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By *ueen_Meadhbh OP   Woman
19 weeks ago

sligo

Do you crave touch, not sex as such but just bee touched or hugged etc.

Its over a year since I had sex which doesn't bother me ss I've gone a lot longer without but jesus what I'd give for a cuddle

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By *nickerDropperGlory69Man
19 weeks ago

cavan town

🤗🤗🤗

There's a few for you. They are free

Touch is important for me, wouldn't say as important as sex, but important all the same. And I give great hugs

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
19 weeks ago

Cork


"Do you crave touch, not sex as such but just bee touched or hugged etc.

Its over a year since I had sex which doesn't bother me ss I've gone a lot longer without but jesus what I'd give for a cuddle"

It's definitely something that's hard to go without. I make sure to hug my mates when I see them because you never really know how bad life is going for someone

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
19 weeks ago

The West


"Do you crave touch, not sex as such but just bee touched or hugged etc.

Its over a year since I had sex which doesn't bother me ss I've gone a lot longer without but jesus what I'd give for a cuddle"

I'm a different person if I don't get affection. Sex I could survive without for awhile, but I need touch (and a little grope!😉) regularly!

Mr.

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By *ealitybitesMan
19 weeks ago

Belfast

I've gone 10 years at one stage with zero sexual contact and virtually no human touch throughout that same period.

I can go without sex but no touch at all is harder to deal with.

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By *ueen_Meadhbh OP   Woman
19 weeks ago

sligo


"I've gone 10 years at one stage with zero sexual contact and virtually no human touch throughout that same period.

I can go without sex but no touch at all is harder to deal with. "

Ya i think my longest dry spell was 10 years, lack of sex doesn't bother me but touch definitely miss

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By *ingerrrrWoman
19 weeks ago

Meath

I absolutely adore being touched.. I’ve been told I’m like a cat the way I react to being touched.. I can’t live without it..

sex yeah I can live without.. but touch.. cuddles.. just being held.. kissed.. that I really need

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By *hivers2020Woman
19 weeks ago

lolli land

I completely freeze up and and get weird if someone tries to hug or cuddle me. I’ve no idea why. I’d rarely, if ever; cuddle on a fab meet. When with a partner I need time to get used to them and then I’m stuck to them like a plaster 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
19 weeks ago

Belfast and Tyrone


"I've gone 10 years at one stage with zero sexual contact and virtually no human touch throughout that same period.

I can go without sex but no touch at all is harder to deal with. "

I was widowed and went 15 years without sex or touch, I was so lonely and starved of intimacy. That's why I want to make up for it now that I have an amazing Partner

Vics (f)

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By *AMBOLADMan
19 weeks ago

Dunboyne

Sex is very important to me,but i don’t like just a meet and a fuck,it leaves me feeling very empty inside,I enjoy getting to know someone,the butterflies and anticipation of a text,the buzzing feeling when getting ready and meeting for the first time,the moment you meet and you see that sparkle in the eyes or can feel the tension between each other,the playfulness,flirting,and the first touch,feels like all your worries disappear.But for me it’s a hug that tops it all off,and the better you know someone the more meaningful it is,if it’s someone your intimate with its just fantastic.And it doesn’t have to be sexual,it can be if your sad,in a bad mood or just had a bad day,it’s something money can’t buy and should be cherished

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By *aloma PicassoWoman
19 weeks ago

Waterford city

I miss kissing someone l find really attractive

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By *ickin2Man
19 weeks ago

Kilkenny

The touch is amazing and we all crave it. But there is so much more to it.

There is the intimacy. The is that comfort that in that moment someone cares for you it takes away all the loneliness and frustration. It makes you alive

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By *weetpea2000Woman
19 weeks ago

Wexford

Both are important, but there's something about a long lingering hug with soft kisses.

While cuddling and spooning gives the feeling of intimacy while being held in a warm and secure embrace.

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By *lumbersmateMan
19 weeks ago

bettystown

Yes I crave touch . So much so even after sex. Touch gets me more than sex. I love just huddling up after sex. Sometimes I love it so much I give the impression I want sex.

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By *P_80Man
19 weeks ago

Waterford

I'm a total introvert so I'm in my element when alone.

I do love affection, cuddling, holding etc. with the right person though, but I don't ever feel that I need it.

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By *astelloWoman
19 weeks ago

Far far away

I love hugs. Especially naked ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Can a hug or cuddle lead to something else or is that a big no no for women?

