco was told this mantra this morning. He was rude to me, I called him out on it. I ended up crying.

I'm going through A LOT at the mo and it kinda tipped me over the edge. You never know what people are going through.

I told the store manager what happened.

Sorry to see you treated like that

Stand up and be counted "

😘

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By *ittycouple4funCouple
19 weeks ago

stillorgan


"Wish the guy in Tesco was told this mantra this morning. He was rude to me, I called him out on it. I ended up crying.

I'm going through A LOT at the mo and it kinda tipped me over the edge. You never know what people are going through.

I told the store manager what happened.

Sorry to see you treated like that

Stand up and be counted

😘"

It's a very good point, sometimes we are all too wound up and can get into a silly row but don't appreciate that the other person could be at a very low point in there lives.

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By *imerick ladyWoman
19 weeks ago

suburbs

What’s going on at all ? All these status’ today have me curious 🧐

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By *outhDublinMan86Man
19 weeks ago

shankill


"What’s going on at all ? All these status’ today have me curious 🧐 "

None of us know haha or still trying to figure it out

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago


"Backstabbing has no place on this site, doing so will out you quite quickly and more importantly give you a bad name.

In a world of hate, be kind #da church ❤️❤️

Anyone with a problem on my views, I'll gladly forward you my address, just be absolutely certain you know what you are asking because I'll guarantee you one thing that I have nothing better to do with my time while I'm fighting for my life with Cancer and you will inedibley bend to my will!!!

Bazz 😊

Hawk Tuahing Cancer since Mar '24.

"

❤️

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By *harlottederWoman
19 weeks ago

derry

So instead of pretending to be kind by typing the same thing as everyone else why can one of you not explain what it's all about.

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By *iscuits8Man
19 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


"So instead of pretending to be kind by typing the same thing as everyone else why can one of you not explain what it's all about."

Because there'd be forum bans handed out! 😬

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By *harlottederWoman
19 weeks ago

derry

Well if someone wants to pm me the reason I'll post it

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By *ealitybitesMan
19 weeks ago

Belfast


"So instead of pretending to be kind by typing the same thing as everyone else why can one of you not explain what it's all about.

Because there'd be forum bans handed out! 😬"

So it hasn't anything to do with being kind then and just some chat group drama?

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By *harlottederWoman
19 weeks ago

derry


"So instead of pretending to be kind by typing the same thing as everyone else why can one of you not explain what it's all about.

Because there'd be forum bans handed out! 😬

So it hasn't anything to do with being kind then and just some chat group drama? "

Exactly it's ironic

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By *iscuits8Man
19 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


"So instead of pretending to be kind by typing the same thing as everyone else why can one of you not explain what it's all about.

Because there'd be forum bans handed out! 😬

So it hasn't anything to do with being kind then and just some chat group drama? "

Ah I've no idea how or why this thing happened and it's nowt of my business. I wouldn't know them at all, just heard it in chit-chat really.

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By *ealitybitesMan
19 weeks ago

Belfast


"So instead of pretending to be kind by typing the same thing as everyone else why can one of you not explain what it's all about.

Because there'd be forum bans handed out! 😬

So it hasn't anything to do with being kind then and just some chat group drama?

Ah I've no idea how or why this thing happened and it's nowt of my business. I wouldn't know them at all, just heard it in chit-chat really."

So it has been hijacked and turned into a passive aggressive comment aimed at someone then? No surprise there.

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By *he KakapoMan
19 weeks ago

A nice rock

I often wonder if people on here get more turned on by the sex or the drama

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
19 weeks ago

Lucan


"I often wonder if people on here get more turned on by the sex or the drama "

Wait, there's sex as well?

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By *he KakapoMan
19 weeks ago

A nice rock


"I often wonder if people on here get more turned on by the sex or the drama

Wait, there's sex as well? "

Sometimes even dramatic sex

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
19 weeks ago

Lucan


"I often wonder if people on here get more turned on by the sex or the drama

Wait, there's sex as well?

Sometimes even dramatic sex"

Sex with drama, the best kind of sex... Be still my beating willy!

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By *he KakapoMan
19 weeks ago

A nice rock


"I often wonder if people on here get more turned on by the sex or the drama

Wait, there's sex as well?

Sometimes even dramatic sex

Sex with drama, the best kind of sex... Be still my beating willy! "

Oh god it's pulsating

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
19 weeks ago

Newry


"I often wonder if people on here get more turned on by the sex or the drama

Wait, there's sex as well?

Sometimes even dramatic sex

Sex with drama, the best kind of sex... Be still my beating willy! "

Is that like getting the ride while Emmerdale is on in the background?

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By *og-ManMan
19 weeks ago

somewhere


"I often wonder if people on here get more turned on by the sex or the drama

Wait, there's sex as well?

Sometimes even dramatic sex

Sex with drama, the best kind of sex... Be still my beating willy!

Is that like getting the ride while Emmerdale is on in the background?"