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By *ueen_Meadhbh OP   Woman
19 weeks ago

sligo


"Can a hug or cuddle lead to something else or is that a big no no for women?"

With the right person it can lead to more

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago


"Can a hug or cuddle lead to something else or is that a big no no for women?

With the right person it can lead to more "

Cool nice to know sometime I just get a kick 🤣🤣

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By *ougar30Woman
18 weeks ago

navan

I really miss being touched. Having my back rubbed or my hair played with is heaven and so relaxing

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago


"I really miss being touched. Having my back rubbed or my hair played with is heaven and so relaxing "

Hope someone is lucky enough to do that again for you

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By *hunkyRedPandaMan
18 weeks ago

City

Intimacy is essential, sex is important. Both together, the goal.

Touch, cuddles, kisses make me feel more complete and worthwhile.

Thanksfully, I had some unreal intimate time recently. Left me craving more. How I had missed it so.

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By *aybeLadyWoman
18 weeks ago

West Dublin

Yep, completely agree OP.

Touch is super important to me. Unfort, you get used to none. I'm a hugger.

I've never had a partner who understood that about me but I dont think I fully realised how much I love the touch. Oh well.... .

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By *zippyMan
18 weeks ago

Wexford

I've walked some long lonesome roads over the years and at times had become averse to touch, I just wouldn't let anyone get near me and was quite content with how I was, you don't miss what you don't have, whereas, more recently I've found myself craving for that intimate touch, kisses, hugs, the warm embrace, etc.

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By *sBossWoman
18 weeks ago

Cork


"Sex is very important to me,but i don’t like just a meet and a fuck,it leaves me feeling very empty inside,I enjoy getting to know someone,the butterflies and anticipation of a text,the buzzing feeling when getting ready and meeting for the first time,the moment you meet and you see that sparkle in the eyes or can feel the tension between each other,the playfulness,flirting,and the first touch,feels like all your worries disappear.But for me it’s a hug that tops it all off,and the better you know someone the more meaningful it is,if it’s someone your intimate with its just fantastic.And it doesn’t have to be sexual,it can be if your sad,in a bad mood or just had a bad day,it’s something money can’t buy and should be cherished "

This 🔝❤️❤️

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By *og-ManMan
18 weeks ago

somewhere

All the years being lonely in a full house and being without hugs was the hardest bit of my life at the time

Still love waking up behind someone and having naked spooning while waking up

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By *exyScientistsCouple
18 weeks ago

Castlebar


"Sex is very important to me,but i don’t like just a meet and a fuck,it leaves me feeling very empty inside,I enjoy getting to know someone,the butterflies and anticipation of a text,the buzzing feeling when getting ready and meeting for the first time,the moment you meet and you see that sparkle in the eyes or can feel the tension between each other,the playfulness,flirting,and the first touch,feels like all your worries disappear.But for me it’s a hug that tops it all off,and the better you know someone the more meaningful it is,if it’s someone your intimate with its just fantastic.And it doesn’t have to be sexual,it can be if your sad,in a bad mood or just had a bad day,it’s something money can’t buy and should be cherished "

Exactly this 👏 👌 💙

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By *321funMan
18 weeks ago

Laois

I love cuddles and kisses most of use either don’t get them or not enough x

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By *acob12369Man
18 weeks ago

URPANTS

Often crave for a Chinese

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By * DareCouple
18 weeks ago

….


"Sex is very important to me,but i don’t like just a meet and a fuck,it leaves me feeling very empty inside,I enjoy getting to know someone,the butterflies and anticipation of a text,the buzzing feeling when getting ready and meeting for the first time,the moment you meet and you see that sparkle in the eyes or can feel the tension between each other,the playfulness,flirting,and the first touch,feels like all your worries disappear.But for me it’s a hug that tops it all off,and the better you know someone the more meaningful it is,if it’s someone your intimate with its just fantastic.And it doesn’t have to be sexual,it can be if your sad,in a bad mood or just had a bad day,it’s something money can’t buy and should be cherished "

This 💯!!

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By *ordjeffMan
18 weeks ago

around and about ,as travel.

Been without sex for years at a time.

I get used to it

But do miss the sensual and intimate contact

Kissing touching holding

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By *ubblyeveWoman
18 weeks ago

Tipp

My partner is extremely affectionate but she could live without sex also

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By *rystalsswingCouple
18 weeks ago

Up the Road / Galway/ Midlands


"Sex is very important to me,but i don’t like just a meet and a fuck,it leaves me feeling very empty inside,I enjoy getting to know someone,the butterflies and anticipation of a text,the buzzing feeling when getting ready and meeting for the first time,the moment you meet and you see that sparkle in the eyes or can feel the tension between each other,the playfulness,flirting,and the first touch,feels like all your worries disappear.But for me it’s a hug that tops it all off,and the better you know someone the more meaningful it is,if it’s someone your intimate with its just fantastic.And it doesn’t have to be sexual,it can be if your sad,in a bad mood or just had a bad day,it’s something money can’t buy and should be cherished "

100% This 🙌🙌

Bit of aftercare is good too 🤩

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By *riendly guy30Man
18 weeks ago

cork

For me it's cuddles in bed, on fab I like to build a friendship get to know the lady chats coffee meets,then if there is sex it's a bounus .

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By *INTMan
18 weeks ago

Minutes from Somewhere Else

I'm a very tactile person and really quite open with friends when I need a hug and, thankfully, they're always willing. And I mean non-sexually.

Am the kind of person who actively seeks out ways to break the touch barrier with others, whether that's dishing out high-fives, fist bumps or handshakes.

I like to invite people into my personal space but not invade theirs. And, should they accept and enter, we can explore all the wonderful ways there are to touch. Most often with hands, but frequently without - a playful nudge with the shoulder, taking my arm while walking, a light kiss on the cheek when greeting or parting.

My philosophy is that if I want to be touched, I must myself be open to being touched. Touch, to me, is a whole conversation in and of itself. And I do like to talk.

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By *ackandsashaCouple
18 weeks ago

West Dublin


"Do you crave touch, not sex as such but just bee touched or hugged etc.

Its over a year since I had sex which doesn't bother me ss I've gone a lot longer without but jesus what I'd give for a cuddle"

First over a year ? Gonna assume it's by choice because your obviously hot.

Second, yeah we both sleep naked, Sasha sometimes with a light top on, because we both love the skin to skin contact, and sleep much better without pjs.

Hope you meet someone special that makes you happy. x

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By *dfabMan
18 weeks ago

Dunboyne

Yes!

Due to my snoring I'm sleeping alone.

Infrequent sexual contact, 3 times a year and I'm starting to feel lonely in my family house

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By *elfastDMan
18 weeks ago

belfast

There’s an opening here Meadhbh

A hugging social

Where hugs and cuddles are the currency and lots of people spend a lot and go home with massive smiles

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By *irdnBorisMan
18 weeks ago

dorset poole uk

Hugs and cuddles are very important sex doesnt bother me if it happens it happens if not its no biggie always open to social meet ups too

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By *om TangoMan
18 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

I went 5 years without anything and it near drove me to the bottom of a lake. Living in the same house with the ex wife at the time. I was at the point where I was going to pay for it. But it wasn’t sex I needed. I just needed to hold someone and for someone to hold me. Today I’d call myself a cuddle sl€t. Cuddles, kisses and holding someone is a bit more important to me but I do enjoy sex. Giving a choice I’d go with a evening of cuddles on the sofa or bed

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By *ueen_Meadhbh OP   Woman
18 weeks ago

sligo


"I went 5 years without anything and it near drove me to the bottom of a lake. Living in the same house with the ex wife at the time. I was at the point where I was going to pay for it. But it wasn’t sex I needed. I just needed to hold someone and for someone to hold me. Today I’d call myself a cuddle sl€t. Cuddles, kisses and holding someone is a bit more important to me but I do enjoy sex. Giving a choice I’d go with a evening of cuddles on the sofa or bed"

This

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By *ueen_Meadhbh OP   Woman
18 weeks ago

sligo


"Do you crave touch, not sex as such but just bee touched or hugged etc.

Its over a year since I had sex which doesn't bother me ss I've gone a lot longer without but jesus what I'd give for a cuddle

First over a year ? Gonna assume it's by choice because your obviously hot.

Second, yeah we both sleep naked, Sasha sometimes with a light top on, because we both love the skin to skin contact, and sleep much better without pjs.

Hope you meet someone special that makes you happy. x"

Thank you x

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By *lack FridayMan
18 weeks ago

Galway


"Do you crave touch, not sex as such but just bee touched or hugged etc.

Its over a year since I had sex which doesn't bother me ss I've gone a lot longer without but jesus what I'd give for a cuddle"

Sending you a big hug 🫂

Been there myself so know exactly what you have described.

Anytime - Sligo coffee and a hug 🫂.

Zero strings attached

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