Eastenders for the Dramatic ending

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By *ustBoWoman
19 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Personally I would prefer people to just be themselves rather that show fake kindness in public and be a gobshite in private.

I've no idea what this thread is actually about and no doubt it's more background drama by all the updates I've seen over the last few days.

So this is actually a thread as someone said farther up that has hijacked the be kind theory and made a mockery of it by using it to have a back handed dig at whoever.Which equates to quite a few of the people jumping on the band wagon here quoting this are doing the opposite of what they are saying. Fab at it's very best as ever.

It's also so easy to see who is in the groups sharing all the info too

Like I said I've no idea and neither do I want to know what is going on .I do find it amusing though to see the irony of the whole thing.

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By *lassicpMan
19 weeks ago

Kerry


"I can only assume that there is more to this thread and the multiple status updates that I'm not aware of but I would prefer people were genuine rather than just being kind for the sake of it. "

This I so true

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By *licat.2Woman
19 weeks ago

Not Belfast but NI

I read the opening comment then lost interest when it veered of tangent.🤣😂

In life, I think most people are kind really. It's easy to let the minority tarnish things though. I follow the rule of treating others as I like to be treated and it generally makes a good enough life

In Fab life, I have no idea why post go off the rail and comments get rude or nasty.

Not my circus, not my monkeys!😉

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

I’m nosy- I’m dying to know what really happened

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By *ot Pins2000Woman
19 weeks ago

belfast

I’m just gonna take the original post at face value. I agree. It takes nothing to be kind and makes the world a happier place

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
19 weeks ago

Lucan


"I’m nosy- I’m dying to know what really happened "

Make sure and let me know as well. The curiosity is killing me here!

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By *ealitybitesMan
19 weeks ago

Belfast


"I’m nosy- I’m dying to know what really happened

Make sure and let me know as well. The curiosity is killing me here! "

Apparently someone wasn't kind and loads of kind people were kind of thinking the best way of dealing with it was to encourage others to be kind by starting a campaign. It's kind of ironic.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
19 weeks ago

Lucan


"I’m nosy- I’m dying to know what really happened

Make sure and let me know as well. The curiosity is killing me here!

Apparently someone wasn't kind and loads of kind people were kind of thinking the best way of dealing with it was to encourage others to be kind by starting a campaign. It's kind of ironic."

That's kind of funny 😊

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By *ensualnFunCouple
19 weeks ago

Midlands

In a world where you can be anything… be kind…

This used to be the status update for a venue/party organisers… DaBest in DaWest! IYKYK

Unfortunately for some unknown reason as of yet their profile has been banned. So all the statuses are to show support to the owner/organisers.

No chat drama…Not aimed at a named person…

Though maybe it could be a reminder to people who report profile just out of jealousy or boredom!

Just because the #BeKind is used as a show of support, it does not negate the original message it brings also. On the contrary!

As a few of ye said, being kind is not hard and you never know what people go through. A smile or small act of kindness could make a big difference to someone’s day.

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By *easingTimMan
19 weeks ago

Loughlinstown

"Be kind, rewind"

So if you're over the age of 35 and have heard of VHS you'll understand the full importance

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By *outhDublinMan86Man
19 weeks ago

shankill


"In a world where you can be anything… be kind…

This used to be the status update for a venue/party organisers… DaBest in DaWest! IYKYK

Unfortunately for some unknown reason as of yet their profile has been banned. So all the statuses are to show support to the owner/organisers.

No chat drama…Not aimed at a named person…

Though maybe it could be a reminder to people who report profile just out of jealousy or boredom!

Just because the #BeKind is used as a show of support, it does not negate the original message it brings also. On the contrary!

As a few of ye said, being kind is not hard and you never know what people go through. A smile or small act of kindness could make a big difference to someone’s day. "

Thank you for the context. Makes perfect sense. #BeKind

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By *weetpea2000Woman
19 weeks ago

Wexford

💯

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By *unsigntwoCouple
19 weeks ago

athlone


""Be kind, rewind"

So if you're over the age of 35 and have heard of VHS you'll understand the full importance "

💯 get you lol

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By *asual777Man
19 weeks ago

i travel all over


"In a world where you can be anything… be kind…

This used to be the status update for a venue/party organisers… DaBest in DaWest! IYKYK

Unfortunately for some unknown reason as of yet their profile has been banned. So all the statuses are to show support to the owner/organisers.

No chat drama…Not aimed at a named person…

Though maybe it could be a reminder to people who report profile just out of jealousy or boredom!

Just because the #BeKind is used as a show of support, it does not negate the original message it brings also. On the contrary!

As a few of ye said, being kind is not hard and you never know what people go through. A smile or small act of kindness could make a big difference to someone’s day.

Thank you for the context. Makes perfect sense. #BeKind"

Reporting a profile for reasons that aren’t deemed very robust doesn’t get a profile banned IMO . I have reported behaviour I find pretty awful consistently and the offending profile(s) haven’t been banned . So I don’t think jealousy or boredom prompting reporting works per se. not sure what the story is tbh

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